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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
HELL HATH NO FURY....
Dear Stella...
Dear Stella...
On Sunday was amazing, My so called husband carried offering basket to the altar while his mistress stood on the altar and led the church in worship...haaaa, Stella.. The most heart wrenching Is my daughter is the one that pointed it out to me.
Hmmm, in this life, he will pay...either in life or in death, he will certainly pay....in knowledge and ignorance, he will pay.
The humiliation is enough....
Funny enough Stella, I didn't even cry which was so unlike me, I didn't even flinch, I wasn't angry, I tried to search my heart for pain but there was none.
I'm cold Stella, so cold....the past experiences probably made me numb...I'm feeling nothing. In my office this morning and i feel so blank about him. In my head the colour of his coffin is white with black handles, on the flip i don't want him dead.
The stress of burying him and traditional rites is not something i want to go through...make him a vegetable, then watch him suffer, suffer, gnashing his teeth, clenching his nails....this is more satisfying, he should be unable to stand or sit, pooping and weeing on his ass and me in the other room, listening to his muffled cries and lamentations...that would be my lullaby.
In his next world, even if a naked woman is in front of him, he would remember marital vows.
No one should tell me to move on, have you known pain, deep gut wrenching pain disgrace and humiliation?...I've endured and wept myself to sleep many times...he should have divorced me before stepping out. If he didn't, I'm going nowhere and this is a battle to finish.
I don't want to be insensitive to your pain, but Onweghi ihe anya hụrụ gba ọbara (there is nothing the eyes will see and shed blood).
ReplyDeleteYou are not the first to be cheated on, if all scorned wives killed their husbands, how many black 🖤 widows will be parading the world?
Please leave God to judge him, but if you say na you sabi pass, please go ahead. Anything you see, you take.
May God help humanity and the level 🎚️ of wickedness in it.
But why do you want to offend your God because of a man you know isn't worth the trouble? Why would you stain your hands for a wicked man?
DeleteI know that NOTHING hurts a woman like infidelity but when you act in anger, you hurt your heart and sin against your God.
Question is, IS THE MAN WORTH IT? You know the answer my sister.
Pray to God to heal your heart and leave the cheating man to God. YOU WILL ALWAYS LAUGH LAST!!!
MEN
DeleteA lot of you dont know women are wired differently.
Women take this marriage thing to seriously and trust you MEN a bit too much!!!
Someone in the comment section beneath was suggesting you quit lamenting like your kidneys were stolen to them its KINI BIG DEAL???
Women you have too many EXPECTATIONS when you get married!
Way too many ...OUR EXPECTATIONS IN MARRIAGE ARE KILLING US ..we kill ourselves by ourselves!!!
Both GENDER also marry male and female sumbags but what hurts us most is our EXPECTATIONS OF THEM.
I was like you so ANGRY ALL THE TIME BECAUSE OF WOMEN That may not be worth your salt!
NO BE YOU DEY Cheat oo...but while they are balling and having fun you are ANGRY, DEVELOPING HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE and KILLING YOURSELF SOFTLY over an ordinary HUMAN BEING LIKE YOU!!!
How I solved my issues:
1. if you are not home till 11pm I will make sure I stay away till 11.30pm. I will come home later than you do!!!
2. I will make sure that when you are home my mobile phone is engaged and I have conversations full throttle and only stop in between to talk every now and then.
3. Friday night when you hit the road with your boys APUOM! No be me una go kill o lol
4. If I catch any female jewelry in the car be it anklets or earrings or bangles I will not quarrel or fight I convert them to personal use, I GO WEAR AM lol. I MUST PEPPER YOU NA YOU GO DIE
5. All unnecessary financial support stops IMMEDIATELY.
6. I "INNOCENTLY* discuss all my toasters as a married woman before you and all the gifts they send will be shown to you!
5. Dye your hair fiery bright red and KUPU NTI! Leave this man alone ...if you kill him and the law catches up with you, your suffering on this earth will not end 600 years after he is gone na you go suffer!
switch off mentally from this marriage thing AND DO YOU!
Nne, don't destroy your life because of a man. If it pains you so much, leave the marriage and be happy. You can start by saving a lot of money from him, then plan your escape route.
