Do you agree that all men love to be pampered by their women.....
How many of you women out there treat their men like Babies and get same treatment back?
Or do you have a man who takes all from you emotionally but is emotionally unavailable?
Lets gist!!!
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Very true
ReplyDeleteEmotional unavailable men are the worst! It will drive you crazy believe me. Once you recognise it, my sister break the emotional connection immediately before you go insane thinking of a man and his treatment towards you.
ReplyDeleteWhy you should love yourself more .That makes you think less about man.
DeleteJust give them diapers and pacifiers. Rub their head and belly. Wetin remain again?
Delete@ anon: 14: 28
DeleteAre you talking about adult-babies?
Honestly. Most of them do that when you show them you really like them or if they want to blackmail you into giving into something you don't want to. I've been bitten twice by the same snake. Only thing is this snake is failing to realize I'm fast getting immune to his venom. Very soon I would have the complete immunoglobulins and my own venom.
DeleteAnon 14.28 the pacifier na ya bobbi o 🤣
DeleteIv been with an emotionally unavailable man. I loved this man so much and he knew it,more than he loved me. Dat was the 1st problem. I did everything to pls him but still. Funny thing is he wasnt even cheating,bcos i thought dat was the problem. You know all those people that u cant even pick they did smthn to u,they wont just contact you for days sometimes and everybody else also sees him as the perfect person but he cant just connect emotionally. When i started complaining he wld say im nagging and completely shut down. Speaking to a mutual friend of his i heard he was like that with his Ex too. That one even complained of enotional abuse. Anyway what i just did is i stopped contacting him, we didnt even break-up. Communication just seized from my end bcos i was the one always making the effort anyway and he did same thing. Thats how the relationship ended. Till date we are both still single.
Delete17.01 your man sounds like he has had some childhood trauma that contributes to his behaviour .I feel h e should see a counsellor to help him unravel why this is happening and also if a christian take it to God
DeleteMine took me for granted, looks at himself like a god now. Never reciprocates, VERY STINGY and annoying
ReplyDeleteYes oh, Jeweluchi I know! One Mr Torlumun thank God for delivering me from that pit of death, chai na God save me
ReplyDeleteA benue guy? I thought I'm the only one he dealt with oooo, so we're many
Deletelol..tiv men are very promiscuous oh
DeleteNot my husband,he has no emotions when ever e shout at me I dare not make mistake of crying cos e will end up beating me for crying .
ReplyDelete😭
DeleteReally😣 beat you as his baby or wife😖😖
Delete😳😳😳😳😳the Lord is your strength
DeleteHey God! Married to a cold hearted beast. How do you cope sis? I hope he doesn't kill you. Sorry.
DeleteChai marital slavery 😠
Delete@ anon: 14:40
DeleteReally, you must be living in bondage.
His mind is Olumo Rock.
Such mind nothing moves them.
And you are still there, pls pray and japa for your sanity, hmmm see DV
DeleteUna dey marry sha..
DeleteWhy you still dey there? Oh you prefer crying in Ross Royce and private jet than smiling in Toyota I guess.. no wahala.. when we advise you people to be develop yourselves so you can be useful and respected, Una go dey call us broke boys.. now see as you dey collect flogging for marriage and you no fit even commot cos you no get anything to fall back on.. na cos him know say him be your god and only hope, na why him dey treat you like that.. if you dey useful to am, him go dey treat you with care
Beat you for crying? Haba, that’s not fair at all. Where are your siblings? Let them know.
DeleteChisom.. I dnt even know how I am coping,yesterday I jokingly ask him if I should prepare a special delicacy for him he shouted at me then I ask him if I said something wrong he stood up and carried belt to hit me ,When ever he is angry he takes it on me . Cause we actually ate breakfast together happily so it like some1 pissed me off on phone . I have been crying since yesterday night till now
DeleteHmmmmmm!!!!
DeleteSeriously
Using belt on you!,abeg run for your life .
DeleteMy dear sister, what then are you still doing in the house of such a person? Are you scared of leaving him because you're financially not buoyant enough? Are you living in the fallacy of "i love him"?
DeleteIf it's money ishh, my dear, shey your father has a house at least? even if it's a room and parlor? Please i beg you in the name of God and those innocent kids, (if you have) to leave the beast. You see, this man may kill you one day or drive you nuts with his devilish actions towards you, and if you die, God forbid, he'd marry a witch that will make your kids miserable, the evil man no kuku send.
If you're living in the lie of still loving him then please ma'am, he isn't worth you and your love. There's no way in life a human will live in peace with a beast, he detests you, you disgust him, he sees you as his slave that he'd do whatever he pleases with. Biko lockup and run for your life and sanity, your kids needs you alive. That's not how marriage should be and Oh, HE CAN NEVER CHANGE.
