TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS.

 Hailings...........

IN HOUSE MEMO.

How the go they go? Hope the hustle is making sense small small? ...Some people have stopped commenting since the giveaway ended...Hahahahahahaha ...I hope you will not reappear during another giveaway cos you wont get it oh...ehen, I just dey talk now down.

I watched a movie where an air traffic control man made an error and there was a plane crash were almost three hundred people died...He changed town and changed identity but one of the person who lost family tracked him down and needed him to say Sorry but he kept screaming ''what are you doing here, i will call the Police, go away my wife and son are here.''.. The man showed him a photo of the wife and daughter he lost and told him ''Nobody said sorry''...

This man screamed at him ''I will call the Police'' and hit the photo from his hand.

The angry man killed him for not saying sorry and went to Jail for 15 yrs. he was released on good behaviour and the son of the man he killed tracked him down and wanted to shoot him in the head.....He told him '' I understand that you have to do this, I know how you feel but i want you to know that I am deeply sorry''

The son broke down crying and let him go saying '' I was not raised to kill''. ...... The story is a true story.

The morale? Sorry changes everything. I learnt a lot from this story and will henceforth never fail to say sorry even when i am right...The word I AM SORRY heals..

This is me saying I am sorry to anyone who might be angry with me for reasons best known to them....Please forgive me!

Have a nice day!

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PINKYS CORNER

There is something about social media. It breeds love, adoration, envy or hatred. There is that spectrum. I forgot to add irritation. That’s about the spectrum of feelings people have for our many posts here.


When you see people always partying having a good time, always celebrating, it can unconsciously put you under pressure. You also want to be celebrated or celebrating. Make dem know say, you sef dey do well. For others, it brings a hiss. Na only dem? Or you tag them show offs and such.


There is nothing wrong with having those feelings. You are human. You know what is wrong? Negatively acting on those feelings and allowing it to be the basis of your action. Many that indicate they don blow here are living their reality. They have. They want you to know it. They have earned their bragging rights. It is what it is.


Also a number are struggling like you. Here for them is an opportunity to create an avatar of a desired reality and seek significant recognition. Nothing bad in depicting a desired growth. The thing is, both have CONSEQUENCES. You can’t very well be a millionaire here and expect people not to want a part of your wealth. Or expect family not to ask you for drops. Is it right? I don’t think so, but it is what is again. The one you should not do is big yourself up with debts and or illusions that cause you problems. When you blow, dem go know. Na matter of time.




Be smart and wise in your doings and don't go beyond your power or finances. Cut your clothes according to your size(that's what people say) but it is what it is..*Cut your clothes according to the available materials*(If you know you know). Material wey fit do only boxers, you go use am do trouser ( e no sure say u go forgive yourself if the embarrassment show face)

Hahahahhaha Newly married mans advice!

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BV SLIM SHADY SAYS KARMA DOES NOT EXIST

My story goes like this.


In 2015 during my NYSC years, a guy related to me asked me to lend him some money that he needed it urgently to pay for school stuff. He promised to pay back at the end of the month. Before he asked for my assistance, he formed a new habit of always calling to check up on me. 

 When he asked for the money, I transferred it to him without wasting time. 

After sending him the money he stopped communicating. After a month , 2months, 3months I didn't hear from him. Not that I wanted to make use of the money immediately ; I expected him to call and maybe tell me "sis, I couldn't payback the money on time because something came up" . That was very bad of him.

 I went to ask him for my money he jokingly told me he would pay back on my wedding day. I was maaad at him. This guy forgot how he humbly asked me for the money as though, if I don't give him he would miss something. He has elder brothers and sisters who are doing very well in life that would give him money any time he needs it as the last born of the house that he is . The elder ones are way older than him. When he asked for my assistance, I told him "tell your elder brothers you need money na" he said he does not want to ask anything from them.

Not that he had not got the money to pay back o, the guy just chose to be wicked. Upon our closeness he still had the mind to do this to me.

Lol, when I confronted him, I told him "you will loose money more than this" 

 for where , my swear didn't perturb him to payback and he wasn't telling me why he was acting that way. I was reading my bible and I saw where it says , if you lend money to someone, don't ask the person for the money... I can't say exactly how it is quoted in the Scriptures.

 I had to obey the word of God; though it was hard but because it's God's command, I had to obey. After a month, I saw in my dream where he connived with some guys who were already my enemies to harm me. How those guys became my enemies ? Someone living in my compound not related to me but his parents were given free accommodation by my late uncle and his wife , and their house is very close to my dad's building, so this guy and his friends would always seat close to my window to smoke . 

I endured for a long time until it became unbearable, I had to go and confront them and the guys picked offence. How could someone related to me plot with outsiders to harm me? I found it hard to believe that dream and my dreams always happen the way I dreamt it if I don't pray well against it. Up till today I keep wandering why he would connive with those guys to hurt me. The same dream of those guys kept repeating itself and I kept rebuking any of such occurrence. 

My mums eldest brother who stays in Ilorin called my mum to tell me to leave the the village that he dreamt that some guys wants to hurt me. My mum called, begging me to leave Imo State entirely . I was the only one in my family that stays in Owerri because that's where I schooled. My parents were not staying in IMO State then, so I left to meet my parents.

Do you know that since then God kept blessing this guy ? He does excellently well in any business he ventures into. He has got a car, bought land in up to 4places and currently building a house. Things are moving smoothly for him. I forgave him a long time but because he is progressing more than me , he keeps forming for me and this makes me remember what he did to me . His body language anytime he sees me makes me remember the past i.e the money issue that i already forgave him for. Before he started making money, there is no day you won't find him in our house . 

When I mean progress, he is really progressing since that year we had money issues. It is only last year that one of the lands he bought had a court issue and this year youths went to demolish the house he is building. But those things didn't get to him. Money keeps coming. He is running legal businesses. Na now him dey shine pass self. This life, nothing like karma I guess


I never told my mum what happened between me and him. I like to tackle my problems without involving my family. I don't ask my parents to pray for me over anything because i know they are lazy in that aspect. I guess he told his family members that I confronted him because of money. I saw their body language anytime I went to their house to charge my phone when i finally summoned courage to come back to Owerri. Even his elder brothers kids stopped greeting me. I didn't care, I greet the mum and others and go straight to their parlor, sit and charge my phone .

In my mind - I just have to charge my phone please. When I'm done, I leave. Na me suppose vex this very wey them dey vex so o. They only started freeing themselves when my parents came back home and were always going to their house and interacting with them with free mind as my parents have no idea something transpired between me and the guy. I like my parents to be free with people that have issues with me ,I can deal with them by myself.




Hmmmm dont worry, it may delay but Karma is real and if it takes time he may not even know where it is coming from....

What a wicked somebody!

Wait so it says in the Bible that if you lend someone money, you should not ask for it? why not? where in the bible does it say that? Maybe those people who borrowed money from loan companies should send that passage to them..LMAO!








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