I have never argued with my husband not to talk about "fights" We always ask ourselves same questions; where are the "fights" people say will always be in marriages? Do not get me wrong, it entails a lot of work; discipline of the flesh (fasting), praying, being together and studying the Scriptures together. He will always quote this Scriptures to me; "Husbands, treat your wife honor and respect as a fellow heir of Grace, so that your prayers won't be hindered..." 1 Pet. 3:7
He says he wants God to answer all his prayers. ππππππππππ No baskets for him at all. That is my story.
@Shooter and Snarker You both will be so happy if my marriage is full of fights? Do I fight people here? Nne o, my marriage is full of joy and laughter just like I laugh here o. Jesus has put joy in my heart and laughter and songs in my mouth.ππππππΆπΆπ»
Your story actually swelled my heart with joy but Shooter’s comment just cracked me up for some reason. Wishing you and your loving hubby more blissful years ahead.
If you pick the system of joint account plus your personal account, I doubt you'd ever need to quarrel over money. If both parties are working and have sense, what exactly about work will u be quarreling over. If both are in agreement on how to raise their child, why should the quarrel over their parenting.
If both agree to do housechores and then split chores accordingly and also help the other person when he or she can't seem to do the chores at that moment (my husband still begged me to help him do the dishes he couldn't do last night claiming back pain π and I helped during my lunch break), why will there be quarrel over chores.
And as for sex, if we both have sense, there shouldn't be quarrel over it. I kuku love my husband too much to deny him and he me and when I'm tired and not in the mood, he totally understands and cuddles instead. I do try to make that scenario as rare as possible.
Yes, we are still young in marriage and we are not perfect but life generally is already filled with negative drama already, why create extra in ur marriage?
Presently going through a rough time in my marriage and all boils down to money...hubby lost his job again since November last year and my business hasn't been going as expected...πͺπͺ
Money showed me the other side of my man. When the going was good, he was great. Till something happened in 2019 & no more money. Jesus! Sometimes I will buy detergent and be looking for it. It will be that he went to hide it. I literally burst into tears sometimes. I grew up in luxury. I did all my vacations abroad as a kid. I was betrothed to someone I didn't love & ran with my lover. We were so happy till money finished. He grew up in poverty. When I ran with him family cut ties with me. My people poverty is bad. I still don't regret choosing love; but this other side is tough & too hard for me. He apologises sometimes that in their own side if you are not around when food is ready, forget it. Meanwhile in my side, we throw food and even have choices. It is well.
My own na food dey cause quarrels pass anything. I will prepare something today, it's too peppery, tomorrow, there's not enough pepper, day after tomorrow, too much bitter leaf, the week after this stew isn't tasting fresh are you sure there's no tomato puree in it, a week after, the ogbono isn't drawing you didn't grind it well., amongst other complaints. Before marriage, I used to feel like the belle of the kitchen, I was praised by friends and family and even strangers. I come enter marriage see say na Γ±os 1 food critic I go marry
Get a cook or secretly buy from food vendors in containers and store in the freezer. Then watch if he still complains. If he does this, know there is something else going on. Do not let anyone make you feel less than you are.
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DeleteNo, I can't relate.
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ReplyDeleteI cannot relate abi relationship π€¦π½♀️
ReplyDeleteHouse work capital yeah
ReplyDeleteMarried people please tell us.
ReplyDeleteNa lie π€₯.
ReplyDeleteThere's no point fighting when issues can be peacefully sorted out through communication and mature conversation.
Not married but i think disagreement over money is a common thing
ReplyDeleteNot when you make money that has a SURNAME...
DeleteThat kind of money that as you are spending;more keeps coming..
There is a kind of money you would make that even an atheist hearing the figure will shout "Blood of Jesus"..
@MARTINS
Hmmmm..i pray for such.
DeleteMy dear Martins na that kind of ego we want ooo.
DeleteExactly Martins
DeleteWhen the going was good we hardly have issues but now ehn...
I didn't know how it even went to anony sef...mtcheeewww
DeleteI claim that kind of money in Jesus name, AMEN!!!!
DeleteAmen i receive this ijn
DeleteI cannot relate.
ReplyDeleteUnderstanding makes it easier.
I have never argued with my husband not to talk about "fights"
ReplyDeleteWe always ask ourselves same questions; where are the "fights" people say
will always be in marriages? Do not get me wrong, it entails a lot of work;
discipline of the flesh (fasting), praying, being together and studying the Scriptures
together.
