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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
IN A DILEMMA.
I’m currently in a dilemma, I really wish I can confront both my husband and his side piece, thou my husband knows I’ve found out about their relationship but he is forming ignorance..
I’m currently in a dilemma, I really wish I can confront both my husband and his side piece, thou my husband knows I’ve found out about their relationship but he is forming ignorance..
I'm currently pregnant and next month is my due month and I don’t want anything to affect me health wise so I decided to shut the whole thing from my mind for now, but no matter how hard I try, I see my husbands side piece almost everyday because she lives close to our house and she is a married woman with kids, and from what I saw she is not the only side piece.
I just want to deliver safely, I don’t know what to do because people on the street are already gossiping about them.
I don’t know where my marriage is headed but I’m open to suggestions please...
*Hmmmm, your hubby's side piece lives around you? How low!
Please for your mental health, blank this from your mind and think about your child that is arriving soon... No need to give yourself high blood pressure.
My final advice is that you concentrate on your baby and yourself and ignore the side talks and gossip, forget about where your marriage is headed and focus on things that give you peace of mind.
Madam just calm down till you deliver,they are not worth your stress plsss
ReplyDeleteThis story is similar to what happened in my area.. My immediate neighbor at my shop, her husband was strafing our next neighbor. She was pregnant at the time and discovered from her husband phone.
DeleteIt was so hot. I didn't understand what was happening because I don't understand Yoruba..
She was at war with her husband and stopped responding to our neighbor greetings..
She had to forget the nonsense and concentrate on delivery.
After she delivered, she forgave the lady. Started responding to her greeting and everything died off.. 😔
I don't pray for such situation because I don't know how I would react..
Let your peace be paramount to you and safe delivery.
Madam just focus on yourself for now. Ignore them,you need your all your focus on your unborn baby.
DeletePlease, just calm down and have your baby in peace. Even after putting to birth just face yourself and child. Because from all indication, you are married to a dog. Yes, he's a Dog!! Any man, married or single that has the mind to sleep with another man's wife, believe me when I tell you that that person is a dog!!
DeleteMarried women are so shameless these days.
I'm single and I respect myself, have not had sex in years now. Like wise the single ladies I know around here, they respect themselves... But you see married ones? Hmmmmmm... Omo, na wa o!
Madam, take good care of yourself and baby. I wish you safe delivery.🙏
Such guts,effrontery and temerity..Your husband is brash and it's left for you to decide what to do..
ReplyDeleteGenius, this your grammar na ogbonge 😁👍
DeleteMarried women being side chics to married men.hahahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteWhat's funny?
DeleteBB na that one dey reign now. God have mercy!
Delete@Anon 15:30, it is very funny. You'd typically expect that the side chic would be a single lady, but these days married women are competing with single ladies for side chic duties, lol.
DeleteI'm sure the reason for this is that they know they both have something to lose if the try to spill. Also, it they can keep it more coded.
It will not be easy to do, but try and focus on yourself for now, at least until you deliver.
ReplyDeleteIf possible I will suggest you go to your parents (if they stay close) until your deliver, since you say your hubby doesn't even care about how you feel.
I think your time away from him would give you clarity on what to do
This is just a suggestion dear
Deliver and take care of yourself and your baby.. pray for Your husband for God to deliver him from all the side chicks
ReplyDeleteGood piece of advice. What most of the ladies do not understand is that the spiritual controls the physical.
DeleteYour husband is in captivity and this is where love is made manifest. But foremost, you must be born again;
that is give your life to Christ to be able to stand the chance of freeing him.
Afi war room.
DeletePoster, abeg pray for urself, pray for ur success, pray for ur child. Pls focus on urself abeg.
Anon 15:31,
DeleteThere is nothing spiritual about this. He likes tasting other ponyor and that's all.
Poster don't bother praying about it. Your husband will change when he made up his mind do be responsible.
Cheating will only reduce among married men when their wives start handling cheating the way men handle their cheating wives, but the issue is, how many married women are financially capable to make the move like men.
Absolute trash!
