STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
RUNNING WIFE....
Dear Stella and BVs..
I am about to run away from my cheating husband.. i relocating to one of the African Countries to stay a while and move to America from there....
The cheating and treating ''claps'' is too much and i need to leave....
My soon to be ex hubby is currently away at work and will return in the second week of November...
I am thinking if i should clear out the furniture in the house and leave only his personal belongs....Maybe when he steps into an empty flat, it will choke him.
I need advice here.... Should i empty the house or not? I am leaving over the weekend and want to open the flat for neighbors and street people to enter and pick things...
Is this a good idea? Nobody knows of my plans for now.
This man showed me pepper!.. We do not have any kids yet, the Marriage is just one year old.
*Please if you want to leave, come to equity with cleans hands..
Dont take anything and make sure you secure the house so that no one breaks in to steal anything
A GOOD NAME IS BETTER THAN RICHES...
Leave him to God and his conscience.
ReplyDeleteDon't do him dirty the way he did you. Just walk away.
I bet you he'll regret he lost a ruby while pursuing stones.
Ehen
DeleteUpdate us whatever you decide to do abeg. Best.
DeleteWhy would you do that? That will be tantamount to you going all time low and being unnecessarily petty..Get your personal belongings and leave in one piece mbok..I wish you well
ReplyDeleteJust take your own stuff and leave. Your goodness will judge him.
DeleteJust take your own stuff and leave. Your goodness will judge him.
DeleteYou want to open open the flat for neighbors and street people to enter and pick things????
ReplyDeleteSuch wickedness!! Congrats to the man on your departure.
15:05
DeleteHe gave her Claps and you have the nerves to call her wicked ? What kind of brain do you have sef ? So till he gives her HVP ,HIV or HERPES that’s when you’ll understand the situation?
He gave you gonorrhoea. Yup, sell his furniture.
ReplyDeleteHe deserves.
Nah.. don't empty d house. Good thing the "claps" were treatable.
ReplyDeleteWhat is claps?
DeleteMadam abeg leave in peace with a good conscience. What has cheating got to do with furnitures?
ReplyDeleteIf you bought them with your own money you can with it whatever you desire sha
follow stella advice
ReplyDeleteWait and sort it out then you can move. All the best to you
ReplyDeleteWhy are you "running away and thinking of stealing?"
ReplyDeleteAre you not doing similar thing you are accusing this man of doing?
Why not tell him that you are no longer interested in the marriage as it is and that you want
a dissolution? There is nothing to gain in the pathway you are thinking of going.
I do not know the details of the issues in this marriage for you didn't tell us. However, I always advice
couples to do everything it takes to be together; go to work from same house every morning for companionship
was/is God's intention in marriage. Peradventure you do not know Jesus as your Lord, this is an opportunity to
do so. For running away isn't a security to getting the elusive peace in matrimony and life; Jesus is. Shalom.
Please ignore this.
DeletePoster please ignore **** comment .
DeleteMadam or oga even poster leave her husband please send one of the female in your family to go and marry her husband and continue collecting Diseases from him as free manna from above
Poster please don't pay evil for evil,go quietly with your personal belongings and let peace reign.
ReplyDeleteBigamy?
ReplyDeleteJail?
Hmm, those are smelling, if you aren't already running away with another man. Hmm!
Poster, he can sue you for theft of personal belongings and even claim that N10mm was hidden in the house, how will you defend yourself? The pain of a cheating husband will be worse when you have to go to court to defend yourself about the non existent money. Pack all your things and leave, change your sim card and send him a DM on social media that you are done with his cheating ways, thereafter, block him, seek to heal from the pain inflicted on you, there are better people and things out there, just believe and they will come your way. Be strong.
ReplyDeleteHe can still sue her and "claim N10m that was hidden in the house" even if she took nothing out of the house.
DeleteIf you're bent on taking anything out of the house, poster, let it be what you bought yourself. Leave his property for him.
Good luck.
Sue her for what, a wife can never steal from the husband vice versa, it's in the law, madam sell off those properties.
DeleteYes sell off the properties and make use of the money..Add it to your travel plans.Don't call in the neighbour for any reason.They might inform him you gave out your properties.
DeletePoster just take only your things and leave. It's not worth it. God will make you successful where ever you are going.
ReplyDeletePoster, is it because of d claps ur running away?? Did u two have a discussion concerning this issue,is ur family aware of d happenings, so many questions to ask,I wouldn't advice u run out just like that,unless, there is something pursuing u,if nt talk to ur family abt it,just calm down,and move out honorably.my opinion
ReplyDeleteAda ohafia
Poster dear, please waka pass THIS comment.
DeleteThank you.
You’re mad, Goan collect your own claps, it’s fre of charge. Also don’t treat the claps so it can destroy your reproductive system. Ololo.
DeleteOne year marriage is already in shambles and not redeemable? Ngwanu, pack only your load and run. Do not touch his property. I nugo.
ReplyDeleteno paster,don't do that. just leave him in peace and I pray you find time to heal.
ReplyDeleteTonia
What has emptying his furnitures got to do with his cheating habit. Leave his house with a clean hands and he will come for u if u mean something to him. Wait oh, didn't u guys court at least u have known his cheating habit earlier. Thank God u guys don't have a kid yet it will be easier for u to walk out of the marriage. But pls note no man is 100 percent perfect.
ReplyDeleteDo you really want to leave him? If you’re not trying to play games, then wait for him to come back before you go.
ReplyDeleteThat way when he comes back, he won’t be able to lie that you took some things or anything crazy like that.
Sit him down when he comes and tell him you can’t take it any longer and you want the marriage to be dissolved amicably.
