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Swinging both ways refers to someone who is Bisexual but we will use the term swinging both ways here to avoid too many lewd words if possible...
Do you swing both ways in the other room or you know someone who does? why the double desires? were you born this way or its for financial gain? Does your partner/spouse know that you swing both ways? Are you open about your preferences or you hide it?
Are you serial or you are a one man, one woman kind of person? how has this lifestyle improved your life? Make us understand why you are the way you are...
Please dont use lewd sex terms when commenting on this post.
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One of my friends in the University then tried to lure to sleep with him. I visited him in his room one day and he started rubbing my legs and grabbed my joystick.
ReplyDeleteI jumped from my seat and gave him a stern warning.
He is married with kids now but he still swings both ways. He got married out of family and societal pressures.
I really pity him
You dey pity person wey dey misbehave instead wey you go pity the woman wey him marry.
DeleteMany of them in conservative and hypocritical societies like Nigeria are married and in a lot of cases, you can’t just tell by mere looking at them. Sometimes, they’re the most vocal against homosexuality/bisexuality.
DeletePeople should be careful how they judge others because they have no clue what some of their “pious” and “respected” parents and even siblings are up to or have in their past. If you’re not careful, you’ll be thrown of balance if you get to know what some “very respected” individuals are up to. I remember a neurosurgeon who makes at least a million plus dollars a year being arrested for molesting young family members. Some of the Docs he went to medical school with were involved in such too.
It’s better to allow them to be open with their sexuality so that women/men are not deceived into marriages with people on the down low thereby exacerbating the spread of HIV, other STDs like wild fire.
Na the work wey girls dey do. All those pet names, meanwhile things dey occur. Funny thing is how they don't talk about it. Like two friends sleep on same bed and do bad stuffs and wake up acting like nothing. Women do things o. They're just not as vocal and prideful as men are.
DeleteWomen really have to watch for the signs before jumping into marriage. A clear indication is a man that seems to have no regard for the importance of a woman in his life. In fact leave the fact that he is single despite being very eligible and attractive and well to do o. Such men are like the husband of poster that sent in Chronicle days ago. They may blend very well with ladies esp pretty nice looking well behaved ladies on friendship level but when it comes time to make advances for relationship, the guy shows no interest and also argues and debates with ladies over small issues without apologising as if he too is a woman. They make sil ly petty excuses for why certain things can't work out between them and any lady n when u hear the reason for breakup u will be confused. They are more eager to spend time with fellow Male friends than ladies they know may be attracted to then. I know such a guy that my friend introduced me to as per let's see if we r compatible but sth is really off about him. As fine as accomplished as he is, no gf. Gay men have actually approached him for relationship according to him and If I'm not mistaken, gay men usually know themselves and are bold to approach If they r sure. - he has a hatred for religions and his main dream is to relocate abroad where I think he will be more free to practice his orientation. and I noticed some other hints but I won't say much of anything cus that is his business
DeleteThere's nothing that disgust me like the mere thought of watching gay porn. I've never watch it and will never do. I hate the act even though I won't condemn those who have chosen such sexual preference.
ReplyDeleteI hardly sleep in a bed with a fellow man. I just don't know why I feel that way. Not with all the money in the world will I give into gay.
I've a friend who delights in watching his woman and another woman making love together while he watch. He said he can tolerate that but not when he sees her with a man.
I see such as a demonic act ,pardon my word.
DeleteWell, I can tolerate my man with another man,but with a woman, hell..no.
DeleteJust use protection and when u return, break my waist well.
You are repressed. You try too hard to suppress your gay side.
DeleteThank you El Haj, I could have typed this comment myself 😅😅😅.
