MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS.

  What a Monday!..... Positive vibes everywhere near me!

 

IN HOUSE MEMO

I hope everyone is OK? The BVs that have not commented, I hope that all is well. There is a BV who had a fall and was advised to go to native people to massage but that massage has cost her a lot. She was operated on her legs last week and she will undergo another operation to try to correct what the native massage intensified. She will heal properly in Jesus name.

Please stop listening to everybody when you have a problem, learn to read and make up your mind by yourself so that you do not end up regretting your choices...If one person goes to massage at the native place and they are OK and come to recommend it to you, it might not have the same results...

Please apply this to all areas of life and you will be fine.

If you are a BV currently down, or sick in hospital, we pray that you get well soon and come back to commenting...

People are going through a lot and so much is going on. please be nice to people,

BE NICE TO PEOPLE!!!

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.

This column was formerly named ''MY OVARIES OH''

All former gists remain valid..lol

There is a popular saying that says “ agba gbon omode gbon lafi da ile Ife" it means Ife was created by the wisdom of both the young and old. Children say a lot of crazy things but they also say a lot of wise things too.

As a child I was always shut down and not given a voice. I dared not share my opinion about certain things and I was expected to obey adults without questions, any deviation from this meant punishment and being termed as rude.

This is common in a lot of African homes. Children are not allowed to have an opinion or even make small decisions independent of an adult. This goes a long way in affecting a child’s self esteem and ability to process emotions.

I am trying to correct this with my kids and children around me. I try to make them feel comfortable enough to express themselves around me without fear. I engage them in serious age appropriate discussions asking for their opinions and advice.

Most importantly I listen and let them know that I am. I involve them in the family’s decision making and respect their decisions . Decisions like what everyone will be having for dinner, places to go for outing and I also let them pick my outfit at times. I also ask them questions and give them tasks to do without adult supervision. I try not to get annoyed when they ask a million and one questions and answer as patiently as possible. This is just to help them to be proactive and be deep thinkers, who aren’t scared to think outside the box.


The perception you have about your child matters too. Stop saying a child talks too much instead see it as the child is very expressive or instead of saying a child is stubborn, see it as being strong willed and determined that way you will be able to help the child channel their strengths in the right direction instead of treating the trait as a weakness.




Please baby girl, take note of the change of name . #kisses

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MARRIAGE - An Institution Of Love And Commitment And Not An Ego Business



This is A memo to all the married men and husbands to be . Do not take this as a joke, or even see it as one of my mischievous yarns. Please take it as an urgent plea and take it serious!


Let's activate our collective sense of self-preservation. Be rest assured that Marriage is a lethal agent of equal opportunity. And the death by not loving your partner or having an extra-marital affair is avoidable, preventable and I dare say it that - the foolish ones die more from it than the very keen, the obedient and the extremely careful.


It's only an Anniversary out of the many you are likely to live through and very well enjoy in your hopefully long lifetime. Many shall come and many Anniversary shall go! Baby Jesus somehow "gets born" in a Manger every December of every year. If you play it well, or play it safe - you shall hopefully celebrate another  Anniversary of your marriage with peace and the next and the next... etcetera, etcetera, telemundo


Brethren, please and please - simply follow the guidelines.
condemn extra-marital affairs where necessary. 

Maintain social distancing with your ex at all times.

 Remember dreams die soon as you die! 

And it cuts deep into the soul to lose a life not really destined or marked for death just yet but due to a moment of foolishness !

BV Pinky
(A husband to be in the embryo)

Oko iyawo ooooh.

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DRIVER URGENTLY NEEDED



I am in urgent need of a Bus Driver for a company. He must have a valid Driver's License, good knowledge of Lagos roads and traffic signs.


Tuesday - Sunday (Monday's Off day).
From 12noon to 11 pm.
Someone that stays around Lekki surroundings cause of the closing time.
Pay is N60, 000 monthly. The pay could be reviewed upward if the applicant knows how to ride bikes and has a rider permit.

bhaykinsconceptsltd@gmail.com
08166667997.

NB: The ideal candidate must not have any criminal records, cause we carry out a comprehensive background and criminal check on all our drivers.


Thank you.

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