Fitness expert Maje Ayida (who was married to on air personality Toke Makinwa) and his baby mama Anita Solomon recently celebrated their second child Ariana's 1st Birthday..... The couple also have a son Micah.
Anita posted the photos on her story a few hours ago.....
Congrats to them...
This what every woman desire. To be celebrated with your kids.
ReplyDeleteDesire kwa...who desires this ?
DeleteWow! These snatchers eee π²
DeleteWhich every woman do you mean?! So this nonsense hasn't just become an accepted norm but the desire of every woman?
DeleteAzi gbakwa unu!!!
Oh Chille
DeleteI thought he found love about a year or so ago with the lady who was involved in a fire.
This is giving me a "peter, amina and Tara" vibe
Desire to be baby making machine, and not good enough to be his wife π???.
DeleteChukwu ajuu.πΆπ½♀️
You're definitely not a woman. If he loves her then he should marry her and not turn her into an illegitimate baby making factory
DeleteSpeak for yourself
DeleteStella these pictures are not on Maje or Anita page so where did you get them from
DeleteMAJE will never publicly claim Anita and Anita cannt claim who ashamed to claim her
18:11 Stella na bad ass nawπ€£. Maje go shock! Chopping and cleaning mouth for conner not knowing Stella will sniff him out.
DeleteWow I thought he was dating that lady who was a hens victim but recovered. So he went back to Anita o ga o
ReplyDeleteAny lady dating Maje is just wasting her time,cos dis Anita dat i am seeing will NEVER leave. If a Marriage with Toke didnt move her,mos def a relationship wont.
DeleteSince she has decided she will take Maje in any form,let them enjoy.
They make cute babies though.
Burns*
DeleteB and R abi Maje would never leave Anita. She doesn't pressure him and she accepts him for who he is. Toke said it in her book. He said she's everything Toke is not
DeleteGbam!
DeleteYou read the book well.
@Sue my dear many men will be okay with a lady like Anita,they can date others,marry others,have kids and the lady is always there as a side-piece waiting...knowing he can keep returning to her without stress,sleep with her without condom even and she wont bother him for commitment or marriage. Maje is indeed living his best life.
DeleteWhen he finds another suitable celeb wife he will still marry again.
Our Nigerian P. Diddy... Aka Low Budget Sean Combs.
DeleteI will rather b in this kind of relationship than be in a marriage i will eventually be shamed( divorced). Mk I know my level from day 1. MARRIAGE IS OVERRATED!
DeleteWomen like anita can never leave. They will lurk around and hold on till the very end.
DeleteMaje,just wife this lady, you got two kids from her already. You are longer a kid,see lovely kids. After all, it was because of her your marriage to Tm ended.
ReplyDeleteNot every woman is crazy about marriage. She may prefer their arrangement like it is.
DeleteIts a lie Yvonne she will marry Maje in a heartbeat if he proposes.
DeleteYvonne Abeg tell them. Something about marriage creates issues. The very things a man used to love in you while dating becomes taboo once married. For example, “ why are you wearing that dress, don’t you know you are a married woman?” “See how you are drinking stout. Don’t you know you are a married woman?” The same stout he introduced you to when you were dating so that the sex will be lit π
DeleteMy dear marriage is overrated, speaking from experience,will I do it again? Never, if I see this type i will gladly enter
DeleteAnon 19.30 why so ? May God change your mindset with a real man ijn. Men some of you are truly wicked see how you damaged someone’s child mind. E hugs dear
DeleteIf he wanted to wife her, he would. but looks like he enjoys husband perks already so no rush on his end. Anita will take a piece of Maje n be just fine. Looks like the arrangement suits both. Plus as someone said, would you rather be the unsuspecting wife that receives a rude awakening or the baby mama who knows where she stands no surprises. In naija, wives don't necessarily get any more protection than concubines legally or financially so looks like Anita is enjoying best of both worlds staying a single mum to a present father. Maje actively dates other women while she has the kids that she wants without being answerable to a man. I don't desire such but I can see why she is comfortable with it. It also looks like Anita is way too into Maje to leave him.
DeleteI love TM, But I ain't goina hate on this little angel. . She is Sooo beautiful. HBD bunny.
ReplyDeleteIf a woman is good enough for you to be sleeping with and having children with, why isn't she good enough for you to marry? This isn't some random mistake and one night stand, this woman was in the picture all the while he was dating Toke.
ReplyDeleteI feel bad for Anita, she was probably with him before Tokd, with him while he was with Toke and he eventually married Toke. Still with him after he divorced Toke, then he publicly declared his love for another woman and said he was engaged or so with her. Anita you need to develop some self esteem, where do you draw the line? I get she might want to have all her kids by the same man but this guy obviously doesn't love or respect her.
