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MARRIAGE DEAD ON ARRIVAL:

Hello Stella, hello everyone. Please hide my identity, thank you. I really need your advice please. 

I'm 27 years old, Married for almost 2years now, with a child. Before we got married, we dated for about a year, although it was long distance relationship, he was outside Nigeria, the relationship was sweet and loving. Whenever he visits, it's like we want to eat up ourselves you know, loving and romantic. 

When he popped the question, I didn't waste time to say yes cos he was my dream man. To cut the long story short, we got married and I joined him over where he's based. Now the problem is, he has changed, he's not that loving and sweet man again, he barely touches me, like he can comfortably stay weeks and months without a kiss and sex. 

Now I know he's a busy person, he works from home, and goes to the office when he's been called. In my own end, I'm loving and not a nag, I make sure there's no quarrel or anything of such that will make anyone angry, I slay even at home, never to be caught unfresh you know, always sexy, but my dear the man no dey send at all, like as if he's not attracted to me, we sleep on the same bed but nigga won't even touch me. 

Please before you all come for me, I've been the one initiating the s#x thing, he will just kiss, before you know it,papapapa he will cum, like seriously, he'll starve me for weeks and do a 2mins something ,no fun, no fore play, I do the fore play thing to him, but he will never do it to me. 

I've sat him down to talk, like babe what's happening to us, he'll say " Stress" he's tired bla bla Hmmmmm, I'll say okay and I'll keep going to him , making sure the spark is still there.

Trust me I'm tired , now I've stopped , for like 2month now he hasn't even looked at Me, like we are living like strangers bearing husband and wife. Aside from all this, the man is a nice guy, no doubt but common I'm a woman, I'm not feeling the vibes, I really don't know what to do. Or is it normal for couples to stay months without sex and kiss?

 Please if you've been in this situation before, what did you do and how did you handle the situation. Doctors in the house, does he have a problem that he feels shy to talk about? and yes I'm praying for a change too 

*Madam take it easy, its normal for couples to switch off sometimes and its normal for the spark to die for some for some time...

Stop stressing him, there is more to marriage than the sex nah...You said he comes quick? Was he like that before?

its not about slaying at home, you seem to have gotten it wrong, Marriage is very spiritual and you both dont seem to connect...Infact i dont know but you sound like someone who silently watches and nags...

Take am easy... do more stuff together and the feelings will come slowly