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MEDICATION TO SURPRESS SERIOUS GBENSHING URGE
I'm a 37yrs single lady. My ovulation period is always a period of torture, tears and depression. I get very HORNY like I'm going to run mad. I pray to God at that time to please give me my own husband and also help me resist the urge.
I don't want to sin against God. I love him and sincerely want to worship him but please blog visitors please pray for me. God should please HELP me quickly.
The scriptures says he won't allow us to be tempted beyond what we can bear but this is too much for me.
I ended up stimulating my clitoris a day ago when the urge became unbearable till i had a sweet sensation and felt relieved. I masturbated. I'm not happy doing this. I'm not happy at all....
God please help me.
Is there any medications to suppress it till i get my own husband?
O ma se ooo
*Till you get your own husband? You dey find person pikin wey you go use gbenshing kill?
I dont think taking drugs to suppress it is a good idea oh, please learn self control until you can manage and master it.
This is what some people are taking drugs to get and now you want to take drugs to stop it?
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ReplyDeleteKeep praying if you cannot collect one hand n clean mouth.
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DeleteYou're not serious 😁
DeleteAbegii rub your clit in peace and enjoy jorr life no hard like that am almost 55 and I still ovulate like a young girl and I still masturbate during my ovulation and before my period sef
DeletePray and annoint it
DeleteI'm in my early 40s and my greatest problem is I can't get turned on. I have to take medication to have feeling. Nobody should pray against sexual urge. When I was much younger, I used to ask God to take away all inordinate feelings and now I have no feelings or urge. I have to work on myself like a mechanic for just one round. This life eh.
Deletei equally asked God to take away the urge when i was younger and now na by force i dey take feel anyting. it is well.
DeleteProblem too much for this world!
ReplyDeleteThe lord will give your own husband. Amen.
Hormone on rampage. Poster just get busy. Read a book or use that time to clear up your room and environment. Break a sweat productively.
DeleteSaphire, What is the difference between your comment and mine? You told her to distract herself by reading a book and I told her to distract herself by avoiding triggers that may aggravate what she is already feeling by replacing worldly triggers with spiritual ones?
DeleteThe husband may be unable to satisfy your needs o. Stella moderation is key o. This one she feels like running mad. Maybe you should talk to a doctor. They may have better advice for you.
ReplyDeleteThe doctor go tear her oh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteSo after all these years it's now you know you need help? This is not even about ovulation, you are just hiding under ovulation. You are a Nympho period. We treated a Nympho chronicle here last month go and read the advise that was given in that post and apply it to yourself.
ReplyDeleteWoW you typed this to me? Hmmnnnn.... o ma se ooo. I was a virgin till 35yrs and i didn't know i could touch my clit to have a sweet sensation until the day i lost my virginity when my Ex stimulated it to get me aroused. I decided to have sex cos i wanted to have a baby as i was tired of being alone. I'm a very beautiful lady with a good career so i'm not what you described here
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DeleteAnonymous, so 1: you have been sexually stimulated by someone, 2, you have had sex already, 3, you even considered having a child outside the bonds of marriage. All these goes against the teaching of the bible. Why is mastirbation now a problem for you? Don’t take any drugs, go and mastirbate or find a bf.
DeleteIs masturbation not a sin?
ReplyDeleteIt is.
DeleteIt isn't. It's natural.
DeleteNatural?🤐
DeleteNo, it isn't.
DeleteMasturbation is a sin and it has it's negative effects that most refuse to talk about. I have met those who are trying to stop it and they are very honest about it. It is a sin apart from the addiction most break free from.
DeleteImagine talk. Sin how. Sister help yasef joor. Too much pretence on this blog. Why are we not having mostly Virginia marriages going by the hypocrisy here? So at 37, you don't have a bf wey go dey scratch the itch? Inukwa. During anonymous night post, you no dey read the atrocities wey dem dry commit for there . They go use their ID comment as angels, come enter anonymous mode finish work. Dey there make pant dey wear you. No go die, carry ukwu uto enter heaven oo, before you cause wahala for angels. Find one correct guy dey do am. One guy oo, I no dey encourage promiscuity.
DeleteI asked that cos i remember reading on this blog that masturbation is a sin.
DeletePoster says she doesn’t want to offend God, so I don’t understand. If masturbation is a sin, why do it? Isn’t that hypocrisy? Who is deceiving who? Mtcheeeeeew.
This one will still come and talk down on people having sex and claim they are the “real” Christians. Weldone o.
