Motherhood comes with a lot of changes to all women and some change physically and mentally...
Some recover and regain their bodies and some don't and keep making posts to complain like TBoss...LOL
Did motherhood change anything about you?
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Na my belle..did not go back to default
ReplyDeleteCount it all joy๐๐.
DeleteI had the same thought as tboss some days ago.
DeleteBrought out all my old clothes to dispose them and couldn't stop wondering how my body could change this drastically ....like the trousers won't go pass my knees..
I was size 8 but now size 12..
And I don't eat at all..like I can go a whole day without eating much.
I am not a foodie.
I've become very beautiful alwith a lovely shape since I had my children.
DeleteDress sense has changed, I have also discovered me, thanks to my lovely husband ❣️❣️❣️
Before nko. And some more as you birth more and more children. no cap.
ReplyDeleteTonia
It's good for more women to talk about it. Some people really do need the support
ReplyDeleteOh these changes๐คฆ
ReplyDeleteAndre sucked only one breast so... Your guess is as good as mine๐๐
If it's not this one and half breast, mine wasn't so bad before o๐ฅบ๐ฅบ
One and half breasts๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
DeleteThat is motherhood for you. The one he sucked would be smaller that the one he did not suck
Fidel,na the same boat carry us ohhhh..one of my boobs is still perky,the other don fall and soft eh....chai!๐
DeleteMy perky luscious boobs are gone ๐ข
ReplyDeleteMy ass has grown much bigger and belly is no longer flat.
I have to wear my body girdle to Slay!!!
That bigger ass and hips is one thing I love about motherhood. My breasts became smaller and not standing anymore but that can be supported with good bras. My hips became wider and I added more weight generally. I love my body now in clothes than before, when I go naked I don't feel too good but what can I do, I accept it like that.
DeleteI wish my hips and ass grew bigger, but for where???? Mine no increase. Even the boob size increase was very minimal for me (maybe a cup size), and it's all gone now.
DeleteMy body and tummy is back to pre pregnancy...my only problem is my breast,the breast has fallen completely.i don't know what I did wrong while pregnant or breastfeeding with this my second baby
ReplyDeleteI'm just gathering money for breast lift when am done with childbirth cos I don't love this my new breast,if anyone have any suggestion how to lift it small I don't mind trying it
Have all your children first before going for breast lift.
DeleteTonia
"I just wish I had taken more photos naked."
ReplyDeleteNa only that one I see. Let me screenshot it and save before the official release of the naked pictures "mistakenly". Nigerians go watch blue film/photos tire this season.
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DeleteLmao!
DeleteSis it’s not easy I feel your pain.
ReplyDeleteI’m one of the lucky ones. My child is 7 and all my baby fat disappeared when he was 7 months. I went from size 8 to a size 14 after I gave birth but at 7 months old I went back to fitting into my size 8 cloths. On his first birthday my belly was so flat even I shock whenever I see the pictures of the party. Fast forward the weight started creeping on so I started running and it changed my life.
Since then gym is my bestie; I run alot and I look even better than I did before I had my child. Except for the tiger marks on my lower belly area. I have zero mum tummy.
Intermittent fasting, gym(running and weight lifting) and recently gave up meat, I only eat fish now and I’m seeing a differences again in my body.
Wow!๐๐
DeleteWow, I am loving you anon.
DeleteI am inspired.
No need moaning while with a little effort I reap lots of positive reward.
My nose,tummy and boobs refused to go back to default settings,It also gave me "Christian mother" arms but hey,I'm not complaining,I rock them all with swag๐๐.
ReplyDelete๐ that's the spirit sis!
DeleteLol, I was prepared for the changes cos my mom told me what to expect cos according to her, I was vain. I bid a tearful bye to my pink nipples, my boobs didn't loose its volume but has gone south, down south. My belle is still looking kinda pregnant,maybe cos I didn't tie it and load myself wit cold drinks and pastries. And there's this solemness in my face, the near death pains of labour made me look calmer, more matured and motherly. Tho I still retained somethings that made my friends call me Sparkle from elementary school.
ReplyDeleteYou'll be fine. It's all a part of life.
DeleteShe say solemness๐๐๐
DeleteSis, we are fine like that๐๐
Lol, inside life my dear.
DeleteThe way and manner my boobs faced down town South eeeeh, I just WEAK me.
Na money I dey find, it must surely become perky, for my own self esteem oooh, hubby doesn't seem to mind and likes fiddling it, Lol!
Motherhood has changed me from a happy lady to a saddo..my baby is still struggling with weight gain and growth generally..born 2.4kg and growth restricted in uteuro but she's happy,blabbing,holding unto things,very smart etc.i just feel somewhat sad that the weight gain is slow and people saying she looks old cus she hasn't filled up and doesn't have that "baby"look.i don't have a life anymore as I feed two hourly.i feed so much and get little result.i feel defeated.am I not feeding the right things to her?I don't know.
