According to insider whispers '' His wife was always fighting him and accusing him of having affairs with different ladies. She complained of his smoking weed and cigarettes in front of the kids indoors and the insiders say she was worried because of her daughter who is asthmatic''
The Insiders whisper that she moved out of the Matrimonial home in July 2021 with ALL OF HER BELONGINGS and since then the actor has been asking his Father in law to return the N14k he paid as Bride price..
As you read this, the insiders say that Ijeoma has gone underground and the actor does not know her whereabouts....
As you read this, the insiders say that Ijeoma has gone underground and the actor does not know her whereabouts....
Kalu and Ijeoma married in November 2015 and had their church wedding in June 2016. .... They have two kids, a son between them and Ijeoma's daughter whom he adopted.
Both Parties are free to respond to this story (which can be taken to the Bank or POS) .
Irresponsible man, smoking in the presence of your children. Who does that?
ReplyDeleteThat's one tire me.seems he did not care for the girl she she was not his.
DeleteThe man is completely insane
DeleteSmoking in front of the kids
So bad.
Extremely shameless idiot,he caresless about the children ,useless attitude and very selfish of him to expose the kids to accepted that dirty side of him..very wicked man even with an asthmatic adopted child...
If story is true then hmm mm nawa
Internet judges doing what they know how to do best! You have not even heard from any of the parties involved. Na wah!
DeleteYou can't even tell if the story is true and yet you insulted him that much???
DeleteI'm not surprised though, SDKblog judge and jury🙄🙄🙄
Hmmm...
DeleteI knew this man is ass, when I saw him and a gurl frnd pix on her status fewv months before his marriage.
Hmmm...
DeleteI knew this man is ass, when I saw him and a gurl frnd pix on her status fewv months before his marriage.
Emjay what do they say again about birds of a feather?
DeleteSo your 'friend' had a thing with him?
Look at the happy smiles.
ReplyDeleteMay they both find peace
Amen..
Delete🙄🙄🙄...what is happening to marriages nowadays? Well is better to be separated than to kill each other.
ReplyDeleteI hope each of them find happiness.
Honestly, the rate at which marriages crash is alarming. May they find peace.
DeleteSo he cheats in real life as he was doing in the series "Assistant Madams"? 14k? Y'all should just break up and save us the lingering kinda drama jare..There's always a thin line between love and hate no cap
ReplyDeleteIt's not about the money. It's what it symbolizes. Returning the brideprice means end of the marriage. She'll still be seen as the wife in Igbo culture if the father hasn't returned her brideprice. For Kalu to demand for it means he also wants the marriage to end
DeleteWTF is going on with marriages lately? Kalu, so you're an irresponsible man with all that look on you? Smoking in the present of your little kids, including the asthmatic one? Kalu you?! I'm stunned.
ReplyDeleteIt's called karma
DeleteJust speechless
DeleteIs he the actor that married very late and people were very happy that finally? God please keep every marriage and give us the ability and grace to be a better spouse to our partners. I don't know, even with all this stories, honestly marriage doesn't scare me, I'm so positive I will have a beautiful home
ReplyDeleteOn point! So am I
DeleteYou last paragraph is on point, that's the spirit.
DeleteMay God give them peace.
Me I am not scare one bit..
Me saying I do I do soon 💃💃🤸♀️🤸♀️
This is sad. May they find peace.
ReplyDelete14k?????
ReplyDeleteWhy? She no go school? What do cheap?
That’s a lot of money for dowry. Some people do not even accept anything these days. Ours used to be Five Naira but one Cousin felt her husband’s family people will laugh at her. She begged till they changed it to Five Thousand Naira. In fact, l think nobody should pay dowry again. The hassle to return the money is too much.
DeleteBride price should be 1million? No wonder.
DeleteIn my village it's #60
Delete14k bride price is too much sef. Some parents collect 500/1k.
