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Tuesday, June 08, 2021

Boredom Eliminating Post


61 comments:

  1. Being a working wife.

    Home expenses.

    Number of kids.

    Family members and visitations.

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    1. Fertility test oooo. Make sure the guy do it and you see the results, talking from experience. 80% of our men are impotent.

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    2. Everything

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    3. Seeing a lot of sex, is it that important?

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    4. Number of kids
      Career plans
      Finances
      Choice of church
      Fertility issues
      Family interference (like if family is allowed to visit)
      Accomodations

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    5. Ask his or her take about IVF and surrogacy. Make sure all fertility test is done too.

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    6. I don't know where you all get these weird ass statistics from. 80% men are impotent indeed ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

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    7. @Eka Joy, maybe the anonymous knows this as a fact about the men around her, so she decided to extend that it to most men.

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    1. Overly important, darling sis. Cause some people can just play the ignorant card and keep quiet, leaving you to carry on with expenses for the home front. When you now challenge your hem midway through, they will play the victim card of you are earning more than I do and I have family burden. Please finances is very important

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  3. Joint account. Number of kids we'll have.

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  4. Finance/Money
    Number of children
    Sex
    Accomodation
    School of the kids
    Career
    Religion
    Inlaws

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    1. What should intending couples discuss about sex? Pls I need to be enlightened.

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    2. Ms Tee.
      You should discuss sex with your intended spouse to know the level of kinky, adventurous styles 'position' and if you are willing to explore or something like that.
      Know if they have a fetish or something like that.

      Believe me that conversation dแป‹ important.
      If it something that you can't take, abeg carry yourself outta there before both are tied down legally, lol.

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  5. Genotype
    Number of kids or steps to have one

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    1. A lot ooo my sister.

      Money, sex, child bearing, child raising, in-laws, friends, space, retirement, education, career, wants as against needs, beliefs, domestic roles, etc.

      Chai, Stella, e plenty.

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  7. your financial status,very crucial

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  8. I will love to talk about third parties and why it shouldn't be encouraged. Again, modalities in receiving of visitors and family members

    Lastly, business/working hours not interfering with the upkeep of the family especially when a child comes.

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  9. Worse case scenario when the love fades...

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    1. Hmmmmmmm!
      Nice one.
      You are a deep and realistic thinker.

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  10. Abeg!! Na everything we go discuss. Before matter that aches sets it

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    1. Even after discussing everything it doesn't guarantee anything. It can even breed more anger especially seeing a partner going against what was agreed in the conversation. Don't get me wrong, it is very good to discuss anything and everything, but it hurts more seeing one's partner back track from what was agreed in those conversation. You'll definitely feel betrayed and/or deceived. I know this from experience.

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  11. Number of kids, finances, SEX!

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    1. By sex, do you mean sex positions to indulge in or number of times per week or day. I don’t understand

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    2. By sex, it's good to open up and discuss your fantasies and limits. Eg BDSM, Anal, etc

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  12. Everything discussable. There will always be a new issue each time we meet.

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  13. Health status
    How many children
    Sex
    Finance

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  14. 1. If he or she is mentally sound.
    2. If he or she is already married.
    2b.If anybody is married to them.
    2c.If they are partially, potentially or have somehow fallen into marriage.
    3. If he or she has done blood convenant and tied their destiny ontop of one mango tree.
    4. If he or she get any type of mental illness.
    5.If he or she has children.
    5b.If any children is claiming them as parent.
    6.Who is paying rent, who is paying school fees, who is buying food or na any which which way?
    7.If there is history of mental illness or if he or she dey 'exhibit' one kind one kind.
    8. Who is the head of the house? Agree now abi una go do shift for that one?
    9. Are all your body parts complete,anything missing externally, internally or mentally?
    10. If he or she is okay upstairs, as in completely sane.

    Wo, my hand dey pain me, somebody else should carry on. ๐Ÿ˜

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    1. Madame koinkoin A.K.A "PeaceMaker "8 June 2021 at 19:17

      Hahqhqhahahhqhahahahabbaha anonymous 18:26 you dey craze true true lol, i laughed hard at the countless checking of mental health, but truth be told e necessary wella before person go dey behave one kind , one kind for house o.

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    2. Madame koinkoin A.K.A "PeaceMaker "8 June 2021 at 19:19

      for me its how do you control Anger , that aspect of life is very very important. Make person no stab you because you forget to greet for morning, people are weird.