DeleteWould he pray for her if it were vice versa???
If anyone is still wondering why majority have brazen guts to have extra marital affairs, this is the precise reason!!!
No consequences whatsoever!
Why do people tell women to pray for their husband's wandering penis. If it's a woman that cheated now, you will call for her head. Yesterday's chronicle is a good example. Mtcheeeeew. Please channel the same energy both ways. Thank you.
DeleteWhich one is that he is in captivity??? He is just a randy goat. So the woman should spend her time praying for the he goat??? Pls Nigerians stop ascribing all things men do to spiritual causes. A bad man is a bad man!!
DeleteThis is becoming highly disgusting!! Why are people cheating like an Olympic event or going out of style...Cheating with a next door neighbour...Its gonna be tough but please face your pregnancy and focus on how to give birth in good health...I am utterly disgusted...Focus on you and your baby!!! All the best
ReplyDeleteKai don't they know that it is a sin and it is frown upon by God Almighty. The way people tend to leave their lives without thinking of heaven makes me wonder. Or do they think they will be confessing everyday to priests or to God. No more morals again. Shame to married women who engaged in fuck that is not from their husbands. Wished that Yoruba tango go hold all of them
ReplyDeleteSeems married woman are taking over the side piece issue. Congratulations in advance on your safe delivery. Please stay calm and allow your baby arrive in piece
ReplyDeleteI wish you safe delivery.......shit can hurt though.
ReplyDeleteMarried women are the new side piece in town
Not so easy to ignore but my dear that is all you need at this time. Focus on yourself and your baby,let him be disgracing himself up and down. After your delivery you might have idea on what to do. Keep praying for God to give you clarity on what to do and how best to handle the situation. I pray for safe delivery for you.
ReplyDeleteShield your promiscuous married friends from your husbands and wives oo.
ReplyDeleteAnd how are you to know your friends who are promiscuous? Then if you know why do you keep them as friends if they are not birds of same feather?
DeleteWell for this poster, she never said this lady was a friend but a neghibour.
If I talk NOW na wow,wow,wow we go dey hear everywhere! Well na your way! Men have no regards whatsoever for the holy matrimony or the wedding vow 1%. STUPID man feigning ignorance on TOP wetin go kill am laslas! I HATE married people cheating! It is the AUDACITY for me! Do whatever you want to do while still SINGLE...I mean we are all sinners and nobody HOLY PASS! But immediately you get married, took that vow,you have to STOP and be satisfied with your partner till you DIE! But nooooo...you will all be looking for death up and down! Make una continue...you will all get your reward!
ReplyDeleteMadam just calm down and FOCUS on your baby for now...yes I know it ain't easy but be BRAVE for your unborn child and yourself ok? You will be fine. When you deliver your child and both of you are fine..you can now DISCIPLINE and PUNISH your husband the way you feel like, pls come back and gist us ABOUT how you DISCIPLINE HIM OOO...HE SHOULDN'T GO SCOT FRRE FOR PUTTING YOU IN THAT KINDA EMOTIONAL STRESS YOU ARE IN NOW, HE DOESN'T EVEN CARE ABOUT YOUR CONDITION! VERY WICKED ADAM! PLS TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.
Stop rambling please. Men have no regards for matrimony, people like you always look for silly excuses to condemn men. Two irrational people who are married are fucking themselves and disgracing themselves. Instead of condemning their actions ,you saw your usual opportunity to call men names and insult them
DeletePunish him how?
DeleteAs small pikin abi criminal?
If she can't endure or talk to her husband to become responsible, the remaining and sensible option is to leave the marriage.
If she kill the man or do something stupid while trying to punish him, you will be among the people to blame her.
Don't let your emotions make you give careless advice.
Men have no regard for holy matrimony....Shey Na the women who are fucking the men have regard?
DeleteIf you want to blame...blame all parties involved instead of shifting responsibility on men only. Abi the married women spreading their legs to take pípé no get blame?
And why should she discipline her husband? Why can't she initiate a divorce instead if she is not happy about it.