DeleteIt even very expensive. The dowry in it self is usually cheap.its the additional.things etc that drives it to thousands or millions
DeleteMine was just 500 naira. It was the highest denomination then.
DeleteI said when I read about this guy’s wedding back in 2016 that this union was going to last. My reason was that Kalu who was in his 40s then must have gotten over & tired of some exuberances (smoking & womanizing). To read that these cost him his home is quite disappointing. I was thinking 🤔 man gets wiser growing old but obviously not in this case. May God help us to learn from the mistakes around.
ReplyDeleteBad habits die hard.
DeleteUntil prick decide to die.... we move wombs
DeleteI was equally about when the news of his wedding broke out.
DeleteSadly, he couldn't make it work.
Any man that is 40 and above, never been married and doesnt have a baby mama has serious issues! Ladies pls take note of this.
Delete10:46😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 it's your comment for you.
DeleteThank you for making me laugh.
@jennybix, I am a 43 yrs old heterosexual male, never been married, no baby mama, well educated, own my own house and a few investments in Nigeria, and productively climbing the European corporate ladder.
DeleteAnd there are many more like us in Nigeria, Europe and America.
So what's wrong WITH US?
What serious issues are you talking about?
Hello, if you don’t mind me asking, is it that you’ve just been busy with your career or you just don’t believe in marriage. Not that there’s anything wrong with that.
DeleteROCKSTAR, 👌 please tell them.
Delete@Rockstar leave them. Na so them dey take miss better focused men wey don build life keep for their family.
DeleteMy fiance is 41. Rich, solid career, handsome, never married, no child and very prayerful.
My ex was same. He was 52. That one was wiring foreign currency into my account like e be jazz. And these are no sex relationships which only grown men would understand, as they equally know the dangers. Abeg no dey put fear for anybody heart. Everybody's time is different. Na so Nigerians tell me say I no fit marry in my 30s. I commot come be like springchicken for here. Nigerians and stories inside Buhari nonsense. Ooin!
Please Anon 23:19. Do you understand what the term “beard” means. Look in the urban dictionary because I don’t mean facial hair. I suspect that you’re an unsuspecting beard for these men. Have an honest conversation soon
Delete07.39 you simply just showed how close minded you are. You don't even know the men anon is referring to but to you, any guy that marries late is gay. Please, read rockstarr's comment again.
Delete@Rocksatar Something is definitely wrong with you. Men like you won't stay in the marriage when you eventually do get married as you're so used to living alone, sleeping with multiple women and being answerable to none.
DeleteJay Stevens, speak for yourself, if you have zero self control, not everyone is like that (thankfully).
DeleteAt Anon 19;02, de deceive yourself o. no be only self control!!!
Deletefunny how people stereotype others..my kid bro just turned 40, no baby mama owns his own home cos he works in an oil company and currently an expatriate staff abroad. he had a past relations that did not work out and at least has not brought another girl yet.. he is not gay, doesn't drink, smoke and a gentleman. I do not know of any serious "issues" he has.
DeleteNigerians and oversabi. They have an opinion about everything yet they cannot get their country to work because of their closed-minded ness.
DeleteSo many marriages below 40s fail, yet it's unmarried men above 40 that have problems.
Itibolibos forming intelligent.
Very irresponsible
ReplyDeleteI also feel there's something odd about this guy. Seems like he's a strong choleric man...
DeleteMost of these fair guys are always the same: assholes. I'm going through something similar with the one I married. Very irresponsible.
DeleteAnd he is still your horseband. Very irresponsible 😁
DeleteNothing is wrong with marriages these days. Marriages has always been plagued with these issues since time immemorial but our mothers remained and swallowed all sorts.
ReplyDeleteWomen of these days are more liberated and do not condone what our mothers swallowed back in their days. My father cheated like there was no tomorrow and even impregnated two women , my friends too, it is either their dads were always beating their mums or bringing different girlfriends home and ask their mums to excuse them. Yet these women remained.