DeleteMine did alot of emotional abuse on me. My parents basically started a biz for me cause he never believed l can bbear him a child. I am proud of where God has transformed me today. Just be happy with your life and see God bless you.
The essence of men in our lives is for our kids to have a surname, that's all! You can survive on your own, why risk it over an ineffectual baffon that doesn't understand LOVE.
A woman can categorically survive without a man. Biko, let goooooooooooooooo of those pain and hurt, for your sanity.
Anon 17:26, are you me? I don laugh tire
DeleteMy kids are still too young, so I m bidding time.
I m mentally off the marriage and I always think about going on holiday with my ex who is divorced to regain my sanity.
Trust me, no need to kill anybody or punish anybody.... just start life afresh by mentally logging off the marriage and making your happiness a priority.
I feel stupid for trusting the mumu man to the point of feeling bad when he cheated and betrayed me.
To think I married down sef.... Mschewwww
@anon you were right until you started hurting yourself in the name of revenge. Must you be married? Can’t you stay alone and have your peace? Your own expectation is killing you too. Make una breathe ooo
Delete18.07 Your own opinion your own choice diff strokes diff folks, Breathe your way she breathes her way. Bless
DeleteAmarachi kilode? Why not say somethings with anon? You showed us your face here. Why do you want people that can identify you in real life to know your business?
DeleteThis one wants to end her life over a man.....WONT BE ME. Dont u have kids to live for. You want to kill someone and spend ur days in kiri-kiri.
DeleteNo man is worth dat woman....think of ur poor kids who will be without parents while u are wasteing away in jail and father six feet under.
In the end those poor kids will be the victims. So better think well.
Yes adultery is painful but im for the school of thought that no man will make me commit an immortal sin and waste in prison cos he cant control his d**k.
Poster everyone has said the right thing. Let go of all the hurt. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you heal and kindly move on with your life. Vengeance is mine says the Lord. Channel this energy into making your life better and more profitable. If you say you are already a millionaire then aim for ten's of millions, hundreds of millions.
DeleteThat's the best revenge. Don't go the way you have written 👆 there but if you feel you still want to do something physical to ease your pain then put laxative in his food for two days. Let him purge small. He won't have energy for side chick again.
That inside CHURCH Adultery dey destroy/scatter heart o.
DeleteMEN won't learn aswear, they thought they would remain Young forever, OLD AGE is mainly a payback period for WOMEN. MEN STOP CHEATING.
@Madam, whatever you plan to do and God would be happy with you, DO it. If not, present it to HIM.
Those going through pains, may God heal, strengthen and help you overcome it in Jesus' name, amen.
I basically am shook like right now and this kind of thing can pain ehn
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your bad experiences with him and it be nice you so move on
Marital vows now look like a joke these days
Then the gravity of your own wickedness would be more than his own. Leave everything for God to do perfect justice.
ReplyDeleteOne thing is certain, even after doing all that to him, you won't still feel fulfilled or happy. The only thing that can give you happiness and peace of mind is to let go and let God be the judge
*Larry was here*
Yeah i concur
DeleteMy own cheated on me, betrayed me, tried to stop my progress.
DeleteTook a part time job of liasing with my enemies to bring me down, disgraced me as in, remain make I shame to the walk for road.
But I asked God for Grace to survive instead, my sister, guess what? God has lifted me so high, as I way beyond anyone’s expectations ... he is hanging around now refusing divorce.
The thing is I can’t sleep with him anymore, I see an enemy in him.
But to God be the glory! I am very happy and living the life of my dreams...... Jesus I love you
Anon 17:43 that must have really hurt, someone that is supposed to have your back now liaising with your enemies. May God continue to keep you, Amen.
DeleteSo true Larry. Poster I know you are hurt at the moment but think about heaven, does he worth missing heaven after the suffering and pains he has cost you. Talk to God for guidance and he will lead you aright. It is well.
DeleteVengeance is mine, saith the Lord. Why don't you take it to God and let Him fight your battles for you.
ReplyDeleteMadam, his pain won't bring satisfaction your way. You will always feel cheated on..
DeleteJust let go and let God deal with him.
