What is your view of a married person taking part in a reality show where the other housemates are single and looking to mingle?
In BBNaija season 2 ,a married housemate tried to get into a relationship with one of the single housemates......
This move made him very popular even though he did not win the money. Please note that his spouse showed support.
In the ongoing season 6, one of the housemates is married and catching her groove in the house and her spouse has shown support, the same way
What is your mindset as concerns this trend? Do you think its wrong?
Yes if the person understand the pros and con's of marriage AMD respect his/ her spouse
ReplyDeleteMichael of season 4 did and made us all proud
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DeleteNo be bisola give TTT Blow job. And he is still married. Tega was showing her back n what is d guarantee her boobs was sucked? Something wey no last 5secs
DeleteI don't think that should be a problem as long as you do not cheat or break your vows... also if your spouse is okay, then fine too.
DeleteI actually do not judge peoples marriages, as far as they are honest to each other who am I to judge them.
I am very open minded, I may not practice same in my marriage but I do not see the big deal in going for a show, if they both agree then fine.
I know a few people who practice open marriages (I can't do that) but I understand their perspective when they explain.
It doesn't mean the hubby is making money off his wife or vice versa. It may be a form of spice for their marriages.
Saga was questioned by NiNi and arin and he said "I am not mad, nothing happened,I dint suck her nipples" so I can't drag her.
I prefer a couple that will discuss whatever they are lacking and look for ways to make it better, than cheating on each other.
As an African woman, you don't throw caution to the wind because you want to trend in a reality show.
ReplyDeleteAnd where does being an "AFRICAN WOMEN" got us ehn? Let's stop this HYPOCRISY and think DEEP! WHAT WORKS FOR YOU MIGHT NOT WORK FOR ANOTHER MARRIAGE!
DeleteLet her throw caution to the wind! It is her caution not yours! Stop assuming for people! Let her do whatever she felt it's RIGHT! SHE'S AN ADULT!
DeleteIt is a reality tv show for public viewing, no one is stoping her from doing her but it does not stop my opinion that it is wrong if she allowed her breast to be suckled by a man who is not her husband
Delete@Ekele..is only your wife breast you have sucked before?
DeleteA girl has no name, with the way you defending this upandan, it speaks volumes about your morals i.e. non-existent.
DeleteLet her do whatever she feels is right... Shows how morally bankrupt and unintelligent this generation is. Isn't that the major ingredient for anarchy?? Sense really has become a precious commodity.
DeleteYES..........o A married man or woman should take part,it all boils down to UNDERSTANDING between spouses.
ReplyDeleteI really dont know why Nigerians want to tear down Tega,what if she only pretended to lead other housemates on just for the show? what if saga no even see the boobi??
no be TTT bisola give Bj?????
Make we dey calm down and let them be
That is if he didn't see the boobs, if he did " to me it is all shades of wrong.
DeleteEveryone is entitled to participate bin a reality show
Everyone
Una don start with what if,the question is is it morally right or not?
DeleteDoes it make it morally right for u watching BBN?
DeleteSuch a funny comment 😂😂😂😂😂 you no get wetin to write again abi
DeleteMorally right to watch bbn?🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
DeleteI owe you one bottle of coke
No serious and responsible man would allow his wife to go for such reality show as BBNaija.
ReplyDeleteSuch reality show? I don't know why I find this funny! 🤣🤣🤣 but a "RESPONSIBLE" man can go? But just his wife can't abi? 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteNo responsible person should watch BBN, period!
DeleteYou can't be watching the show and calling any who participate in it 'irresponsible'
Anonymous 12:47... You deserve accolades for this your comment 😁😀😆
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DeleteAnno 12:47 Is the show suppose to be the way the housemates portray it?Every year the same pattern of truth or dare..Must the truth or dare be sexualize?So don't call people who watch the show irresponsible..The irresponsible ones are the housemates who partake in the Truth or Dare that is Sexualize...My opinion though
DeleteIf both partners agree and are good with the limits and levels each can go, why not?? At least they know what the show is all about and willing to participate. Their marriage, their choice, our opinions.
ReplyDeleteI didn't read anywhere that reality shows are meant for only single people ooo.
ReplyDeleteAs long both couple have an understanding it is fine. No big deal about it.
If both partners agree and are good with the limits and levels each can go, why not?? At least they know what the show is all about and willing to participate. Their marriage, their choice, our opinions.We moveeeee
ReplyDeleteThis is a funny couch convo but will be interesting.
ReplyDelete*The husband shows support but on what ground , purpose or lntent etc
*Should a Married woman or man attend a reality show? Well, some will say just for the money while others will say for publicity but as for me, it's a no no if truly u love ur home.
Note:. Some men can accept nonsense cuz of poverty but as for me, I can't deal.
That is why I seldomly appreciate the attitude of some great women when it comes to their home.
What do I know sef
TNK GOD YOU SAID "WHAT DID YOU KNOW SEF" this statement alone made me to rest my case and my observation concerning you!