Then pick your bags and go, make your arrangements about where you’ll go to before he comes.
Wahala plenty already for this life, no need to add unnecessary quarrel join.
If he has the tendency to be violent, don't wait for him o. Don't allow someone to truncate your destiny pls
DeleteWhat will choke him most is coming back and meeting everything in tact... imagine him coming back thinking u are inside or u went out only to find out that u have gone for good and that u don't need him or his property,my dear that feeling alone will haunt him....that u left without looking back na the real choke be that except u bought the furniture with your money,if not don't clear anything. I wish u all the best as u start afresh
ReplyDeleteThis your comment choke ooo, you are wise, @Flawless
Delete☝️ oil dey your head
DeleteIf you need the extra cash, sell all the household things and if not, just leave him with his maker. It is well with you
ReplyDeletePls don't sell any of his things
DeleteMarried women are really going through a lot ,I dnt enjoy sex with my husband cos he is wack wen it comes to it but I never thought of going outside to get my satisfaction,men cheat without considering our feelings ,wat special abt sex that they can’t stick to 1 woman .
ReplyDeleteSo pack your belongings and keep in a different location. You should know the day he will be arriving. Pretend like all his well. Immediately he sets his eyes on you, pretend like you have to run an errand. Bam your gone. That way, you have handed the house to him directly (there won't be stories of theft).
ReplyDeleteAlso make a video of the way you left the house intact with a date and time stamp to it, after packing your belongings. Leave his cheating ass and don't look back. Life is too short to be sad abeg
Take this advice. No one should die in marriage
DeleteI THIS comment a lot.
DeletePoster consider this.
Poster biko just travel ur travel in peace, atimes rash decisions comes back to hunt us. Don't follow this ur decision made on an impulse. Pick ur things and move, ur reputation is worth it. U will be tagged a thief for the rest of ur life.
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you inform your family of what you are going through and your plans to move out to America so that they can have your back.
ReplyDeleteGet your personal effects from that house. Have 2 or 3 witnesses if they are your family members or his and leave.
If you run like that, the man will hold you well and tarnish your name and parents. Try get sense small. Don't do anything in haste and pains. Calm down.
I pray for peace of God to calm you down and think straight
If you can't cope and you must leave, please do that on a clean slate. There's no need carrying bags and baggages.
ReplyDeleteOne year in marriage is short though. I wish you all the best
Don't touch any of his things and don't open his door for thieves. Let God be the judge.
ReplyDeletePls don't take anything that belongs to him. Don't pay him evil for evil. Take only the things you bought, sell the ones you cannot take along and go. Leave on a clean slate pls. May God be with you.
ReplyDeleteI don't know why married people cheat, they even do it without protection thereby infecting their partners with STDs. These STDs if not well treated can cause infertility in both male and female.
I can condone cheating unwanted pregnancies etc what I can’t condone is cheating without condom and violence I can’t
DeleteUnwanted pregnancies happen with condoms bawo?
DeleteYou can condone unwanted pregnancy? Anon what did you intend to say?
Delete😂😂😂
DeleteI think @anon 17:33 mean 'can't condone'
DeleteI have a different perspective towards this issue..Alot of questions to be asked.
ReplyDelete*A year marriage but have you called your parents to inform them of his bad ways?
*How did it get so bad that u have decided to run away
*Are you sure you are telling us the truth cuz I see alot of hidden truth here.
If you must go, u must be careful and don't try to take any of his belongings..it's wrong and that alone can cause more problem.
You people are so funny here.
ReplyDeleteThe audacity to immediately assume that the flat and furnishings belong to the man.
How do you know that she didnt buy all the furnishings and even pay rent?
HOW DO YOU KNOW?
Be sitting on your unwashed ass always assuming the woman is the one financially disadvantaged because it is the story of your own life.
Don't even blame you women. Some of you have never paid rent in your lives and entered your 'marriage' with only your fairly used pants/ bras and blend wig.
Poster, anything your money bought in that house, CLEAR it.
What did I say? I said CLEAR IT.
It was your money, your sweat, your effort. Clear everything.
On Facebook and IG, there are several declutter groups, they will buy everything from you and pack out those things sharp, 30 minutes everything is out of your house.
If you like leave them there, Mr Gonorrhea will just bring other babes to be sharing his clap abundantly on them.
Don't touch anything that belongs to him or what he paid for with his money. Everything else: CLEAR IT.
Make sure you check for herpes and HIV as well.
Bye assumptas.
Well, you are also making an assumption that it could belong to her. She did NOT state any info related to that so please stop blaming others for doing what you are also doing i.e. assuming.
Delete22:08 I think you need to get strong medicated glasses. Very strong one. DOUBLE LENS.
DeleteBECAUSE I CLEARLY SAID : CLEAR ANYTHING YOUR MONEY BOUGHT. WHICH MEANS IN ENGLISH LANGUAGE IF YOUR MONEY DID NOT BUY IT, DONT TOUCH. WHERE IS ASSUMPTION IN THIS BASIC SENTENCE?
Or maybe it is just English that is your own challenge? E kpe le.
Don't touch any of his belongings and make sure everything is secure before you leave.
ReplyDeleteSorry about what you are going through. I no dey advice married people cos I'm not married and not in their shoes. But to my fellow singles, please your singleness is a gift in that you have not yet made a decision, so you have not yet made a mistake. Look well, very well, before you leap. Pray well, very well, before you leap. Don't just pray for praying sake..but also be obedient to the one you are praying to. Look for godliness and kindness.
ReplyDeleteHoney please just walk away OK...
ReplyDeleteMay the Lord heal you,
You must really be broken...be strong sugar be strong
Pack the things that belongs to you and touch his things.
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