This is the problem of women who trust too much. You think tour husband can not cheat? Before you guys clock 30years in marriage, he will cheat. I was one of those who can vouch for my man in the early years of marriage, but as years n kids piled up, he strayed, my heart broke. I took good care of myself, now he is tired, old and weak and expecta me to care for him? Never, I told him to call one of his mistresses to come n care for him, all diabetic and suffering. I'm off to omugwo biko. The house is yours. It better be clean before I return I 1 month time, that is what I told him. Simply coz I gave birth to girls, good thing they dont have his time.
ReplyDeleteHa! Please you just scared me o. I know we are all humans and as such,prone to make mistakes so i dont trust my husband too much(e get why) but omo,the thought of my husband getting naked,fondling,kissing and mounting another woman and even ejaculating is hurting me already. Ah! God
DeleteMadam, calm down! Indeed he is wrong but if u harm him you are worse. If u are so hurt, leave the marriage no need turning someone's child into a vegetable. Imagine if he was your brother and another woman wants to do to him all u have written up there. It's well but calm down.
DeleteHow is she turning him to vegetable?
DeleteWhen he was killing her mentally by cheating, he did not know abi?
Let other men look and learn how to value what they have cos in your twilight years, your family is all you've got.
It will take a saint of a woman to keep loving you after you've serially hurt her in your better days.
All these evil plan just because of marriage? How I wish I can change some people's mentality to see marriage as a no 'do or die' affair. I don't like stress at all in my life
ReplyDeleteI don't understand it myself.
DeleteWoman you are STRESSING yourself this much to plan a revenge? This deep pain you feel in your heart won't be quenched by the revenge you're plotting.
Why not do the honours of divorcing him instead? Let him bear his shame in church.
Me dat cant kill roach,i have to use raid first. This one wants to kill a whole human untop adultery.
DeleteAnd u think u will have peace. Do u know what it takes to kill? Your childrens father? Nawa o,untop what exactly. Cheating??? Why not leave since u hate him so much.
Hmmm, na wa o
ReplyDeletePoster, may God himself comfort you
It is well,but if all thses happens to him who will go through the stress if taken care of him? As in if he can't stand or poo, it will still bounce back on you, or else he will marry his concubine,make that one come dey pack shit.
ReplyDeleteBut this is so sad sha, may the lord ease your pain
If it's you they marry to come n pack shit, will you? That's why you see most old men lamenting when they are sick n weak.
DeleteWhich concubine wan pack shit,all those ones Na owo epo.This useless men knows o.
DeleteTi omode wan ba pa arogidigba,dem go know say dem get wife.
Tor, when I see some of these woman travelling for omugwo upandan I just laugh. Sometimes 6 months dey never come back....na really tell your mistress to come and pack your shit.
DeleteBuahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
Indeed I've always believed revenge is a meal best served chilled.🙂
Imagine marinating in your excrement and urine for weeks. Buahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Anon 17:30 that your smiley sef looks very mischievous 😁
Delete@19:36 Darling, it is!!!
DeleteWhat's this? Can't you just divorce his cheating @ss. Must you do something stupid to him? Na you know sha
ReplyDeleteThere is no greater judgement that await him, than that of domination in hell. If he doesn't repent.
ReplyDeleteWhy steal your peace and joy because of a man.
If it haff tire you walk away biko.
Use all these anger and pain , use all the time you have now startegising how to hurt and destroy him to better yourself.
Take your daughter and go.
Wow!Men sha...always thinking with der TINY 2inches dick! No brains whatsoever! If you know you aren't interested in a relationship again end it amicably vice versa! I know it's easier said than done but it will save you unnecessary problems and PREMATURE DEATH! Well...to err is human to forgive is DIVINE, forgive hIm if you can and move on but if you can't let go of all the pains he has caused you...go ahead with your plans because if I said I understand your PAIN then I'm lying. I'm not the one wearing the shoe and I DEFINITELY don't know how PAINFUL it is. Take care of yourself and always remember that der is MORE to LIFE.
