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Hian!!!
ReplyDeleteWhere the research abeg, make I read.
Because they have access to different men. They don't put all their eggs in one basket.
DeleteThe matter even tire me sef!!
DeleteWill be reading comments o.👣👣👣🍿🍕🍷
What statistics are you working with?
DeleteIs clubbing a sin?
If you want to be a good girl, dont do it cus you expect some reward, do it cus that's what is right.
God will still pick a repentant sinner over a hypocrite. That being said...
There are a lot of good girls winning, God has blessed them with great men, the difference is that they do not blow their trumpets because they aren't in competition with anyone and they live modest lives even with millions, while the so called runs babes try to keep up with appearances...
What glitters isn't always gold.
Well said.
DeleteI asked my friend who is married his former side chick / sugar daddy girl. He said he didn’t care about her past.
Delete“She’s not doing that anymore”
“ Her experience helps them in the other room.”
“ She knows plenty techniques to please him.”
Not often true
ReplyDeleteThere's no proof to back this up. So I don't believe this until I see proof.
ReplyDelete🤔 they've probably seen it all. I guess.
ReplyDeleteIt isn't all of them. For those that end up in good marriages, it is a blessing from God.
ReplyDeleteIf only you know what they swallow and endure from their husbands. Hmmm!
DeleteBecause God is not a member of our kinsmen.
ReplyDelete🤣😂. God no be village people.
DeleteTo me I will say, no matter how wayward a lady is, there's something she could be good at more than the ones you perceive to be the church type.
ReplyDeleteAgain,some men are often carried away by beauty and flashy ladies, as in the sharp ones. Funny enough, these ladies sometimes end up better in marriage. Why? Maybe they have seen it all in life.
I think it is because in their quest..., they tend to meet people. I mean real individuals who are true to themselves. No faking and all.
ReplyDeleteI think I will go with this line of thought!
DeleteThey meet men in their raw element, so they know how to seive the best of the best
But church girls get deceived by perfect appearances without knowing that sometimes beneath lies the devil's senior bros.
Because it is L.I.F.E. Life is a game but not a fair one.
ReplyDeleteBecause they eventually realize that there’s nothing there..
ReplyDeleteGod deals with us differently. He loves whom he loves.
ReplyDeleteIt’s easier for a bad girl to turn good but once a good girl goes bad,she’s gone forever.
ReplyDeleteLies
DeleteLiar...Nothing beats chastity...
DeleteWho did the survey? Not true
ReplyDeleteNot True. I am a church girl and I know alot of my whatsapp group members that married Good men too.
DeleteI don't know who gave this statistics oooo
Abi oo,who did the survey?social media lies
DeleteI no believe this theory one bit...They should stop with this lie abeg only to decieve the gullible ones.The men they end up with always setback or even extreme poverty.Godforbid it for my brothers
ReplyDeleteNot true dear... Wish I can explain now but little busy now.
DeleteDo you know how many husband snatchers and second wives have become first ladies in Nigeria? Do you know that Maryam Babangida and Abacha were "after one" before wedding men who would be head of state?
Delete19:59, so why conviniently leave out all the other first ladies that married as chaste young women? That's assuming ur assertion to be true.
DeleteMarriage is luck, also, I will prefer it this way that "most girls that sleep around mostly ends with rich men" but them having good marriages is debatable
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
You just spoke my mind...There is a huge difference between marrying a rich man and a good man...people tend to mix up the two,that's why you see some funny chronicles where the ladies says" he's a good man because he gifts me and spoil me but he cheats and he's very violent...Man wey dey violent na good man?to get sense nor hard
DeleteAnother one! *rich men* yes!
DeleteGood marriages, let's say they are fully satisfied with the money. Every other things they look away so long as you are not harming them physically. Where you lack, once in a while, they sniff it outside and come home good!
But good girls demand/expect a lot (as per virtues compensation) and nag so much thinking it will make the men behave better.
Because a good marriage is not a reward for being a good girl! Again there are other major factors that make a good marriage other than sex
ReplyDeleteThank you!!
Delete"Good marriage" is certainly not a recompense for keeping your legs closed, you can be in porn star and end up marrying a decent man and raise beautiful & healthy kids, theres no formula.
Thank you. This is what good girls don't get. When good, you are good for yourself. Also, staying home and not mingling i.e being good really reduces your options. You can have a lot of hobbies and have fun without compromising your values.
DeleteThey’ve been there and done that and have experience on how to deal with men.
ReplyDelete95% true.....
ReplyDeleteAnd the reason is because, their risk appetite is way high, and they can gamble with anything.
The "good girls" on the other hand, are no risk taker and they always want a guaranty before they dabble into anything.
Yet life, is all about the unknown before the known.
Mind you, l commented based on me.
