WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS...

 Hailings!

IN HOUSE MEMO

Happy woman crush Wednesday to all the women who show themselves real love and to all the men who show their women real love.....

My PA will collate names for data so please her mail if you are Interested in the data....

Enjoy the rest of your day......

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SPIRITUAL BANKING


Spiritual banking is the Christianized concept of Karma. Karma is of Hindu and Buddhist religion, while spiritual banking of Christian religion.


The authority which made provision for this rule is Galatians chapter 6. The whole chapter explains the need to do good and be good at all time. As can be seen in verse 7-9 as quoted below:


“7 Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.


8 The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature [1] will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.


9 Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”


The above verses are self explanatory, one can deduce that doing good and living right would bring blessings your way, while being evil and doing wrong would cause you destruction. For whatever one sow (into the spiritual bank) such would the person reap (cash out).


If you understand how ‘normal’ bank works, you’ll know that when you put money there, it yield interest for you, and when you decide to withdraw, you’ll be richer. That’s the same way it works in spiritual bank. Whatever you sew into the bank attract interest, whether good or bad, you’ll reap bountifully. It can be either bountiful positive yield or bountiful negative yield. The choice is yours to make. (I said ‘normal’ banks, not Nigerian banks. Those ones are not normal)


Some examples of how this banking system works are-


You give help to someone in need, that week you got a major contract you have been hoping for...

you paid offering in church only to get home and remember a large sum of money you hid somewhere in your home and have forgotten about it...

You defrauded a person for some money, fell ill the next day and spent double the amount you got from the scam to treat the sickness.....


Now, the fact that you help someone with a certain amount of money doesn’t mean you’ll get money in return too, or because you cheat someone, someone will also cheat you, No, in spiritual banking, your yield (cash out) come in various forms and ways.. for example, you might reap good health and long life for sowing a seed of money into someone life, and you can reap sickness or life difficulty because you deceived and cheated someone.


In summary, doing good attract other good things into your life while doing evil will attract destruction and evils to one’s life. Don’t be deceived by what you see, when you see an evil person living like everything is perfect it’s all smoke screen. Smoke and mirrors stuff. They’re concealing the true position of things. It will end in premium tears for you if and when you decide to tow their part.


It’s good to be good at all times.

from BV Dante..

OMG...... this is deep!!!

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TEEJAYS CORNER



My neighbor's daughters have been solely responsible for the rent and upkeep of their parents since they moved to this neighborhood. How did I get to know? I usually hear them say so every time there's a payment bill/rent to be paid. They call their daughter and inform her. The aged parents are no longer strong enough to work or oversee a business so, they rely on their children for survival . We hardly see their sons on a regular basis like we do their daughters but they pay their parents a visit once in a while.



During weekends, these ladies come or send someone to bring frozen chicken/fish and some money to their parents for their feeding for that week.


The role and importance of women in a family can't be overemphasized. They are not just home builders, most importantly, they keep the home and the sustainability of their family is on them.


I remember when things took a nosedive for me, my other brothers were struggling with their various family responsibilities, it was my sisters that were responsible for my parents.....all the bills. They even extended their assistance to us, I mean the guys until things got stabilized. Till date, my younger sister never stops telling me jokingly how I'm indebted to her but that she won't ask for it just now but on my wedding day. She says she’ll pick up her payment while I'm dancing and being sprayed money. We always laugh over it.


One thing mom kept asking me then was, "What if she hadn't gotten female children? What if she had just male children? Is this how she would have suffered and even retired to the village?" Those words really touched me and made me understand the very reason no one should ever attack or disrespect a woman that is yet to have a male child/children or one that is done with child bearing and has just female children.


Times have changed. 

Women are doing great, doing exploits and should be encouraged and appreciated. To me, I’ll say tradition about inheritance made us believe and prioritize male children over the females. Today, things happening around us are making us see the advantage/importance/usefulness of a girl child. Don't get it twisted, I mean no disrespect to the male folks, but truth be told, when the guys are busy with their wives/kids, it's the women(sisters) even in marriage, that still look out for our parents. They are the ones that spend most of their time at the hospital with their sick parents for days, weeks, months when the male folks are busy with work and business.