ReplyDeleteI watched a video of a man who caught his wife having sex with another man in their home. This man came in with a knife,gave the man a few stabs before that one ran out but the wife? OmG,i seriously doubt she would make it. This man stabbed this woman any and everywhere -chest o,stomach o,neck o,as in everywhere multiple times. At a point,i saw that his senses were returning as his stabs were no longer as violent but i think i was too late. What i am trying to say is,in the end,is it really worth it? Let go and let God(i know its easier said than done). May God compensate you for all the pains you are going through. So sorry Ma
ReplyDeleteFor your own sanity and mental health madam go away from that environment. Stay away for a while before devil push you to do what you can't change. You'll regret it for the rest of your life. These things only sound good in your head cos of what you're feeling now, the reality of it is harsh and will hunt you forever.
ReplyDeletethank you dear...ooo poster please listen 😢
DeleteJust let him know you are aware. And hold your peace. That will torture him more.
ReplyDeleteLike someone said vengeance belongs to the Lord. Let God handle it. He knows how. He is knows how you feel and knows exactly how to settle it. Give it to God.
You didn't state how you got convinced after your daughter pointed it out to you. I believe you are sure.
Calm down and let God.
My dear, take it easy. Turn your pains over to Jesus, He is the only one that can give you peace. Please don't do anything to your husband, let go and let God.
ReplyDeleteIf it were me, I will leave him and have my peace. Forever is too long to be in regret, please have a rethink.
This is so painful sis.
ReplyDeleteLet him know that your are done with him and move on with your life if you have money to take care of yourself and your children
Al's let the side chic to know that she can go ahead and marry him that you are done with him.
And she should not forget that she is not the only one.
Poster I'm so sorry for what you are going through but please leave vengeance for God, He'll fight this battle for you and you'll have your peace. Doing all these evil because of one man isn't worth it.How would you communicate with God after all these..take your pains and disappointments to the feet of the Lord,and leave it there
ReplyDeleteHow can you be in the Church thinking so much evil about another; someone you once loved?
ReplyDeleteIf he did wrong, will you join him to do wrong? 😮😮😮😮😮
please take it to God in prayer. You will be fine and also fine peace in God.
ReplyDeleteI am speechless.
Even if no one knows, how will it sound in your mind that you're a murderer? You don't care, right? And being a widow of your making? Do you think your daughter that pointed her out will forgive you as an adult upon hearing you killed her dad because he cheated? It's very painful but let go. You can divorce him, separate from him or walk away from the marriage.
ReplyDeleteDo not make the future of your daughter difficult more than what your family is passing through. What if he dies and his family or relatives ask and get confirmation that you killed their son, will you and your children run away from the tag of murderer? The stigma? If we all should kill our partners on account of cheating, what of God we insult and disrespect in different ways daily?
Think through your concluded intentions. Take care.
I don't understand you madam.Your daughter pointed it out but have you made your findings to be sure it's true before you kill someone's son. How old is that daughter if yours and how did she find out? You claim you don't feel any pain anymore about his infidelity ,yet you relish the thoughts of making him suffer . You better move on with your life. Kill him and spend the rest of your life behind bars. Nonsense!
DeleteRomans 12: 17Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” d says the Lord. 20On the contrary:
ReplyDelete“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” e
21Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
What this lady did not tell us is that she "caught him pants down with another woman"
ReplyDeleteMost times, women jump into conclusions from speculations. So sad.
As in, did she believe her daughter's account without verifying because:
Delete1. She believes her daughter cannot lie?
2. She had caught him cheating with someone else in the past?
3. She had been suspecting him with the lady?
4. He brought the lady home where his daughter saw her?
5. He went to the lady's home with his daughter?
6. He went to a hotel to meet the lady and took his daughter along?
7. The daughter heard the rumour from someone else?
Madam Poster, I am not saying it's impossible but is your evidence iron-clad? Don't take a decision or action you'd regret in future o. You wey dey plan for your husband, you know whether God don talk say the man go outlive you? Don't make your children orphans because of "pepper body" abeg. If indeed he is messing with a church member and you have solid evidence, involve your pastor/priest/elders OR divorce him! If you feel the best solution to the situation na to destroy "your husband" while alive, then you are no better than the father of your child[ren] and I say this with no apologies. Think again please!
Women instinct is never wrong.
Delete@16:55
DeleteOnly God IS NEVER WRONG.
Only fools act based on instincts and not solid evidence.
