STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
DETOXING FROM TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS AND THE CONCLUSION
I decided to detox myself and find out why I had so many issues with past girlfriends.......
When you keep having same issues you might be the problem.
I am a contented person, money doesn't move me, I hate Runs, double date, married women cheating on their husband's, what I say and know my mates don't even conceive it.
Once you come close to me, you must upgrade even if you are richer than me,(it's a gift) my words are very powerful, and once I say an idea out, smart people pick it and make monies from it. I am just a Catalyst of Change in peoples lives.
Grounded to the core but have done my own bad bad things in life,laid back about life and its many buzz, and not bothered generally.
I have been called names by men who tried to intimidate me by sleeping with me, perverts who see nothing wrong on living a weirdo lifestyle because maybe the friend I know them through, practices all manner of shyt with their friends, name calling won't change my NO.
The one that irks me the most is sleeping Around to get contracts, get a door opened, luring me with a favour and you are dating my friend ( very common, a lot of girls called me fool from not sleeping with a girlfriends boyfriend for a massive job offer) and this people will turn Around and call me LAZY! Really lazy!
I love my legs closed and lazy thanks!
In all my assessment I found out this girls are all from Imo state!
Yes 9 solid Relationships, the casual friends too are Imo, They have the same exact thing in common. Envy, jealousy, curiosity on how I get money without working'hard ' like them, blocking clean deals, like I said I see opportunities they don't see, backbiting and above all unhealthy competition of wanting to outdo. All from Imo state.
Then I searched for the few Anambra/Delta friends I have had and compared with them, the difference was clear.. Obinwanne, they all looked out for me, once I tell dem I don't do runs I just date, they even bring me closer to their families and there is no envy, no rift, they all give the feeling of high school friendships.
Pure love....
The difference is Imo girls I have met are overly Hardworking compared to the Anambra girls I have met, I guess this is the reason I get attracted to them easily. Dark imo state girls I have encountered have the dirtiest of behavior. My assessment, evaluation of me, is that nothing, absolutely nothing is wrong with me.
The 1st question I ask now is ,where are you from? Once you say Imo. I love peace, i am done with toxic friendships.
*Hmmmm i really dont know what to say but this your mindset is so wrong.....
change your mindset and see everyone as same and leave tribe or state out of friendships...
I think you are actually the problem with this attitude.
Poster check yourself again.
ReplyDeleteThis poster is very clueless and dumber than she realises!
DeleteHow in heavens name did you just spew such rubbish in a bid to seem smart?
Stella, please post my comment.
Thanks
Oga u know know waiting dey do u. I am from Imo state, and please work on your mind.
DeletePsycho alert 📢
DeleteChic is sick.
Poster, I understand your point
DeleteHowever it's not because those babes are from Imo State. Your subconscious is used to the familiar. Anambra people serve you the peace you knew growing up that's why your spirit is more at home with them.
This was the type of problem bible was avoiding for us when Abraham ordered that a wife will be gotten from their tribe for Isaac.
That thing you are seeing as a problem amongst imo babes is normal for them. Meanwhile you that think you are everything amongst your own clan maybe weird to them low key.
It's called tribe differences.
Forget tribe sef. In your compound does all family around act same?
I did not even understand head or tail of the chronicle.
DeletePoster you are the problem. Your mindset and thinking actually. Because u think badly of a particular set of people u will keep seeing examples in ur reality to justify that. Work on urself
DeleteLmao@ Bianca Bruno
DeleteThis is the most disjointed chronicle I’ve seen in a long while. After reading, I was like ‘what did I just read’
So many empty words just to end up saying nothing useful.
Okwa mental health in disguise.
DeleteThis your IMO State babes this and that dikwa somehow.
I am like seriously? You are such a stereotypical being and it be nice you change mbok
ReplyDeleteVery annoying human being who thinks she's cool.
DeleteThe Imo girls must have noticed something off about her and moved on while she thinks she's the smart one!
Ewu Gambia!
It's your mindset my dear. There is the good and bad side in every human being. No perfect specie.
ReplyDeleteI actually feel for her. She is sorely delusional and hopelessly unintelligent.
DeleteMs Sapphire is right. I'm from Imo state and what you just said is bullshit.
Delete'Show me your friends and I will you tell you who you are' applies to you directly.
You attract like minds and what you just described is yourself.
Hmmm
ReplyDeletePoster, u actually sound mentally unstable. Pls go and get help. This is not an insult. It’s actually a good piece of advice. I am a psychologist and ur write up says a lot!!
ReplyDeleteI guess you are from Imo state? 😂😂
DeleteGbam. Suspected that from the second paragraph. Mental illness is real. This is so sad. And she sounds super brilliant
DeleteThe sounds super brilliant but is actually foolish with that mindset up there!
DeleteShe thinks she's a catch as a friend but she's not!
Please don’t kid her by telling her she is super brilliant. Her writing can best be described as rambling and I’m thinking 15.08 might be correct.