Maje,marry this lady already,ahah!
ReplyDeleteExcept the woman does not want marriage, why would you continue having kids with someone you dont want to marry?
ReplyDeleteMaybe the man doesn't want marriage. This is a man with several other women he is dating and don't forget anita is not the only baby mama. He just seems to have more chemistry with her for some reason. Maybe she takes his shit or lets him be his funky self or whatever the fuk
DeleteI used to think the Anita girl is mixed o
ReplyDeleteYes her father is half lebanese or smthn.
DeleteHer Dad is half lebanese
DeleteShe is. But her black genes are stronger
DeleteWow, when did the 2nd child happen?
ReplyDeleteYou think this one is Toke that tells everyone her every-every .
DeleteAs in, me sef dey wonder where I've been that I'm only hearing today π
DeleteAnon is this the type they announce, a man who had two publicly known girlfriends/fiancee/ wife on you. Yet he is yet to publicly claim you. Please she would be embarrassed. It's Just that every child deserves life and to be celebrated. Anita congratulations!
DeleteThis girl is a professional baby mama. Even if maje marries someone else she will still keep having babies for him. At least when she first met him he was single. It is well.
ReplyDeleteI doubt she ever met Maje a single man,she has been dating him alongside Toke and others for long.
DeleteThe kind of love she has for this man is border line obsession and im surprised Maje isnt even scared. The way this thing is going what if he marries someone else again and shes so broken dat she kills him.
Gosh i cant deal with all this. Too much emotional turmoil.
There is an Ex i am having issues moving on from but i know its cos i havnt found a man up to him. When i do im sure i will forget him.
On becoming a mother of 2 for Maje. Congrats dear.
ReplyDeleteOriegwu!
DeleteThey should make it official.
I hope Make is paying child support.
ReplyDeleteNigerians should leave the couple alone! You guys are too obsessed with marriage and relationship.
ReplyDeleteAbi.
DeleteAs long as they are happy.
I just tire.
DeleteI just weak o! Haba. See d rate of paternity fraud, divorce, spouse murder to name a few. Abegggggi
DeleteThis Anita no just send anybody.
ReplyDeleteYimu
DeleteShe wants to have up to 3 or 4 children with him, so that last last, no other woman will want to marry him and then she will have him all to herself.
ReplyDeleteThat won't stop SHIT! LOL. If Maje sees who he really wants to marry he will leave anita and her dozen children. I bet she does serious fortified prayers to keep this man at her side
DeleteThey just may be secretly married. You never can tell.
ReplyDeleteSo you will allow a man secretely marry you. Fantabulous
DeleteJust maybe and I won't be surprised
Delete16:05 you cannot decide for people if they choose lowkey or secret weddings.. How does their choice affect you?
DeleteIt's secretly btw.
Maje and Anita forever! congratulation.
ReplyDeleteThis is TRUE LOVE.
ReplyDeleteE pain haters π
DeleteThere's nothing to hate here abeg
DeleteAnnony 16:18..I don't want to believe your life is so messed up like what you support!
DeleteHow can you applaud this stupidity and foolery!
A man has never claimed you but always sleeps with you in the secret while frolicking with other women and openly declaring love for them meanwhile what you get is falling pregnant like a goat for him!
I don't know how some of you think and reason sometimes!
No matter how glamorous you people want to paint this baby mama ISH,it can never be celebrated in our culture, you can mistakenly fall pregnant but when you keep having a baby for a man who doesn't rate you is being stupid nke ogbonge ya!
Haters welcome o!
DeleteI see y'all.
Anita keep littering this post with your hater nonsense!
DeleteKeep consoling yourself that someone hates you meanwhile you hate yourself to stupor!
Maje's body language in the pictures are just off.Like he doesn't belong there.I might be wrong though.Happy birthday baby girl
ReplyDeleteMaybe you should tell us where he belongs @anos 16:14
DeleteGuessmi ππ
DeleteI love Anita.if MiDe was my brother i will want him to be with her too not that PLASTIC INCUBUS SUCCUBUS MARINE KINGDOM MAMIWATER.What Anita has blessed Mide with is priceless that red bottom shoes, birkins and Brazilian wig and all the vain materialistic bullshit showcased by madam PLASTIC
ReplyDeleteShe tried to destroy them both but at the end of the day SHE WILL BE THE BIGGEST LOSER.
But yet he married the plastic mammy water and she filed for divorce and left him.
DeleteYet he has refused to marry the one that gave him the greatest gift. And still dates other women because he feels shes only good for a baby making machine.