ReplyDeleteBecause there's God but you and I are not Him
ReplyDeletemarriage is not a reward for good behavior...
ReplyDelete👍👍. And good girls may not be honest. When you are an actress, it shows.
DeleteNo one knows it better.
ReplyDeleteWw all are just trying
Just maybe the bad girls knows what they want and go for it
I kinda agree with celebrant up there
This is not true..
ReplyDeleteIf you had just said they get married earlier more than the good girls, I would have agreed, and that's cos they are more manipulative, and corny, plus some involve fetishism just to get what they want(and we know that anything from the devil doesn't last).. but not that they end in GOOD marriage..
Who do you think are these girls we read up on their divorce daily on this blog.. the triple T for example (Tiwa, Toke and Tonto)..
Yes, most of them get married before the good girls and it's the same way they rush in they rush out..
When the good girls marry, they stay longer in marriage..
It's not by how fast but how well..
It pays to be good
Very well said.
DeleteGod bless u
DeleteYou will live long Dante. Thank you.
DeleteDante God bless you!
DeleteGod bless you Dante....People don't like hearing the truth. They always want to cut corners to justify their misdeeds. Nothing beats chastity!
DeleteIt's a wrong theory with many loopholes.
ReplyDeleteWe gotta stop labelling good girls vs bad girls and realise that a good marriage has little to do with being good or bad. It’s God’s pure blessing with a sprinkle of luck.
ReplyDeleteYeah, no shame in the game...😏
DeleteLet it go already. 🙄
DeleteJust the way our faces are differ so ur grace are differ..we all carry different grace,be a church Girl or a runs,who God wnt give better man ,nah e go give.
ReplyDeleteNa waka dem dey take sell market. They married the best they met. Out of the thousands they slept with, they chose the best. Again, karma no dey let them complain when they go through hell in marriage. Their minds keep telling them ‘ shut up you were once a home breaker’
ReplyDeleteLike Aaron Samuel’s wife abi, yeye dey smell
ReplyDeleteWith some "Good girl",What you see is not what it is;but just what they need you to focus on and sing their praises;and that is the "Church girl tag"..
ReplyDeleteBut we are all same;some are just good at hiding the bad side of them,while some are very open with their personality and need you to either take them for who they are;or follow the mirage of the "Good girl" who wants you to take her for who YOU THINK she is..
Most men are just realist and logical;so would go with who wouldn't get them cracking their head every minute regarding their wife whereabout;whats on the "Good girl" mind,is she to be trusted and much more..
In reality;its just the packaging but same content..
Most with the good girl tag can even keep malice for months/years because they rarely interact with another human or take life for what it is;they are so enclosed in their personal space and that is same with their forgiveness when you ever wrong them as a husband.
Lastly;a good marriage needs no tag,so while you are busy working on the "Good girl tag";learn basic ethics that will help you run your home smoothly as a man or woman,same with your character then allow God do the rest because he has the final say..
@MARTINS
They are still bad Girls pretending to be good.. team take everything to the grave.. we dey see them for here wella.. they think say we no wise.. them think say we dey drink all those bobo weh dem dey give us.. when we come finally 'tule' to the real girls who we know their real character and are not pretenders, dem go begin talk say Men like bad girls..
DeleteMake dem dey deceive themselves
It's only intelligent minds that will articulately absorb your write up. I like/love you Dante but I sincerely wish that you'd sit this one out. Apologies.....but even in a gazillion years you'd never get it🙏
Delete@ Marrins...... ????????
DeleteOuch!!! E enter.
DeleteMost of these girls are out there,they meet people in different places,you wont see a church girl in a club.The the thing is church girls need to be more visible,you won't get a man inside your house,my two cents though.
ReplyDeleteNo be club husband dem dey find. Why u go see dem for club?
DeleteNot everyone that goes to club is a bad person,besides it's not just club,go out,be visible,that is the koko!
DeleteOnce upon a time, it was almost a belief that runs girls/prostitutes make the best wives. Wherever that came from, well many know better now.
ReplyDeleteI do not buy this assertion but however it's not one to be totally discarded.
Firstly,the men who become the husbands. How many men are genuinely of good character, sound judgement and truly decent people? Many club girls are genuinely jaded and settle for arrangements. That a clubaholic or even a seemingly chill guy with some cash marries a club girl who could care less about him sleeping around, clubbing or running any show he wants. The appearance of that marriage may look stressless and smooth until some core values of full loyalty, selflessness are demanded for. Cannot rule out the place of luck too as God loves all and will have mercy on who he wants to have mercy on. However, the package for most is not really what it is. No decent man who is very intentional about his life and spiritual race will just settle for anybody.
Now the church girls. You see, many of them 'colonize' God's love and grace and expect rewards for being Church girls. Many are not truly spiritual, forget the play of religiosity. Many run around churches performing Christianity, trying to please pastors, family or seek husband. Most lose out of the necessary sprinkle of street smartness that the world of relationship require.