God bless you. Our mothers tolerated rubbish. No child should grow up in such toxicity. You know kids learn what we do easily. That was how my elder brother started beating me for any lil protest from me. Saying I am a woman. Until mum let him know it's not welcome in the house.
DeleteAbeg park well with your women victim mental illness..
DeleteMy pops never cheated, up till this my age I have only seen him and momsi argued twice.. I have witness a distance cousin mother cheating on their father, seen another that the wife cheated with reckless abandon even with her husband young step brother that came to live with them so they'll send him to school.. the man used beating to finish his lil step brother but still stayed married to the wife, did that stop her from cheating?
One gender cannot be blamed for marital issue. Stop being stupid.
See your mouth saying ladies nowadays can't take what their mothers too, you mean these ladies that are scared of DNA test on their kids.. Nonsense..
You better don't marry or go into a relationship with this nonsense thinking cos relationship is sacrifice, compromise, forgiveness and love.. gra gra and 'wokeness' no fit do am
This is just the truth, my father cheated like no tomorrow, he was fortunate not to have children outside. He used to smoke, but he doesn't drink to be drunk, but he used to drink. Our mother's simply prayed and endured. 80% of our mothers endured. It is as simple as that.
Delete" cos relationships/marriages is sacrifice, compromise, forgiveness and love..gra gra and wokeness no for do am." This is word on Marble. As long as domestic violence, Laziness on the man's part is not involved, it will be worth it at the end of the day.
DeleteThank you very much Dante. A lot of women on this blog always want to shift all the responsibility of making marriage work on men and project like women are saints.
DeleteI know many men who made their marriage work and we're never abusive or with all the crazy vices.
Women need to stop claiming innocent. There areany married women who are cheating on their husbands....maltreating their house helps....alienating their husbands relatives (for no reason) but they want to make it look like they are blameless.
Marriage is a two way street. And no gender is more saintly than the other.
@Stan. So cheating should be endured too?
DeleteDo you even know the risks that cheating carry? I mean cheating from either man or the woman
Anon 10:34: everybody makes mistakes, as long as it's not a regular occurrence, I don't believe cheating should be the deal breaker...
DeleteStan an almighty cheater is defending actions of his fellow man 😆😆😆. You that have roamed this blog since how long even got divorced cos of your entanglements came here to quote advice.😆😆😆😆
DeleteStan, when you say cheating should not be a deal-breaker and the person that cheats should be forgiven as long as it is not a regular occurrence.
DeletePlease, are you talking about both genders? Men and women?
If you marry and your wife cheats though not a regular occurence, so you would continue? it is not a deal breaker for you, right?
Stan, cheating is a damn deal breaker. I would never cheat on a man I love much more my husband, and I except 100% the same thing from my partner. If I catch you it must end. Do u know the pain you inflict on your partner when you cheat on them? It is same as killing the person.
Delete11:02 really?
DeleteStan's village people are here o.
Stan is it true? When last did you do HIV test?
Anon 12:06, am not a cheat! Truth is, the society will pat a man that cheats on the wrist and outrightly condemn a woman that cheats, that is how it has always been and that is how it's going to be for a long time to come. In as much as cheating is Wrong, it's still a forgiveable act especially if the person is remorseful. Am not down playing the emotional trauma this can cause to the offending party, but truth is, are we not all humans? No one is perfect. This is not a ticket or an excuse to go and cheat oh...
DeleteStan reply 11:02 Anonymous
DeleteNot Anonymous 12:06
Stan, I hope u were not part of the people dragging Tega oh
DeleteStan is a bonafide cheat. I know someone who he cheated with on this blog with others from this blog as well and outside. I would have dropped a BVs name but she is my friend and she will kill me. She has moved on since but I know she won't want all this drama which is why I won't say anything. But my guy, you and I know the truth. No dey follow talk this talk because chairman of cheating you be. You suppose be professor by now sef. Make I end am for here.