I want to ask, with all this, should a husband be angry when his expectation of a male child fails?


Finally, men should endeavour to spend quality time and give their aged parents attention/care and pick up the responsibilities while the women's contribution should be an added bonus.


One of the disadvantages of a woman shouldering the responsibilities of our aged parents alone is that, sometimes it makes some of them to do things they shouldn't have done just to get this money to help out in the family front.


Kudos to all the responsible men doing great and looking over their parents.


May God bless the women for their sacrifices and love for their families.





Hmmmm so what will those without female kids do? na wah, this life no balance at all!!!

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD:



I am currently having allergic reaction to God knows what. My face is so swollen and I can hardly see, to make matters worse my glasses broke yesterday so my vision is blurry. The pain has been crazy.

I am suspecting a new brand of white chocolate chips cookies I just discovered. I ate two whole packs. I don’t really like chocolate but this one had me hooked.

This is my first allergic reaction. I got antihistamine injections to help, one of the injections was so painful, I was rolling around in pains.

I am supposed to try a little piece of the cookie to be sure it’s the culprit but my fear of injections is crazy. It used to take at least two adults to hold me down while I scream in pain and for several minutes, I would feel pain in my leg and back if I am injected in my bum. I am better now nobody needs to hold me down but it’s still extremely painful.

I would rather forgo the cookies than put myself in a situation where I would have to take injections. I have got a whole brood to take care of. I can’t afford to breakdown.





You need to eat it again to be certain it caused your reaction, what you have done is assume!

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PIMKYS CORNER
AN IDLE HAND IS THE DEVIL'S WORKSHOP


An idle hand is the tool of the Devil. 

Mr Deji had been out of work for a while. He would sit at the balcony and stare at all that passed by. Soon he could match make cars with occupants. His wife gave him a wide berth when she was at home. If he asked for conjugal bliss, it rarely happened. She would gently mock him, “that’s the only job you have? Oga I am tired!”(alai ni ronu). He began to lose his self confidence.



There was a couple that lived nearby(they happened to be our neighbor then). The families were close. They had a househelp. 

One day she was sent over to our place and after she left, she went into Mr Jide's room then the devil used him. The devil used him several times. She called him one day, “uncle I am pregnant”. he wanted to die. He was scared to mention abortion. What if she died during the process? He was scared to tell his wife and his two kids!


Bisi was her name. She would come over when she was sent, I would notice how bad Mr Jide will be sweating whenever he set his eyes on her. I knew very soon, her employers would know and ask questions. “Who was responsible?” The mind is a wicked one. He began to wish she died. He would fantasize that she was hit by a car. Or ambushed by robbers. He killed her a thousand times in his mind(from his look whenever she comes around).


This was the girl I personally wanted to shine her kongo but when Mr Jide was trapped, then I understood the path of human madness whenever you are idle and the devil makes use of your time.

 One good day, we were seated outside and the wife came home from the market and said “Bisi is pregnant.”(you know how women act when they want to do aproko) his heart was shivering, I asked “which Bisi?” Then she told me. In a shaky voice, “ has she mentioned who was responsible?” “No” she answered. “She says she wants to go home and have the baby ” then I sighed and stylishly looked at Uncle Jide's reaction.(he was so cold and depressed).


Bisi came about two days later. She wanted a million Naira to travel back home. She promised not to mention his name. She would go away and leave him alone. Peace for a Million Naira that Uncle didn't have(a jobless married man). A new problem. Seeking the million Naira was his undoing. That was why the police were looking for him some months ago. He had ruined his own life for a few moments of pleasure.


To be continued...
True life story.

Pinky this is interesting but please no two part stories cos some people read the first one and cannot find where the second one is or they read and forget...

Iyawo Nko?

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