If you're scared of being alone without his evil financial support then sis, remember you still have your two hands and legs, there so many things you can be doing to be getting small small money, don't be afraid of hustling for yourself and kids alone please. That thing you're into isn't marriage, man may kill you, even if you're always lucky to escape death from him, are you going to spend the rest of your life living in pains, tears and misery in a loveless and an abusive marriage? That is definitely not what you bargained for my beautiful intelligent strong sis, marriage shouldn't be the end of you. Make yourself and kids proud by doing the best thing which is leaving the devil in disguise of a husband alone biko. Who says you can't do it? You can do this sis, you can! So sorry for the mess the ekwensu is making you go through but you should put a stop to it already. Rooting for you omalicha!🥂❤️❤️
Anon 14.40, pls stop crying. Plan yourself well(financially and emotionally) then leave.
DeleteUntil then ,when he says hurtful things to you,let it go in through one ear and out through the other.
Detach emotionally from him so his actions stop hurting you
Just do things (not sinful) that make you happy
It's only one life for each person pls don't let another person spoil yours so you don't grow old to become a bitter,unfulfilled and toxic person
@Chisom
Delete"HE CAN NEVER CHANGE?" Wow, all I have for you are baskets of shame
🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺
What you are saying in effect is that Jesus shed his blood for nothing?
Didn't he go to the cross to save, change, cleanse mankind?
So you are telling me that you are infallible and any unsavory trait in you
remains and cannot be overcome? Some of you pity party goers are here to destroy
marriages; to put asunder what God has joined together. I get it that the woman
is being beaten and can run home to her parents but do not coerce her into a permanent
split here, let her make that call of her own volition.
More baskets to you o 🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺
This is so pathetic
DeleteUse the baskets to cover your own head my darling.
DeleteAnon 16.28 nobody wants to break a marriage but this lady is living in Hell.
DeleteLet her move out and be praying for him from her fathers house. Can a dead woman save a marriage ?
hahaha I like your response Chisom...never give them any value or worth whenever they talk nonsense
DeleteKai, so sorry anon. Go and throw your husband away like dirty water.
DeleteHmm how long will you stay crying sis. Find a way to leave the beast.
DeleteSister please seek help, speak out, speak out, reach out to your siblings. There must be somebody that stop him from hitting you and if there is NON advise yourself not to be waisted by a man that will pick up some else within 3 months of you allowed him kill you. It is well with you, stop crying but speak out.
DeleteThis is so sad.
DeleteBut the way I am wired. Pamper me first real good and I will reciprocate. I always give back the same energy you give to me.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you, what is good for the Geese is good for the gander
DeleteYinmu at men, if you want to treated as a baby, be ready to give me same energy back else we both face front
ReplyDeleteI pray that I should find one I can pamper.
ReplyDeleteYes I pamper my husband but not with feeding bottles. I treat him tenderly and he returns that treatment.
ReplyDeleteFor example feeding him with delicacies, his favorite meals, cuddling him, changing his shorts,
ties, shirts, taking off his jacket when he returns after a day work and giving him a sweet kiss and so on.
And he does? Of course, like carrying me to the bed at bedtime, feeding me and helping me to cut the veggies
while I cook, reading the Bible to/with me every morning, especially when I am discouraged.
These are little things that make the life so sweet. 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
I love this.
DeleteLove is an action word.
Pampering makes it sweet.
See me smiling, this is so sweet.Kudos to you.👍
DeleteAwwwww. Your marriage must be heaven on earth. Enjoy 🤗🤗❤️
DeleteAww, so you're this adorable ehh nwanyiaa? Just imagining your face and behavior when he's carrying you to the bed. Lol
Delete@firstlady
DeleteIt's kudos to Jesus.
That is what Jesus can do in a person's life and marriages
where he is given the rulership. He changes lives. I was
a very vindictive person before he changed me and I did not believe
in marriage. He led me to the person I married and by his grace
we are working it out well. 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
I did not write what happens when he carries me from the sitting
or dinning to the bedroom... 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@Chisom
DeleteMy face is full of laughter, like pikin wey them buy puff puff or akara for. He carries me in his arms o, not in
any basket o 🧺😁😁..
😂😂😂😂 Wahala for ndi ana acarry na basket.
DeleteI am loving this. This is what I am talking about. It is only a mentally unstable woman that will not reciprocate your true love to her.
DeleteThis is lovely...this is what marriage shold be like. I wish all men could be like your husband.
DeleteKudos to Jesus👍
Delete@Femilicious
DeleteI wish all people, all coupes should receive Jesus into their lives.
ANG thank God for your marriage . God bless your home
Delete💃💃💃💃💃
DeleteSweet parry for ndi ana a carry na basket to bed.
