Actress Annie Idibia called her Musician Hubby Tuface on her Instagram Insta- story and then deleted the post after it went viral
She accused him of sleeping under the same roof with his baby mama Pero Adeniyi and their kids whenever he is in the US and also said 'Baby mamas use your kids as an excuse for all sorts of rubbish'
Annie and Tuface got married in 2012 and they and have two daughters while he has three kids with his baby mama Pero Adeniyi and two kids with baby mama Sunmbo Adeoye
These people must have damaged Annie's mental health. So pero is head bent on destroying this marriage. 2face you for kukuma no marry na then you can be free to sleep with anybody that wants to sleep with you. What has Annie done to you in this life that you keep disgracing her? Why didn't you marry the shameless pero? I'm sure by now Annie would have moved on. Or you could have married them both together like the Delta farmer na. If not that the pero must have entered her menopause I believe you would have impregnated her again by now. Why cus yourself and your wife this disgrace? God forbid
ReplyDeleteAs for the leeches that called themselves in-laws, it’s obvious they can’t wait to scatter the marriage so they can fully leech off stupid “innocent”.
You are not in the marriage with them, you don't know what happens behind closed doors. Annie too go get her own for body. Her brother just made a video distancing himself from her. For everyone to have only bad things to say about you , you sef go get your own for body
DeleteGod bless you Fan Emmanuel. Why put your wife through so much anguish!
DeleteDon't jump to conclusion
DeleteJesus you are mean ooo look at how you just rubbished pero. Insulted her anyhow madam you crossed the line.
DeleteLook at how you are yarning dust like you are in the marriage and family with them to know all what is going on.
If you are an athlete I am sure you will always win medals because you jump into conclusions easily
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DeleteMy people say "onye patara nku ariri is na ngwere biara ya oriri" meaning "he who fetches an ant infested fire wood has invited the lizards to a feast" this is the price of fame for 2face, the consequence of the many seeds he sowed outside is coming home to roost, he sacrificed the chance for a happy marriage. That said, e don choke Annie finally, I hope she thought her actions through before adding his family to this mess. When you do this as a wife be prepared for the worse which is the end of the marriage.
DeleteMen, look up there again and learn, don't go out in your youth distributing your sperm everywhere and hoping that someday a woman will just understand cos we women in truth actually don't. This fuss is happening cos 2Face is trying to build a relationship with his kids and making more mistakes cos there is no way he would do that without hurting Annie. This never 80% does not end well. Guard your sperm jealously so u don't cry in old age. With all this drama, joy has left 2Face too.
Who remembers this song? Young man, be careful and think it twice, before you choose you choose to use your device so u don't have raindrops falling from your eyes. This was what he was singing about in that song. I know deep down 2Face realizes now that he made poor choices, I just pray God grants him wisdom and grace to navigate through.
DeleteBut fan, a woman with three children for a man you married?worse part she didn't marry someone else? You the wife should know u have a co-worker wife na. Cos whatever made them attraction to have 3 children has not died o!
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DeleteI will not blame pero
DeleteBefore getting engaged to annie, he was with pero weeks before.
What did she think was going to happen?
Thank God chioma left davido, sheybe people were using this marriage as a yard stick.
She knew these things
They aren't all innocent
Na wa ooh marriage wahala here and there.
DeleteInnocent disappointing
DeleteE ye re keh confusion!
Hell bent
DeleteFan thank you. Once 2face chose to marry Annie he chose to forsake all others. So why will he do such to hurt her? The worst part is the everyone is abusing the Annie meanwhile the 2face that didn’t keep to his vows is just there chilling. Life is not fair at all.
DeleteThank you o 16:22,
DeleteAshawo man like inno, I feel so bad for Annie, there is only much one can tolerate
@ Anon 16:22 Should he forsake his children as well?
DeleteWhy post and delete later
ReplyDeleteShame!!!
So you don’t vent and calm down later?
DeleteY’all shame folk for just about anything.
Annie you were warned before marriage ooo, marrying a serial baby daddy/mama is not a walk in the park. You will need to keep slowing a lot of shit all your life if you want to stay married.
DeleteI wish you didn't bring this to social media, just move on for your sanity.
Davido, Wizkid, Flavour, Uni, Timaya's future wives una dey learn lessons?
Any man that chooses to sow his seeds in different places is simply buying wahala for himself in the near future.