DeleteThe journey is still far for you;sorry oooo
ReplyDelete@MARTINS
Very very sorry, truly!
DeleteCan't understand this...can someone explain to me. Is the poster a male or a female biko
ReplyDeleteI couldn’t decipher that too. For someone who sounds like a know it all, the tenses were quite confusing.
DeleteSame here. One time I thought it's a he, another I thought it's a she.
DeleteSame here.. what gender are you Biko..you got us confused . Anyway, you need to change your mind sir/madam
DeleteI am confused too.
DeleteI am confused too ooooo, are you He or She
DeleteI thought I'm the only one confused about the poster's gender
DeleteEverything you wrote is 👌👌 EXCEPT the stereotyping.
ReplyDelete100% of the chronicle is stereotype.
DeleteI am confused, or is it only me?
ReplyDeleteNope there
DeleteYou still need mental evaluation. Mental health is real.
ReplyDeleteSo poster your confuse is confusing me I don’t even understand the color of your problem
ReplyDeleteVery annoying post!
DeleteSo annoying!
Deletelol
DeleteSo poster your confuse is confusing me I don’t even understand the color of your problem
ReplyDeleteUnused to have that same mentality because of the people from imo that I had around me and met at the time.
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that a lot of imo people are actually that way but not all. I have met a few that are actually completely opposite of all that you wrote but truth be told , the people of imo have a larger percentage of their people with everything you have mentioned.
Others have it too but that of imo have the most.
Leave them to be ranting.
DeleteImo people are heartless.
It from Orlu they have few good people.
I really feel insulted because not only am I from IMO state, I am dark skinned as well. Character wise, I am not close to perfect but I am nowhere close to the description of the OP.
ReplyDeleteCheck yourself OP....for they say that you are what you attract.
Peace.
Remain blessed my sister!
DeleteThe audacity and temerity of the clown-poster is absurd!
One unfortunate young man will then date this one and become more unfortunate. She will then go on a ranting mode calling men scum and every scornful name she can muster. Her fellow women will support her not knowing she is a practical mobile mad woman. Let's be very honest,if after reading this jargon you still don't believe the poster is mentally challenged, you need a shrink too. I'm mad at myself for wasting my precious time that cannot be redeemed.
ReplyDeleteI know one dude that mostly dated Akwa ibom girls and they were all called "Blessing"
DeleteHe is married now to another Blessing from Akwa Ibom!
Poster is suffering from a severe case of superiority complex with a huge dose of something worse that I can't even imagine.
You need help poster asap
Like she said she’s super intelligent something you Caesar wouldn’t know anything about.
DeleteThanks dear for speaking my mind!
DeleteHahahahahahaha Ceaser you really got me rolling on the floor with your first sentence. LOL @ practical mobile mad woman.
DeleteIs this a poem or something
ReplyDeleteLike you're the only perfect being on earth
I na-atupuru anuofia onu?
DeleteNot everyone is Igbo pls
DeleteIf i say i understand all what you wrote, i would be lying
ReplyDeleteLmao..just rambling on and on and on. O su mi
DeleteNne poster you forgot to mention where you are from, let us also tell you the stereotypes associated with people from your place!
ReplyDelete...are you trying to counsel us, share your experience or seek corroborated findings? I'm not sure what you want us to do with this assessment.
I do not encourage stereotyping, however in all of it, you are still the constant. You are attracting this same set of Imo girls possibly because you are either like them or unconsciously wish to be like them. It has nothing to do with the tribe.
PS: My best girlfriends in Uni were from Imo state. They did not do runs.
This doesn't sound like a"contented" person. Everyone has challenges, the only challenge person admit to having, is the financial one. When you manage to get it, you believe your life is now perfect.
ReplyDeleteSo, in your friendship with these people, you have just been assessing them? You listen for errors when they speak, and watch their mouth when they eat. You judge an action of theirs to be of jealousy and envy. You just concluded they were jealous? You didn't do it with one but with all of those you called friends. Imagine taking credit for their success, "gifted" indeed. Do you know how they were doing before you met them? Any progress recorded while the friendship lasted was because they met you. Me I wouldn't want to be friends with someone like you and I'm not from IMO.
Hmmm still pondering on this..🤔
ReplyDeleteInukwa ndi mmadu sef. This one na transgender abi bisexual
ReplyDeleteNa both. She's weird
DeleteI don't see any difference between "runs" and serially "dating" men to make monies. They are all sexual transactions; prostitution
ReplyDeleteand fornication/adulteries if you like. So cut out the pretense.
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ReplyDeleteI'm not even Ibo but you sound super super irritating.
ReplyDeleteAs in irritating to the max.
Hopefully, I will NEVER come across someone like you in any capacity.
Poster,you need help, you sound mentally unstable.
ReplyDeleteApparently what the poster lacks is exposure and thats why moving or visiting places is important, because you would have understood that people are different and the ability to accept them and live with them regardless of ethnicity or action or beliefs, is what makes you an intelligent human being.
