A Domestic Violence victim has returned to her husband after surviving the near fatal attack he launched on her when she went back to pack her stuff from the house...
This happened in 2020 but as you read this, she is still with him.....
Some never learn.....
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Make I just mind my business before I misyarn.
ReplyDeleteStockholm syndrome
DeleteMy sister came home looking like what the cat dragged home. I was mad, the marriage has never been like a marriage. I said she must not go back but before I could say Jack Robinson, she went back. I never said a word. Now I'm at peace because nobody is coming to ask me for feeding money or child school fees anymore. Stay in your husband's house let me stay on my own.
Delete🍆 won’t let some women think properly.
ReplyDeleteNa she sabi.
She wants to be called married simple . In marriage sef how many dey see dick chop? She no wan join single women that are the butt of jokes by people including her .
DeleteYou would be surprised that many people in marriage stop having sexual relations after the first 15 years. So how is sex the reason to stay?
DeleteThe status is more important that's why they don't leave. My neighbour in the office once said she would rather have Mrs. on her burial poster or announcement than single. She said that while we were attending funeral of a 38 year old single colleague that died of cancer. Go figure.
DeleteTRUE anonymous 12:10,12:11 &12:13.
DeleteIt's All about the status.
God forbid evil.
Only if you knew... just only if you knew. I have been married for less than 5 years and I can count the number of times we have had sex. By the way, there was no pre-marital sex prior to our wedding so this is not a case of we have had enough of it prior to marriage. I don tire to dey beg oga whenever he is ready he should come and meet me, I would wake up
DeleteWow...so it’s about the title of being a MRS?
DeleteEven when it’s 💯 clear it’s dangerous to be with such a man?
You can endure whatever comes your way as long as you hold that title?
No wonder some of these married women look down on singles like they are better. Na them sabi.
13:17, imagine begging for your conjugal rights. It’s well with you.
Some spouses are wicked and selfish.
We married women would just be laughing at that d*ck comment. I had sex with hubby last night after two weeks of the last one. Mind you, our sex is just one round of 2mins or less. The foreplay is just 5mins or 10mins maximum. So tell me how sex makes married women remain in a marriage? Our sex was waaaay better while dating but deteriorated over the years.
DeleteTruth be told, We enjoy the title, (not even the money in most cases cos even some rich men are stingy to their wives). We enjoy the title and companionship in some cases like mine. Hubby was my friend and gossip partner before marriage and he still is.
The job I do is male dominated so imagine if I introduce my self as Miss Ogbonge to new clients, they won't even take me serious. But once I tell them I am Mrs Ogbonge, they accord me respect and behave well. Nigerians do not see single women as responsible people, even the rich ones are accused or being prostitutes. Nevertheless, if my husband becomes violent, I would leave the marriage, I love my life, even if he threatens to take away my beautiful kids, I will leave them for him and keep praying for them, they will know the true story when the time comes.
May God help we Nigerian women.
Lols at the sex comment. 14.38 is right about it, sexual satisfaction below average but what can one do. Afterall, sex isnt food
DeleteDeath don de hungry this one
ReplyDeleteI feel some people get off on abuse.
ReplyDeleteThey cant thrive on peace and quiet.
That's the only explanation that can explain this 🤮🤮🤮
So true
DeleteThey never learn 😏
ReplyDeleteAbeg leave her she simply signed her death wish. Maybe death is calling her name. Did a woman working in World Bank not just die by same means recently?
ReplyDeleteNothing concern me with husband and wife matter again. All of them will be fine...!✌️
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmm na wa
ReplyDeleteThe only place wey I dey put mouth for husband and wife matter now na for this blog. I learned the hard way too. Did Nabilla not go back to Oritsefemi after Caroline tried to help? Did another greedy airhead not get involved with FFK despite Snowwhitey's ongoing saga? Fly wey go die must follow dead body enter grave. Before, I resolved not to be typing any useless sorry/RIP on the victims' posts but I don upgrade. Let it be known that henceforth, I will be typing laugh emojis. *Stella and Sanctimonious BVs, please take note*
ReplyDeleteI'd rejoice whenever another f**l bites the dust. Ndi Mrs. Nzuzu. Tufia!!
I don’t blame you jare it’s very painful and annoying. God won’t use Mrs title to judge them o they’ll be judged regardless of their status.
DeleteLmao 😆
DeleteEsther Zukwanu Ike!!What part of mind your business is hard for you?
ReplyDeleteYou are still telling us to pray for her,iji kwa Anya gi!
