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Please I’m worried, my 2yr old boy excreted a pap like fluid in the morning before he did the normal poo.
Please I’m worried, my 2yr old boy excreted a pap like fluid in the morning before he did the normal poo.
He sleeps with his dad in another room while I share bed with our new baby.
Should I start to monitor my husband all through the nights? Please BVs I need your advice.
*Please commenters should refrain from lewd workers on this post
If your feelings tell you to watch your husband then watch him but i would rather that you do not let your boy sleep with him anymore and check his behind to see signs of redness or forceful entry.....
he might have started a long time before now......
If you cannot do physical assessment, then look for an excuse and take your child to the hospital for check up.
Since you are already suspicious of him, please find out from your son if he has been opening mouth to collect his lollipop. Take him away from the house and ask him questions.
PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE THE NEW BABY WITH HIM.
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ReplyDeleteMadam please take him to the hospital for check up. I pray it's something else.
My dear, your son excreted pap like stuff and the first place your mind went is that your husband might be abusing him? How did we get this point? Please, take your son to the hospital and see if anything is wrong. If your spouse could hear your thoughts, this is horrible. Just take him to the hospital with an open mind.
DeleteNa wa ooo. Hmmmm
DeleteWhat type of husbands are people maŕrying
DeleteUwa ntooorrr
PLEASE DON'T ASK YOUR SON ANY QUESTION BECAUSE HE MIGHT TELL HIS FATHER AND if your husband is innocent , this might bring about distrust in your marriage or divorce. Take him to the hospital first while at it, watch him very close and if he is molested,you can fix hidden cameras in your house for evidence. I wish you good luck on how you want to go about this matter but be careful and be prepared about the outcome. May God be with you.
DeleteIs this one even a marriage? It means you don't even know what/whom you married. This simply means that if a neighbour comes to accuse your husband of doing something like this to their child,you nor go even deny am.
DeleteTueh! For some people.You haven't even gone to the hospital to check,rather your first conclusion is veering towards your husband sleeping with the 2 year old boy.
And you go open mouth dey say "My husband,My husband" outside.
A marriage without trust is as good as dead.Rubbish woman.
Tiana, I share your thought. I am absolutely shocked that is her first thought. Poster is most likely married to an irresponsible man, reason she couldn't think too far.
DeleteNot even medical reasons?? Mehnnn
The villager thank you!!!!
DeleteAs in tiana I am shocked. That is the first place ur mind went to? Even if he is doing it u think he is stupid to leave it there? Ur son has not complained of pain and that’s where ur mind went? I am so sad for ur husband!!
DeleteOh Lord please guide and protect our little ones.
ReplyDeleteI don't like my husband kissing his 5months child.
DeleteWhat is wrong with a father kissing his own daughter o! What is wrong with you people!
DeleteIf that was sperm or semen, it wont come out looking like pap. Even during sex after a couple of minutes, sperm turns colorless. Your paranoia will not let you reason things out properly and eliminate all other possible scenarios, like your child could be seriously Ill. You better take him To the hospital before things get out of hand....mtcheeeew
DeleteAnon I guess ur husband is a certified pedophile that’s why u don’t like him kissing his own child. It so good u know what u married.
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ReplyDeleteThat's bad, very bad and how did it get this bad? Ask your boy what happened to his bum bum and
promise him what he likes, he will spill if there is any beans to spill.
Please, when last did you have intercourse with your husband?
Why are you both sleeping in separate rooms?
If baby starts crying, shouldn't he help in cuddling him?
This issue of sleeping in separate rooms is a bad move o.
Above all, where is the Lord Jesus in this relationship with your husband; outside?
I ask, because, if he is inside, then such a thing should not cross your mind in the first instance.
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Stop! Everyone faces challenges. Stop making it look like they don't know God and pray to him. Please, stop making people feel less and unworthy of God's love. Thanks
DeleteSMH! Even if she has not had sex with him for a very long time is that enough reason for him to defile the boy?
Delete@16:20
DeleteThe first sentence there screamed 'bad, that's bad, very bad..."
How else do you want me to represent his perceived actions?
@Chiomil
The question in my last paragraph was not meant for you and you are not the advocate of this poster.
I understand that your conscience kicked in. Thanks.