DeleteStan you haven't replied me. I am anon 12:04
Deleteit is a yes or no answer. no need for epistle or essay.
Read my questions to you and be very explicit in your answer. Thank you!
Yes or No!
Stan oya reply, I'm also interested in your reply🤣
DeleteCheating is forgiveable according to you, so you would forgive your woman if you catch her cheating on you?
Anon 12:04, my stand is for both male and female. @ Eka, I don't judge people. @ 15:20, am a bonafide cheat? for your mind you don Sabi me wella, use am go collect money for bank! The so called friend of yours I hope she gave you the full story? Don't come on here and be judging me with half baked distorted stories. As everybody be Saint for Stella's blog and am the only one with two pointed horns shooting off my head..I am just an advocate of sticking together no matter what! I made mistakes in the past, I have since moved beyond that and been true since... For the woman in my life today, I wish you know how much I love you and I won't dear cheat on you... I love you Yoyo! My Urohobo bride & pride!
DeleteOh but she did. I was there from the beginning and till the end. We have been friends on the blog and we have met and mind you I'm male. You cheated on your yoruba wife multiple times that you divorced her when you claimed she cheated on you! Then preceded to cheat on your over 300 girlfriends from all over Nigeria. You will date Igbo today and cheat on her with Edo tomorrow. Na so?! I told her you were not serious from the get go but she gave you the benefit of doubt until your yoruba babe called her. Now you're dating urhobo?!!! 😆😆😆😆😆😆. Bruh, you need help. People like you never change. Your actions was so disgusting even a man like me can't even imagine. Atleast if I have to cheat I use condom. Thank God she dodged a bullet. You are no loss. I wish your current babe all the best.
Delete@16:37, i now know who you are, hope your friend told you it was an open relationship? She encouraged me to meet up with other women, going as far as asking for details of the romp! And you, it's obvious I stepped on your toes cause I had a fling with one of the ladies you so much adore. I know how it feels, sorry! In the meantime, tell your friend I finally found the 1... you... Your hands are as soiled as mine... I am entitled to my past like everyone. I have moved beyond that escapades...You need to meet my Urohobo bride, you will understand, she gat everything man! I love her to stupor.. One more time my Urohobo bride, I love u for real... Bros, run go tell your master I finally found love! It's all good!
DeleteChei! A self professed cheat calling another cheat disgusting! Hmmmmm... Pot calling kettle black? Oga oh! Stella come and carry your BV's oh
DeleteSo he divorced his wife because he thought she cheated? the same person saying cheating is not a dealbreaker?
Deletehmmmm
Anon 17:26, I am not an hypocrite. my ex and I didn't divorce cos of cheating on my side or hers. The word was " irreconcilable differences". @ 16:37, trying to paint me as a reckless dude and hypocrite is freaking ironical ...
DeleteGuy, take out the log that is almost poking your eyeballs before attempting to point out others...I know who you are but I won't stoop low and start rolling out ur own details... One more time, I love my Urohobo bride!
😁🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃She was right. You're a stark liar. I know her and I know what she can do. Open relationship and yet she didnt sleep with you? you switched off your phone on your birthday and she was worried sick only for her to find out that you were with another babe? Is that how an open relationship works? She left your disgusting azz and you still came back wanting to be friends with her. Did she not tell you to go back to your previous babe? I really pity you and most of all I pity the current babe. My guy, you no get anything. She is reading and laughing now but if you start with your yeye details, you will recall she also has a long and good memory. Also, she made it clear what she thought of you with your friendship so no need.😆😆😆.Irreconcilable difference indeed. She called your wife too abi did you forget? I will stop here cos there is no need. You need spiritual help bros and I hope you get it before HPV and HIV gets you if it hasn't already. Congrats to you.
Delete19.31 why are you not bold enough to use your ID. If you or "your friend" want to out Stan, please be credible and comment with your id.
