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INTERESTING GIST

God have mercy on me. Nobody is a saint we all have one way or the other done something bad while in school. Let me tell a story.

I was 16 and just finished high school when a friend pimped me out to her sugar daddy for N30,000 in 2005. I couldn't date the man because he was far older than me. 

He kept calling and we later became friends without any attachment.

 I gained admission to university and I was basically training myself in school by doing menial jobs. Things became so hard that I had no choice than to call on my older friend to assist but he gave me one condition to sleep with him. 

I had no choice cos I was exhausted already from seeing myself through school plus I didn't want to drop out, I was in 300l and was 21yrs old. That year was the best year of my life cos this man really spoilt me with lots of goodies and the rest.

 In my final year in school, my older lover had returned from overseas so I left my school in Enugu and came down to Lagos without my family's knowledge to visit him and collect my goodies plus allowance.

Beloved I got to his house and after all the pleasantries we went down to s#x, guess what? while he was ejaculating he had cardiac, as in he was on me when the attack happened. Naïve me pushed him off my body and rushed down to get help as I didn't know what to do. 

I got his nephew who immediately rushed upstairs, did what he could do and we both rushed him to the hospital.

We got to the first hospital he was rejected, arrived to the second hospital he was pronounced dead. *Tears*

This sugar daddy of mine was a top naval officer overseas. 

The nephew called his brother and that one arrived immediately at the hospital with police. I was arrested and taken to the station to explain what happened. I got to the station, I explained how I knew and how long we have known each other. I lied we were at the dining when he said he wanted to go take his bath, when I heard a loud sound on rushing to the room I saw him face down and that was when I rushed down to call for help.

 Only God knew how this lie came about because I was in shock and couldn't start saying how he had cardiac arrest while releasing on me. How the police believed me is only God knows because his brother's intention was to lock me up.

 They took me back to his mansion to inspect, we got there and everything was as it was no violence God knows I would never have thought to harm my benefactor God forbid. I loved him and was even planning to join him overseas after school.

 The police explained to the family how it was obvious I never killed him and they have to conduct autopsy to ascertain cause of death. My beloved that was how I was released that night. I went straight to my aunty's house who also benefited from him. God bless her for understanding. All through that night I was still in shocked. It was in the morning that it dawned on me that Lucky was actually dead and gone for good.

For 3 days straight days,I was useless and was shocked on how I narrowly escaped been labelled a murderer at 21yrs old. 

After some weeks with my aunty I went back to school as a shadow of myself. Thank God I was even through with my final exams and was waiting to defend my project. My family till today don't know I have ever gone through that stage in my life. I wish I could turn the hands of clock back I could have saved him. 

It's quiet unfortunate I couldn't help. Until his death that was when I knew who he truly was. I know he took advantage of me but he was helpful and the few yrs of dating him was my best. I pity that poor girl to have decided to ruin her life by killing her benefactor. She would have just chop and move on. Nobody is a saint so no one should say rubbish to me. I have confessed to God and I am sure He has forgiven me. I decided to share this story after more than 10 yrs it happened. That was my only first and last sugar daddy I ever had. I am married now with two kids. All I pray to God is to not allow my kids to go into trouble because of lack. Peace........

WOW you are indeed lucky!

Is it a crime to be gbenshing and the other person dies on you? Does one go to jail for that? Just curious!

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NEW COLUMN
MY OVARIES OH

Normal delivery, I keep hearing people refer to vaginal deliveries as normal as opposed to getting a cesarean section. I normally hear people who gave birth through cesarean section being referred to as weak or not strong enough to push. So I used to think it was a walk in the park.

Also the saying I gave birth through vaginal delivery as Hebrew women delivery which is the “Christian thing” and cesarean delivery is tagged as not having enough faith.

I have had both and I will commend any woman who has been through both, and I saw God show up for me on both cases. My baby was narrowly saved from death by God using medical intervention (C-section) and I literally saw the hand of God. You can imagine my shock when my pastors told me I should have rejected C-section and applied more faith. I just had a simple question which is “ sir as a pastor if your car is faulty why do you go to a mechanic and not just pray and have faith?”.

The point here is that whichever birth you choose to have, they are all God ordained. Nothing beats having a healthy mother and child and that is my testimony.

Please do not allow anyone make you feel inadequate as a woman, healing from C-section no be beans. My scar got infected and I know what I went through. I have seen women with complications from vaginal birth too and I don’t think one trumps the other.

You are a superwoman, do not let anyone make you feel less of yourself.

Sincerely if I were to choose again, I wouldn’t know which one I want. ( I don’t think I want more kids though, my ovaries don try for this matter)

Check my spy just showed me you are pregnant with Octoplets..hahahhaha

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FROM BV WHOSE BOSS SAYS HER DRESSING IS DISTRACTING HIM


People of sdk ville. Jeweluchi, St. Phoenix, Chill, una talk am o. My boss is an ashawo. He has stated what is in his mind already. He says it's attraction to my looks and dedication to work.

 I asked about his woman- not sure they're married yet. This man said he's an African man and cannot be faithful. He sounded like a serial cheat. In his words "a man is allowed to keep a woman to tend to the Homefront while he gets jiggy with as many as he likes outside" In Yoruba he is Oko gbogbo wa- everybody's horseband outside while he belongs to the wife when at home. 

He said many things o but what and how do I handle this kind of situation pending the time I can leave. I have a child to take care of and though the salary is nothing to write home about, I need to survive. Pls, family pray that I get a better job offer soon.

 He keeps coming around to my space this days. I've told him no and even lied I was in a relationship with a man he's met but baba said "am I disturbing him?" I just tire.




Hmmmmmmmmm  We should pray you get a better Job offer? have you applied some other places? He will soon start frustrating when all his niceness does not work.. Have a plan B ready or you might end up sleeping with him out of frustration.

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