Well I dont believe your husband did anything to that boy. There is no how your son won't scream out in pain if the Dad is forcing his dck inside his bum even if it's size of Biro cover the boy will shout in pain and you would hear and wake up.
Delete..and you've already concluded that the boy was being defiled by the husband, Common!!
DeleteI am shocked at the quick conclusion that the husband is doing something to the boy. Suwah!!
DeleteOh dear Lord! I can't please
ReplyDeleteU can take him to a paediatrician, they will verify if he has been tampered with. Besides he would walk funny if anything happened, right? It maybe nothing, but follow your gut instinct.
ReplyDeleteAbeg follow Stella way ooooo.
ReplyDeleteTinz dey happen shaaaa
This is disturbing. A 2 year old may not be able to say much. Please take him to the hospital for checking.
ReplyDeleteFor you to think this about your husband, then there is no fear of God in both your lives. What a pity.
ReplyDeletehouse. Why would you even firstly think of this and not something else or did u marry a depraved husband
DeleteWhy would you even firstly think of this and not something else or did u marry a depraved husband
DeleteThis same thought crossed my mind. As a mother of 2 I feel so sorry for the man. You did not even think it could be a medical condition. See boldness. You even penned a chronicle to Stella. Is this madness of what. God forbid. I just hope and pray its nothing to be worried about and your husband never comes across this chronicle or links it to you. I can't deal.
DeleteMy dear, things we read online can make someone paranoid, after reading all these horrible stories about fathers defining their offspring, I watch my daughters like hawk,I normally would not attach meaning somethings but I now fight with my mind not to do that when the girls spend times alone with their father,I voiced out that I have not suspected him or seen anything that would make me suspect but if he betray me that way.he should bear in mind that he will spend the rest of his life behind bar or below six feet. He swore to me and was hurt why I would think that way, I told him it's because of all these horrible stories on the internet, and those are true stories oh and they never think such a thing can happen to them.We put the matter to rest and let him be free with his daughters like a father should be but I'm sure he got my message and he knows what I'm capable of.they don't tell him nah. I'm not one of them keep your home at all cost. Poster,get a very small container,wash it thoroughly with soap and rinse with warm water, take a sample of the pap like substance and put in there, cover it and take the child to hospital immediately. It might be medical, or stomach infection causing him to excrete unusual things.do this first before any other thing. Please take a picture before it changes color so you can show to the doctor? Check his anus? Is there bruises? .I won't judge you for thinking your husband, it is hard to totally trust anyone these days.please get the result before anything else to avoid accusing an innocent person who may never have ever conceived such thought
DeleteFor her to think such, then there is something the man has done or he is doing that triggered that thought
Delete@Ekele,alot of things can trigger thoughts.some people can behave suspiciously even when they are not doing anything bad.even reading similar things can trigger thought when you see such thing physically. That is why you investigate it to be sure of what it is before you verbalize your thoughts.you may be right and you may be wrong.
DeleteYou nail it @ Ekele
DeleteOMG OMG so kids aren't safe with their own flesh and blood is it outsiders we'll now trust? Please I suggest you take him to the hospital ASAP so they can determine if he forced him or is there a way you can install cctv on the room? Sha Take your son to the hospital ASAP!
ReplyDeleteHow can you as a man get turned on by your kids? Chaiii this is disgustingly cray
But Jewel this your advice ehh, a two year old boy cannot talk very well na abi?
ReplyDeleteSomething is really wrong somewhere. What did your hubby do in the past that is making you act like this. Please take that boy to the hospital for confirmation
DeletePlease examine your boy very well and protect him.
ReplyDeleteI don't know why suspect your husband before going to the hospital.
ReplyDeleteI believe when bathing him, you would know if there was an entry and as a mother since you suspect your husband , you should have ask him( son) the necessary questions in a smart way before bringing it here......
FOR BETTER FOR WORST it's for a healthy marriage ...
I go with sdk's advice.
ReplyDeleteHowever, pls pls calm down while you are investigating. It might not be what you think. Get the results first before you know how to react Biko.
May God reveal for you what it is while you investigate.
All the best.