See "haterade" π
DeleteI pity you and the misery you have chosen and called it a lifestyle.. You think Toke envys you, you will always remain behind the scene while Maje keeps using you!
DeleteGet ready for baby no 3 fool, because that is the only thing you are good at!
Eeyahhh, so in your yeye mind now maje is a prize? π€£π€£π€£ The same serial husband/boyfriend that has chosen to not fully commit to one person even in his old age? Taa leave matter.
DeleteToke is doing just fine, cry me a river. Toke's ajeku is what Anita is chewing gumming herself too.
May I never have cause to relegate myself to being a man's eternal side chic; only good for baby making but not good enough to be permanently and singly committed to.
Anita welcome! You had a baby for a man who was married. The marriage ended and he still did not marry you. He and burn survivor yinka are reported to have been dating for sometime and boom you now have a second baby for him. He still will not marry you. Why? This man doesn't seem like one who wants to settle down and you Anita will not leave either. So enjoy your situation ship.
DeleteI swear na Anita get sense pass. In a judgemental society like ours she may be seen as foolish being a baby mama but tell me what is the advantage of a wife these days. You’ll cook, clean, take care of the children, deal with in laws wahala, pray for him, he’ll cheat, have plenty side chics, be giving you high BP upandan because you want to maintain your status as a Mrs and be covering his shame so he doesn’t embarrass you. Maje is everything most Nigerian husbands are but Anita doesn’t have to deal with his BS day in, day out. He picks his bills on the children, pays her house rent and upkeep money and she doesn’t have to be doing wifely duties, night vigil and kabashing on top of husband matter. She’s free to date if she wants, nobody is going to look at her and say she’s cheating on her husband. She’s free to do whatever she wants as she’s not under any man. Tell me what will change if Maje married her tomorrow? Nothing. He’ll still be philandering, not like he has tons of property or money that she will not be able to inherit if he dies, but her children will forever be his heirs, even if he marries someone else tomorrow. Apart from silly societal judgement, what exactly is Anita losing by not being a wife. Someone should please tell me. You can say respect as a wife. Wetin she want use respect do. You that you have “respect” as a married woman but your husband has girls all over the place, what has the respect done for you.
ReplyDeleteChai you nailed it
DeleteKeep deceiving yourself
DeleteDidn’t Toke have respect as a wife. It ended in premium tears. Toke’s life now and when she was married, which is better now? The day Nigerian women wake up and start to see men the way men see us, that’s the day we will have sense. Marriage in our society was designed to favour men. I see nothing Anita is losing. People talked then and they moved on. She’s still living her life and has damned whatever people will say. Na born she born, she no kill person. If she marries tomorrow and the marriage no work, people will still abuse her for having kids by different men and a divorcee. She’s having her kids for the same man and has married woman’s benefit without married women BS. I don’t judge her at all. I’m not Anita ooooo. I don’t even know her but she’s not losing anything by not being Maje’s wife. Think am well. A man claiming you publicly but cheating on several women (what Nigerian husbands do) is not a prize.
DeleteWait until one witch gets hold of Maje and pays him in a coin deserving of him,let me know where he will remember that Anita had children for him!
DeleteYou people should better tell Anita to get her hands busy o because we don't want people to disturb us here about deadbeat fathers o,e don dey sweet dem now and Una don dey clap for them,we don't want their disturbance because they didn't tell us when they started making babies o!
Eeyahhh, grateful for my marriage because my marriage dey favour me gidi, and it will continue to favour me till as the Lord liveth.
DeleteI prefer the quality of my life now than when I was single.
Anon 16:20, I absolutely get where you’re coming from.
DeleteI recently filed for divorce and the type of peace I have in my heart can only come from God. I don’t want to get married again because I’ve thought about all the years I was married and marriage in general, and came to the conclusion that I don’t see the need for it. Yes, I’m still very young but like you mentioned I honestly don’t see the point. I just don’t but if we decide to look at it from the Biblical angle, then I can see the reason why people should get married. Otherwise, no way.
There are happy marriages out there but if people honestly tell themselves the truth and really look around them, you’ll notice that way too many marriages are just nothing to write home about. Many couples are just existing in the same space/roommates while raising kids. A woman/man can sacrifice their all for their partner then years down the line, that same partner wakes up one day and says it’s over or does something to break the other’s heart. Been there done that. Except God wills it then I have no choice, otherwise, no way.
π€£oh Anita. It is well with you. You deserve to be more than the eternal baby making machine of one man who has no interest to be a husband.
