While driving my clients to their destinations, I sometimes wish that I could be oblivious of the things they say or do, but the amebo in me won’t just let me mind my business.
I still wonder why people tell all sorts of lies especially those in relationships. Trust is so hard to find these days and it cuts across both genders. This has made me to be precautious in my search for a partner as I have seen all sorts, especially in the line of my job as a taxi driver.
Not long ago as I took a lady home, she sat at the back of the car with her boyfriend. I stole glances as they touched, smooched and kissed each other. Oh well, this is a regular occurrence in which I have literarily stopped a ‘couple’ from making out in my car at night as I drove.
Along the way, the girl received a call from a guy and suddenly, the tone of her voice changed as she told him she just got to her hostel from the hospital since morning. She said she had been on drips and also taken injections but is feeling much better. I was too shocked for words. I later figured from her conversation on the phone that the guy she was talking with is her fiancΓ© who is abroad.
On the other hand, I met a lady who I really like so much at the beginning of this year and decided to go a step further with her recently. We started dating shortly before she went to camp for her Youth Service recently.
I hung out with 2 of my friends last weekend and showed them the picture of the girl I am dating now. My friend just told me to stop wasting my time on the girl. On probing further, he said he knows her and ‘chops’ her steady, and he knows 2 other guys that have also ‘chopped’ her. He showed me some ‘receipts’ on his phone, which confirmed to me she is a runs girl.
Truly, I like this girl and I don’t mind giving her a chance but the thought that my friend has been intimate with her leaves a sour taste in my mouth. It could be possible too that she has truly changed but it is really hard for me. This has left me heartbroken and I don’t see myself continuing the relationship with her again as I keep imagining what she could be doing with other guys in my absence.
I still wonder why people tell all sorts of lies especially those in relationships. Trust is so hard to find these days and it cuts across both genders. This has made me to be precautious in my search for a partner as I have seen all sorts, especially in the line of my job as a taxi driver.
Not long ago as I took a lady home, she sat at the back of the car with her boyfriend. I stole glances as they touched, smooched and kissed each other. Oh well, this is a regular occurrence in which I have literarily stopped a ‘couple’ from making out in my car at night as I drove.
Along the way, the girl received a call from a guy and suddenly, the tone of her voice changed as she told him she just got to her hostel from the hospital since morning. She said she had been on drips and also taken injections but is feeling much better. I was too shocked for words. I later figured from her conversation on the phone that the guy she was talking with is her fiancΓ© who is abroad.
On the other hand, I met a lady who I really like so much at the beginning of this year and decided to go a step further with her recently. We started dating shortly before she went to camp for her Youth Service recently.
I hung out with 2 of my friends last weekend and showed them the picture of the girl I am dating now. My friend just told me to stop wasting my time on the girl. On probing further, he said he knows her and ‘chops’ her steady, and he knows 2 other guys that have also ‘chopped’ her. He showed me some ‘receipts’ on his phone, which confirmed to me she is a runs girl.
Truly, I like this girl and I don’t mind giving her a chance but the thought that my friend has been intimate with her leaves a sour taste in my mouth. It could be possible too that she has truly changed but it is really hard for me. This has left me heartbroken and I don’t see myself continuing the relationship with her again as I keep imagining what she could be doing with other guys in my absence.
I think I have just dodged a bullet … in fact, a grenade.
* If i talk now they will say I am attacking you...
Look at how you jumped into conclusion and believed your friend? what if he knows her but lied about sleeping with her? it is possible to have receipts but story might be different.. why not talk things over with her before you dump her?
You too have your hands been clean? or is i because you stopped gisting us and now behaving as if you are without sin?
Are you not the Oko Ashawo that was/is gbenshing your customers? Abeg clear!
Lmaooo. I'm here for the footnote. Nice read oko ashawo. Big ups
ReplyDeleteOko ashawo, I support Stella in this. Sometimes this people lie a lot. When my husband was coming for me, assuming.he asked my gateman secretly about me, I'm sure he wouldn't Marry me. When cars are coming to pick me, my gateman would be eyeing me, not knowing that it's Uber that comes to pick me.
DeleteStella five bottles of whatever you drink for you π€£π€£π€£π€£
ReplyDeleteAs usual, it’s the hypocrisy for me. As long as you all engage in premarital knacking, you’re all on the same table. I don’t care about the context. Whether one party already has a partner, fiancΓ© or whatever, whether your friend has chopped or your brother has chopped the person, it’s all the same, love.
You move with friends that "chop" girls anyhow. You also "chop girls" anyhow. But you want to marry one
ReplyDeletethat has not been "chopped?" Really; are you kidding me?
God cannot be mocked. If you are a hypocrite, you are going to marry a chief hypocrite. God cannot prepare and parcel his well loved son or daughter and give
to a hypocrite. You and your friends are meeting your fellow masquerades; those masquerading as angels of light whereas you are lascivious, lewd and debaucherous. I have just one word for you; Repent!π§Ίπ§Ίπ§Ίπ§Ίπ§Ίπ§Ίπ§Ίπ§Ίπ§Ί
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ReplyDeleteWhy do we men always kiss and tell?? Is it a thing of bragging for them???
ReplyDeleteNot all men Dear, the fools among them. Real men don’t do such.
DeleteNot similar to yours but had this experience. I had a friend who was from my place. He had a serious relationship then so nothing between us plus wasn't really interested...then came his very handsome friend.
ReplyDeleteHe just relocated to Lagos from PH then. Would u believe that this my friend refused him to have anything to do with me? His excuse...he met me first.
Oga you get fiancee...wetin you dey find for my side. This new guy never believed that I had nothing to do with him so I never stood a chance cos he (my friend) never told him the truth. We weren't even that close so I let both of them go.
I was so angry at the guy but didn't say a word not until he tried reaching out later and cursed him to high heaven.
But the point is...sometimes you see things for yourself and not assume your friend was telling the truth. You saw receipts?? Dude...Its easy to change names on contact list.
Observe first and take a decision...don't let people make that decision for u.
Thank you o. He should take his time and observe. If he truly loves the girl, he should give her a chance and not ghost her
DeleteChoppers una dooh
ReplyDeleteIn Rosy Meurer's words; We recycle ourselves. Only few be tear rubber. I chop your own, you chop another. Live.
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DeleteChop I chop, nothing do us π
Oko, the ones wey u don chop sebi na guys go still marry them?
ReplyDeleteStella Jeweluchi you have no chill πππ€£π
ReplyDeleteNo lies @your footnote. Oko Ashawo you pass as someone that can easily be deceived. Are you without sin. You dey gbensh now you come dey find fargin.
ReplyDeleteAs a guy, it will be difficult for me to marry a girl that my friend has chopped. I no fit abeg. It's better I don't even know about it.
ReplyDeleteOko Ashawo, you did well joor. 5 bottles of whatever you drink on me. Side eyes @ Snarkerπ
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Men will always be men. You can't marry someone your friend has been intimate with. Odiegwu. Let he who is without sin cast the stone. If you are going to break up with her, be bold enough to have a conversation with her. Don't ghost her, she might be a changed person
ReplyDeleteDon't know why the hullabaloo from the ladies... Would you allow your bestie or friend date a guy you have dated. Stop the hypocrisy jo
ReplyDeleteThank you o. This is another 'angu' to the issue on ground. I wish the ladies would answer this question sincerely. Would they agree to date their friends' exes? π€ Na each person know wetin dey bite am
DeleteI see no hypocrisy in Oko Ashawo's story, he saw the 'receipt' and drew conclusions, no be heresay.
ReplyDeleteThough I would have asked the girl in question to hear her own side of the story.