DeleteI had an ex, why he was even my ex, was out of stupidity self, before we dated, we were gisting, when he told me, that there was a man he knew, that helped him in school, that he stayed with him, and he was gay
ReplyDeleteSometimes, he will hug him from behind, while watching his car, they lay on the same bed, but no sex oh, just kissing. That he was using him to chop money. I didn't really put my mind there
It was later I knew, this guy can never sleep on the same bed with a fellow man never, but he has no issues with a woman. I think, he tried so much to stop the act. So many other things I noticed. Last I checked, he got married. He indirectly told me he is gay, but I overlooked it. So many men are swinging both ways, so many
As dick sweet reach?The thoughts of another woman touching me disgust me to high heavens!
ReplyDeleteI DONT AND WONT TRY IT EVER
ReplyDeleteOne man one woman, Thank you very much.🛌
ReplyDeleteNo bisexual, fornication, adultery, tensome or fiftysome orgy. Holy spirit no go gree
I have made a promise to God to Refuse to get carried away by life and its useless vanities. Focused on the only thing that matters which is christ and eternity in the life after with my maker. We won't be here forever no matter how many years we spend on this earth that is a mirage. Eventually we go need to give details of how we lived our lives. The knowledge of this huge information at the back of mind has made me the way I am abeg. I no fit kill myself. If you chop life, life go chop you so na to apply sense and chop life inside the word of God according to God's desire for my soul.
When we finally see Baba God we go even forget whether sex sweet or not or whether we enjoy chicken periperi garnished with enough orisirisi.
The flesh and it's lustful abi na carnal desire in death will go its way and leave the soul all by itself to face God for judgment e go tell the soul say e don try make him come carry your cross after e don push am to sin for earth finish. The flesh go say carry your cross alone see you later. So I refused from young age never to let my flesh lead me to sin lailai. The flesh can be a fake friend and a betrayer so I rely on the guidance of the holy spirit to help me subdue the flesh desire. So help me God.😁
How has it improved my life? I just dey see this one.
DeleteNo conscience of guilt before God and in my personal life.
I know every dissapointment is a blessing because he loves me too much as an obedient child that I am so if things do not go as i expected it i know God hand dey there and it is for the best. So no qualms. We move.
When I pray I see what to do in the dream because I receive clear direction.
I get to know what business to invest and the one to avoid. I see the result of what would happen if I embark on any business in the dream.
I see intended relationship prospect true lifestyle and secret in the dream. The holy spirit tell me everything. So if you lie na for your pocket.
No disease
Fear of 'what a man sow he will reap' what some people call karma.
E plenty but i get peace of mind.
Anon 14:34 💋God bless you
DeleteProphet anon 14.59, ehm Nigeria go break up into 3? Na bubu or clone dey dia?
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DeleteMy wife is bisexual and I am quite aware of it. I am straight tho. We were best friends before marrying that’s how I know. She keeps it single tho. She has been with the same chic for a long time. No jealousy on my part.
ReplyDeleteWe live in the US and the Chic lives in Nigeria and is also married. They hook up like twice or thrice a year. The chics husband found out and called me to rant and I told him I was aware and he was dumbfounded. I love my wife very much and I won’t judge her. 😉
Wow. That's all I can say
DeleteBed of Iniquity.
DeleteSoul in jeopardy
Lord have mercy.
You say???? 😳😳😳😳
DeleteWow!!!!
DeleteWelcome to the new age
DeleteLol...this one loud..hahahaha
DeleteGood man!
DeleteThis is love... you love someone with all their flaws.
Thay is the way to go!
I’m attracted to and like men but sometimes women turn me on and I’m Female.
ReplyDeleteDoes that make me bisexual???
No it does not.
DeleteYou are not alone. I feel same way too. I am straight as a ruler but when I watch normal porn .The way the woman's butt shake and the way she moans make me climax. Sometimes I feel I might be a lesbian because of tbat.. But truth is I cant stand the thought of another woman's hand touching me. The thought alone disgusts me. So why do I enjoy watching a woman's body in porn????. I love a mans touch and d*..k soo much.
DeleteOne man one woman. I Refuse to get carried away by life and its useless vanities. Focused on the only thing that matters which is christ and eternity in the life after with my maker. We won't be here forever no matter how many years we spend on earth. Eventually we have to give details of how we lived our lives.