DeleteLol@ A girl has no name,
Deleteyou don ready your ak 47
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 A girl is maddening
DeleteTWE 🙏🏽
The truth is that good morals have fled the building long ago. Africans used to know what is morally wrong and we respected the sactity of marriage but nowadays adapting Western culture seems to be the order of the day. More than 80 million naira is involved and some married men or women will let their spouse go and try to win no matter what is involved, they can justify the decision by declaring the time period they will be on the show a cheat period or term the whole process a movie just to come to terms with their decisions. For example the husband of a lady in a Facebook page I follow is trying to cajole her into doing internet porn, she is asking if she should go ahead because they need the money, married woman with children oooo. Money has made people willing to do whatever.
ReplyDeleteCan I give you a hug?
Delete@Ekele.... E-hugs😀
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DeleteThere is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong in it Big sis! The first time I heard Tega is married I was truly AMAZED! like we still have African men like this in the country? Wow! And she is doing a fine job! Concerning the TRUTH and DARE brouhaha...that is between her and her husband! If her husband supported her actions who are we to say otherwise!? We are too QUICK to jump to conclusions and JUDGE fellow human beings hiding under the banner "WE ARE AFRICANS" where has it gotten us too? So because we Africans we should be senseless and irrational in our judgement!? Putting mouth in what doesn't concern us!? I'm 💯 sure she and her husband has talked About it he and ironed it out but noooo your busy body will not allow you to see road and face YOUR personal problems! And to make matter WORST! Those condemning her actions do worse than her! The same WOMEN condemning her actions her into adultery 24/7 but noooo na because Saga suck her BREAST on tv is der problem mtcheeewww. SINNER JUDGING OTHER SINNERS FOR SIINING DIFFERENTLY!
ReplyDeleteSo because we want to be westernized ,we should forget who we are.... AFRICANS .
DeleteAnd where has this "WE ARE AFRICANS" GOTTEN US? truly I'M SAD! SMH...
DeleteYou're talking in the rubbish! Would we be having this conversation if she banged another guy in the presence of her husband in their matrimonial home? No! She did what she did on national TV so people must react. Allow people air their view in peace. This is not how to stan your fav abeg
DeleteYou're talking in the rubbish! Would we be having this conversation if she banged another guy in the presence of her husband in their matrimonial home? No! She did what she did on national TV so people must react. Allow people air their view in peace. This is not how to stan your fav abeg
DeleteYou're talking in the rubbish! Would we be having this conversation if she banged another guy in the presence of her husband in their matrimonial home? No! She did what she did on national TV so people must react. Allow people air their view in peace. This is not how to stan your fav abeg
DeleteYou're talking in the rubbish! Would we be having this conversation if she banged another guy in the presence of her husband in their matrimonial home? No! She did what she did on national TV so people must react. Allow people air their view in peace. This is not how to stan your fav abeg
Delete@Ekele what has we are AFRICANS got us. If we are truly AFRICANS as we claim why are we shunning what our fore father's did? Can you allow your husband marry multiple wives (If you are a woman) coz it's the African thing.
DeleteDo we frown at a man marrying many wives in Nigeria? Is it not an acceptable norm? They are shunning what our fore- father's did because they want to be like the OYIBO'S
Delete@Miss Aboki...so BANGING ANOTHER GUY ON HER MATRIMONIAL BED WOULD HAVE BEEN COOLER THAN SHOWING HER BOOBS ON TV!? BOOBS YOU DIDN'T SEE OOO...NIGERIANS AND HYPOCRISY BE LIKE 5&6 lol. Compared to what I read...I love my TALKING IN THE RUBBISH! AT LEAST IT IS MY RUBBISH! I hope I won't be criticized for it too 🤣🤣🤣
Delete@Nuola Tnk you ooo...it's only on ANOTHER people matter we will be claiming we are AFRICANS! But if e reach your side na "it's in the olden days" we go dey hear! AFFICAN PEOPLE I HAIL OOO 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteYour morals are clearly non-existent, what a shame.
DeleteAll these people screaming morals here will go abroad and throw their husbands under the bus.
DeleteAbeg let he who has no sin cast the first stone.
15.53 learn to speak for yourself and leave the rest of us out of your immorality.
DeleteNo. We are Africans and we expect people to be perfect, more so, we expect married people to act a certain way, be it male or female. We even expect people in relationships to act a certain way not to talk of married people.
ReplyDeleteTega will be evicted any day she is up for eviction.
Ehyaaa I didn't know you can read people mind for you to be so sure Tega is going home anytime she's being nominated..ayam crying 😥😥😥 PEOPLE HAS THE RIGHT TO EXPRESS THEMSELVES! Is a PITY we won't get der before the trumpet blow!
Delete"People has(sic) the right to express themselves" yet you're attacking people for expressing their views, stay one place abeg.
Delete"People has" 😂😂 Aboki be nice.
DeleteI do not have issues with a married person going on a reality show,but is it worth it throwing morality and caution to the winds all in the name of wanting to trend, Mike was a married man and he respected that institution till he left
ReplyDeleteAnd to think that he came second
Delete#manlikemike#
For me I see nothing wrong in a married woman going into a reality show.It is all about understanding and trust. Mike went into bbn as a married man and respected himself and had the support of his wife.He was even liked by many so why won't a woman.