The wise forgive and move on in peace.
see stupid questions, you think she will say all these and feel this way if she was not sure? idiot, i know you are a man that is why you type this rubbish...always justifying your cheating ways and stupidity.. poster, no man is worth the trouble. just plan your life and divorce the he goat
DeleteI feel your pains even from this write up. May the Lord gives you peace
ReplyDeleteDon't een understand the story. Your daughter pointed what out exactly? Did you catch them?
ReplyDeleteDon't do what you will regret later.
ReplyDeletePlease leave the marriage if you can not stomach his cheating ways , instead of incuring the wrath of God because of marriage.
ReplyDeletePlease take a walk .
Babe I feel u. I’ve been in ur shoes and wished worse on my lying cheating arsehole. I’ve seen worse than u wrote up there. But U know what? I’ve moved on. It wasn’t worth it. I put my all into bettering myself and today I am proud of where I am. Give urself time. It will fade. U will even wonder why u were killing urself over such a pathetic fool. Now put all that pent up anger into hustling for urself and see where u will get to. Good luck babe
ReplyDeleteAnon 15:45 u be correct woman inugo. Thumbs up
DeleteI wish poster will just let go, i know it ain't easy but just ask God for grace.
👌👌👌👌.
DeleteMay God continue to lift you higher than any scumbag babe.
Vegeance is of the Lord
ReplyDeleteMaking him a vegetable and all what not won't make you any better.
Think about your children.
Think about God's own vengeance against you,he goes on and on even to the fourth generation.
I had goosebumps reading this. May God comfort you, please don't allow Devil used you. Leave vengeance for God.
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry about what you are going through. Making him vegetable will not be worth it. Let me ask....what exactly did your daughter tell you and how old is she? Your chronicle is a bit confusing.
Your pain is justified. However, the desire to see him suffer is not. Revenge is a very slippery slope because it may never end and keep you trapped.
ReplyDeleteI always say cheating is a form of spiritual divorce, so in essence your husband has already divorced spiritually from the marriage. I do not know your situation if you are able to leave, but if there is nothing holding you back then set yourself free. You deserve better. If you cannot leave at the present moment then instead of studying hate, start studying an exist plan, stockpiling resources you will need, source land, build a house for yourself or however you feel you should move. Turn your focus inward and how you can set yourself in a way that you can move on in peace and financially free.
I love you!😘😘😘😘
DeleteExactly what I told my husband when he cheated, I told him we need to renew our marriage vow, the one we had no longer holds he was shocked and I mean it, until we do so no conjugal rights,small travel you don begin mess up we are still on it o pleading every night, yesterday it was consider this cold weather, just hold me small you know your body is always warm 🙄🙄🙄I just left the bed for him before he will ping me down nonsense.
DeleteYou go still gree na today. That day sef you go hang one leg for him neck
Delete@17:00 haha write your chronicles for the blog please, we need to learn. 🙏🏾
DeleteJesu! #jawdrops#.. I am speechless!
ReplyDeleteAll this men ehn,Me I’m just waiting for my own to comeback from his vacation,I currently pregnant and went for Antenatal,from the test results this man has infected me with Hepatitis C,I found out a week before traveling he was having an affair with a married woman with kids just few houses away from us I wish I can describe what this woman looks like with Eczema on her face,How are got to know,we both wait for bike this morning at the same junction so I got a closer look,my Horseband is so shameless,he is not with just the lady,over 5 girlfriends at a time,I’m just trying to stay sane for myself because us my condition and plan against when I give birth,aside from Cheating,Once he get caught in his shits he will start the game blame that mostly end in Him beating me,I’m planning my exit already,I think this marriage thing is not for me.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry about your situation. Please, your health first, every other thing comes after.
DeleteWhat, anon isi gini, chai sorryoooh just take care of ur self and growing baby, the lord is ur strength.
DeleteOuch! And married woman may have infected her husband too. Haaa...
Deleteyimu exit, you will still come here with same story when you are pregnant for the next baby and you will still end it with "let me give birth to this baby first and plain my exit" we sabi una, until he beat you to death you women never learn.
Delete17.12 there must be something wrong with you to give such a reply to someone in obvious distress. If you have nothing good to say, learn to shut up.
DeleteStella, pls post. Thank you.