Poster, I will suggest that you follow Stella's advice. Do not accuse you husband until your suspicion is confirmed by doing as Stella advised. Getting to the bottom of the issue as soon as possible is very important, so do not delay. I wish you all the best.
ReplyDeleteGoodness gracious! I am discombobulated and gobsmacked..👁🧐
ReplyDeleteEh Father Lord have mercy! May he not be defiled
ReplyDelete. God abeg ooo 😭 please tell oga the boy is feeling feverish that you want to take him to the hospital or take your small baby to the hospital & take your boy along for examination. It is well. Just do as Stella as said biko
Please poster keep us updated
DeleteOh I weep…did you say 2?😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 pls let’s just pray is not what I am thinking it is o. Is anyone thinking what I am thinking? Oh it better not be. If I can’t leave my son with his father, then what’s now the point of now been a parent.😭😭😭😭 follow Aunty Stella’s advise abeg.
ReplyDeleteYou don't even trust your man? Tuh! Chile! Well they say a woman's instinct is 80% right. Watch him(if need be) I hope he doesn't find out you were watching him when he is in fact, innocent. What do I know.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you suspicious of your husband?
ReplyDeleteExcreting a pap-like fluid means what exactly? Like I don't get
Me too ooo, for her to suspect the husband😏says slot about their marriage.
DeleteFrom my understanding , it could mean excreting sp*rm.
DeleteI honestly pray that is not that case. 🙏
Gosh I'm honestly disturbed. For goodness sake poster there are a number of medical conditions that can cause mucus excretion!!!! Dysentery nko?
Delete...moreso,dear mothers,build a standard friendship with your children they should be able to tell you everything without you asking them.
ReplyDeleteOh no!
ReplyDeleteOh my God!
ReplyDeletePoster i hope its not what you are thinking. Pls take the baby to the hospital and take the decision from there. May God be with you.
Poster just do as Stella has said.
ReplyDeleteGo and buy a very good night cam....the one that had night vision and install it in the room ur husband and your son sleeps in. If you don't like that option take your son for checkup at the hospital.
ReplyDeleteWhat is this world turning into naw🤮🤮
ReplyDeleteYou no born pikin, wahala
You born, double trouble
God pls just blow this trumpet oh😤
Jesus Christ!!! just do and come na, because the kind of things we hear that is happening everyday is something else.
ReplyDeletePoster I agree with Stella's advice pretend and take your son to the hospital for proper checkup and be very vigilant
A 2year old chid can’t say much.. will suggest you take him to the hospital for proper check up
ReplyDeleteTake your boy to the hospital for thorough examination first. That’s what you should have done first before suspecting your husband. I pray it’s not what you are thinking.
ReplyDeleteStory.i know of a father who sexually abused his 6month old daughter.
ReplyDeleteHospital to the rescue. And please, NEVER show your husband any form of suspicion. If he notices or senses what you are thinking, you may break his trust for LIFE! Especially if he is innocent. The worst thing you can do to yourself as a human is to live with someone who doesn't trust you.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, why are you both sleeping in different rooms? That's not good at all.
Please be very sure of what you want to accuse your husband of, this is a very serious matter o.
ReplyDeleteHaba madam, take your child to see the doctor. How can your first instinct be to suspect your husband, the father of the child, I think it's ridiculous. Why are most women and wives in our socities losing their senses so fast these days; too quick to blame the men/husbands for every predicaments. Abeg, women/wives do your job, grow up and please stop making the husband's roles so hard. If your husband hadn't allowed the poor boy in his room in the first place, you would still come here saying your husband is selfish and all.
ReplyDeletePlease take your child to the hospital and not blog.
Wishing him a quick recovery!!
I think a lot of us spend too much Time on social media and internalize all the problems we see other people write about. Creating problems where there is none.
DeleteI think you know that your husband is gay hence this kind of suspicion. My mind won't even go towards that direction. Just take him to the hospital for check up.
ReplyDeleteSilly you. You obviously never trusted your husband. You made no attempt to ask your child questions. Take your child to the hospital, explain what your saw to your door. I doubt a 2 years old child will survive anal penetration, the pain will be out of this world. If he was penetrated, his walking would have been affected. To sit down self go be problem. I maybe wrong. Your pediatrician is in the best possible to tell you what happened. I guess you should have snapped a picture of the stool.
