''Having a kid has really changed me in a way..
when you see people with kids in places where you are hoping for quietness, like in a plane or mall and then you see children running around ,raising a kid actually gives you more empathy, it makes you very empathic because you see how it goes. It's not really about you now .
I have more empathy because yeah I'm wearing those shoes now
Nice one Simi, I have always been empathic towards people with kids but the one that annoys me is those with entitlement mentality, they will enter bus with 3 kids and pay for 1 seat and be telling you "Carry one now, you no know say you go born one day" or not bother to apologize when their kids dirty your cloth or mess up the environment. Madam, nobody owes you anything because you have a child and God doesn't tie His blessings to such acts, it is just good to help whenever you can.
ReplyDeleteLol..
DeleteYou haven't met the one that will just push the 3 kids to 3 passengers to carry, without asking for their consent.. then sit majestically like a queen and enjoy the trip
Say it loud 11:34!!!!!!
DeleteI concur totally with your comment.
U've just said it for me. I empathize a lot with mothers with kids in transit. They usually look so harrased. However, I can't help showing my irritation when they start jumping on seats with shoes that have been on some messy floors.
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DeleteLolll,and when you don't tolerate such mannerless attitude they see you as enemy of process or you don't like their kids.
Entitlement mentality is what makes most people not moving forward.
*progress*
DeleteLolll @Dante
DeleteSome people are stupid like that.
Very annoying something.
True talk
ReplyDeleteThank for making her experience motherhood.
ReplyDeleteYes o but I hate kids screaming on the plane. I totally get it that most just have anxiety or panic attack which is weird cos kids are fearless but there's just something about planes that makes most scream. I empathise but hate it all the same. I guess I'm a bad mom for giving my kids sleeping aid during flights but I know they are not disturbing hundred other people.
ReplyDelete"Sleeping aid" madam just tell us you're drugging your kids to sleep. Smh
DeleteI love kids, can't wait to have mine in due time of course 😎
ReplyDeleteMy love for kids eeeeh
DeleteTheir innocent characters make me laugh.
Enjoy the motherhood Simi, it's really a beautiful thing to experience as a woman.
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