Poster says she doesn't want to offend God and the proof is her bringing her chronicle here to look for ways to curb it. The only JUDGE JUDY here is you and ever other person who reasons like you despite this poster's effort to retrace her steps.
DeleteIf you can't see that her ernest concern over it shows that she is remorseful and she is trying to stop masturbating then you are just a spiteful person.
Yes she stumbled but at least she is making an effort to stop which will yield her a positive result if she follows the advice we have given her.
Going by your question of reminding her that masturbation is a sin and judging her for trying to stop that which she already acknowledge is a sin, then we could say that you engaging in premarital sex which is no different and relishing it with your full chest is a bold move on your part and who knows, could you be trying to offend God on purpose ?
You are sure she talks down on people having real sex? How? If you feel judged by having real sex then discontinue for your peace of mind instead of being trapped in this unfounded paranoia you are displaying here over every celibate person
you encounter by lumping them all under one umbrella due to your insecurites running wild.
The difference between you and her is that she thrives and she is making an effort unlike you who is complacent in your "sin" and judging someone who you are not even sure has ever judged you or others who happily engage in what you blatantly do with ruthless abandonment.
If it is any consolation for the imaginary judgement and attack you think you get for engaging in premarital sex from those who don't then know this not every celibate person masturbates. It is demonic and sinful. Happy now? So instead of being filled with scorn and coming at her with spiteful attacks without any single tangible advice because you feel she judges you in your head, hope you can relax? Now that you see it is not always so.
Different ailment for different people. Just keep praying and don't lose faith, God will answer you when you least expected.
ReplyDeleteSorry ooo for this kind unfortunate horny
Divert that energy by doing something physically exhausting like working out or dancing.
ReplyDeleteThe only medication you need is CONTROL.
😂😂😂😂 if you eventually marry and your husband na the traveling type wetin you go do. Also if na one minute man how you wan do am.. We don shift to fuck matter now..
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You have said it jare. How she go do?
DeleteNa wa ooo. Naim be sey de life no balance nau.
DeleteLet me give you a trusted solution. You know your ovulation days right? On those days go on a morning to evening fasting. 6-6 Do not open the internet or listen to wordly music. Do not watch romantic movies or read erotic Instead read godly books, listen to godly music, and watch mount zion movies or any other movies of faith. Pray about other areas of your life that need divine intervention. Do this and thank God.
ReplyDeleteJust be in the spirit. You can overcome by your own power or might but by the spirit of God.
It is not that hard trust me.
You will see that the sexual urge will disappear. Come back with an update to give your testimony.🤗
Thanks a lot. I will do as advised and by God's grace i will be back to give an update of testimony in jesus name. Amen
DeleteExactly, I almost typed this same thing. My dear you can fight this urge prayerfully. Go on a fast two days before your ovulation. Include midnight prayers, meditate on the word and keep praying. God didn't create you to be subdued by sexual urges na??? God's help to you in Jesus name Amen
DeleteWell said anon. It happens if you are on active service and suddenly stopped without working on your body to fit in to your spirit.
Deleteyes, I am 34years. i dont watch music videos, movies or magazines with sexual things. fastforward or change channels when they come on. try and avoid sexual thoughts or fantasy. pray about this feelings. mastubation is not good. to be Frank if you have a very serious prayer life you will be able to suppress the urges.
DeleteChai Ayam not poster and surprised to read this chronicle. Konji na wa ooo. Guess I have to go cold turkey too. As I have been very horny of late. Thing is I love romantic stuff a lot since I am not into any romance. But I must overcome temptation.
DeleteThere is no any sickness here. Why then should I recommend any "medications" for you? You guys need to put a stop to this religious madness. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. You just have a high libido. Again, there's nothing wrong with you stimulating your clit to have an orgasm. Get a boyfriend madam. Make conji no kill you. Any time he's not close, abeg touch yourself till you "come". The zealots here will come with some crazy preachings. Do not listen to them. They're mostly hypocrites. They have men handling their own urges. Like I said, get yourself a boyfriend. You can also get a dildo. Masturbation is very safe too. It saves you a lot. Stress, pregnancy, heartbreak, money, etc. Make sure they don't use Bible quotes to make you feel guilty here. Na craze people dem be. The urge you have is just like the hunger you have when you're hungry.