Perxian, you don't know me so...
DeleteMy status is strictly for businesses and I don't put anything personal on any social media, ok?
So I can't be caught posting and deleting except I have sold what I posted earlier...if you understand what I mean
Perxian, I disagree with you. We all vent and calm down, but that should never be done on social media because once out there it can't be recalled and the damage is done. You see this thing they call "self control", it is very important. It can make and break destines.
DeleteWe all at some point have got mad at our bosses at work and want to vent, but most of us don't. That ability to exercise restraint is what we should all strive for.
The problem with social media is that once posted, it can not be retrieved. This should be a lesson for everyone.
Annie deny the juju claims by your BIL.
ReplyDeleteThe issue on ground is that 2face is sleeping with his baby mama.
DeleteJuju claim is irrelevant unless there’s proof
I believe that juju, a woman that can have surgery to keep a man can do anything, I see all sorts coming to me to prophesy their life partners & his status, and their willingness to do just about anything to bring that prophesy to pass.
DeleteTotally totally fake. When they don't know how to defend their shenanigans, they either resort into calling the woman a prostitute or accuse her of juju. This is quite stale
Delete@ Eke Joy, you are right. But truly I am disappointed in Anne. Didn't she learn from P-square Paul Okoyes wife. Plan you exit smoothly, silently and leave. All this noise will not help matters. It won't!
DeleteVultures are better than some in-laws
DeleteWaiting to pounce
@Fan is it today Tuface started sleeping with his baby mama? Can Annie deny that she didn't know before she got married? She most definitely knew but was expecting a different outcome or thought he would change. Well, we can see how that ended.
DeleteThank u Eka, once they can’t use anything to abuse u they will say juju or that u are sleeping around. As for Pero I weak. I fear all these ugly Yoruba girls. That’s how one followed my friends husband till she had a child. Meanwhile the more he follows her the poorer he has become. Pero na die hard.
DeleteAnnie must have gone through so much. Having to bear and overlook certain situations is not easy at all. Not bad for tuface to go see his kids, but AUNTY Pero should respect herself. Person dey Mumu like this? The other lady that had kids for tuface is happily married and moved on. But pero feels it’s her right to always fuck tuface.
ReplyDeleteAnnie’s outburst is justified please. No woman will even allow such nonsense. Pero, you will always be a baby mama with no sense. Agbaya.
Married women, please learn to speak up INSTANTLY and stop any act/s that disturbs you in your home. Anyone be it in-laws or whoever that oversteps their boundaries in your home, express your displeasure immediately so they will stop and learn not to cross the line...this is for your peace of mind and mental health.
DeleteYou may think your are being a 'good'wife by keeping quiet and tolerating disrespect (trust me they know they are disrespecting you with their actions), but silence will just make you a bitter person, and sooner or later that silence will becone too overwhelming and you won't know when you finally speak up...and by then, you will be sounding and looking like a mad person.
Speak up and do you!, the world will adjust!
Anon 9.03, your comment just made me remember a certain banker who was at her wits end with her in laws. They will pile up dishes in the sink for someone who left the house at 5.30am, they wouldn't clean or do nothing.
DeleteShe kept quiet and bottling up so much until one day, aunty came back from work, snapped and broke all the plates and asked them to leave.
Pero can't respect her old age and move on. First of all Annie was the first girlfriend when tuface had nothing. Tuface became rich, pero shook head and started frustrating Annie. Foolish tuface was swayed by many women. He finally listened to wisdom and married Annie but has refused to allow her have peace.
DeletePoor Annie with no self esteem waited for tuface till he wifed probably because of all the years invested in the relationship.
Annon 9:03 chop kiss. You spoke my mind 100%. While I pity Annie, i also dont pity her, because women like her make us, strong willed, intelligent, no nonsense and courageous women look bad in this african society. they will continue to play dump until they snap. Funny thing is when they snap, the same society will ridicule YOU. Be wise women.
DeleteIf you are married and find yourself in Annie's shoe, meeenh e no easy o. Prayer no dey hold that side o.
DeletePerore calm down nah, hope scattering their marriage will earn you plots of lands and private jets in HEAVEN?
Bianca you are wrong, innocent was dating annie’s Cousin before she snatched him from her, which kain yeye first girlfriend.
Delete19:32 so how come the cousin has never spoken up?
