WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings to everyone...

Guess who won the face of in house news competition.......

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BV MAMA AMANDA WINS FACE OF IN HOUSE NEWS COMPETITION

The winner of face of in house news competition is BV Mama Amanda with 52 votes


Participants and their votes


Mama Amanda - 52 votes


Chinyere - 3 votes


Favour - 26 votes


Missbetty - 5 votes


Abiodun - 5 votes


Abosede - 3 votes

Mama Amanda you are so beautiful.... Is this a recent photo? This photos are inspirational, see flat stomach already and baby is so small.

The winner should send me a mail and the others should send their phone numbers to my Blog PA unfailingly before tomorrow so that they can get their Datas.

If you are Interested in the next face of in house news compeition, please send in your nice photos... Mama Amanda has changed the Narrative...lol.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY BV CC

Good Day One Big and Happy Family.
Today is my birthday, I just want to wish my self everything good I have always wanted to achieve in Life to come into manifestation IJN. HBD to ME.
BV Chilaka Christian

Happy birthday CC....

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IJEOMAS GIST CORNER

Hmmmmmmmmmm, so i was on my own jejely na him tori grow legs Waka come meet me. One of my neighbors that her husband has been cheating on her told me she did something different to keep her husband and to aid her prayers.


She's aware of his cheating and he too doesn't deny it. Oga no want to dey chop okra soup every time according to him. She complained that he doesn't touch her, she told me he even vowed not to touch her again, she's an old cargo


This lady told me she believes it's not ordinary and decided to do something different last week. She said she spat into his cream (yuck), secondly as she was on her period then, she peed into a small container and poured the urine mixed with her blood into the same cream, heeeei


She said she made pronouncements as she shook the cream to make whatever 'charm' side chicks are using on her husband inactive and void . I was shocked , ah ah. I asked her who told her to do such, she said it just came to her head. This thing happened last week and this man has been rubbing this cream mixed with her saliva and blood (period) filled urine. Chaaaai, Wahala dey oh, God abeg oh.


We're living by God's grace. I asked her if the cream isn't stinking, she said no. Since last week his legs are still outside, so what happens to the cream now, madam said she believes it will work cos she's his legal wife and that God knows that....... I've asked her to trash it, she said no, like sey she no tell me how I for take know wetin dey happen for her house?. Hmmmmmmmmmm, how on earth isn't that cream stinking for him to have a clue at least






How is she different from the side chics that allegedly Jazzed him? This is horrible, please be careful of her and dont even as mush as drink water from her







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BLOG VISITORS OPINION NEEDED

Stella pls this is for IHN. Bvs pls what is your view about the use of endearment on someone you don't have any form of relationship with, be it family, business, work, nothing, more or less like a stranger. 

There is this person (didn't even know she was a Lady until we had the misunderstanding, she didn't use her pics on her profile) whose advert I saw on a business WhatsApp group and I decided to make enquiries, then I changed my phone and lost our chats but I still remembered her cos I stored the number. After some weeks she messaged me and told me she lost her phone. I showed empathy to her and the the next thing she replied me "thank you dear". Note that I'm a Lady too but I didn't use my pics on my DP and my business name is what appears on Truecaller. 

I was pissed. How can you be saying "dear" to someone you don't know, you don't even know my sex or marital status or age, nothing. What if my partner sees it and you are of the opposite sex with me? I showed my colleagues, they said I should ignore and block him or her but the good person in me decided to correct her.

 I told her that it is inappropriate to use dear for someone you don't know while chatting especially as a business person, that it sounds off and some people will just cut her off. I gave an example using myself being a married woman and my husband may come across the chats and think otherwise if he is not the understanding type.. 

She told me I should have a better mindset, that "dear" does not mean anything, it is just a name, that a dear one can be a client, friend, etc, that she too is a married woman, bla bla bla. I just told her they already warned me not to correct her and I blocked her. My colleagues were just laughing at me.

 So bvs, being in Nigeria with our culture and all sorts, did I do wrong?

 If you were in my shoes, what would you have done? Was her reply OK?







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HAPPINESS COLUMN


Nurturers


It is said that the female has been built by God to be softer, more caring, more loving, more understanding, in fact naturally nurturers. This features are seen not only on human females, but in females of other species too, even Lion and snake.
Infact, it is believed that most times, when you want to get something from a wicked man, pass through a female around him. 

No matter how wicked that man is, if his wife doesn't get it from him, his mother would, as far as you are able to convince that woman,(because they are easily convinced),she will convince her man (with a couple of tears thrown in).
Generally, women are expected to be more empathetic than men. But, when a woman is wicked, then there is trouble. 

They can destroy without feeling anything, that even the devil will cringe. Recent happenings has shown that a woman that is expected to protect can steal, kill and destroy, and still go to church to "speak in tongues and lift up holy hands".
Chaii!! God has seen something ohhh.

How can you explain the fact that the deaconess will continually torture her help with fire, stick, and all sorts in the private part,when her(maid) parents visits, she gives them food and money, and tells them that the girl is okay, and sometimes, even make her dress up to look fine, meanwhile the girls Virgina is rotting away. And still go to church and actively participate in church activities. What kind of heart does she have "stone"?

What of the female police officer in Rivers State accused of subjecting her 13 year old niece to various kinds of abuse, which includes, beating her everyday, pouring hot water on her, stripping her naked, forcing her to sleep outside naked till day break, stopping her from attending school, and other atrocious acts.
Who will they report this supposed law enforcement agent to, and who will save this girl from this woman?

Women that are supposed to be tender hearted, are just committing different kinds of wickedness, on house helps, step children, those that lives with them, and it is getting out of hand.

How do we stop this?

I think we should form an advocacy group or NGO mainly that creates awareness about these things, saves children that are victims of women abuse, and also see that these women are given the legal punishment they deserve, and give it more publicity, for others to learn.

I just know that something drastic has to be done, If not, women will displace devil from "the most wicked " oh.

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.


Endless chores...... with the kids I feel like that is all I am doing, the chores never end. 

My laundry basket is always full and despite the fact that I have help, there is always one thing or the other to do. Washing the dishes, mopping the floors, picking up toys and all.

I am always busy, I sleep tired and I wake up tired. I open my eyes in the morning and there are four little hands pulling and prodding and yapping in my ears to wake up.

I love my kids very much but at times I feel like screaming at them.

 I do my best not to beat with a cane and not to spank but there are occasions when my hands itch to give my first an “African mother brain resetting slap".

I have promised myself never to slap my kids because my sister still has ear issues from being slapped by a teacher in primary school , so I am wary of hitting children but there are times I just feel like unleashing it all on them. Moments like that I ask myself are they that bad or I am just frustrated and looking for a scape goat. So I slowdown, take a deep breath and try to talk calmly or simply scream at them.

I really really want to be a good mom, I want to give my children the best and raise them right but right now I am tired and genuinely hoping it will get better.

Hahahahahaha story.... Motherhood does not get easier oooh so just find your g- spot inside it and enjoy yourself..... My laundry basket is always full as well and i am tired of screaming at these big boys to stop wearing clothes as if a machine is the one that sorts them out...

Yours they don't let you sleep? Mine when i sleep is when they do all what i banned them from doing and commit all manner of ''havoc''....... it gets better doesn't it?....lol

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