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FAILED IVF PROCEDURE AND WHAT TO DO NEXT
I had a failed IVF procedure about 3 years ago. I started the procedure last month but they had to cancel the cycle and freeze my embryos as my progesterone was too high and may hinder implantation.
I am supposed to do the embryo transfer this September but I am just confused if i should use a surrogate or not. I Don't know why I am having this feeling. I have 5 embryos frozen in 2 sets. Meaning I can only do 2 transfers.
I had a failed IVF procedure about 3 years ago. I started the procedure last month but they had to cancel the cycle and freeze my embryos as my progesterone was too high and may hinder implantation.
I am supposed to do the embryo transfer this September but I am just confused if i should use a surrogate or not. I Don't know why I am having this feeling. I have 5 embryos frozen in 2 sets. Meaning I can only do 2 transfers.
Please I need suggestions.
Please use a surrogate if you can afford so that you can rest from all the stress and prepare to nurse your child. Good luck Dear and thank you for all the times you reached out to other BVs with your Blessings....For giving God will double your Blessing!
Surrogacy is the sure bet i guess
ReplyDeleteI wish I was more firm with my hubby. I also did ivf, considered surrogacy as I’ve had multiple losses in the past but my husband didn’t agree. It was successful but now I’m so sick, can’t do anything coupled with anxiety and all. Started bleeding on Friday night again , been in the hospital since then. I’m exhausted
DeleteKai! I was in this exact same spot a few years ago contemplating, saving and praying only for God shock me where I least expected.
DeleteSurrogacy is a good option. Pls go for it if you can afford it. Don't keep the procedure a secret. Talk freely about it after the baby arrives so it won't be any form of weapon in the hands of naysayers but an inspiration and education for others.
God bless you.
It breaks my heart to read stuff like this. May God come through for you real soon.
DeleteMay GOD surprise
DeleteHE will not do it the way you expect
But HE will come through for you in Jesus Christ name Amen
If you can afford to, double your chances, you and d surrogate should undergo transfer, the more the merrier, one or all must catch. Sticky bean(s)to u.
ReplyDeleteI am support of this idea if you can afford it
DeleteMay the Lord come through for you
Same thought here. Both you and surrogate try it and see. Good for you if both works out.
DeleteI wish you success from the bottom of my heart poster.
I quite empathize with you.
ReplyDeleteIn all you do, kindly consider adopting a child of your own.
So many women I know conceived without assistance once they adopted.
Giving a child who would otherwise have none, a home is a great sacrifice and God appreciates whoever does that.
Wishing you all the best.
🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹👶👶👶👶👶👶👶
So adopting a child is that the criteria for God to open the womb?? Adopting a child should be done out of a willing heart and not for God to otherwise 'open' ones womb...
DeletePls tell her...so like you are bribing God? Life doesnt work like that, you adopt a baby because you desire to have that child live in your heart and your home as your own. No ulterior motives, no buy one get one free,just you wanting this baby to be yours. Not for a reward, not for anything...
DeleteIt marvels me how some ladies misread simple suggestion. I had to read this comment again and I did not see any "condition" given. It is a sacrifice to adopt babies. She wrote that "some women she knows..." Why don't you ladies write about the ones you kknow. Your experiences? This life can be simply lived without rancor. If you know what worked for you, share it with me. I am in need.
DeleteSomeone told me this same thing when I was trying for a child and I found it offensive.
DeleteWhich one is adopt q child qnd it will bring you luck?
I know someone that adopted a new born. The child is 3+ and she's not pregnant yet. It's not one size fits all so this particular talk is unnecessary.
Someone ask for suggestion on something else qnd you're telling her something else to do.
@21:59
DeleteIt is absolutely wrong to adopt a child because you want and expect God to give you a child. Common, the child you adopt is your child and treat
that child as such. He/she knows no other mother. If God gives you a child, fine. If not, he does not change from being God almighty.
Let me ask you one question, all of you; when Hanna the mother of Samuel promised to give the unborn child Samuel back
to God if God answered her prayers, was she "bribing" God? Please God cannot be bribed or mocked. A vow is made to honor God and bless humanity and that is what life is all about.
Pls go for surrogacy since you are doubting
ReplyDeletewhy not teach her how to overcome her doubts?
DeleteIf you know yourself you know yourself. So if you feel it won't work, follow your gut and hire surrogate. Goodluck with you. My prayers are with you
ReplyDeleteSurrogacy is my suggestion.
ReplyDeleteSurrogacy is the way to go
DeleteStella Amen to ur prayer for her.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you dear. May God answer all your prayers and grant you your wishes 🙏
ReplyDeletePlease try surrogacy. God will come through for you. Amen
ReplyDeleteif you can afford it, use a surrogate. if not pls calm, reduce stress, let drs do theirs, Pray n God will complete it.
ReplyDeleteMay God bless and grant you all your heart desires, in Jesus name Amen
ReplyDeleteMay God answered all your silent prayers and bless you with the fruit of the womb, in Jesus name Amen
It's well my dear
It is well with you. I would advise u go for surrogacy to avoid any emotional trauma. You can also try adoption.
ReplyDeleteWishing you all the best in whatever option u decide to go for.
Congrats in advance.
May see you through any one you decide to do successfully poster.. Bless you!