DeleteStory for the gods! 🙄
Hmñmm nawa oooo
ReplyDeleteNa real wah!
DeleteThey're not about to crash. No abeg!
ReplyDeleteShe's technically throwing the blames to everyone but her husband.
A woman who has three children for a man, is still and always will be his wife directly or indirectly, consciously or unconsciously.
ReplyDeleteAnnie needs to wake up from her dream and accept reality.
It's always about Pero anytime she's ranting online . I taya for your matter Annie
Keep quiet. Can you take half what Annie has gone through?
DeleteGet your facts right. A woman that is not legally married to a man is not his wife. Even if she born 100 children.
DeleteOnly a mumu will see Tuface for who he is and still marry him, which kind yeye love be that? Shes not smart.
DeleteNa she open eye enter armed robbers bus, come still de shout
Tah, she ain't recognized as a wife both legally and traditionally, even if she born 100. A concubine is what she is.
DeleteA mistress/concubine she still is.... PERO
DeleteYou women are yarning dust. In the traditional african setting, the mother of children to a man, is his wife.
DeleteAnon 13:48 na lie you lie without marriage children can never make you a wife both traditionally or legally, ask Easterners.
DeleteEyaaah… she’s insecure about him being under the same roof with them. The truth is that under the same roof or in the same continent, a cheating spouse will find a way. She ran to IG in anger. No one really knows what someone is going through so I won’t judge her. May God heal their family. Sending them love ❤️
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ReplyDeleteYou dont sound intelligent at all
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Deletesays a nobody like you.
DeleteAnnie go sit somewhere! Where you not also one of his baby mamas?
ReplyDeleteYou wanted a ring and he gave you as compensation for all the yrs. Anytime he annoys you,look ring,drink water and drop cup! Don't disturb nigerians with your rubbish,you can't be adding to ppls stress when buhari's own is still there.
Marrying a man with with 5kids with two bby mamas plus yours is what? Chile,he even proposed to you while one was pregnant and you shine teeth collect ring.
What were you expecting? Ahbeg,ahbeg!
She assumed a ring will change a tigers stripes.
DeleteYou really hit the nail on the head.
DeleteOmo! Lord, I want marriage but you see that one that won't give me peace, let it not come abeg.
DeleteThats the point o. With two baby mamas and 5 other children aside yours it was obvious it would be a long haul. Madam drink water and be looking at your ring inugo.
Delete😂😂😂🤣🤣
DeleteYou are very right though.
Exactly! She would have moved on by now. How will you go ahead and get married to a serial baby daddy all because of fame and to be called Mrs.Idibia? I know she stood by him through thick and thin, but it's not enough reason to be his wife. Most of us suffered with and for a man yet we moved on. I mean these men are not really worth it. Now she can't have peace of mind in her home again.
DeleteAnd pero has to always be there with the children whenever tuface is around abi. How does sunmbo does it that tubaba still sees his children without messing with her. That pero is trouble ,she don kuku go do butt n breast surgery.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't know what you will face but you are so quick to answer yes to Tuface thinking his baby mama will delete forever. Madam you should get use to this and stop giving yourself stress.
ReplyDeleteTuface cannot stop spending time with his baby mama cos he has children with her, your constant complaining is driving your husband far away from you and giving his baby mama upper hand to see him always. Haba live and allow others live.
Immediately 2face GOT MARRIED (respect that fact) his baby mamas and every other womanwere supposed to DELETE from his life except his children. People should respect marriage.
DeleteFan, how possible????
DeleteFan go and delete them na. You think it's easy to see only the children who are below eighteen without the presence of their mother. Did he respect marriage.
DeleteLovelace
@fanemmanuel, that's the story you ladies believe, that once a man marries, he stops messing around. Pele o. Don't get it twisted. A man who was cheating on you when he hasn't put the ring on your finger WILL continue to do so.
DeleteSingle ladies, please don't fall into this trap. A man who cheats on you during courtship will most likely not stop because he got married to you.
I like your viewpoint E.C.
DeleteHer ranting won't change anything, she can't wish his kids AWAY, EVER.
Coming to Pero, what if she has really moved on and not necessarily having an affair with Tuface?
Marriage, children , wealth do not cure the stupidity in the mind of a fool
DeleteI know Annie's not perfect ,nobody is and she's not saying don't see your kids but being in same space with the kids for days! Haba not nice . Pero go find husband now.