DeleteI’m not Anita but tell me what more she deserves. What are the advantages of a wife in the Nigerian society. What will change if Maje marries her. What exactly is the more here. It’s better she doesn’t marry him sef. Because that’s where see finish will enter like most of Nigerian wives.
DeleteShe has 2 beautiful kids from Maje. That is Priceless than Toke and her low self esteem, drowning in vanity bullshit and looking more plastic everyday. Behind all those show off of vanity, she is miserable. Anitas a more respectable human being. Has the best job ever, raising 2 beautiful kids. Even if Maje doesn't marry her, she's in a better place than miserable bleached plastic toke. Vanity vanity vanity that's all toke knows. Role model my foot
DeleteIsn’t a wife an eternal baby making machine too? Anon 19.02 I agree too and I’m a married woman. I enjoyed this man more when I was single than when he married me. His side chicks are the one enjoying him now. He picks his bills no doubt and I lack for nothing but if I had no legal ties to this man, he would still put a roof over his children’s head and pay their bills as he is a good father but crappy husband. No difference between me and a baby mama except rings on my finger and Mrs title. I too don’t judge baby mama’s anymore because Nigerian men have turned marriage to scam and enslavement. If I had the free reign to have my own bobo’s as a single baby mama at least I will have some happiness in my life but as a married woman I can’t but my husband can because there is no shame tied to a married man.
DeleteAnon sense will not kill you chai. I fit hug you die for this comment. I don screenshot am sef @16.20
DeleteWife na scam for naija . Na side chicks dey enjoy.even gf no too dey enjoy like that .anon 16:20 said it all. In naija o marriage is just a piece of paper. At least abroad a wife is legally and financially protected in case of divorce, death of a man etc. He will pay alimony, child support but in naija nobody send you and u will still be suffering to manage one man's shortcomings. Unless u have a really discipline responsible man, marriage for naija n pure jokes. Quite unfortunate but true
DeleteThe bitter truth is that marriage in naija is just a glorified dating stage n nothing more. That's why most actresses rather be single mums. Few stay married to keep tongues from wagging but many don't care to put in work to keep married. Why? The benefits of being a wife are practically same with that of side chick. Infact side chicks dey enjoy pass when the guy n wife are in dating stage cus this time the wife's salary is part of the hefty contribution that he will give to sidekick. Safety of a 2 income house hold, a protected well fed pampered husband n that money will flow like water. Not saying it's right but it's a very bitter pill to swallow. That's why most naija men will rather stay in naija than relocate abroad. Also that's why many men will only marry who can give them financial security n be philandering with who they love outside. Or did maje not spend stoke's money on Anita. ??? Ladies open ur eyes . Stop shaming each other n insulting single ladies as if they have the short end of the stick
DeleteFacts..the only benefits married women have in naija over their husband's side chicks are social bragging rights n less judgement. And last time I checked, neither of those things can buy happiness or be cashed in a bank.....so...π€·πΎ♀️ yet these married women stay looking down on single ladies like second class citizens.. what these shortsighted dummies don't know is that marriage in naija is a social construct built to favour men. I've always peeped how married men have the best of both worlds, a doting wife, a side chick or 2 with little to no repercussions n 2 incomes to fund his extramarital affairs. Wake up women and stop insulting each other! It's embarrassing and men are laughing at you!! Ugh
Delete21.09 ewoo Pele it’s well with you. Leave before he pass you std
DeleteAnita is the love of mida life,we know them reach house, any other babe is for ego.
ReplyDeleteKnow them reach house and u cant spell his name. Love of his life he keeps changing wife and girlfriend and still wont claim her.
DeleteYou call this love?
ReplyDeleteYou need to be pitied if this is how love look to you!
Tell them! See eternal sidechick. SMH
DeleteBini why the matter come dey pain you like this?
DeleteAnon 20:54 are u Anita? Welcome ooo
DeleteLove of his life indeed. Second babymama!!! With 2 kids! Madam baby factory keep being delusional. By the time Maje will find what he is looking for, may God help you survive it.
ReplyDeleteThis Maje fine sha o.
ReplyDeleteSee his grabis body.
They will marry when they are ready.
Anita having all her kids with him is the best.
I can see Anita is all over the comment section, you have chosen your path in life and we wish you the best. This must be the Nigerian version of P. Diddy and Kim Porter. Note that not all marriages are miserable, you chose a man that will never commit himself to one woman and that’s on you. Congrats on your beautiful kids though.
ReplyDeleteHow manY PEOPLES HUSBAND DID TOKE SCREW While in Unilag before presuurizing Maje to marry her.
ReplyDeleteI am waiting for your response.