ReplyDeleteWhat sort of bullshit talk is this?? Something as serious as this, you would rather bring it to total strangers here on the blog than discuss the situation with your spouse?? And the nerve to even suspect your partner and set him up for drags here shows how daft you are. Just to gain public sympathy from strangers?? In Eka Joy's words..."May God not allow us marry idiots as wives". Madam take your kid to the hospital and act like a parent that you are.
ReplyDeleteThere is mucus in the anus to lubricate it so that the poo can come out,and sometimes mucus comes out with poop.I don't think it is anything, but take the child to the hospital all the same.
ReplyDeleteMy thought exactly, but all the same, let her take the child to the hospital
DeleteFor you to think of something like this towards your husband,it means your marriage is ailing make I borrow English,a 2 year old might not be able to say much, hospital is the best place to go
ReplyDeleteMight be dysentery.
ReplyDeleteHospital for check up
Exactly.
DeleteI also thought along this line... Glad to see someone thought same as me!!! Ma'am it may be dysentery... But to rule out any form of suspicion (even though I'm appalled at the fact that you'll think of your hubby in this manner!) Please take the child to the hospital...
DeleteThank you oo.
DeleteChildren's digestive system can be very funny, any change in diet or a new meal can stir up the system. It is fairly common but goes unnoticed in most cases because the mucus is already mixed with the stool.
DeleteMadam this chronicle means 2 things, you are either over paranoid or you are married to a very loose man.
Enter your comment...U cant suspect ur husband just like that! If ur child is having a health issue take him to the hospital first to know what is wrong with him before making any accusation. I pity ur inocent husband.If he find out that u are try to accuse him of sodomise his child he will hate u 4 life.
ReplyDelete@ anon 16:02
ReplyDeleteI know of a mother that gets aroused when her baby boy is breast feeding. She formed a sexual attachment with the boy from tender age till adolescence.
Stop all this husbands are animals and wives are innocent mentality.
Wetin Musa no go see for gate!! I can't comment! But PLS take your baby away and make sure you did a thorough check up on him! If indeed his father his sleeping with him...DIVORCE him with immediate effect!!! There is no EXCUSE, I repeat...there is no EXCUSE for sleeping with a 2 yrs old child!!! No EXCUSE! AND I'M SHOUTING!!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhen you say pap-like fluid, was it whitish or yellowish? If it was yellowish and it doesn't repeat itself, you have nothing to worry about. If it repeats itself, you may need to treat him for diarrhea. If it was whitish, hospital straight!
ReplyDeleteWaoo.. I see that some of you don't have brain any more. Woman how can you have that as your first suspect before other thing. My God!! The uterine lines of our intestines secret mucus like materials to deal with our food and easy excretion. There are some food you will eat and that mucus will surrounding it before being push out. He must have eaten something that his stomach reacted to.. But not penis in his button my God!!
ReplyDeleteThere’s no way the anal orifice of a 2 year old will be penetrated and you won’t see entry marks, the child will not complain of pain or wince when you touch, you didn’t hear him scream, and you’re in the same house. Even for adult, e Dey pain, talk less of baby.
ReplyDeleteDon’t know the kind of marriages you guys are in where at the slightest thing, you run to ask faceless people if they think your husband is molesting your child. You didn’t try to make findings, you didn’t run to the hospital. Why is it such a depraved thought that came to your head?
Well, plenty people have given advice, take one.
Also, TMI, but it happens that mucus covers excreta sometimes when we poop. Also mucus can accompany some kind of infective diarrhea.
ReplyDeleteI still don’t get why your husband is the first suspect. Nwoke mmadu atala afufu!
Thank you, thank you!!!! I'm all over this post because I am shocked oh.
DeleteInstead of seeing a doctor,you a penning a chronicle.
ReplyDeleteWhat exactly do you expect bvs to profer?
A solution or condemnation.
If it is what I think it is,then your baby has pile AkA Jedi Jedi.
ReplyDeleteMy babies had it about a month ago and we had it treated.
Please go to the hospital and confirm.
@anon 16:02 I know a man who molested his 3 months old baby till he was 3. His wife caught him once, but wanted to stay married by all means and did nothing about it. He started molesting their new born baby too.. if u see these babies Anus, you will be heartbroken. Neighbours had to report the man to the police eventually..:.