I don’t pray to wait till he beats me to death,I believe right now my Life matter most,I don’t want you to understand,but I know I deserve Peace of mind which I’m ready to have
DeleteJust be careful he doesnt give you Hiv .90% of married men sleep around unprotected..
DeleteJesuuuuuuuuu
ReplyDeleteWhat did I just read?
On top man matter?
Sis, calm down and have a rethink.
It's not worth it abegggggggggg.
Take a chill pill woman and leave your husband. Keep urself busy.
This too shall pass. Abeg no kill person pickin.
Is it not better to leave and regain your peace of mind instead of wishing him evil?
ReplyDeleteYou said you don't feel pain anymore so divorce him abeg.
ReplyDeleteWhy you wan commit sin because of one useless person?
This is not unusual, not to say it is right in any way, but there is more to life than a faithful spouse or stable marriage... Leave him already spouses cheat all the time due to decline in moral values seen in society today. You have no right to make him suffer or kill him... Simply walk away... He no kill person! Relationship 101: never make a human your bedrock, never place high expectations on your spouse, they are only human.
ReplyDeleteWho says he no kill person? He's killing her mentally.
DeleteYou want to go diabolical and you call yourself Christian.
ReplyDeleteNo fear of God Almighty even in the house of God, your husband carry offering basket climb altar and the altar did not speak to his heart.
Too many evils being committed by Christians in the house of God.
Madam do as you please but know that you also ask forgiveness every time from God when we sin.
Why don't you divorce him on the allegations of adultery. Don't let Satan fill your brain with nonsense
Please leave the marriage and know peace. U are really troubled mentally and U need ur sanity. So sorry for what U r going through.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm oga i think a soothing and soft word is much needed in this case, but no p sha, every mallam to his own kettle
ReplyDeleteHaving those thoughts are normal in such a situation. Most of us who have been cheated have those thoughts but we don’t act out on them. Don’t worry. With time u will get over things and move on. Like was said above put the anger into bettering yourself and leave the fool to his devices.
ReplyDeleteYou just spoke like you're in the poster's husband WhatsApp group
ReplyDeleteChristian,clap for yourself. You want to destroy him. Go ahead and do it. All the sins that you have committed, how many times have you been punished by God? Shame on you, am sure you not mentally stable. The first you need is a therapist. So, because your husband have a mistress that you are sure of, you want to destroy him.
ReplyDeleteSee,the kind of child you are bringing up, you can not tell her to shut up. You want to the church to thank and pray to your God,you forget about your problem. Yoyo bitters.
Those who cover up evil aka tell the child to shut up
DeleteAre shortsighted
Ignorant
Postponing the evil day where disgraceful or embarrassing exposure is sure
I think as a Christian is best u ask God to help u wipe out the spirit of revenge. Let me tell u one thing, there is no perfect plan out there, what if u are caught, don't u think u have wasted your time, life and other important things u still wish to achieve on someone that is not worth it.
ReplyDeleteWhy don't u try to go on a long vacation, if ur work or business can permit u to, pls try and put ur self first, ur children and ur family. Delete ur hubby and his ex from ur mind and move on.
God is the best therapy u know, u can practice it by putting a seat in front of u, while seated and invite the holyspirit.
Pour ur heart out to him in such a way like u are seeing him and tell him u want to deal with ur hubby for what he did but u are afraid of what the result will be, tell him to help u, God will come to ur dream or speak to u loudly in such a way that u will feel like the most important person in the world.
I wish u well. Pls take it easy on urself.
Mr. D is that all you have to say? Na dem
ReplyDeleteThere are only two ways to deal with a cheating partner IMO.
ReplyDelete1. Live with it OR
2. Get a divorce
It's quite simple (for a partner who is financially, emotionally and mentally stable) and not so simple for a dependent partner. These two options are way better than committing murder or anything close to it.
Chop am, you say na bone. Oya throway am, you say small meat dey the body. Na one you go choose na. Stay without complaining or leave to live in peace. No kill your children papa because your pikin talk say he dey n*ck choir mistress o. Pity his mother too abeg. I pray make Holy Spirit sprinkle cold water of peace put for your heart before you do wetin go haunt your conscience for life.
And all ye philandering men, make una kwantinu o. Shebi una don see say na wheelchair get una very soon. No be every woman dey fit forgive una rubbish. Quit cheating ooooooo!