He will always quote this Scriptures to me;
"Husbands, treat your wife honor and respect as a fellow heir of Grace, so that your prayers won't be hindered..." 1 Pet. 3:7
He says he wants God to answer all his prayers. ππππππππππ
No baskets for him at all.
That is my story.
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Delete@Shooter gal
DeleteBye!πππ
@Shooter and Snarker
DeleteYou both will be so happy if my marriage is full of fights?
Do I fight people here? Nne o, my marriage is full of joy and laughter just like I laugh here o.
Jesus has put joy in my heart and laughter and songs in my mouth.ππππππΆπΆπ»
Shooter π€£π€£π€£π€£
DeleteBye Felicia πππ
DeleteANG my darling that’s not the case now, haba.
DeleteYour story actually swelled my heart with joy but Shooter’s comment just cracked me up for some reason. Wishing you and your loving hubby more blissful years ahead.
Yimu
DeleteAdd In-laws to that list.
ReplyDeleteLol !
DeleteYes,I presume. But I'm not married.
ReplyDeleteLovelace
I think so, but I'm not yet there
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing that I can't relate to any at all. It's just amazing.
ReplyDeleteππ i laugh in... itsekiri
DeleteNot yet, I never marry
ReplyDeleteIf you pick the system of joint account plus your personal account, I doubt you'd ever need to quarrel over money. If both parties are working and have sense, what exactly about work will u be quarreling over. If both are in agreement on how to raise their child, why should the quarrel over their parenting.
ReplyDeleteIf both agree to do housechores and then split chores accordingly and also help the other person when he or she can't seem to do the chores at that moment (my husband still begged me to help him do the dishes he couldn't do last night claiming back pain π and I helped during my lunch break), why will there be quarrel over chores.
And as for sex, if we both have sense, there shouldn't be quarrel over it. I kuku love my husband too much to deny him and he me and when I'm tired and not in the mood, he totally understands and cuddles instead. I do try to make that scenario as rare as possible.
Yes, we are still young in marriage and we are not perfect but life generally is already filled with negative drama already, why create extra in ur marriage?
The kind of marriage I want. God bless your home Joy.
DeleteThis is exactly what I mean by understanding.
DeleteThose making life difficult I guess are mostly those that don't really know what love means.
Lucent, I pray you get a beautiful marriage. Nothing in this world beats that
DeleteAwwww..
DeleteUnderstanding is actually the key to every marriage...
At the same time it's luck
Yes I can
ReplyDeletePresently going through a rough time in my marriage and all boils down to money...hubby lost his job again since November last year and my business hasn't been going as expected...πͺπͺ
I pray for Supernatural restoration for your family IJN, amen.
DeleteAmenπ₯π₯
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Amen
DeleteIt is well, things will get better by God's grace
DeleteCan't relate at all at all. Over to the married ones.ππππ
ReplyDeleteOver to the married ones.
ReplyDeleteMoney showed me the other side of my man. When the going was good, he was great. Till something happened in 2019 & no more money. Jesus! Sometimes I will buy detergent and be looking for it. It will be that he went to hide it. I literally burst into tears sometimes. I grew up in luxury. I did all my vacations abroad as a kid. I was betrothed to someone I didn't love & ran with my lover. We were so happy till money finished. He grew up in poverty. When I ran with him family cut ties with me. My people poverty is bad. I still don't regret choosing love; but this other side is tough & too hard for me. He apologises sometimes that in their own side if you are not around when food is ready, forget it. Meanwhile in my side, we throw food and even have choices. It is well.
ReplyDeleteGuess he didn't love you because of your money,as he is showing his true colour.
DeleteGod will open doors of favor for u guys..it is well
DeleteMy own we fight becos of his cheating ways,this one na chronic womaniser.Has degree in this department
ReplyDeleteMy own na food dey cause quarrels pass anything. I will prepare something today, it's too peppery, tomorrow, there's not enough pepper, day after tomorrow, too much bitter leaf, the week after this stew isn't tasting fresh are you sure there's no tomato puree in it, a week after, the ogbono isn't drawing you didn't grind it well., amongst other complaints. Before marriage, I used to feel like the belle of the kitchen, I was praised by friends and family and even strangers. I come enter marriage see say na Γ±os 1 food critic I go marry
ReplyDeleteGet a cook or secretly buy from food vendors in containers and store in the freezer. Then watch if he still complains. If he does this, know there is something else going on. Do not let anyone make you feel less than you are.
DeleteThank you anon 12.20, had thought about doing the getting from food vendors but I have been reluctant. Will give it a try once and see how it goes
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