You people supporting madam plastic act like you have amnesia. Swear toke never slept with anyone husband before getting with maje. Swear now.
You clowns better leave Anita alone.
Go on tokes page to beg for money since that's what you best
They are so Cute as a family. There nothing unforgivable with genuine love.
ReplyDeleteYou people still don't get it.
ReplyDeleteMaje was with Anita before Toke came. He kept running to her while he was with Toke. All the times he left Toke at the altar, he would run to Calabar to Anita's arms. His family forced Toke on him because of image and Toke felt family will keep putting him in check till thy kingdom come. But family doesn't determine where a man's heart is.
Anita doesn't want to get married. She NEVER has. Anita is crazier than Maje sef. She and her cousins Kristabel and Co. Who no know them? Vivian is even a lesbian. They don't give a flying fuck about marriage.
Her parents marriage wasn't easy either and she has experience that gives her marriage anxiety. Maje is right for her and she is right for him. Abeg leave them
Before I got married one guy was on my case but ended up marrying one girl because of 'image'. The guy is still confused till today but if he messes up, his father will disown him so he stays in check. He dey cheat die and na anger cause am. He tried coming back to me, but I blocked him everywhere. Me I don't play with such. If the girl come divorce now them go talk say the guy is evil and selfish and a cheat. When na family no gree make e follow him heart. Till now his younger brother messages me to say "our wife. I'm forever on your side no matter what". I always laugh but we both know that statement is pregnant. Good thing is I've moved on and moved on well by the grace of God. Unlike Anita who was of birthing age and still single.
Reading this story just made me sober,I began to ask myself what happened?
ReplyDeleteWhy are we so bitter about marriage?
That some people are having a rough path in their Marriage doesn't make Marriage dishonourable!
I have a great marriage and won't condemn Anita but I won't celebrate her situationship with Maje, it's not proper!
I don't know the life she has chosen for herself but however you applaud it,take it from me,if she had it better she would love it!
If you want to be a baby mama,it's ok,do it with respect and esteem na,there are people we advice here to have a baby and there are people we know had babies with men yet we don't bash then like we bash Anita, why? Because Anita is doing her own in a degrading manner!
How can you keep having children with a man who doesn't rate you but when it comes to have sex, you open your legs and collect even add babies on top!
The children they are producing in this kind of arrangement will be worse than those who birthed them,if they are not raised in a godly way o,we keep worrying that our society is degenerating,why wouldn't it be when we are not bringing out children the way God ordained it to be!
If we are clapping,let's clap with sense o,check out what is happening with African American Society, the vices there is because of this type of lifestyle,let's be careful what we wish for!
A married man with side chicks also doesn’t rate his wife. Do you know how many married men I see regularly openly with side chicks o, not hiding it. What is the difference between their wives and Anita. I’m yet to get an answer that question. rating in our society is when you can take picture with your husband and your children because you have rights to him. After that nko. What’s the next rating. Does a picture and public appearances mean you have a marriage? I know a married man that hasn’t spent one night in his matrimonial home this year. But you will see his wife in public and say she is a respectable responsible married woman abi. If we want to clap let’s clap with sense and if we want to see, let’s see with sense. The day we realise it’s the man that eats his cake and has it in Nigeria is the day we will stop this infighting in our gender. Except you never slept with a married man and your husband has never ever cheated, you have no business feeling superior over a side chick or a baby mama. Or insult a baby mama. All of una are the same thing. Being trifled snd toyed with a man who can do and undo and get away with it
Delete10:37 is clearly a baby mama. Whether you accept it or not, marriage was created by God and a healthy marriage is the foundation for a sound society. Using negative examples to thrash the whole institution won't fly. Pele.
DeleteWell said anon 8:12 π
DeleteLmao. I’m not a baby mama. I knew that’s what some of you will say. I’m just an objective person who used to be judgina of baby mama’s and I’m no longer one. When you find majority of positive marriage examples in Nigeria. Then we can talk. Until then, you haven’t answered the benefit of a wife in the Nigerian society. Using the Bible to give a vague answer doesn’t fly. Pastors too chest
DeleteWhat can I say, May God bless you for speaking this bitter truth....sadly, very few women are ready for this..
DeleteYou are too much..keep dropping the points...I mean you're right on track.
Delete18.55 You say you are not a baby mama. Okay, you will soon become one, Amen to that? I don't understand how people will see black and be calling it white. What a pity.
DeleteMaje is looking for a rich woman to marry! The guy nah yahoo plus! Lazy dick! HAHAHAHAHA! Toke! Relax! your own man will come! They look uncomfortable up there! Make dey shame to show off his seeds! idiot
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