Actually there is a third option,CHEAT BACK! works every time.
DeleteYou want to turn your husband to vegetables cos he cheated on you queen majesty na wa oo pls when did marriage become do or die affair, you ha e no evidence you are relying on your child's guess work, madam leave the marr6of you cold and stop killing yourself silently over a prick or you can get your own side cock besides two can play the game
ReplyDeleteOgbeni Mr D,i hope when your wife cheats on you,you wont act like you are the first man whose wife rode and climaxed on another dick. Nonsense
ReplyDeletePoster this your drama too much, u don't need it. Just allow karma to deal its blow.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you stressing? Divorce him yourself if he gives u this much pain
When you people hear a woman say she wants her husband to suffer.... You think it's just about the man knacking another woman?
ReplyDeletePlease let's be guided with our words...
This is still the same poster who said she understands how she feels and has been there also..
Just divorce him,or ignore and live your life
ReplyDeleteWhat is so difficult in moving to your parents house to gladly announce that your daughter showed you your husband's mistress in the church and you didn't take the pains to know if what you were told is anywhere near the truth. Your hatred for your husband may consume you. You allowed your anger to overwhelm you.
ReplyDeleteThe woman going for omuguo, you obviously manipulated and brainwashed your children against their father. Your wickedness will come for you someday soon. Men please save your way through life, so that you have more than enough to care for yourself when you are old. The days of using every dim you earn to care for your wife and kids are over. Simply care for your kids without unnecessary stress and live to enjoy good health as you age. Don't wear yourself out to please anybody. The rate women manipulate and brainwash their children against their fathers is on geometric increase.
Look at this one! Hahaha if you like dont keep that your 2" penis in your pants. You think kids are blind or they wont grow up to understand what you must have put their mother through. Oshisco
DeleteStay there and be saying what I don't know. Do you think children are blind or dumb not to know a father that is mean to their mother or them? No woman can manipulate her children against their caring and loving father. They know the evil some of their dads are without being told or manipulated about it. Don't treat your wife and children right now, stay there and be expecting care from them when you are old vulnerable.
DeleteHello Mr. Alexander, I didnt need to brainwash or manipulate my daughters, they saw with their eyes, the abuse, neglect, beatings meted out to them. Imagine yelling that i gave birth to 3 potential sluts, and they heard him. You think any child would forget that? If you like, treat tour wife and kids disrepsectfully, you will suffer, except they just pity you and employ someone to cater for you OR your sufferhead wife decides to forgive you and chop your shit. Like I said, the house better remain clean before I return.
DeleteThis nut case is ALWAYS chatting rubbish. Always.
DeleteAs in how can someone's reasoning be so primitive??? @18:31
Mr Alex, please stop and don't cheat on your wife o, OLD AGE is usually a payback period. Treat your wife wella o.
Deletei pity you chauvinist alex...i have seen men chop the dividends of how they treated their wives anyhow. how many men can stay alone in their old age or be travelling from one child to the other? children see how you treat their mothers so do not be fooled. continue in this stupid mindset and you will definitely reap it too
DeleteDear poster, please move on if you can, do not let the blood of anyone be required from you, it's not worth it. Moreover did you confirm and verify the story your daughter told you?
ReplyDeleteMadam, dnt be unfortunate. Dnt kill him just leave. No go enter hell 🔥 fire bcos of man matter,it not worth it.
ReplyDeleteMadam, cheating is painful, but please don’t harm him. If you can’t stand him, just divorce him. Leave him to karma.
ReplyDeleteI wish i could give you a tight hug. You need to silent those voices speaking evil to hears. You are human and it is okay to be broken. But you are not a clay in his hands. So, dont give him the opportunity to remold your sweet nature to a bitter one. Look inwardly and dig out those things that used to excite you and make you happy but you stopped a long time ago. Forgive yourself for being a good person. It is okay. Find yourself again. You are beautiful and intelligent. His loss if he stopped seeing you that way. Babe, walk away. Cry, cry.....look for the reasons to cry. Be alive. Do not let the pain kill the sweet person you are. Convert your pain to joy...That will kill him faster.
ReplyDeleteYou seem mentality imbalanced. You need help. Kill becuase of pussy and prick? Get a life and seek counsel fast.