ReplyDeleteFollow your instincts.. God be with you through it all ❤️
ReplyDeleteWe all here shall rejoice and celebrate with you very soon on this matter in Jesus Name
ReplyDeleteYou are fruitful
Thank you for touching lives positively
God has heard you Poster. He is limitless and will come through for you. He is faithful.
ReplyDeleteGod has heard you Poster. He is limitless and will come through for you. He is faithful.
ReplyDeletePut your trust in God, He will proof Himself as God of Possibilities in your life.
ReplyDeleteMay the Lord make it easy, smooth and successful for you, any option you choose. And may he give you peace which passeth all understanding. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteSorry about the past failed IVF.
ReplyDeleteI had a failed one in 2019. I just did one few months back and I'm presently pregnant. I actually prayed for multiple so I can just stop child bearing because I have a case of recurrent fibriod but only one embryo stuck. I'm happy and grateful.
I planned going for surrogacy for my next pregnancy. Na who dey alive dey care for pikin.
I would advise they transfer to you and a surrogate. Both might just stick. Seriously pray about it.
I wish you best of luck and I pray whatever decision you finally take works in your favour. #Ehugs
If surrogate is used
DeleteDo DNA after birth
Confirm
Why the need for a DNA when she's using her embryo?
DeleteWhat do you mean by recurrent fibroids please? Will you kindly elaborate? Thank you.
DeletePoster God Almighty will come through for you.
ReplyDeleteI will advise you go for surrogacy.
Love u and praying for you.
I don't really have any advice but I pray that the creator of heaven, earth and everything in it will come through for you. That he comforts your heart and puts it at rest. That this next cycle will bring you the miracles you want.
ReplyDeleteHugs.
My cousin frd used a foreign fertility drug when her transplant failed and it worked, she's now pregnant
ReplyDeletePlease what's the name of the drug?
DeleteMay God Almighty lead you and give you the wisdom to do the right thing.
ReplyDeleteYour testimony is here.
Congratulations in advance... Which ever one or two you decide on will work, and you will be back with your testimony in Jesus name. Amen!!!
ReplyDeleteSurrogacy isn’t an assurance the procedure won’t fail. It’s better they find out the reason for the failure. Likewise determine if surrogacy is the better option for you.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry dear,may God see you through in wateva decisions u take
ReplyDeleteIt's well... I pray that every woman in dis situation must hv a reason to smile at the end of it all🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteMay God come through for you ma'am. Just continue trusting. I think you should go with Blackberry's advice if you can afford it.
ReplyDeleteMa, there is nothing God cannot do that same God that makes Sarah to laugh when she least expect it will make you mother of children at the appointed time. Don't cry God is by your side you will come back to testify.
ReplyDeleteMay God bless you with the fruit of the womb . You shall be a strong and proud mom.. nothing is too difficult to do .. put your trust in him alone
ReplyDeleteWhatever option you choose. May God use it to grant you the desires of your heart. Amen
ReplyDeleteMay God bless you beyond your expectations with many children
ReplyDeleteI had 6/7 failed cycles before the last one that worked. I cannot even remember the number anymore 'cos christ wiped away my tears and all that memory with my daughter.
ReplyDeleteWhat I did differently....I prayed a lot..told God I'm not putting my faith in medicine or the doctors but He should just help me!!! It was a desperate cry with aggressive faith. Secondly, I exercised regularly till a week to the transfer, It allowed my body to rest. Finally, I was on my back for hours after the transfer. I didnt leave the clinic till about 4-5 hours after. I pray God answers you. Believe me when I say there's a difference when you carry your baby yourself. May the Lord grant you your heart desire in Jesus name, Amen!!!
I don't think you should focus on your chances, focus on possibilities. Surrogacy is a fine option if you can afford it. Be sure that your surrogate understands how dear the process is and is willing to abide by the rules...no sex, bed rest, cerclage etc. I'd say take some time off to cool off with hubby and pray about your decision. This IVF thing relies heavily on your mindset and faith. Do not give in to fear at all.
ReplyDeleteThe Bible says As a man thinketh in his heart So is he. Work on ur mind, thoughts and words. Do not allow fear. Silence all fear and doubt. Feed on Gods word and postive stories on women who have overcome this. You will overcome according to ur faith. If u want to do surrogacy, do it out of convenience and cos u have the means, not out of fear. God has not given u the spirit of fear. Fear opens the door to the enemy and u have to deal with that fear around ur pregnancy and childbirth. So it doesn’t give the enemy a foothold to attack in anyway now or in the future. The Bible says that “Perfect love cast put fear. He who fears has t been made perfect in love”. Also “God hasn’t given us the spirit of fear but love, power and sound mind” A good way to deal with fear is to Focus on, boast about/declare and rest in God’s love for u. Make sure ur mind is sound and keep growing ur spiritual power (by praying, speak in tongues if u can, reading the Bible, listen to sound doctrines, also pray with ur husband if possible one shall chase a thousand and two shall chase ten thousand, get other faith filled believers and pastors to pray/agree with u etc). Also ask God to empower ur mind, spirit and body and bring them in alignment to His plan for u , one of which is to be fruitful and have ur children, and also u will have a clearer understanding of what His Will is in this case (not Ur will or the opinion of men). You can do and be all things through Christ who strengthens u. It shall end in praise in Jesus Name
ReplyDeleteI have a very strong feeling you gonna laugh hard soon n not via surrogacy
ReplyDeleteFaithful father please come through for your daughter... May God guide and continually bless you in all apheres.. Thank you for all you do.
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