Àwọn feminist gang with a vengeful blood against the same things that they were guilty of.
Abi no be the same blog that many women fuck married men? Mtschew.
You all shouldn't mind @A girl with no name. Just go read all the advice she was dishing to a married woman who cheated on her husband and got pregnant in yesterday's chronicle. Today she is coming to talk about married man who is cheating should be disciplined by the wife.
DeleteMy dear you don't need to stress your self over them just concentrate on your self and baby, but the rate at which married women are fruliking with their fellow women husbands is alarming.
ReplyDeleteOh so sorry madam. Please concentrate on having your baby. I know it's not going to be easy, please stay strong.
ReplyDeleteStella u dey say how low,some these men are mad.
ReplyDeleteSo too are some women! Go read yesterday's chronicle and come back let's discuss.
DeleteI sincerely hope that you are financially stable to hold down your own?
ReplyDeleteIf yes, after delivery find your way outta marriage so called.
If not, please, confide in your mother, that is if you have a close relationships with your mother and family, you need the love and support of your family now than ever before.
Please avoid sleeping with that husband of yours for now, and avoid more babies too.
Marriage is like a parcel, sometimes you open it and you will be joyous, some other people might open theirs and it will be tears and pains.
But in all, I know that God will surely help you to navigate the trying times in your marriage.
Dem go hear? Another pregnancy loading next year. African women with low self esteem.
DeletePls stop sleeping with him to avoid contacting incurable disease, don't sleep with him again in your condition, STDs are dangerous to babies in the womb. You can lose your baby or give birth to a deformed baby.
DeleteMadam ignore dem for now.
ReplyDeleteFocus on you & ur baby.
One day for the thief one day for the onwer
Madam shift abeg.its normal.my wife knows three of my side chicks.she used to buy them gifts .
ReplyDeleteAnon 16:31, u are joking right?
DeleteThis one needs replies. Attention seeking twat!
DeleteWow!! You dey try, weldone.👍👍👍
DeleteTell her husband and let your husband know
ReplyDeleteDear poster, I would advice you same way I would tell myself if I was in your shoes.....
ReplyDeletePack your bags and leave!!!!!!
Yeah, I know it sounds crazy.....
But you see, your husband has no values as a person!
Haaaaa, how can he be staffing a married woman!!!!!! And your neighbour for that matter, mtchew that's the height of it
You see, cheating is a deal breaker to me because I lost my both parents to aids back then.
My dad was a good father and a very kind man, but his flaw was being Randy...... Me, I am very scared of STDS, so I married as a virgin!
I Can't imagine, someone bringing any parcel home to me (infection) because I fit commit Murder!
Men like your husband don't have self control ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Married woman Kwa, hiaaan!
Who knows the one the woman's husband is even doing
Goodluck Sis...
E-hugs
This is what I would do too and I already told my hubby. Cheat and forget the marriage.
DeleteI will leave his cheating ass, I detest cheating and will never cheat on my husband.
If men are made to realise that the same thing they do to their cheating wives will happen to them if caught, cheating will reduce. Unfortunately, many women do not have the financial means and family support to cater for their kids alone or even live as single parents in peace. Our society keep mocking single mothers and making them feel inferior. But me I don't care o. I will leave him. Thank God I have only two kids and a skill that I can survive on.
Use style let the married woman’s husband know and catch them. You then take it from there. No bad done to a side chick is too much.
ReplyDeleteYes I love this. Pretend for him and tap his phone so you can know their movements. Then use another sim card to inform the husband of their meeting and let him catch them. Any punishment the man dishes out to your husband and his sidechicks, they both deserve it, don't even pity them and back out. After that, you can now take your decision on the marriage
DeleteWomen forever fighting in thier own power. Actions that have deep tap root in the spiritual is what women always fight physically.
ReplyDeleteMadam, for the now, concentrate on singing praises to God. Sing extensively until you bring forth your child/children. Singing to God brings his presence fully into your life. This will make you see all problems around you as fickle.