ReplyDeleteHang in there sis better days ahead. Don’t give up keep going
DeleteHi...I'm a paediatrician...can you share how to feed to baby? What types of foods? However I will suggest you see a peadiatrician so u can have one on one counselling and have a physical examination done on the baby to rule out any issue that could be preventing weight gain. Has your baby done an ECHOCARDIOGRAPHY?
DeleteSis don't listen to any negative remarks. She'll fill up just fine.
DeleteMy son weighed 1.5kg when I had him. He struggled so much with weight gain(even weighed 3kg when he was 3mths old). People even called him ugly cos he was very small and tiny. But he was my world. I nor send anybody papa
Today he's 13mths old and looking very fine. He started gaining weight from about 10mths. At once. He weighs about 11kg plus now. I think they start adding weight at their own time.
You're feeding her right. Don't beat yourself about anything. Na so I think tire till I almost die. You're doing fine❤️❤️
Please don't mind what people are saying, people will always talk... even if she start gaining weight people will still have something to say,focus on ur baby and ignore whatever anyone has to say
Delete@fidel,was ur baby pretermed?mine was full termed.this is extremely hard,I worry about her so much.shes my first.i love my baby so much and try to live each day as it comes but u know Nigerians na,they must talk.they just open their mouth and talk.
DeleteYes he was preterm. Had him at 30wks.
DeleteShe'll be fine. Stop worrying too much. All babies must not be chubby. People must talk o... My son is not walking yet(at 13mths). You dunno what I've heard with this my ears๐
Please worry about what anyone says about your baby not walking at 13months...your baby will walk when he/she is ready.
DeleteSorry I meant..please dont worry about what anybody says about your baby not walking at 13months...the baby will walk when he or she is ready.
DeletePlease *dont* worry about what anyone says about your baby not walking at 13months...your baby will walk when he/she is ready.
DeleteMy weight is back down, can't say the same for my tummy, I'm going to register in a gym to try fixing that, the only challenge I have is how I'm to loose the tummy fat without loosing weight generally, I weigh 60kg now and that's the perfect weight I want.
ReplyDeleteThe most annoying for me is however the stretch marks, I hate them.
It's my boob, the way my lil boy sucked it ehn, I know it can never go back to factory settings, but I'm rocking it with correct push up bra, I'm back to my size 10 though, but lately I've been doing intermittent fasting so I can reach the goal of size 8. I can't trade my motherhood experience for anything in the world.
ReplyDeleteIntermittent fasting is bae. Lost 10pds so far. It was super hard at first but slowly and surely I’m dropping my pre baby weight/baby weight. I want to be size 6. I’m btwn size 12&14 now. Lord help me ๐๐ฝ
DeleteI thank God for mine. I always wear my girdle after childbirth, about 1 or 2 days after I give birth. I breastfeed for between 5 to 7 months and mix it with bottle feeding, abeg breastfeeding hard, o just do it to give my babies the natural .... and I always had round c cup breasts, so it's kind of hard for me to breastfeed as I usually lift my babies close to my breast to breastfeed, I noticed my breasts did not really change much. I usually go back to prepregnancy body after like 2 months (size 6 and I have 5 kids which people cant believe unless they see me and my children together) and ditch the girdle.
ReplyDeleteI guess, I am one of the lucky ones and thank God, but I still put in work for the tummy because the girdle 2 days after birth to 3months after birth nor be beans and is the hardest thing to do especially aside had to do it 5 times.
I think men are the only gender that don't have anything that alternate their body. Motherhood is not easy. I pray I won't have problem when giving birth I want to experience the joys of motherhood. Been a woman is more than having a perky boobs or flat tummy.
ReplyDeleteMy voice became manly, my body hairier, breastfed her for 2 years so the breast is looking down south these days but I'll perk them up. Flat tummy I will get back because my muscle structure is so good.
ReplyDeleteI love my LO soooo much.
Stella I’m TBOSS! 4yrs down the line and I’m still complaining ๐ฉ๐ฉ.
ReplyDeleteI gained 12kg which I’ve done everything and I mean everything to shed off but the weight says lie lie !
My Christian mother arms is an ugly sight plus all my weight goes into my face so imagine how fat my face looks !
My ass became bigger and my boobs went south .
I’ve done liposuction and fat transfer plus breast augmentation because I’m very very very very vain and hated what pregnancy and childbirth did to me !
I’m saving money for a surrogacy for my next kids because I don’t intend to experience this nonsense again! Nope .
So yes Stella for people like me and Tboss we are never ever going to stop talking about it ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ
Waoh You are really vain damnnn. You call this nonsense when some are praying to carrying their own kids. Be careful with your words mann and work on your insecurities. You have a very low self worth. Na fat you fat nothing else! Cut down on your carbs and slowly work on the weight!
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