Monday In House News...

 Monday Hailings....

IN HOUSE MEMO......

You know how something wey you wan talk go hang your throat but you no fit talk am and instead you go dey do  ''Hmmm'' ''Hmmmm'' ''Hmmmmm''.

Make you no worry i understand. LOL

The BV that made a comment about wanting to bless their mum with the 100k giveaway, you made the comment inside one of the giveaway post i said people could apply.. Its either the spontaneous post or the in house news and you made the comment with your ID which i noted.. Please contact me with a screen munch of the comment you made to be able to collect the 100k waiting to be owned by your mama.

I hope this BV is not the once in a blue moon visitor!

My lovely hashtags in the spontaneous morning posts are about life generally and points at no one in particular.... I don't know anyone here well enough to make hashtags that will hit their nail on the head... 

END OF NOTE - The recipients chosen today for the giveaway should send their account details this evening.. even though they did not come into my inbox to ask for the giveaway ,God remembered them and chose them..... Thats what a miracle is, no one can explain it.....

Thank you.

Enjoy the rest of the day.

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD


I was informed about how harsh and terrible nurses and medical personnel can be or behave towards expectant mothers, this was a major determinant when I was registering for ante natal classes and choosing the hospital I wanted to birth my baby.

There are a lot of wonderful nurses and other medical personnel out there but truth be told, there are a lot of bad eggs. I was lucky to get the good ones but I have a lot of friends who got the other end of the stick.

Someone very dear to me told me about how she and other women in labour were abandoned in the delivery room. She said the Lady beside her kept shouting that the baby was about to come out. Nobody answered her. She had to leave her own bed to check on the woman and truly she could see the head. 

She had to grab hold of a nearby cleaner who went to hurry the nurses. Her story is even better than many I have heard, cases where nurses are hitting the woman in labour, derogatory words being used and all. The ones at the immunization clinic is story for another day.

I am sure many women at one point or the other have experienced or know someone who has experienced such issues. Please let’s do better. And to every amazing nurse and medical personnel out there may God bless you.




People should also show love to all these Nurses and medical personnel and they will get it right back...Most times they react like out of the frustrations that come with their working environment, lack of pay and ill treatment from patients et al.

They are nasty to the Nurse all through Ante natal and boom when its delivery time , think they don't remember? Some are evil but love always works...#justsayingoh







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GIST BY BV BEADS BY ADA

Good day y'all....

Some days back I was talking with my sister and she told me something that took me down memory lane. All 8 of us children in my family went to the same primary and secondary school ( the same school with primary and secondary arm) so we pretty much shared the same subject teachers. 

So I was talking with my sister, our last born who is the most recent graduate from the school and she told me some teachers were sacked and the school took them to court, these teachers are really old staff, I, the eldest, met when I started primary school with them. 

My sister said they where sacked because they were found to have misappropriated over 8 million naira from the schools account over the years, they were fished out when the administration of the school changed and an audit was done. 

What took me down memory lane was one of the sacked teacher, let me call her aunty B, aunty B was my business studies teacher and she was the one that introduced scripture Union to my school when the secondary arm was formed

 ( my set was the first set of students for the secondary school), picture this smallish woman who always had a big scarf on her head, no single hair escaping, always preaching and judging.

 Years ago, I was a small girl, 13 years old in JSS 3, I was seriously introverted with novels my best companion, home life was not so great then because my mum in a bid to make sure I turn out right totally ended up giving me a partly sad childhood ( we are very ok now, best of friend, she explained the reasons for her actions and I understood her, story for another day), so I was this moody but intelligent 13 year old that minds her business, I think I acted more than my age.

 I just started seeing my period the previous year and I was having a really hard time of it, the pain starts a day prior to the period, excruciating pain, vomiting and not being able to eat, the first 2 days of the period where really bad, I will be rolling from one end of the sitting room to the other in pain( thank God the pain totally stopped with childbirth). 

Understandably, I will be absent from the school those three days. Another reason for me to miss school was a little bit of truancy, we had a school bus then and that was my only option, if I miss it the thought of going home and facing my mum was unimaginable to my young mind, I will jejely enter the compound in front of which I usually wait for the bus, they had this gateman house that was empty except for some chairs, I will creep in, pull out one of the novels in my bag ( I always have one or two in there) sit down and escape into my imagination till it's time to go home, so period pain plus truancy, I missed school like 4-5 days in a month.

 One day aunty B called me aside and without any preamble she goes " that man you are going to meet is he more important than your education?". I was confused by the question, me? man kwa? how?, The next thing she said was " please just stop pretending like you don't know what I am talking about, how can you at this age already have a man in your life that is deceiving you, definitely you are no longer a virgin at this young age.", she continued " flee from sexual immorality and face your studies." 

When I was able to get a word in I told her that I don't have any man oooo, that my mummy will kill me, and she goes " spare me that mummy nonsense, you and I know what you do". Then followed about 5 minutes of "well meaning advice",  I was just nodding my head till she told me to go, I just went to a quiet corner and cried my eyes out.

Could you believe in S.U meeting that week this woman preached about sexual immorality in young people with her eyes fixed on me, that was the last time I ever went back to S.U. 

It took another teacher, let me call her aunty O, who sat down and observed then asked me what was going on for everyone to know the truth, sometimes I still wonder what they used to discuss about me in their staff room before they knew the truth. Aunty B started trying to make friends ( but never tendered an apology ooo) but I was not interested, the last time I saw her was two years when I went back home to have my twins so that my mum can do omugwo for me, I just pretended as if I didn't see her, I don't know if she noticed and I don't even care.

 for aunty O when I finished NYSC, I bought I hollandaise fabric and lace for top and went to her house and presented it to her,  she didn't even know my reason for doing this after more than 13 years until I explained, she was the only one that cared to ask and she gave me a big hug after I explained and introduced me to Boscopan painkiller and how to take for days before my period and it helped a whole lot, she also told me that whenever I miss the bus I should take a bike and come and collect the t/fare from her, and I never forget that just like I will never forget my experience with Aunty B.


When my sister told me what happened to her, I really tried but up till now I cannot muster even a shred of sympathy for her, if it where to be any other random person, I would have at least been able to rationalize their actions, because after all said and done, nobody holy pass, but I just couldn't for her, my sympathy instead is for her husband who is a respected pastor.

 This woman was still the S.U coordinator in that school till she was sacked, her car had all the religious emblems you can think of and I have never seen her head uncovered, I don't know ooooo, maybe she wanted people to think that she is always in the mood of prayer and holier than all, not knowing that she was busy abusing her position and stealing money from every angle. Let me add that I did not even have a boyfriend and my 2nd year in the university and s*x was even later. 

Have a great day everyone, and be kind to one another.




No need to rejoice that she is down...She was one of the people God put in your way to teach you how life works

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GIVEAWAY

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I have some used shoes and cloth for a boy of 3/4years old....some were bought used but neatly used incase any BV will want them..

Will just give whoever calls first..... preferably someone close to Oshodi Lagos......I can be reached on 08051162411

Surely there must be someone around you or someone you know who might need this? Collect this and reach out to them.

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