Mother's Day Thanksgiving/Memo Post

Do you have a Mother's day memo to share? Or a Mother's day Thanksgiving story?

Today is Mother's Day and irrespective of whether your Country is celebrating it or not, Mothers day is everyday ...

Mother's are priceless and we celebrate them and all women still waiting.

Add your Mother's day memo if you have any.....

A MOTHERS DAY MEMO FROM A BLOG VISITOR

In my teenage and young adult years, I wished for a marriage blessed with 5 kids. It didn't matter which gender outnumbered the other, as long as I had 2 of each. Later on, I reduced the number to 3. Male and female. Outnumbering gender not relevant.
Right now, I have only 1.


Do I want more kids? Absolutely! I have chosen a name already. I have chosen names too if God blesses me with twins.


I read testimonies of marriages blessed with the fruit of the womb after long years. I rejoice with them but silently say "not my testimony". Why would I be excited that I had a baby at 50, after 25 years of marriage? How much can I do for the child at that age? Why is that testimony more important than the life God has given me? Why is that more important than other goodness of God to me? I am 36 and I do not wish to buy baby diapers at 40 years.

Pregnancy is a beautiful thing but I really feel sad when women go through undue pressure, suffering and humiliation just to get pregnant. Some undergo belly pumping just to look pregnant. No fetus. Just fufu. Why the theatrics? Why go through the hassles and pains of countless IVFs? Some adopt children and steal/buy children secretly and guard it, not to protect the child but due to their low self esteem. If not, how else will someone have a new born baby looking like a 3 weeks old baby. 

Why hide to breastfeed a baby in front of your fellow woman?

 Because there is no milk!

Some men who have medical conditions that make it impossible for them to sire kids arrange with their wives to have someone knock up their wives on their behalf.

Let's not forget the spiritual baths too.

There are a lot of untold and familiar stories about the journey to have kids.
After all these, will the child be worth it? Will you be truly happy?

I am open to adoption. I will let my child know they are adopted because I wanted them. No secrecy. No coming to me years later to say I deceived them or to find out why our genotypes have disparity.

 My adopted child will have the same privileges as my biological child. If after giving my adopted child a good life, and they wish to look for their biological parents, that is the problem of their privileged ass. Not mine.

What are you saying? Don't you know that no one can care for you like your own biological kids? Really? Are (were) you very caring to your own biological parents?
Must someone be your biological child before you can love them unconditionally?

 Is that the only one to not feel pain and hatred if they failed you?

In the light of that logic, I am also open to surrogacy.

If you are a fertile ground and can take in every year, fine. If you are having a hard time being pregnant, instead of all the emotional trauma, miscarriages, humiliation, sadness, endless prayers, joylessness and worry, why not widen your horizon?

Take it easy on your vagina and womb. Adopt a child legally and give the child your best. The world will always adjust.

The world is evolving. We learn, unlearn and relearn. In a world of so many battles, why not leave a battle that has a known victory.

Whatever your journey, God bless you.