DeleteAnon 19.31 I don't know you but I put it to you that you are a woman and Stan hurt you bad. You are still in love with him. This shit is too deep for a man/third party to type. Come out with your full chest and own it. Stan she is still on love with you so you guys better kiss and make up
DeleteAnon19:31, finally the cat has been let out of the bag! You ain't a dude, you the Barrister from Abuja. Ok, since I didn't sleep with you, why are you still pained? Don't worry God will settle you just the way he settled me. ONE LOVE!
DeleteBv Amethyst???? Wow.You just gave the clue away.
DeleteSo you were the boy she should talked about here. The one that has plenty of body count and has slept with over 100 women but she would still pick over guys with zero count Nawa ooo
but she should have known dating a guy with your level of sexcapades is risky and not worth it Nah.
Nna mennnn. Na wa. This blog 🤔🙆🏾♀️
DeleteNa real wa. Why go under anon to be exposing someone you are supposedly over. You both apparently didn't even meet yet you are still this bitter, what would have happened if it had been a proper relationship? If you both have moved on, why the need for all these messy details including the emphasis on his "yoruba wife"? Anyway, a bigot will always be a bigot.
DeleteWow, what did I just read, hmmm.
DeleteChai! This call out sweet die.
DeleteYou people should be respecting yourselves o. HIV nor dey show for face.
ReplyDeleteHis wife is a brave woman. Some women of nowadays are dumb like the olden days women, they will remain with him and keep bearing Mrs Celebrity even at the expense of their child's life. Is it not here that we read from a woman whose horseband was giving their three month old daughter his p*nis to suck, she caught him the first time and still remained with him, he caught him a second time and brought the story here. It is most likely that she is still with him. She won't Mind if the child dies, they will birth another one but that marriage must remain.
The way some men still stay with their cheating, violent and 'mad' wives/girlfriend.
DeleteHaven't we read alot here, even that boyfriend that's sponsoring his girlfriend in school and she is always giving him slaps back to back and when he was advised here to move, she visited him and 'rode' his senses away and 'stole' his laptop then threatened him..
Tho he was still insulted here and he came back saying he has ended the relationship now for real but I don't cos e no dey easy..
You guys don't understand that emotions is not a light switch, it's not something you just turn off and on at will.. it's the reason you find yourself still going back to cheat on your present bf/gf with your ex.. it takes a whole lot of self control,will power, strength and prayers to make this decision and stick to it..
What I won't accept here is this Women victim rubbish.. Una no dey tire to form victim? Like men dont expence worse.. mtcheew
Women forming victim again. Women that are very machievelian and care more about themselves than even their husband and kids.
DeleteI see this played out in most grandparents (grandmothers) even with kids.
Women...stop claiming victim hood like Una be saint and don't do bad things for men.
Its a shame this blog is plagued mostly by women. Do anonymous post for me to share all the bad things women have done to them and you will see story.
Even if men share their stories....women will still claim victim hood that those men deserve it.
Dante....you be man. I dey join you for this crusade to put some of these women always bashing men (with their fake saintly attitude) in their place.
I dey come...let me go and register for a blog I'D.
That woman's story makes me cringe anytime I remember it. She married a dog. Imagine a full grown man making a 3 months old baby to give him blow job, even if she was not his daughter. She even said the baby swallows the sperm. God will punish that man.
Delete@Dante I quite agree with you on emotions truth be told it takes a whole lot of self control,will power, strength and prayers to make the decision and stick to it..
DeleteThat story has never left my memory. A grown man that got married and had a child, put his D in his baby's mouth and says he enjoys the way she sucks it 🤮🤮🤮
DeleteI would quietly move out with my baby without letting him know my plans. I won't even threaten him with separation or divorce before he will strangle me in my sleep in order to keep his secret. God forbid bad thing
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Deleteamethyst why did you delete your reply to stan?
Deletewas he the blog boyfriend you broke up with not too long ago? if yes you dodged a hurricane ooo
20.48 Scroll ☝️ to read Stan's reply
DeleteConsidering her character here, it's safe to say Stan also dodged a bullet. Basically, they dodged each other...