ReplyDeletePero ain't ready to move on, she is still feeling slighted after surface married annie. Whatever she is doing is just to pepper annie.
DeleteGbam blackberry
DeleteNo self respect & questionable intelligence manifests in trying to pepper the partner of the person who rejected you and demeans you by giving crumbs
DeleteFor Annie to bring everything to the world,she must have had enough,and she doesn't expect her husband's siblings not to cover for him with Pero,as for the milking him dry she wrote about,she wasn't lieing,I don't blame her,if they want to separate,so be it,see insults from tuface's brother, totally unacceptable,he should face his own family and let Annie be.
ReplyDeleteDavido future wife I hope you're watching .
Annie that use to cover up even when bloggers expose the womanizer. She must have been fed up trying to pretend. That woman has been through a lot because of 2face that’s truly 2faced
DeleteThis woman will always be in tubaba's life.However weird it may look to annie,she should always keep her cool and stop bringing her marital issues to the public.If she can't withstand the heat,she had better get out of the kitchen.He married you woman.Cut him some slacks abeg.
ReplyDeleteMen be wise
DeleteProve 31:3
Only a sensible man will get this
Annie's mental health must have been damaged reason she rushed to IG in anger. Pero has 3 children for Tuface no matter how Annie tries to see it, she'll continue to be a part of his life since she's very single.
ReplyDeleteAnnie shouldn't have accepted to marry Tuface because Pero will always be in the picture whether she likes it or not. She's even lucky Sumbo is married if not her wahala for pass this one.
I don't pray they divorce, Annie really loves Tuface.
No matter how rich or popular not all men are a prize
DeleteIt is the quality of decisions that make a man
Annie, the question should be what man will visit his children and will not be in the same roof with them given he is not always in their lives the way he supposed to.
ReplyDeleteThis!. He spends more time with your kids than his other children so this situation is bound to happen. Any woman out there that is planning to marry a man with other children should accept the fact that those children and sometimes their mothers would still be in his life( the relationship might not be sexual). If you cannot deal with this please and please avoid such men. Do not enter and then start ranting
DeleteKnow yourself and what you can take
DeleteWow! I have always known there was something fake and insecure about her..Smh! Ogaju!
ReplyDeleteEven with change of name, you dont use to have sense.
DeleteBe doing like abiku hia and dia.
Why demean her?
DeleteEven twice a day, a broken clock is correct
DeleteStop expecting sense from him
Tuface no try abeg...Annie don hear whin for him hand.
ReplyDeleteIf she had listen to sound advice and moved on. I think she will be at peace with herself right now.
DeleteLovelace
Marrying a man with multiple baby mamas is a drama he'll. And to think some babymamas are dreaming of Annie kinda marriage. This is a reality check
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ReplyDeleteThat her mom's own is just pathetic.Like your mom suddenly became homeless because you married Tuface? Except she has got a health condition that needs monitoring, it breeds disrespect and it is wrong.. Why is Tuface's brother, a mature man also living with you guys?
DeleteI am totally against Annie doing this on SM but come Tuface, your kids are no longer toddlers or babies, why must Pero always be there when you see them?
You can lodge in a nearby hotel and visit them or have them come to the hotel. Not saying you should be enemies with Pero but sharing the same bed or roof with her is wrong, gbenshing will happen.
How you people dish out what you can never take amuses me. If Annie had a child before she married you, will you be happy for her to use that child as an excuse to be spending time with the child's father?
You guys should settle abeg, what a complicated triangle.
Thank you..Omo I am learning everyday here...If you know they did not like you, you for no marry into the family..Me I heard the gist since that Tuface dey kpakurumo with Pero even after marrying Annie and I believe there are more children he has sired apart from the ones we know...E get one person wey wan spill beans about Annie's escapades in 2019 👀👀👀
DeleteThank you CHISOM.
Delete@Ms Abroadian, Annie obviously brought the ish to social media because she knows that gullible people will side her based on 2Baba's record of numerous baby mama scandal and what not, she feels that her writing about how she wasn't accepted and loved by her husband's family and write about how they're making her suffer that people will ignore her and her mothers bullshits and crucify 2Baba and his family. Your husband's family doesn't like you but you went ahead and married their son? Son that has used you to clean up a dirty public toilet o so what exactly was the reason behind her marrying 2Baba? She's also complaining about 2Baba going to Disney with his kids and spending time with the worthless peru or whatever, what was she thinking when she opened her eyes and married a serial babydaddy? That the man will turn to angel over night or turn his back against all his children because he married Annie that swore to "win" by being 2Baba's wife either by hook or crook? Annie knew what she got herself into so she should enjoy the ride. I repeat, she should stop disrespecting her husband's family and face her husband and his miserable baby making machine of a babymama.
