Last weekend, after dropping a client at a mall, as I waited for my next order to come, I ran into an old secondary school friend who I've not seen in ages. He is married and lives in the Eastern part of Nigeria but official duties brought him to Lagos.
My friend told me that though he has been transferred to Port Harcourt, he tries to go home to see his family at least twice a month since he's just a few hours away. He spent some time on the phone talking with family members and others from his workplace. Afterwards, he brought out another phone from his bag. He told me that was his special phone, which never goes home with him. I was confused and probed further.
He showed me the contacts and WhatsApp chats, which are only girls (about 30 of them). He said that phone stays permanently off except when he's ready to hook up with any of his numerous girls. Also, whenever he travels home to see his family, the phone stays back in his office.
I was shocked at how meticulous he was with keeping his girlfriends from his home. He says he loves his wife and she must never know he cheats on her; hence he goes through the trouble of being discreet in his affairs.
I'm here wondering what other ways guys use in keeping their affairs from home. Hmmmmm... I'm not married yet and I'm not a Saint either.
My friend told me that though he has been transferred to Port Harcourt, he tries to go home to see his family at least twice a month since he's just a few hours away. He spent some time on the phone talking with family members and others from his workplace. Afterwards, he brought out another phone from his bag. He told me that was his special phone, which never goes home with him. I was confused and probed further.
He showed me the contacts and WhatsApp chats, which are only girls (about 30 of them). He said that phone stays permanently off except when he's ready to hook up with any of his numerous girls. Also, whenever he travels home to see his family, the phone stays back in his office.
I was shocked at how meticulous he was with keeping his girlfriends from his home. He says he loves his wife and she must never know he cheats on her; hence he goes through the trouble of being discreet in his affairs.
I'm here wondering what other ways guys use in keeping their affairs from home. Hmmmmm... I'm not married yet and I'm not a Saint either.
Anyway, they say men are polygamous in nature and a lot cheat. I know women cheat too, including the married ones and I have come across some of their numerous methods, which I'll share in another post. I still wonder who cheats more between men and women.
Hmmmmm....Oko Ashawo you will do worse than this man you are gossiping to us about..... Ashawo oshi!!!
Hahahahahahahahahahahha
One day he will slip up. One day.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely
DeleteDefinitely
DeleteNa so
DeleteThis isn't new oko ashawo. I've known this method for over 8years. That's why I don't bother myself with checking my husband's phone. It's really of no use
DeleteIs a must that he will make mistake one day & every trouble he has taken to be discreet will no longer matter. Everyday for the thief
DeleteOko Asewo, who send you message, who ask you to reveal secrets of married women.
ReplyDeleteY are you so pained.
Pls shut it, nobody asked you.
I guess you are only pained because the women are now beating the men hands down in this game.
We are not interested in the secrets.
Don't tell us, don't say it.
Honestly he does not have to reveal it anymore.
Delete"We been knew"
Afterall the numerous 30 sidechicks his friends keeps are someone else's fiancee, girlfriend, wives. But in the eye of every man is own woman is different and does not cheat.๐คฃ
Who are your fellow men cheating with then?? Men are their own worst enemy. Sleeping with their fellow men's women and claiming boy's code.
Hmmmm
Delete@13:31
DeleteAllow the Oko to reveal
That "we" you wrote there includes, you and yourself ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
No Nah๐
DeleteI just think it is a common knowledge. Who are the men cheating with? It is common sense. I am not holding him biko ๐
@Anon13:14, why are you so pained that Oko Ashawo plans to reveal you people's secrets? ๐
DeleteDefinitely something must kill a man...in his mind now he's being smart...
ReplyDeleteแป chแปm.
DeleteThis man get wahala. How people bring unnecessary stress to themselves still beats me.
I love my peace of mind.
I am just here to read Stella's footnote..The thing dey give me joy...Hahahaha
ReplyDeleteWhat "Love" is he talking about?
ReplyDeleteYou import diseases and devils from more than 30 women to give your
wife and you are talking about "love?" What kind of love?
He needs more than 30 baskets to carry those his love put and I ran out of baskets
at the moment.
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DeleteMake his friend manage those ones till I weave more customized baskets
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The human definition of love is different from God's own. The love of human is selfish. It takes a God kind of man to love his wife like God commands.
Delete30 different contacts and he supposedly loves his wife o๐
Delete#shudders
Like he has 30 different ladies he chats with and probably have sexual contact with? Ok ooo. Let him continue.
ReplyDeleteSomething that will still come out one day... He should be there deceiving himself
ReplyDeleteThe Yorubas use to say ' bi'ro ba lo l'ogun odun,ooto ma pada wa ba'
See cheating methodology 101
ReplyDeleteone is for the thief and one day is for the owner. Nonsense and Buhari
ReplyDeleteOko Ashawo, I'm not happy that you're revealing these secrets. Anyway, it is what it is
ReplyDeleteWhich women don't know about burner phone? Or are you a learner?
DeleteLol...you people will not kill person. That's how DANG leaked you people's secret yesterday that y'all flooded her dm๐ funny lots
DeleteHehehe interesting..
ReplyDeleteHmmnnnn
ReplyDeleteAnd who him think say e dey do.....keeping numerous girlfriends who are also keeping numerous boyfriends๐๐๐๐
ReplyDeleteAnyman that is cheating on his wife is only fooling himself, Hell is real, give your life to Christ.
Fornication is a sin not only to your spouse but to God(most especially) and against your own body.