They both deserve each other: A supposed cheat + a rude arrogant girl @ 20.48
DeleteAmethyst busted 🙄🙄
DeleteI knew the "I'm a man, I'm a man" was a lie. The emphasis too much. Oya Mr Stan and carry your love oo. She misses you🤣
15:45, ur second paragraph was grabbed straight out of my mouth.
DeleteI have seen some Parents smoke in front of their kids. I had to warn a neighbor who tried that in presence of my Son, who used to have breathing problems then.
ReplyDeleteSmoking in front of the kid's is all shades of wrong
ReplyDeleteHey God! What is this na? I was really rooting for this couple because of my love for Kalu.
ReplyDeleteI wish the wife and kids healing and if the reason for the separation is true, I hope Kalu sorts himself out.
Lack of fear of GOD
ReplyDeleteselfishness
Misogyny
Laziness
Entitlement to cheat, misbehave , not to be called to order and no self control of a lot of men are destroying marriages
Na wah.not a good one at all.kalu you look responsible kwanu for all these.
ReplyDeleteNOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Why bruh?
ReplyDeleteDivorce up and down. Thats their business. Me? I go still marry the love of my life and we'll be happy. End of story.
ReplyDeleteThey all got married with this bold proclamation in mind... then shit happened, but I pray (If I do) your story ends like Romeo and Juliet without the potion but orange juice.
DeleteMost marriages are in trouble because with social media, you can get laid easily! Go on IG, FB and you will be shocked at the rate married men beg chicks for se vids, nudes and all! Women should just be patient with us because the temptation is too much pls!
ReplyDeleteYour social media feed and suggestions is a reflection of the things you prefer to focus on. If you were going from Deeper life to Joyce Meyer or history blogs to business, you won't be seeing what will require your wife's patience. The option of deleting your profile or freezing it is also there instead of blaming Zuckerberg for your actions.
DeleteSo men were not shamelessly cheating before Facebook and instagram.
DeleteOlden days sef dey dont need to go far,u see some shamelessly sleeping with their housemaids,neighbours,even wifes relative living with dem.
This is shocking, and hear I was thinking he is a responsible man with his look and all.
ReplyDeleteMay God heal their home and strengthen them.
Dont write him off in a hurry, there are responsible men out there with an irresponsible penis, learn to segregate both.
DeleteSamurai, is it his irresponsible penis that made him smoke weed in front of his children?
DeleteA guy that cannot control his penis is irresponsible. Period.
DeleteWhich one is irresponsible penis, is penis a human? Mtcheeeew
Women would never learn. You really think she didn't know of his smoking habits and even the cheating before she married him. Women have this belief that once a man marries, he'll change. Stop it. Those characters he exhibits while single, he'll continue to show even after the wedding day. Don't be deceived.
ReplyDeleteThank you. Was wondering if he started smoking weed after they got married. Wasn't her kid asthmatic then? Women, stop hoping for change of behaviors you ignored/managed in courtship. I'm just happy she realized on time because I don't want to send condolences over an innocent child.
DeleteI dated Kalu off and on in 2014 for 2yrs, he NEVER SMOKED WEED! I don’t remember him smoking Cos I don’t like the smell of cigarettes or weeds. Pls let’s be not be too quick to judge someone. He was cheating while we were together even with Ijeoma. I confronted him once and he told me he loved Ijeoama, so I broke off the relationship for my sanity. But smoking weed? Naaa, I don’t remember him doing that Cos he was always in my place…
DeleteAwwww 20:12
DeleteSo he loved her.
Maybe the problem is women then.
Co's Im here thinking that smoking is a silly reason to get divorce because he would have been a smoker while dating
He may have picked up the smoking habit later.