ReplyDeleteWe cannot conclude yet Madam
ReplyDeleteTake the boy to the hospital first so we can know what the issue is
Meanwhile, begin to observe and monitor your son and husband but please,Do Not ask your son if his daddy has been doing anything to him because he might tell his dad
My daughter had too much youghurt last two weeks when she was sick because that was the only thing she could take.
ReplyDeleteHer poo was whitish and watery like you described, I had to treat her for dysentery, and it stopped after two days.
Infact, just like you described, she will first poo the whitish and watery stuff before the normal poo.
Please take him to the hospital for treatment because it might be dysentery.
This is absolute nonsense from this woman.Even mature people can hardly withstand the pain of anal Penetration not to talk of a 2yrs old boy,he won't walk! Madam take that boy to the hospital for proper diagnosis and care.I pray your husband get to know about this your stupid assumption and throw you out of his life.
ReplyDeleteIt might not be what you are thinking, please take him to the hospital for proper examination first
ReplyDeleteThere are lot of possibilities from your story poster. From the sparse information provided, I don’t get why the man is a suspect. If indeed there’s something sinister going on, the 2 year will be in tears even when pooing. He will be screaming at night and won’t want to sleep on same bed with the dad. In summary, Please get your son checked by a doctor.
ReplyDeleteMadam please take that child to the hospital. This is not good.
ReplyDeleteMadam please it might be a medical condition, take the child to the hospital. Your husband loves his son dearly the same way you love him. Do not allow Satan and his Demons to pollute and poison your heart. It takes a good father to agree to share his bed with his son probably to ensure your stress is less. May God forgive you for thinking this way about your husband.
ReplyDeleteExactly ....no way hubby would do such to a 2year old.
DeleteYour mindset based on your husband is evil.... mehn.. you didn't even run a medical check-up. Oh mine.. the Lord is with you..
ReplyDeleteVery simple Ma'am, take the 'paplike' fluid to the hospital lab to test it!
ReplyDeleteHaba! What kind of assumption is this? How would you feel if your husband accuses you of molesting his child?! Just because you see it in the news doesn't mean it would happen to you. Seriously, how does pooping something that looks like pap be a sign of molestation because that sounds like dysentery to me?
ReplyDeleteDiscreetly take your child to the hospital to find out what's wrong before making allegations.
This allegation is serious o. If your husband hears it and he's innocent, that could mean the end of your marriage. Like why would I stay married to someone who even thinks I could do such a thing!
Men have suffered in this world.
ReplyDeleteA lot of women are damaged. Damaged to the extent that they will project Wht they read....what they experienced on every other man.
Men....men...men...if you are reading this....fear women! A woman can damage your life based on what she watched on nollywood by projecting their thoughts as reality.
How can you even think your husband molested your wo year old? I am a father of two boys....and my kids do have mucus like poo every once in a while depending on what they eat.
Just imagine if my wife accused me of molesting my own kids....
In what world do you even live in? The fact that you know men who molest does not mean many men do it
Most women who have these crazy thoughts all the time need to fi their lives!
Stop projecting on other men. Not to tako your husband.
Madam poster you are sick! Seek help.
ReplyDeleteThank you Anon 22:43. Insecurities among women is worrisome. Molestation shouldn't be your first thought. Your child could be having diarrhoea and you already termed it molestation. Wait for more proof if you think it's molestation. Don't just conclude hastily.For it to be your first thought it means there is a pre existing resentment between you and your hubby. Change your thought woman! Haba.
ReplyDeleteGuard your heart with all diligence for out of it flows the issues of life...
ReplyDeleteSperm melts within minutes after intercourse.. (from my experience) so an "akamu- like" substance emitted by your son should not be Sperm. It could be beginning signs of a stomach infection.
Please take him to the hospital so that can run fbc on him.
But if your heart is suspecting your husband, it is one of two things..
1. You have been influenced by online negative stories
2. You know he is not trustworthy.
Take some snooping steps anyway to be on the safe side, and pray for yourself, your children, your husband and your marriage that the enemy will not enter...
IT is well with you.
Take your son to hospital for check up first before anything else.
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