ReplyDeleteHow has it improved my life? I just dey see this one.
No conscience of guilt before God and in my personal life.
I know every dissapointment is a blessing because he loves me too much as an obedient child that I am so if things do not go as i expected it i know God hand dey there and it is for the best. So no qualms. We move.
When I pray I see what to do in the dream because I receive clear direction.
I get to know what business to invest and the one to avoid. I see the result of what would happen if I embark on any business in the dream.
I see intended relationship prospect true lifestyle and secret in the dream. The holy spirit tell me everything. So if you lie na for your pocket.
No disease
Fear of 'what a man sow he will reap' what some people call karma. I no fear that one. I no hurt anybody.
E plenty but the main thing be say I get peace of mind and sleep like a baby.
One more thing. No body can describe my thing for their friends since nobody don see am.😁
Nobody can describe my prowess in bed or ringtone. Those are private and for my partner alone.
Oh yes I do occasionally, once in a blue moon. And yes my husband knows but doesn't care much, provided it's not with a guy. He doesn't see it as me cheating on him. He feels if it makes me happy why not!!
ReplyDeleteWomen and selfishness are 5 & 6. I bet you will sending chronicles if it was your husband occasionally having sex with a man. He might just go with the flow as a simp of he is not courageous enough to confront you. Continue fingering👏
DeleteI love love. It doesn't matter the body carrying it. I have loved a girl very deeply before and still do. We never had sex but we communicate like lovers. The feeling is real and sometimes I really wish we could be together forever. She wanted us to get married. I turned it down. But I cried so much that day. It hurt me a lot because I knew within my heart I loved her a lot. Doesn't make sense why I shouldn't be with her. But what can I do? I am really grateful to God I also found love with a man. What I have with my man is real and strong. It doesn't reduce or stop what I feel for my girl. It's just different. Somedays I miss her a lot; but I always always avoid her. It's well.
ReplyDeleteI have gotten so many advances from men with big offers. I remember one who is married based in belgium. He told me how he likes me and he will like us to do the do. He told me how he was introduced to it. He said it was a reverend father in high school. Ever since then he has become that way. He is doing very well for himself. Investment in nigeria and abroad. He told me then he will take me over there if I agree. I bluntly refused. On our discussion one time. He told me how he used one of our friends that we know him together. Today that guy's Life is miserable. I think this gay thing is evil spirit. As if they take your destiny from you. And seem to be very successful than straight guys. God help us. Even though I am not where I should be now but I will never involve myself in the act. God hates it
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DeleteBefore before I used to play for the other team. The nonsense warri girl almost break my head with bottle. Since then I have been so straight. I no want wahala abeg.
ReplyDeleteThis post came right on time.
ReplyDeleteBiko what are tell tale signs a man is gay or bi? He pretended to mistakenly slide his D in my butt then I yelled before he apologised n put it in the right hole
2) he has bum bum for a man
3) cooks well
4) single at almost 40 tho igbo
5) lasts unbelievably long in bed 😱
6) registered in a gym and always exposing his short arms by wearing tight singlets
Am I paranoid or hes truly gay?
Coming from someone who’s been in
DeleteThe game. Chances are that he swings both ways or that he’s with you out of societal pressures that’s if you both live in nigeria. A guy that cooks well doesn’t mean his gay, there r tons of straight guys that cooks well. But on the other hand,straight guys experiments what they see in porn, recently the thoughts of trying the butt of your girl is trending nowadays, I can tell you it’s very normal for some couple; in their own words they call it being adventurous and trying new things to spice up their sex life. If you feel that way you can easily confide in him and ask him questions n if you both love one another he will def tell u a story or two.