DeleteThank you anonymous 20:12, kalu doesn’t look like someone that smokes weed, if you see a weed smoker, you will know. Never believe all these false allegations levelled against celebs, judging and condemning someone based on one sided allegations is wrong and a sin. Please you judginas should fear God ooo
DeleteMay God help us all. Marriage is not easy.
ReplyDeleteOne sided story. Until we hear from Kalu, it’s so unjustifiable to apportion blame. Watch ds space.
ReplyDeleteWelcome Sir.
DeleteToh! I follow you dey wait then 🙃🙃
DeleteExactly!
DeleteI am not in a hurry to point accusing fingers to Kalu untill he replies.
I see the downside of a babymama marrying a single man, he doesnt treat the kids like his... there are exceptional cases tho.
ReplyDeleteIn other words you are trying to say that he smokes only in front of the girl which isn't his and not in front of his son ?
DeleteSMH
This time prophet you saw falsely.
DeleteKalu is a sadist masking his inner demon with fake smiles.
Have you seen him angry? He's a monsterrrrr.
His girlfriend's don't last a season,they run then come back then run again
Na wa. For Kalu (an Igbo guy) , to have married her with her daughter from another guy means he truly loved her , so what went wrong?
Delete10:37, I agree with that part. It is rare for an Igbo man to marry a baby mama.
DeleteIt’s not rare please, stop this wrong generalization. I know a lot of Igbo men, even in my family that married baby mamas. Igbo men marry baby mamas well
DeleteMy dad used to smoke growing up but it was on the balcony. I always thought it was normal. But he just
ReplyDeleteHas stopped now.
Honestly at this point, idgf, probably something in the air. Your marriage crash, we move
ReplyDeletePeople that smoke will still berate him. Hide it from your kids or not, they will know one day and smoke like you or not smoke at all.
ReplyDeleteSeems he wants d marriage to end too, dude is obviously tired.
It is well with them.
ReplyDeleteKalu smoke weed???���������� wonders shall never end!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat a pity!!
ReplyDeleteSo other women dey follow this lazy man ? Na wa !
ReplyDeleteNo be celeb?
DeleteThis is one situation where looks fail me wow! Kalu, come on, smoking in front of your kids is a no no if the story is true.
ReplyDeleteChai! Smoking is a major turnoff for me. Can't deal
ReplyDeleteIf this is true, then a sensible man should be looking for reconciliation instead of demanding for repayment of dowry. But what do I know?
Ontop sey e no quick marry and I was here thinking he left it late to get it right. Well they say “a fool at 40 is a fool forever “. Here is one.
ReplyDeleteBiko the lady’s family should return the bride price and free everyone.
Girls de see am finish de run.
DeleteIt wasnt his choice to marry late.
I used to see this man as a responsible man who could not do these things especially smoking weed in front of kids. Chai!
ReplyDeleteI wish them peace in their different endeavours
My father smoked in the presence of his children, I was responsible for buying his cigarettes. I have never smoked, l don't drink, I stopped taking soft drinks decades ago. I don't know what the noise is about, she most probably knew he smoked cigarettes and marijuana years before she married him. Some of you go into marriages deluding yourselves that you change a man. After trying to change him for years frustration sets in and you start nagging , writing chronicles. For those saying their fathers cheated and their mothers stayed. Exactly what were you expecting your mothers to do ? My father never cheated, l have been married for decades, I have never seen the nakedness of another woman. Your fathers cheated because they wanted to, definitely not because all men cheat. The rate married women cheat is on geometry increase. Why are married women afraid of DNA test.
ReplyDeleteSo sad,I was so excited when he finally got married.I hope they find healing,this one pain me o.
ReplyDeleteThis is unbelievable, I'm so shocked..
ReplyDeleteI know a bit about this story.
ReplyDeleteKalu came as a born again Christian. Moved to the lady's family house in Enugu. After marriage she found out Kalu smokes excess weed, sleeps with house help and also masurbates a lot. The lady tried her best to keep the marriage.....
Chei!