Delete@Phoenix, na mumu go open eye marry into a family where they're not liked/loved or wanted. As regards to the 2019 escapades, don't mind the druggie, she wants to come out and act the angel and tag her husband's people the demons. Na mumu she go deceive no be me.
You're welcome Anon.🤝
DeleteMadan Annie, i am my sister's keeper and i love standing up for my sisters but not when my sister fucks up biko. They have never accepted you for one day? Why then did you agree to marry Innocent knowing fully well that his family does not like and accept you? What is your mother doing spending so long a time in your matrimonial home? This said family never accepted nor liked you but you still married their son even after he has cheated and humiliated you publicly in an uncountable times? Nwanyi gbago agbagoo biko! Drag your hubby and leave his family not liking you out of you people's shenanigans.
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeleteI think it is inappropriate to wash one's family dirty linen in public.
My thoughts exactly!
DeleteThat's exactly my point and later trying not to dry it there....as you have washed it there, just kuku spread it there and let it dry
DeleteWhen you decide to ignore your worth and cast your pearls to swine simply because that swine is rich and famous, shit happens.
ReplyDeleteYou stayed with this guy as he kept disrespecting you just to get the ultimate prize, marriage. Well, you have done well for yourself in that regard; just wish you thought well of all the crap and baggage you will deal with because a man like Tuface can’t be expected to change, least of all when there are kids involved and he evidently still loved Pero’s bosom.
Wish women will learn. Better you build up with a man that knows your value, loves and respects you than hitching yourself to someone who just sees himself as your Saviour.
I see Annie sudden Duracel charge energised by Paul Okoyes wifes move, she sat down, removed her wig and said "enough is enough" my fellow women did it, I can.
ReplyDeleteI see her returning to Tuface after all this useless drama shes displaying.
This I have seen in my mirror.
Hahahaha continue seeing.
DeleteAnnie is supposed to have known and understand the reality she has engaged in right from the moment she tied the nuptials with 2baba in 2012. She should brace up and face it squarely than getting it out to the public. Knowing the fact that her man is a private person, she should be private as well. Looking at pero insightfully, she has great sex energy and sex appeal for a man to resist once admired. Annie be strong with this. No use ur hand destroy your glorious end. You are in a great metamophorical phase of your life, don't blow it up to smithereens because of what you expect and what you don't expect.
ReplyDelete- False prophet
Which nonsense sex appeal . everything fake . Surgery .She's not even attractive facially
DeleteA functional resemblance of reproductive parts and female parts is all a lot of men who follow women are interested in
Deletena so I sit down de look...
ReplyDeleteSame here..I don't even know what to write like this 🤐🤐
DeleteSpeechless 🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐
DeleteWe don't want to hear another divorce. Tuface and Annie go put your home together.
ReplyDeleteHow could she not know what she was getting herself into when she decided to marry a man with such baggage?
ReplyDeleteBaggage?
DeleteA whole warehouse!
I'm not even happy with this news, its so sad to see this degenerate into this topic show of shame, I don't know them personal but its obvious both parties are hurt and have wronged each other. This is not the time to apportion blames, whatever happened to conflict resolution. I really feel for the kids,; the trauma
ReplyDeleteThe kids and the baby Mamas will always be in the picture,Annie suppose to know this before agreeing to marry tuface
ReplyDeleteAnnie you see baby mama before you, you still went ahead to marry. Please don't complain inugo
ReplyDeletePray whatever it is for pesce to reign in their home... This is bad.. may God come through for them
ReplyDeleteTo think Annie is suddenly the new hope for babymamas dreaming their baby daddy will give them a ring. Well, they should know it won't be easy. And Falseprophet, stop copying the real Falseprophet from nairaland
ReplyDeleteOh dear Annie..for her to bring this to the public means she has seen enough.Tuface pls u can do better.
ReplyDeleteDem go dey alright last last
ReplyDeleteDon't ever do anything with someone that doesn't have 'regard or respect '.