ReplyDeleteDon't know why this is funny, poster please don't listen to him. I know it's never easy, as I'm celibate too, pray God to help you
DeleteDuring my ovulation, that's how I feels, until you have that orgasm you won't rest, after that comes so much relieve and guilt. I prayed to God, the miracle never happened immediately, but I just noticed almost 5 months now nothing at all. God will give you your husband soonest
Nigerians are so crazy! Everything is about fasting and spiritual solutions. This lady is worth her weight in gold. This is the type of wife most men desire. Madam your husband will be a very lucky man. Don’t go to any pastors or hospital because you are very ok. BTW I am a psych therapist.
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DeleteU no go kill us oh
You can pass your message without insulting.
DeleteWhat Ceasar said is mostly very right but the poster already believe she is sick and needs cure. See her comment up there agreeing with Ang to fast away a natural healthy urge for an adult. If she becomes frigid now , that is when she will know what having a sexual problem means.
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DeleteSaphire, I am not Ang and will never be. Not Everyone is ANG, please. I know you are an ardent advocate for pre-marital sex and i understand. Considering that according to you, you were a virgin till 35 but lost your resolve and engaged in it after waiting for so long doesn't mean you should encourage those who are secondary virgins or have chosen to be celibate to follow your path.
DeleteI never told her to fast away the horny feeling. Read again and stop being hasty in a bid to attack a contrary opinion. I simply told her to fast to put her body under control. So as not to indulge in masturbation. When the feelings comes and she does what to combat it beforehand she would be able to apply self-control. I told her what worked for me as a single lady till God said it was time to be married. I got married too in my thirties and trust me I am not frigid. I know science has a physical name for every thing but self-control is not same as being frigid.
Maybe for you it is but that is you and it is fine.
She can try what I suggested if she likes and if she decides to follow other advice no problem.
Why she thinks something is wrong with her is due to limited information because most women feel horny during their ovulation. She thinks she is sick because she has no idea it happens to almost every women during ovulation. Now she knows and I am sure her mind is at peace.
It is natural to feel horny but it doesn't mean she should give in to it. when you give in to every physical urges you have what does that make you? You become a slave to that thing. Is it not here we read about people who have masturbated their clitoris away and they now feel numb? Some are even asking how to stop and you and your ilks are here advising her to tow that path. People who are masturbating are looking for how to escape from that bondage but someone is clamoring real bad for it and encouraging her to go ahead despite having said she doesn't want to.
Poster please do not listen to People who decides on how to obey God based on their own term all in a bid to sound woke. Do what I told you. You will be fine.
Someone said up there, "This is the kind of lady most men desires" and i laugh. Everything is about what a man desire? Poster please put God first and let him give you the right man he desires for you not the one that desire you simply because due to sexual reason alone.
Go to the hospital and find out if it is a medical condition. If it is not, then I'll have you in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteAvoid anything that can incite you sexually. Like movies, books, etc.
Use the scriptures to equip yourself. God's word is more powerful than anything. Resist masturbation. It creates openings in the lives of people by which vicious demons flock in.
Lk. 10:19, Rev. 12:11, James 4:7
Go for deliverance. Not because anything is wrong, but just to leave no stone unturned in your efforts.
Pray. Ask God for the grace and he'll give you. He wants to. But he wants you to first ask. Also ask him for a husband (Isaiah 34:16). He'll give you.
Say thank you Jesus one thousand times daily. It brings God's presence mightily in the life of anyone who does it and that will give you extraordinary grace to overcome. Try.
And i can just imagine the instrument the pastors will use to deliver her from such problem. Kai! 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteJust have a side boo pending when real hussy come. Maybe na wetin do me some years back.Horny be wan wound me, now i am married and horny no dey again. Life no balance
ReplyDeleteExercisong might help you
ReplyDeleteDefault smile ☺ nice to see you back here. Congrats on your 2nd son. This God is a great man. Happy for you.
DeleteGod is a great man?
DeleteWonderment!!!
Poster I know exactly how you feel.i feel same too.
ReplyDeleteI cry and part same prayers to God.to supress the feelings or take it away..
Wahala dey truly.
DeleteI don't even know what to say to you.
But exercise will help you. Cardio and walking 🚶 exercises will put a limit to your high libido.
Poster ,I know exactly how you feel.same happens to me .I cry and pray same prayer to God.
ReplyDeleteI ask God to supress that feeling away from me.
