THURSDAY In House News...

 Hailings.............

IN HOUSE MEMO

How una dey?

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.


The year is running to an end and it’s happening so fast. I am grateful for the gift of life. I am learning to count my blessings and focus more on the positive and less on the negative. In few days time I will start preparing for Christmas, it is my favourite time of the year. 

My mom always starts Christmas shopping in October.

Our clothes and shoes, accessories etc were bought in October because my mom believes you will get better sales deal around this time before the Christmas price hike that usually happens towards the middle of November. So I habitually do this too.

With the current increase in price I will be stocking up extra hard because if things are already this expensive, what will November and December look like`?.

 I try not to worry and I try to think of ways to cut cost for my family such as joining other women in bulk purchasing and sharing of food stuff and meat at a reduced price etc . I am still thinking of more effective ways to cut cost while trusting God for his continual rain of abundance over my family. 

It is well with this country.

The people selling now are wiser and they increase Christmas sales now from August:::LOL

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IJEOMAS GIST CORNER

FAKE PROPHET


This incident happened to a relative, Oge. She was dating this guy, one thing led to another and boom, she broke up with him. Oga wasn't happy about the break up, so he sent both friends and family to go beg Oge to take him back, but she refused .


One day their family friend, a respected 'prophet ' paid her a visit, told her she was in trouble, but 'god' has sent him to deliver her. Ha, knowing him as a prophet na, Oge was afraid and ready to do whatever it takes to get out of this so called trouble. He said it was spiritual husband that's disturbing her and that she'll never get married if this spiritual husband is not destroyed.


He asked her to get some items for the prayers and warned her seriously that the money and items must come from her pocket. Abeg make una see list of items wey ogbonge man of god tell her to buy :

*Red candles
*Do as i say oil
*Baby dolls (male and female)
*white clothes

Oga prophet warned her not to let anyone know about it, that it was between both of them. That was how Oge started gathering money to get the items for deliverance. To think that this prophet was on her neck then and even gave her deadline, he was persistent (abi spiritual husband get season wey e no dey gree commot for person body? )


Wisdom they say is profitable to direct, and there's nothing like common sense.

 One does not need a seer or prophet sometimes to get some problems solved. Oge told her family everything the prophet said and she was told not to get the items.


Unknown to them, Oge's ex was the one behind this emergency prophecy of spiritual husband. After trying to get Oge back without success, he went to this respected family friend and 'prophet', paid him a huge sum of money and promised to do more if he could help him bring Oge back. And for him to accomplish this mission, the items must come from Oge.

 The baby dolls represent Oge and her ex, while the white clothes will be used to tie them together forever. The do as i say oil will seal whatever Oge's ex will say during the ritual ( yes oh, e reach to call ritual ), while the red candle will keep their love burning. Some white garment members will understand better.


That was how this prophet kept disturbing Oge for the items. Oge's ex after waiting for long, thinking the prophet played him and made away with his money without getting Oge back to him, went to his house to make trouble. That was how they started quarreling and people gathered, na there the whole secret and tori come out. That's how they would have jazzed Oge and make her marry without a clear eye. Thank God for her, she's married with kids now.

 Marriage no be by force biko

The next time i heard about the do as i say oil was at Rumuokoro oh, where I went to fix my phone, e get this Iyawo wey dey sell plenty and all kinds of native mericine beside. Plenty pipu dey come dey buy, typhoid and malaria, man power, weak erection, staphilococo........ etc. 

 Aproko me just dey 'observation' the categories of pipu. Na him this fine sisi just Waka go meet the woman, the way she waited for everyone to leave and the way she looked in my direction made me 'suspicion' her, and for my mind i mustu know that thing wey she wan buy. So i raised my antenna very high. 

She asked Iyawo if she get oil, Iyawo ask her which one she wan buy, she look my side before she said 'do as i say'. Iyawo tell am to go somewhere else, sey she no dey do spiritual work. Who knows the big fish she wants to trap. 

 God abeg o

Hahahahahahaha Do As I say dont do as I do...lol

Later these people will wake up years later and be wondering how they married and had kids....

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PINKYS CORNER


Giving birth and being born brings us into the essence of creation, where the human spirit is courageous and bold in the body, a miracle of wisdom.“

The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. 

A mother is something absolutely new.” and so in you the child your mother lives on and through your family continues to live… so at this time look after yourself and your family as you would your mother for through you all she will truly never.

A mother does not become pregnant in order to provide employment to medical people. Giving birth is an ecstatic jubilant adventure not available to males. It is a woman’s crowning creative experience of a lifetime.

You are pregnant and you are powerful. You are bold and you are beautiful. Go forward in your boldness, in your beauty and in your contentedness. Trust your body to birth and know that the collective power of women worldwide will be with you.


Whether your pregnancy was meticulously planned, medically coaxed, or happened by surprise, one thing is certain – your life will never be the same..


#its time to say thank you to your mum#
#Respect women#
#Stop domestic violence#

Ah ah Pinky this is nice.........

Thank you Dear Mama, continue to RIP...

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NAZIRITES INK

My MIL insisted I come to see her gynecologists', she was going to pay every expenses. According to her, its time to have a second child.


Initially, our decision (My husband and I) to hold on child bearing was intentionally and when we thought we were ready, sadly, it wasn't forth coming. She was worried, since Mama is hardly convinced, I succumbed to the pressure.


At the hospital, my strength failed me. Its easier to take lightly what you haven't been on the verge of. I tell you firsthand, Fertility related issues are draining and traumatic.


I did numerous tests totalling to about 50k, waited several hours for test results arrival and during that period, I saw a lot writing would not describe to satisfaction.


Grown couples desperately looking for children with sadness as facial expression pacing up and down the hall, certainty unguaranteed. That place is not kind. Painful to say the least, Now I know better to appreciate what I have.


My deepest apology to TTC women, I came close to your struggle and it was super difficult, seeing your pain broke my heart. The pain behind those eyes, seating long hours in the hall not knowing what to expect, carrying around test results from one lab to another with little or no hope at all.. I see the empty stares and longing desires. My emotions are battered on your behalf and am sorry you had to go through it.


I have been close, I see your tears, I see your fears, I may not exactly understand how you feel or what you are going through but I share a bit of it.. Please be strong, I'll pray for you, hold on a little longer, soonest, there shall be light at the end of the tunnel. Psalm 30:5.

Touche!

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