ReplyDeleteWhy bringing family issue on social media? Does it mean there is no elder in Idbibia's family ??
Tuface has good heart ,his lifestyle keeps disgracing him.
This is Okafors law at play.. There is no way a woman with 3kids for your husband will totally look away.. Its a case of we both die there.. May God help you Annie.
ReplyDeleteCould it be Tubaba got married to Annie out of pity or compensation because she stood by him all through the days of lirru beginning? So Pero has not moved on since baba got married to Annie? God see them through...
ReplyDeleteSeriously I blame Annie in Al this for getting married to a man with baby mama baggages like tuface probably cos of fame, don't tell me love biko.
ReplyDeleteThank God chioma pulled out from David cos her own for eh
It's well
Promiscious partners are not a prize no matter how charming they are
DeleteSee suppressed jealousy and resentment out to play.
ReplyDeleteAll of a sudden, Annie is the problem.
I won’t blame you Nigerian women, because you guys go through a lot, the repression is so much, that most of you resort to projection in the name of advice, concern, etc etc.
I hope you guys are freed from your patriarchal slavery, at some point, so you people can enjoy life in colours, have freedom to express yourselves sexually and the ability to chase your dreams relentlessly, without thinking about the influence it will have on your suitability for marriage in future.
You guys carry men and what they think about you, on your heads so much that it’s sad and unfortunate.
How can a lot of women mask their joy and glee in the name of blaming Annie? An overwhelming proportion is heaping blames on her is done out of repressed jealousy and contempt but a lot of you don’t even know that.
No one asked you to slow your life down, or act ‘decent’, so as to keep a man, or increase your chance of settling down, to come here and chant, “I told you so”, when someone who appears to have a better life than yourself, experiences a down period.
I can’t believe you guys are just here waiting, just to say “I told you so”, this is extremely toxic and sad.
Annie, Oshee,, aunty “I’m not a feminist”, how are you enjoying patriarchy? I hope you collect yourself together and MOVE, before you lose your mind completely.
You moved on and was doing okay for yourself, as an independent film maker, you still have that hustle in you and this is a great period for female film makers. Dust your files and get to work! 2Face has defined a lot of your life, you should save the rest for yourself; it’s not TOO LATE.
You can start all over and forfeit it all! You have it in you.
Your head dey shake seriously. Look at the gibberish you typed as a console to your self. Your last paragraph was what they told her before marrying Innocent but she refused to listen. You are here throwing unwarranted jabs at people's opinion which you alluded to. Confused being.
DeleteLovelace
If the shoe fits, by all means wear it, please dear.
DeleteI wonder why you are triggered.
Big stout orsmall stout?
DeleteGod bless you Anon 14:05.
DeleteThe trauma and drama from this complicated family life on all the parties involved: Annie, Tubaba, baby mamas, children within and outside the marriage can only be imagined.
ReplyDeleteAnnie protected this part for many years. I bet this post and delete outburst came from a place of pain. In the interests of their love and all the children involved I hope a middle ground can be found and peace restored. I don’t envy anyone of them, geskiya
This is why I am not entering any war zone for anyone's affection. She fought the good fight, got the ring, got the title and see here now. Marriage does not change a person's nature and a man who wants to explore will do so whether he is wedded or not.
ReplyDeleteIf she brought it for the world to know her home life is upside down and not the bed of roses that those social media posts indicate then I know she is a woman in deep pain. Annie, get a therapist and go to marriage counselling. You chose that man, you knew what he was about, and also you live in a country where men can have multiple wives.
I wish you all the best and hope that you have good friends and a support system in your life who will be there for you in your period of pain.
Dear Annie, please don't give Pero the shamless woman the satisfaction of breaking up your marriage, then she marrying tuface.
ReplyDeleteI understand you couldn't take it anymore that was why you vented out...you are human.
As for the inlaws,it is what they will eat that they are fighting for..which should be an eye opener for you to begin to safe your own money and have all your investments in your name.
I am a married woman, and I am ashamed for Pero who was still technically married to her ex husband before she started to fool herself with a younger single guy because she comes from a rich home.
In marriage, so much goes on in the bedroom that is not whispered out. Tuface MIGHT have assured her he won't have any intimacy with the shameless Pero.
Women! It HURTS very much to be taken for a fool.