It's a pity! Once you advised and they don't yield,na to mind your business and drink chilled water! Whatever mbok! Her life,her choice
ReplyDeleteMe pray for her ke?
ReplyDeleteShe will call herself a respectable married woman. Lol. Tueh tueh. Shit marriage.
ReplyDeleteHmmm,her choice
ReplyDeleteThey never learn.
All in the bid to remain marriage.The Mrs title has really messed up some women...
ReplyDeleteDem no dey hear word. Dog wey wan get loss, no dey hear hunter's whistle.
ReplyDelete*my hands on my head*
ReplyDeleteThat woman has been brainwashed by people who claim to care.
Such a pity!
Stella ehhh, na so one of my neighbour for compound quarrel with her husband naim the husband send him son wen be cultist beat this woman scatter her body oo as she fair sef.
ReplyDeleteShe come tell me and my other neighbour the thing we advice her to face front and forget the man.
E nor reach one week them don come back together as I dey type so.
OK ooh
ReplyDeleteMy aunt's neighbour get one married daughter wey don secretly move back home. If una see the massive stitch from her forehead down her left cheek ehn?!!!! Her husband sliced her face with a knife . Useless community dick. He stabs her at the slightest provocation. Na her parents go pack her load before e kill their pikin. I bet he was a deadly cult member in school. Staying alive single or bearing Mrs on your tombstone is your choice.
ReplyDeleteJesus!
DeleteWho didn't they pack her load after the first stab? They waited till he disfigured her face before removing her from that house.
What am i even saying? Why am i blaming the parent sef? They may have tried to talk to her to leave and she refused. I pray she doesn't even go back to him secretly. That is how abuse victims are, they can't be rescued unless they decide to rescue themselves.
Poor girl!
DeleteWho raised these animals?! God punish anybody that has children and intentionally fails to raise them well. The hottest part of hell await all useless stupid parents.
If you can't do your duty as a parent, don't have kids!!! They grow up to be a menace to others
I learnt the hard way here during Flossy's brouhaha with her husband.
ReplyDeleteSince then I adopted Stella's stance, sit-down dey look!
Most abuse victims are also broken down mentally. Abuse does not simply affects the body, it destroys mental health. That can be compounded if family members close their doors are tell the survivor to go back to their marriage. These survivors need prayers and therapy to break the bonds of psychological control the abuser have over them.
ReplyDeleteUna see why I no dey pity them? No be death warrant this one don sign so?
ReplyDeleteHer life, her choice, her decision, her happiness.
ReplyDeleteThe man is good.
ReplyDeleteAbuse is very deep. Thanks to the commenter who mentioned Stockholm syndrome. Google it. Here there is no title o. Everyone goes by their first name. America no send person so it’s not for title. For those saying that married folks stop having sex after 15 years, which study did you use. The woman with just 5 years of marriage, check if he has a side chick or is into others. I have been married for decades and if I allow it we go do an every other day. I don’t need the title as even Acada title self I know dey use am not to talk of Mrs. From observing my female extended family in Naija & some folks I see in some Naija churches here, men are physical. Take it from a 50+ woman. See Jeniffer Lopez, Halle Berry etc. My cousin is deeper but the man na oga and he no dey do deeper outside but she no dey use perfume, doesn’t keep fit or try to look like a side chick. Of course the man isn’t attracted to sex with her! Women let’s be honest with ourselves.Be a wife but look like a side chick at home. Don’t become Iya Apati just because you have been married for 20 years. Keep fit, look good, see the dentist every 6 months or yearly, use mouthwash, wear nice fragrances, dress well, if you are a full time homemaker, get up and shower and wear short pants when he is about to return home! You can dislike my comment but I just told you the truth. Men are very physical while women are emotional. That’s why they can do it and feel nothing while you feel they love you.
ReplyDeleteAs for the subject of the story, I have no comment other than for those who love her to not listen to her but take charge. It’s a disaster waiting to happen. You don’t need the Mrs title even a prof set, students dey rate them on ratemyprof.com and only call prof in official settings sometimes. America no send you title. Mrs wetin? Maka gini? Die there. Na crush he crush you small before. No see that as a warning. Obtuse woman. I’m actually pissed off at her type. Nigerians glorify Queen Esther in the Bible but condemn divorce putting psychological pressure on folks to stay in bad marriages. Did King Ahasuerus not divorce Queen Vatshi before Queen Esther who God used to save the Jews? Stop listening to doctrines of men. Read the Bible yourself.