HAHHAHAHHAHAA!!!! Just what i was discussing with my friend. At 30+ the level of stimulation the clitoris triggers is alarming. My sexual urge has increased that i caught my self masturbating just by grinding my thighs together. Well i has also engaged in a marathon sex for one week none stop... I fell ill for days. This me that can go months without sex or sexual thoughts. this me that dont get wet, But nowww i drippppp like mad. So i got myself an active sex partner. Now i am controlling my thought process... Its not easy... BUT ITS POSSIBLE....
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Hahahaha!!! Some people pay huge monies to the likes of Queen of Kayamata for stimuli of the clit and here you think its a medical condition. My Dead it comes with the hormones. As a woman ages its either her Libido increases or decrease... That is why some sexually active women with high libido cheat on the spouses. So its not a husband Matter.
DeleteWish there is something I can do to get wet during sex,I'm always as dry as a desert and it's not fun most times it kills my sexual drive and my husband now complains. Pls if you have a solution share it
DeletePls can you share your remedy,I'm always too dry during sex and it kills the fun for both my husband and I
DeleteFor anon dry 22:58, is your husband doing enough foreplay? Dryness is typically an issue that arises after menopause, if you are not close to menopause then you really should not be "dry as a desert". Look for good water-based lubricants, particularly if you using condoms, Astroglide is a great lubricant, if no money for lubricant then use organic coconut oil, only if you are not using condoms.
DeleteYou also have to let yourself go in the bedroom, are you holding back and timid, cautious about how you sound and look? If you are too worried you will not relax enough to enjoy and let things take their course. You MUST let go and be free! Also, if you do not find your husband physically attractive or he has hygiene problems you are not going to get wet. If he treats you bad outside of the bedroom you are not going to get wet easily either, if at all. If you are suffering financially and dealing with great stress in the relationship that can also affect your ability to lubricate. Only you know what is going on, so look at all angles.
You can also purchase any Sue Johanson book, she taught me everything that I know about sex, and because she was a public health nurse for many years she addresses everything in a practical and shame free manner. Many ppl have shame complexes attached to sex because of their cultural or religious upbringings, check if that is an issue for you as well. Some people also love Dr. Ruth Westheimer, I Have listened to some of her interviews and she is a very funny, their books are available on Amazon.
Anytime you feel horny,just apply aboniki on the place, omo the horny ness go disappear
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂 Chai! You wan kill am?
DeleteInstant solution.😂
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DeleteMy own na immediately after period, oh my God, my something go dey on fire, looking for water to quench it, thankfully I'm married ,but if me n oga dey fight, I no send o, i go drag him trouser ,fuck n I will still bone straight after
ReplyDeleteSounds painful. But husband no must fix problem. Husband may be workaholic or low libido. Hopefully that won't be the case, but just bringing some reality.
ReplyDeleteThe issue is that you are filled with guilt and shame over your own hormonal processes. This is how the human body was created to ensure that humans continue to procreate. It is biological and you have to get past it. If there was no urge and sex was not pleasurable nobody would do it because it is a messy activity. Accept your biological make up and understand that this is how God created your body to function. Then take care of your urges yourself, I wouldn't call what you are doing masturbation, it is more like a therapeutic activity to relax the urges that are overwhelming you that you have no way to stop from coming on. It's the same as brushing your teeth or taking your shower. Taking medication with potential harmful side effects is not something I would encourage anyone to do.
All you need is self control.
ReplyDeleteGet a vibrator
ReplyDeleteAboniki bawo? Kikikiki
ReplyDeleteuse hot water and press your clit when the urge comes
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DeleteAre you serious?
DeleteSelf control is acquired through fasting; even a fruit fast can help; See Dan. 1 and 10, Romans 12:1-3, Col.3:5 and so on. The Lord will help you.
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I thought i typed this, poster come lets hold hands together and cry unto God for mercy and help. I have been celibate for years now but always feel so horny during my ovulation.Few days ago, i did the same thing you did, and i have been crying unto God for mercy.I am 38years and i have been praying for a life partner too.i pray God gives us husband cos the temptation during ovulation is not here.
ReplyDeleteGo get yourself a real man and stop deceiving yourself.
DeleteDuring your ovulation just distract yourself with godly music, movies and tv channels. You will be fine. Just be proactive.
DeleteDon't go deeper into sin.
I’m 34 and celibate for years now and during my ovulation I’m horny AF. I got a side boo that eats my P and leaves case closed. I can’t shout o
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ReplyDeletePray
Fast
Get up and exercise the stress
It passes you will be fine
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 a gift you should be happy with is what you are complaining about. Self control is what you need.
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