ReplyDeleteA married woman going into a reality show,should respect herself and the marriage institution. Tega went to far,she should have chosen truth not dare.Even if her husband is supporting her now,what about her in-laws..in naija when u marry a man u also marry his family.
Sorry are you part of the family? The in laws? Or perhaps her sister? NOOOOO you aren't so what is the fuss about? Her husband is supporting her, how are you so sure her in-laws are not!? The mother in law might even been gathering people for her we don't KNOW! But we be Nigerians na always assuming and jumping to conclusions on top people matter!
DeleteHer husband might be supporting her,will her kids be happy to see their mum's boobs were suckled on live t.v? I ask again,is it worthwhile in the long run?
DeleteStop hounding people on their views, you this immoral girl.
Delete@12.42
DeleteWhether single or married, our body is the temple of the living God and shouldn't be defiled therefore if a single person can do some things and people don't raise eyebrows,I don't see the big deal in a married person doing the same. Tera's loyalty is to her husband and if the man isn't complaining,people should learn to mind their business.
ReplyDeleteSome couples indulge in threesomes, and we women have health workers(males) touch/massage our breasts in the name of breast examination and doctors checking our cervix in the name of checking for dilation.
People should allow others be jare
God bless YOU! Never knew I would still come across such intelligent write up!
DeleteHealth workers you say for health reasons
DeleteHow can you compare medical examinations to sexual activities? If the medical workers touch your breasts in the course of mesical examinations, do they also suck them?
DeleteCan we stop making excuses for bad behaviour and call a spade a spade?
It is capital letter WRONG O!
ReplyDeleteNo matter how much any of you tries to justify it, it is wrong
Are we not the same married men and women who can't bear to see our spouse chatting with some random young man or woman all in the name of he/she is cheating. So how do you justify cheating on national TV all in the name of reality show.....reality show my foot
As for me I won't allow my husband oh.
Nurses fix catheters into their male patients penises by while touching it
ReplyDeleteActresses get kissed and fondled on television too and no one complains
As long as it's not a sexual thing, let people mind their businesses
The nurses are doing their job ooo don't compare and it's not like they are massaging it
DeleteI am here to "Jot down tins." 😘
ReplyDeleteCatching cruise is allowed😊
DeleteIt's totally unacceptable to me
ReplyDeleteFor me , there's nothing wrong with a married woman or man going for reality show,once the understanding and trust is there.
ReplyDeleteWhat ever rock their boat, I know a family that got very rich through this type of life, the wife very pretty, when rich men (politicians) ask her for friendship, she pretends that she is not married, then she will plan with her husband, the day she and her client go to a hotel, the husband will show up with their wedding pictures and even beat up the wife of for cheating on him, take naked pictures of the man and threaten to shout for people to hear, the politician being a public figure will not want the scandal there by paying heavily before being released, my dear, people of these days will do anything to escape poverty.
ReplyDeleteWhere all they discuss is sex positions and all they do is
ReplyDeletefornicate and orgies.
Please nobody should actually attend that; it is a nidus of corruption
to impressionable young minds. Tufiakwa! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Nawah to think that you know what an orgie is 🥴😏
Delete@15:52
DeleteAnd Orgy is not an English word? 🙄🙄🙄🙄
That's why you murdered the spelling?
No matter how we try to justify this,its all shade of wrong pls.
ReplyDeleteIs it not worrisome that people can defend the act?she has parents,relatives,even if her husband UNDERSTANDS,I haven't watched the show since the 2/3mins I watched the first day,I am not against the show but even if her boobs was not sucked,what truth could she not tell that she took the path of "pretending" to get sucked?you say its not morally right to watch BBN,is BBN porn?they have diverse tasks that can be interesting too!
DeleteNo matter how you try to dance around it,its RIDICULOUS getting sucked or pretending to get sucked and on live TV!
What type of marriages are these! This is why the watchtower a.k.a Jehovahs witnesses do not watch TV! The many perversions they’re showing us and causing to be made acceptable is flabbergasting to say the least. I shock oooo even in BB Africa that Richard and Tatiana love story still remain shock me! Ah ah every person irrespective of status can participate in anything the problem starts when they don’t respect God or themselves ah ah nawa oooo fear of God is imperative! This is why the Bible said it is wisdom no be lie. Annony-me
ReplyDeleteWhich JWs don't watch TVs?
DeleteJehovah witnesses watch TVs, even big brother Naija
Even the deeper life members that frowned against Tv for years are now watching it
A girl has no name, easy o madam notice me.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind her, acting like a nuisance all over the post.
DeleteNa man be dat, no mind d Mr
DeleteTo each their own
ReplyDeleteI personally think it's NOT appropriate at all. Temptation is always close if you avail yourself. So no, I don't I will be happy if my spouse takes part in a show where it's been said that most housemates engage in sexual intercourse.
The same way I don't approve of long distance marriage
A big No for me but if there is an understanding no problem.
ReplyDeleteMy wife can go on a reality show but she has to sign the divorce papers first. There is time for everything. There are some games that are best left for singles as well as there are things that are meant for married couples.
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