💋💋💋💋
🛌🛌🛌🛌🛌🛌🛌👣👣🤰🤱
Una sleep go de sweet wella
My husband will want you to appreciate him for everything, he can never say "thank you, or I'm sorry" to you. If he buys foodstuff, you must thank him every minute for a whole year, yet no matter how many times you thank and pray for him, he will never be satisfied, yet he can never appreciate you for anything.
ReplyDeleteWe're currently keeping malice since Thursday now. We went to somewhere on Tuesday, from there, I realized I had to travel to Lagos the following day.
On Wednesday, I left for Lagos from Ibadan at 6am and got to VI at 14:21, the traffic was the worst I've ever encountered, and I missed what I went for, then came back to Ibadan again around 21:00. Couldn't get home that night because our house is far, and he told me to sleep at my sister's place. The following day, he sent me out to 3 different places from my sister's house, I told him I'm tired and he should allow me go on Friday, he became very angry and I later went to all the places. I got home around 18:00 and he already bought soup ingredients, still expecting me to cook when I've not rested since Tuesday, I told him I'm tired to cook and since that Thursday, we've been keeping malice.
He never said thank you, or even asked how I'm feeling since Tuesday that he has been sending me to different places, no any form of empathy and he's always right. I'm just too tired of him. Was working before covid rendered me jobless, and he's mostly working from home.
If you cuddle your husband like the above, kudos 🌺🎵🎵
ReplyDeleteBut if you cuddle a boyfriend like that? 🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺
Only ladies who are desperate to marry will do that for a boyfriend.
DeleteIf you start pampering them they will say you're desperate. So, let them be the men.
ReplyDeleteI met a guy, we got talking and connected, he told me first he's falling. Along the line he got so busy with work that we didn't talk much again. A lot of times i would want to check in but I'll stop so as not to be seen as doing too much. Some times he goes days and not reach out, me too wont. Let him be the man and check in.
ReplyDeleteNo mind them, see all of them saying they return the same energy if you pamper first, like say no be this country we dey again.. na men dey do all the romance and pampering for relationship in this country..
ReplyDeleteLet me rephrase Stella's question- HOW MANY OF YOU GIRLS HERE HAVE GIVEN YOUR MAN A FULL BODY MASSAGE BEFORE??
@ Mr. D, kindly do not generalize, inugo. There are some Nigerian women who pamper their men and yours sincerely is one of them.
ReplyDeleteStop generalizing!
Nigerian women left the group chat. Lmao
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂 oya na operation pamper your husband 😁😁
ReplyDeleteLol, but not like the one above biko
Delete😂😂😂😂, true
ReplyDeleteIts lazy wives that get pampered o!
ReplyDeleteIf you quickly show him cooking, cleaning , wifing skills and don't allow him help you.....
You must show weakness whenever you are tired else he will neglect and treat you like a horse.
That is how I got married and started pampering my ex as that is how I roll. Guy man turn me to his maid asin rather than reciprocate he was excepting more. How I suffered for nothing in that marriage. Am out and scared of loving anyone cause my marriage was traumatic experience.
ReplyDeleteThey always expect more...the more you matyr yoursrlf the more it is expected of you😤
DeleteYes o, I pamper him very well cos he is amazing. I hope someday I’ll be able to buy him a car 💃🏿
ReplyDeleteOh women lives na sacrifice. Tears just dey fall for my eyes...we dey bear all cos of our children😭😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteNa this mumu cry make that husband man dey koboko him wife.. which kind nonsense cry be this now, your village people dey flog you?.. e be like say life dey sweet you too much.. lack of problems na him cause this nonsense..
DeleteRubbish
Pls clean your tears. Be strong for your kids, may you stay alive and healthy to reap the fruits of your labour on them. They shall make you proud and happy.
DeleteOne strong hearted man wolitj no sympathy spotted here. Dante, change your ways before God humbles you. For this anon to shed tears you should know she is experiencing pains in her marriage
DeleteI wish I can pamper mine more but not like the above biko, feeding bottle kwa, hahaha.
ReplyDeleteI think he loves me more than I do cos he pampers me more than I do to him. Let me read comments to get tips on pampering .
This is insensitive knowing that most people on this blog are lonely and have nobody to call their own. If in doubt, check out SnM. No be who has a man go pamper person?
ReplyDeleteHahaha anon 01:52,wetin I kno go read for this blog.
Deletelol Anon 01:52 you've spoken well....
Deletei've noticed that the rate of girls who do this pampering cruise in this country is veryyyyy low, most babes here have this entitlement mentality.. I mean your guy is human too ffs!.. although I can boldly say i've met one or two females that have actually pampered me and gosh I never expected it, it felt so good a gee was impressed, but its actually sad that you meet a number of girls in life and only a very few can do this..
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