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    3. "If he/she is mentally sound" hahahahaha.... You think mentally unstable people are aware of their state???

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    4. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ nawa o

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    5. As in that anger is very very important. Find out first o. Plenty werey dey ground wey Yaba left go reject.


      Not the one that will be beating you in the morning for breakfast and demanding you to feed him with fresh oha soup and rub his belly in the afternoon for lunch.

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    6. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚ my dear, the mental state Di over important.
      It can't be over emphasized!
      Lolz!

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  15. Money matters (especially a savings acc for a rainy day), religion (if you belong to different religions or denominations. If you both decide to stick to your beliefs, then agree on the one the kids will belong to), for women who are ambitious career wise, ensure he's cool with it, agree on the number of children.

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  16. Being a career woman
    How to spend your money
    Number of children to have
    Sharing our secret/fight with third party
    Relative visits
    Domestic obligations
    Sex
    Ways to handle issues

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  17. These are the kind questions those that don't know what dating means ask....
    Have was your night?
    Have you eaten?
    Where are you?
    Can I see you?
    Can I send you recharge card?
    Come over let's have s*x,

    After six months he proposed ,plan wedding ..
    The next thing I don't understand this my wife ooo,she is this and that..

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    1. The next thing I don't understand this my wife ooo,she is this and that..๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  18. These are the kind questions those that don't know what dating means ask....
    How was your night?
    Have you eaten?
    Where are you?
    Can I see you?
    Can I send you recharge card?
    Come over let's have s*x,

    After six months he proposed ,plan wedding ..
    The next thing I don't understand this my wife ooo,she is this and that..

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    1. Nobody ask you for these,kindly say yours๐Ÿ™„

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    2. @Ms Abeg next time jump and pass.
      I'm here to have fun.

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  19. Very plenty talk

    Money
    No of kids
    Sex
    Visiting
    Work
    Food
    Church
    Etc

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  20. Finances
    Number of children
    In-laws visit
    Health status.etc

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  21. The talk is endless...even in marriage the talk continues

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  22. Alot o
    Everything under the sun, including laundry and cooking.If you don't like doing laundry you better say it on time cos me I'm in that Whatsapp group, grocery shopping.they seem insignificant but what these things can cause eennhhh.discuss sex o (how much you like or dislike it),third parties involvement, visits by family members,finances,the church you want to attend etc etc

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  23. Finance,duration of parents/family visits,kids,retirement.

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  24. Finances
    Number of children
    Whose church to attend
    How to settle fights and quarrels
    Having family members in the house, are you one that is comfortable with family staying for a long period of time or not
    DISCUSS SEX bad what you expect from each other in that aspect
    Running the house, how should the bills be shared
    Full-time housewife or a working wife
    All these and many more

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  25. Number of kids, finances, and lots more

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  26. Genotype,finance,kids,career pursuit or the absence of it,family.I don’t think sex should be talked about but experienced unless it’s about sexual orientation(some people like to swing both ways)

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  27. Watch out his temper with others not you . Discuss the location you want to raise your children,Fertility and dreams

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  28. If we have similar values, faith and where to worship will not be a problem but top on the list will be MONEY who pays what bill, how do we spend & manage finances, what % goes into savings. How we settle disagreements or difference of opinions is important which brings me to FORGIVENESS and UNITY we have to respect our differences sometimes cos no matter how much we love each other we are 2 different beings uniting as 1 and if two stand United no devil can penetrate. Adversity will only take us closer to Each other and God. GOALS and ASPIRATIONS matter very much, don’t only look at talk for the future look at trends in the past what has this person done in the last 3-5years, that speaks volumes as well. MENTOR especially for a man is so so important, who can I talk to when he/she is raging mad to counsel them sb they respect. other things like health status, family backgrounds, likes, dislikes will definitely be talked about. I agree with the Anon who said sexual matters can be experienced and tweaked. The list is endless.

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  29. Faith
    Work/Finance
    Children
    Sex
    Training of kids
    Extended family
    Friends

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  30. Beautiful Me๐Ÿ’›8 June 2021 at 23:08

    Money
    No of kids
    In-laws

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  31. Mental state, money and inlawS for me.
    Be like Na crase man I marry, I de talk a him go de talk z.
    Iike someone that lost part of his brain.
    His parents want to station in my house permanently and be causing problem.
    Story long!

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  32. Ideas of what a marriage is, gender roles.

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  33. His culture and tradition, mental state, generosity.

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