ReplyDeleteThank you Alexander. Women brainwash children against fathers too much in our climes. Fathers also make it easier by being aloof and engrossed in providing for the children. Thank you again for your advice to take care of self. Even women are now posting this truth on the internet.
ReplyDeleteThis brainwashing is done even against caring fathers simply because of a perceived hurt by the wife. The other day a bv revealed her plan to abandon her husband as soon as her son graduated because the husband did not give her money to start a business, not that he didn't provide for her and their children.
I know a family where the woman told her children she was the one providing for them simply because her husband was giving the money through her. To avoid alienating the children, she didn't teach them any house keeping skills. Today, the young women can't keep house. Her belief then was that the husband would die before her. She was fighting the man over sale of his properties claiming they were her children's inheritance. But alas, she died before the husband.
Women always assume the husband would die before them or would be weakened by sickness before them. So a wife sits plotting how to suffer her husband in old age. Instead of minding her children and making herself better for herself and her world in her older age. These are the women overstaying in the children homes causing problems for their in-laws. In one case, the woman abandoned the man when he became bed bound from age after she had alienated him from her step children and most of his family. Again, that woman met her demise in search of nothing because her husband was still giving her full allowance, though he was bed bound,in addition to income yielding properties gifted to her.
When people read this Chronicle, tell me why they will not continue the dehumanizing widowhood practices including trial by ordeal.
If the Chronicler carries out her plan would she willingly admit to it tomorrow if a seer or a scientist accuse her of causing the sickness/death? Won't she plead false accusation and victimisation by her in-laws on social media?
I am always surprised by this: A single woman is on top of everything she is doing. Then she marries, and all she is about is my husband, my husband to the death; everything else goes to the garbage heap. I understand such for women who had nothing doing or going on before marriage, but what about those who had a life before?
Madam Chronicler, please think very well o. You may unwittingly tie generational bundle of load.
I pray God restore your marriage.
No man who treats his wife and kids well gets abandoned unless the wife is evil.
DeleteNigerian men, guard your homes. Be the fathers, husbands and mentors to your family and watch them honour you at old age. But when you selfishly waste your better years on side chicks, watch your family despise you and all you stand for.
A word is enough for the wise.
This use of always na wao
DeleteMen do not lack of interest, shaking waist with everything female that breathes, then expect dedication
DeleteYou do not sow nonchalance and neglect and reap loyalty
Only a fool will think that
P.S
Many men are not that intelligent, the women are aware just bidding their time
Don't create a monster then complain about its monster behave
Everyone responds to neglect
22:04 you and alex are just bloody hypocrites. You are diverting the topic when the truth is on ground here? as a man you cannot condemn the mans adultery because you think it is the birthright of men to cheat abi? alot of them carry that mindset in marriage and expect loyalty from wife and kids when old age has chopped their bones. alot of women will live alone, cook for themselves and live life in old age. how many men can survive alone? kids are not fools, they see all that goes on so yes in most cases men who are neglected in old age cause et for themselves. in this case we dont know all the other evil this man has been doing to her.
DeleteDon't forget the Bible says, he/she who carries sword will die by the sword and also remember that the Bible doesn't lie.
ReplyDeleteSad news indeed...I just hope GOD helps you to find the healing you need 🙏
ReplyDeleteEven if the story is true, please walk away you have no right to take or tamper with another person's life . If it has become in earable leave, even for a while. Dont stain your hands with blood or get caught and thrown into jail. Think of the disgrace and suffering, just listen and dont take that route, there something I read somewhere on how to at least stay with a husband that hurts you until you are ready to leave. Buy a pack of balloon, any number you like, blow them all up, give the balloons his names and your feeling for him before what he started doing, as you break the balloons, figuratively call them him and say that you break all the emotions you feel for him, as you release the air, so do u release all the hurt ,held inside u for him,, after this coldly.plan on how to begin a new life without him,he's already non existent to you, the broken balloons are him, something like this, but I heard it works, nothing he does will get to u, u will become completely emotionally detached. So many women.have moved on from bad marriages and became happy again, even if u don't remarry. Remove killing him from your mind
ReplyDeleteHe isn't worth going to jail for
ReplyDeleteYour conscience will be the first jailer