MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings......... who get sun and who get rain today?

SATURDAY CHRONICLE POSTER

REF - CONFUSED BUT CARING HUBBY NEEDS ADVICE

I'm the poster of SATURDAY CHRONICLE. I didn't marry my friend because my wedding was so approaching and I didn't want to hurt/embarrass my wife. I offered to leave it all behind but my friend also didn't want to hurt the man she has "invested so much in."

 So we made our decisions, wishing that the timing had been different. My wife doesn't deserve to be cheated on. I have read each comment and I feel like I needed a brain reset. The grass isn't always greener on the other side, I'll focus on my wife and keep my friend at arm's length. It'll be really hard because she such a great shoulder to lean on and I truly care so much about her and love having her in my life even if it is strictly platonic.

 

*You be man!...Stay strong and avoid anything that will cause problems indoors.

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.

Suffering and smiling is seen as a sign of being a good mother and wife. How well one can manage the house chores, cook and raise the kids with little or no help , condone cheating and other abusive behavior is seen as a badge of honour in Nigeria.


A woman with help is most times tagged as lazy. Forgetting that she strives to make a living and still faces the major task of managing the household.

When I was young we had this neighbour with two maids and two kids, I heard the other mothers make snide remarks, talking about how lazy she must be. Some even insinuated that she must be dirty for her to need two helps and small me would agree with them.

Now that I am older, experience has taught me that she was a wise woman. Thinking back at the situation she was working and hardly home with a husband that only visited three times a year. Getting help would have been the only way for her to keep her sanity.

Those backbiting neighbours were probably wishing they could get help to. Since I have realised chores no dey finish, I am more open to getting as much help as I can.

P.s Help here doesn’t refer to just maids, a washing machine, dish washer, grime buster, pressure cooker and all technological gadgets aimed at making life easier is part of help.

My dear and that is why i dont stress my self, I clean but have a cleaning lady, i iron and have some do the washing, I only cook when i am in the mood, other times, oga please cook or order for food... life is easy when your partner is understanding.....

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NAZIRITES INK



She was just a little girl coming from school, that path was the shortest and easiest out of the military barrack. She was around 7years old and she didn't do anything to deserve being brutally raped.


I watched as she was carefully placed at the back seat of the vehicle, they were taking her to the hospital, her school uniform was soaked in blood, she had on a brown hijab, it was a gory sight.


How does anyone in their right mind lay their flirty hands on this poor harmless girl and take her innocence? How dare you Mr rapist? Did her parents do her a disservice by sending her to school? Shame on you for destroying her life, shame on you! May it never be well with your soul that's even if you have not died a painful and horrible death.. May the water of life take you away and drown you.....


Days later, she and her parents went to thank the Pastor who saw her in the bush, he was also the one that volunteered his car.. I just hope he wasn't the one who perpetrated that evil, Did I over-think things? Maybe I was being too paranoid and that's OK, I was also a girl child.


She seemed better and a bit calmer, appears she had gotten over the shock, she had on a faint smile.. There were many people in the sitting room, mostly adults and as they continued to chat, I walked through the wooden door with the memory that that little girl would forever be traumatized by the event.


And from that time, I hawk over my child with my life.

How can i unread this?... its horrible!!!






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PINKYS CORNER
FI FO PATA (WASHING OF PANT)




I was so weak and tired after purging through out the night which has made me not to be able to go out this fateful day(30th Sept 2021). So I was home relaxing and taking chilled water to make my system reboot and come back to normal. Someone adviced me to take chilled sprite but me ke,if I try am then am in trouble because my body system works in a different way.


I had enough strength to get off the bed around 9am on dot and decided to just clean up everywhere and wash my dirty clothes. I began as planned ,washed not only mine but with my wife's own(Including the pant she dropped in the basket) but I forgot I washed that thing called p*nt so I went outside to spread those clothes on the rope provided for tenants, on getting there, there is this our neighbor who just gave birth, she was washing some clothes but I washed mine in the toilet then brought it out.

 I was busy spreading those clothes and never knew she was watching me as I was spreading the ones for my woman, not long the pant fell off(normally we dry under wears indoor and not outside) and I never knew but she called my attention to it like "Sir, pata Kan ma ti jabo" ,I was like "Ohun da" then she gave it to me holding it in a way that she can see clearly the kind of pant it was.


I quickly collected it and dropped it in the bucket then she continued "Iyawo yin nko" I replied her saying she has gone to work, thinking that was all then she said "eyin Le ba iyawo yin fo aso wan, etun fo pata wan na, e ma ku Ise ooo" then I said "ti nba fo ,ti tani ki nwa fo ooo". We laughed about it and I went inside not knowing the husband was around and they stay upstairs while we stay at the ground floor. After I got inside and went into the bathroom to have my bath then I heard the woman telling the husband what she just saw(note, where the woman was washing Is just right behind my bathroom window) then husband said "life ti wan niyen, sugbon emi o Le so Ra mi di aridin de bi pe, ma a ma go pata OBIRIN"(that's his own way,I won't be so stupid to do that). I just smiled and got busy with what I was doing.


My question is:. IT A SIN TO HELP YOUR WIFE TO WASH HER UNDIES OR A TABOO IN YOUR CULTURE?


Want to know your take on this.

Please i cant stop laughing......

Its cool to wash your wifes undies but i wish you had a washing machine to make it easier... My hubby does mine nah... I cant remember the last time i threw in mine into the washing machine....

*wink*

Any man that is against this practice, its you oh but please dont bring down others who do it...its cool...LOL

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