In addition, forget about those women. They have 0% fault in this issue. If your husband didn't go to them, they won't be with him. The main person with the problem is your hubby. Whether they used means or not to hold him is inconsequential. The thing is, he paved a way for the foolishness to breed. Did they use rope to tie his neck and drag him? He used his 'three' legs to approach them and they took it up from there.
We women should STOP fighting side chicks and concentrate on the 'oke-okpa' that went after them.
Pray. God is waiting for you to ask so that he will help you . Use the blood of Jesus and the fire of God to pursue all those women with utmost speed, out of your neighborhood and out of his life forever. Let every other woman appear like a hipopotamus in his eye henceforth.
By the way, I hope you've come to equity with clean hands? I hope you haven't sown any seeds of unfaithfulness in the past in another woman's home? Because, no matter what people say, karma works big time! Genesis 8:22 says as long as earth remains, seed time and harvest will not cease. Therefore, make your ways right with God. Repent of any sins in your life. Then pray aggressively. Remain prayerful after that. God bless you.
"....let every other woman appear lik a hippopotamus in his eye henceforth" you never see anything yet. Some men go still fuck hippopotamus.
DeleteWhere are those people shouting Married woman should look HOT. The new trend in town now is that, most married women dress as if they are single, wearing Bikers shorts up and down, opening breast, leggings with short tops sampling their bum bumbum... Ok o They are now Hot for their married counterpart
ReplyDeleteMy sister please blank them and focus on yourself and unborn baby. Mine abandoned me with barely 2yrs baby and 6 month pregnancy after rubbishing my name to the whole compound and street people. To make matter worse he was still coming around with girls just to prove he was a man and can do anything as it is men world na I just pretended I didn't notice and try to live my life as if no one was around. I guided my health jealousy because I knew that was his target. 2 months after I put to bed I bought a car and did everyone SHUTUP. Why am I saying this is remain calm and plan your exit. Don't allow anyone kill you. Live your life like no one exist. If I could survive all that my ex did to me you can survive too. Lot of love and safe delivery.
ReplyDeleteWow!
DeleteThank God for you.
Every woman surely needs to be financially stable, honestly, it makes life easier when the men starts misbehaving.
Thank God for you Anon 17:27.
Keep your head up, you are a queen.
Pregnancy becomes a dangerous time for women, 1. they are more prone to domestic violence and 2. the likelihood of them being cheated on is higher.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing you can do about a cheating spouse, the fact is every adult has their free will and own their body to use it as they please. The betrayal is painful but you are not at fault and even while the neighbors are talking remember that you are the innocent party in all of this, and nobody will be blaming you so feel no shame about your husband's fall from grace or his counterpart's. |Do not indulge in any feelings of shame, there is nothing for you to be ashamed of!
Have your baby in peace and focus on your health and well being. Tell someone close to you whether it is your mother or good friend. Do not bottle that up inside of you and keep any secret for him because you feel ashamed, no. Always tell someone so that if the day comes when you want to leave the marriage the infidelity will be on record. Go with God
How do some married men cheat with married women when there are single and willing ladies everywhere? It beats me
ReplyDeleteNigerian men will cheat with anything that moves.
DeleteMarried oh, semi single, past participle married, dem must straff as the amunsu that they are.
Because sin progresses. I've explained this on this blog before. The more you live in sin, the more power you give it over you to hold you bondage. It melts out your conscience and clarity and helps you make more poor choices. that's why they are called spiritual strongholds. Anything you give more and more of your time to, you progress and graduate in it. That's why we are in an era of sexual perversion. Same way we can grow and progress in our walk with God the more we pray and surrender to him. But no matter how deep, God can deliver us. Poster, pray.
DeleteBe focue to yourself and your Baby that is on the way
ReplyDelete95% of men are cheat
No that.
Ignored them and be prayerful.
ReplyDeleteCatch them and do nothing. Don't even talk about it. When they don't know your next move, they will be confused.
ReplyDeleteCatch them and do nothing. Don't even talk about it. When they don't know your next move, they will be confused.
ReplyDelete