You are paranoid
DeleteBack in Nigeria I used to date a girl And our sex life was amazing like kilode!! I’ll say I swing both ways but in my own case it’s more of the attraction and connection. If I feel connected to a girl there’s no way I’ll sleep with a guy the same applies vice versa. So when I’m dating a girl, I stay faithful and not even have the urge to go down with a guy! Same thing applies with dating a guy I’ll not feel like having anything with a girl. My girl and I back then we spoke about things like this and she knew that I’ve got the tendencies of doing both things and it was never a problem cuz the trust was there. I believe the problem ppl have is when they live in secrecy it’ll eat one up and eventually you’ll self destruct.
ReplyDeleteIndicate if you’re male or female. It getting confusing.
DeleteI remember when I used to have something with a popular Nigerian celebrity that’s married, back then we will do it everywhere in his house, even when the wife travels to Uk, I’m literally there every weekend to make sure he’s doing well. In nigeria this sort of things happens just that the hypocrisy of the people won’t let them agree that they’ve done worse. Till today they are still married and have lots of kids but I’m no longer interested. Though whenever he sees my pictures he reminisces about what we had
ReplyDeleteMy then boyfriend, omg with big d damn we had it almost everyday and inseparable in nigeria. He eventually wanted to marry and showed me
ReplyDeletePictures of some of the girls he’s talking it, I finally helped him select one of them and they got married, I was there on their wedding day, but afterwards I decided not to continue the relationship cuz I didn’t want to be the reason of their marriage downfall. She kind of starts suspecting that we are too close to a fault that the husbands is always calling me on the phone and always happy to hear from me, she even sent me a stinker to tell me she doesn’t know what I have with her husband that he’s always smitten about me and that she has never seen us quarrel but both of them always have misunderstandings. But truth be told I make the guy happy and cuz I’m very goal oriented I always help him in his career to make good decision. Long story short I left the friendship and the wife started calling me to apologize after she found out I was actually a good person and never wanted to spoil their marriage. Shit is happening especially in nigeria
Nice one bro
DeleteI don’t mean to generalize but truth be told. A lot of people including girls or even guys have tried to play with the same sex. I know this cuz I’ve spoken to quite a number of people who are Straight be it woman or man, they told me, they’ve had a fair try of what it feels like either as a kid out of curiosity or just a one-off thing.
ReplyDeleteI have never had anything to do with the same sex before
DeleteMore of women abeg..
DeleteLots of women and fewer guys
Fewer guys is a lie. Some of your so called gees are probably into it and you’re not aware. Hypocritical societies tend to overlook lesbians and despise gay men more so the men hide more. Some of these macho men are on the down low.
DeletePlease don't Generalize, I have NEVER thought of having anything to do with a female, like never.
DeleteDANTE fewer guys? Naaaaa.
DeleteMany moving around with 6 packs and woven hair are in it.
Many bleaching men and the ones who dress in feminine colors are too.
The women eh, they can't control theirs, they technically rape you with their eyes if you're one they find attractive.
It's that fast and demonic.
I am bisexual/Lez, but av never had a same sex relationship cos I dnt have the boldness to tell a lady how I feel.
ReplyDeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteOne of my gee ex babe was into this stuff.. the guy was living the life.. sometimes he even toast girls for her but on the condition that it would be a threesome😄😄.. there was this girl that refused him touching her and was 'eating' his babe.. no so baba end the session oh.. who does that nah😃😄..
He'd always be like, how you gon fuck my babe and I won't fuck you.. hell no 😃😃
There's this lady,she's married to one prominent man in naija..a former senator.shes in girls and hubby kuku help her Wella.Even before they got married,he doesn't like seeing her with guys only female.so she was very close to this particular lady who happens to be my cousin.She introduce her to the stuff.when oga sees them together,he's not worried,he doesnt no they're doing d do.Theyre both married but still into it forming besties.
ReplyDeleteAre you married or in a relationship? I honestly like what you wrote. I totally agree, and I’m happy to see someone with such a firm view. I’d like to ge to know you more. I am a lady.
ReplyDeleteWonders shall never seize
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