ReplyDeleteChildren bring money
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing that doesn't exist in Stella 's blog so I'll take the writer as one of it oooooh
ReplyDeleteSo I guess the poster is a female because she said 'done with friendships not relationships'. Please just do u, perhaps ur spirit doesn't vibe with ladies from imo state and that's okay. Alot of people on this blog doing name calling are also stereotypical in nature. Some have a thing against northerners, some against ibira, Ishan, edo, kogi, enugu-ezike, mbaise, benue, akwaibom, some igbo against some yorubas and vice versa etc. The list goes on and on biko.
ReplyDeletePoster I agree to some extent with you. Alot of what you mentioned are common with some Imo State girls.
ReplyDeleteThis post rather seem funny to me. Dear poster, is it that you re indirectly telling us to find you a therapist or a psychiatrist, or both at once? Listen to me, you're one the major problems we have here in Nigeria. Change your mindset towards people, that's if after writing this, you've not finally entered the market.
ReplyDeleteHehe hehe you all calm down with the bashing.
ReplyDeletePoster I can relate, but tieing everything to a particular state or tribe is so wrong.
All I can say is that you might have been rolling with some set of ladies who you do not share same value with, and it can't just work!
Now you need to assess yourself on all levels, be sure about what you need/want and then think again what the problem is, then you will know how to choose your friends better.
Good luck to you poster!
It’s so annoying when people carry such mentality…. They feel too much of themselves.. every state has one, two or a lot of people with what you have mentioned… hain… who be this?
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you are not far from the truth,they are mostly runs girls.They can never sit at a place.Same thing with their men . Even their men know they are wayward,some will say,they can never marry from their state because no matter how long their girls marry,one day if they decide that they are tired of the marriage, their family would still open door for them,that they still keep their rooms for them even after marriage.I schooled there and i know
ReplyDeleteOh please!
DeleteSo when one gets married, their family should lock them out of the house or what? Any reasonable parent should know that their daughter still has a place at home whether married or not.
I just did a mental check and all the Igbo friends I’ve been closest to at every stage in my life have been from Imo state. None of them is a runs girl. Very lovely, very supportive, have never shown me envy.
Even the ones that are ‘headstrong’, I love that about them because they know what they want.
Abeg you people should go and sit down jare
@shandyleeks, to some extent they do runs but it's for the purpose of getting the richest catch, the so-called 'woke imo girls' are only after money, they can't be caught dating a poor guy. There are a few good people from imo state but the majority of the good ones didn't grow up there so they have a different mentality.
DeleteAll in all poster, u have vented, hope u feel better now?
I shouted & said you will not make heaven immediately I read your comments. But I just remembered that you made it more out of hatred or ignorance. May God help all of us
DeleteMy comment was for Sandysleeks
DeleteYour type end up as old maids. Go out more, mingle more, u are actually doing no one a favour. Or Maybe I do not understand your gist.
ReplyDeleteWtf is this kind of chronicle??what kind of stereotypical and judgmental person is this.
ReplyDeleteFlight of ideas, flight of thoughts, rush words, incoherent speeches, poster please visit a psychiatrist, your case is classical, or you pick up your meds and take them !!
ReplyDeleteThis writer sounds like the staff I just laid off. People like this have deep rooted issues. Thy think they are so intelligent but every conversation with them leaves you feeling drained. Dear poster, ul be shocked to find out you might not be all. Get off your high horse and stop castigating a whole tribe. I am a Yoruba woman by the way. I knew a girl I served with and she"s from mbaise in imo state, I remember her with so much fondness, even though it's years past our NYSC.get off your high horse sweetheart.
ReplyDeleteGodchic, long time. Good to hear from you.
DeleteImo babes this and that, if they say their experiences with you now people will know you are the problem. All I know is we have our imperfection period
ReplyDeleteHaaaaaaa
ReplyDeleteOrisirisi
Na wa for you
ReplyDeleteI cannot comprehend that write up. My eyes cannot can.
ReplyDeleteNa so we go dey for biafra?
ReplyDeletePoster am 70% sure you are from Anambra, am born and raised in onitsha so I know this rant and hatred for Imo people cos is very common amongst the uneducated, timid Anambra fellows, well God will help you all purge 0ff your hatred, complexity and envy of the bold, hardworking, industrious, very pretty, self made,homely, educated, very enlightened, polished, classy,imo bebs, you guys have all the money and love it when everyone worships you cos of the money, but naturally an imo man is a contented man that can't bow to anyone cos of their money and that's where the hatred comes from, I know the silent war btw Anambra &Imo cos my mum is Neni in Aniocha Anambra state and my dad Obowu in Imo state and am born and breed in the heart of Eastern state Onitsha, did my primary, secondary and higher education in Anambra too, so am not even angry cos is a hate I have lived with all my life , but guess what I DON'T CARE, it made me to see people for whom they're not where they come from.
ReplyDeleteAmethyst there's not much difference between your comment and Poster's Chronicle.
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