DeleteHe disguised as a born against Christian?
if he was a born again spirikoko Christian you will not find him in secular movies you will find him acting in those mount zion films. Even if he acted for a while in secular movies he won't last long there.
DeleteHis spirit would feel restless when asked to play some scenes i had seen him acted out even though it was just"acting" like most people would say and the scenes are not real. He would turn most roles down.
You mean hes a bonafide member of the vaseline crew?
DeleteMay God heal whatever it is
ReplyDeleteMy father sleeps with our maids. If this is true, she should please leave. She can never bear the psychological effects of it. My parents are divorced now. He will never change
ReplyDeleteChei! Beautiful Couple like this.
ReplyDeletemay they resolve their issues amicably
ReplyDeleteNo offense, porn is regulated here and most people installed either Mcafee or Norton even back then on kids devices. Do they regulate Porn in Nigeria? I have hosted kids from Naija that wanted to watch “M for Matured programs on TV”. I remember mine always saying “ “we can only watch PG 13” to them. Porn watching destroys both man, women snd families. I have seen Nollywood movies that are accessible to all ages that made me cringe as they could pass for soft porn. I believe some Nigerians think Americans live like the Hollywood stars they see on TV. Most do not! We are regular folks whose young adult kids would not wear the kind of boobs exposing, flesh revealing clothing I see on Nigerians. Even Hollywood legends like Denzel, Angela Basset and many more dress decently and raised decent kids. All the “gonna, gonna”, and big buttocks, leather jackets in hot weather, etc are not in suburban America. Naija is copying and replicating ghetto culture! It’s not good to copy other cultures.
ReplyDeleteI strongly believe porn is rampant in Nigeria as we do not have consumer groups that can fight this demonic industry. Do not copy “what you think” they do in America, smoking is now out of vogue, yes medical marijuana is available in some states but have you noticed that when they chased big tobacco from the West they moved marketing money to Africa? Google how they crippled big tobacco here with litigation.
As for cheating on spouses, it’s another fallout of the debasement of the human body. There are folks who do not cheat. I see a lot of ignorant generalizations on this blog and thanks you Alex for correcting the wrong impression that all men cheat. It’s not true. Not all women either. My brother married his wife as a virgin. My husband is the only man I have ever slept with and God willing, no man can impress me like that. I have met men with money and big planes with their own pilots and real money. It does not even occur to me to cheat on my husband. May God deliver us all. I read where “Macaroni” said it and some didn’t believe him but it’s possible. I won’t comment on the specifics of the post till the truth comes out. Smoking is not cool here again. They shifted their marketing budget to Africa with no consumer protections.
Seriously?
DeleteThey moved their demonic businesses to Africa?
I was so happy when he got married then. What a sad story. Wish them both the best.
ReplyDeleteThe girl in question is a glorified gold digger. Didn’t she know he had all these problems. She still married him just to find someone to raise her daughter. The question u all should be asking is where is the father of her daughter.
ReplyDeleteKalu might be many things but this man has a big heart and we know him in the industry
THe girl comes from a terrible background in Enugu. If all the girls in their house have baby daddies and are in continuous marriages or not married at all.
One should ask who is she really.
It will be curious to know what her father has to say.
Maybe the only reason she married him was because he was British and actor. His wife is a very wicked woman. She never talk wet in she do.
Ask her who has been paying her daughter fees in private schools. Abeg leave all these celebrities marriage. His wive is a very big liar and a scam. This is what happens when a man marries below his class. Now she has two kids from two baby daddies. Instead of her to humble herself and her demonic temper to fix her marriage she is blaming other woman. If ur hubby was on addiction. How many church did she go to seek help. I feel sorry for her and him. It’s obvious he needs help too. God help them both.
very stupid comment...humble herself you mean tolerate his rubbish abi? gold digger how? which money kalu get? so if he has been smoking before she met him he should now be irresponsible about it? I am surprised small minds here are talking like the smoking is the only problem. talking rubbish when you know nothing
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