Many unintentionally limit their dating pool by being too Pastor obsessed, they limit to their denominations, pastor's whims at their expense meanwhile pastor might be all about double tithe, new household to influence and stable membership when limiting the ladies to their churches.
Many want to marry Jesus himself, Mr Perfect which could be unrealistic.
Many do not know what to look out for in a guy at all... So inexperienced, they miss out on red flags.
Many do not truly understand the concept of the will of God...the total vulnerability and humility of it arising from an immensely deep relationship with God. So when a brother comes with bible, they package him to God and drag Yes from anyway and jam trouble.
Many Christian households raise extremely docile, people pleasing women and they end up unable to create boundaries, offend or walk out of unpleasant arrangements.
Many church girls lowkey want bad boys with a fragrance of Angel Michael, touch of Boaz, prosperity of Isaac bla bla to vicariously live through them as, what you don't have fascinates, but at what cost?
Finally the family unit is super important. To attack the society, church, it starts from the family unit. So the attack of bad spouses is more directed at the church girls.
True, i have seen many church girls in bad marriages. I hardly have seen spiritual warriors in them.
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DeleteThe good husband most people see ade the rich yahoo guy , cos once you're rich in naija ,you're a good husband material,they care not how you made the money, and no good girl go open eye marry a Yahoo guy,and most rich yahoo guy also go for their female counterparts,
ReplyDeleteI don’t believe this as there’s no scientific prove to support such theory.
ReplyDeleteIn life I believe What one sows is what they reap eventually. Reward for a wayward life may not necessarily come in form of good or bad marriage, but can come in different forms.
Not to forget that God is still a merciful God who still makes the sun to rise for both the Righteous and wicked, same with the rain.
God’s ways are not our ways
True.
DeleteWell said Yvonne
DeleteThere's no statistics to back this up. Good marriage doesn't depend on how good or how 'bad' you've been. It's only dependent on marrying a good person.
ReplyDeleteI met my hubby through runs a very prominent man and the rest they say is history.
ReplyDeleteMarry faster and marrying better are two very different things. For the bad girl, karma still meets up for pay day.
ReplyDelete1. That you're good is not a guarantee that things will always work hard for you. In fact, the opposite may often be the case. You think the Devil will make things easy for those who love God? The devil would want to frustrate the good girl so she'll think it doesn't pay to be good.
ReplyDelete2. Many men nowadays are not good men. Even those you expect would marry the good girls i.e. the pastors or church youth leaders do not have good moral standards. They end up with the kind of girls they really want a.k.a the bad girls who now become the church mummy young girls in church run to for advice. You won't see the young girls meet the mature single lady who is a good girl because that's not who they want to be like.
3. The ladies society call bad girls are called so because they are non-virgins or are sexually active. However, they also have other characters that are really endearing and some good men sees those characters and chooses to forget their past.
4. Bad girls have seen it all. They are able to differentiate between the posers and the serious men. Hence, when they meet the good man or suitable husband material, they don't play games, become serious and get married. The good girl on the other hand may not even have male friends. She's focused on her book, job and/or church. Most men who meet her are via referral i.e. introduced by parents, relations or church members. They barely do background checks on the man because he has been endorsed by trusted adults. If no such introduction, they never even see dates for years. They even reject a serious person when he comes because the person was not endorsed by anyone they know or they just don't recognize a serious person. They are also quite naive because they believe everyone is as good or faithful as they are until the person shows their true color. Unfortunately, that's how some of them end up getting married to a person who pretended to be what he's not until they get married, while others get jilted by the unserious person they fail to recognize.
5. Sadly, some bad girls resort to jazz, lying about themselves and other things to hook a man.
That been said, there are a lot of good girls who got married early and they are a lot of bad girls who are still single. Also, an early marriage is not a guarantee of a long and happy one
The term bad girl does not necessarily mean bedroom vixen. An outspoken brave go-getter who is extroverted is given that label as a shackle. Good thing such women don't care.
ReplyDeleteI once read a story of a couple who met at unilag. The sister was an S.U and the husband had parked a good car bought from earning well in a good job to you me and toast students on campus as he did every weekend. A regular customer. Well guess what? After toasting her on their way to fellowship, without repentance or speaking in tongues, she dated and married the guy and they had four kids, some of whom schooled abroad. Was this a good girl? Only to the unwise. An actress simply retired while the playboy husband did not have to.
Why do responsible men know hiw to cherish and respect women more than sycophants that only wake up and start thinking with their Pr***ks??
ReplyDeleteI means those one that the only think that makes them a man is Pr**?
Some bad girls and some church girls end up I'm good marriages while,
ReplyDeleteSome bad girls and some church girls also end up in bad marriages.
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Scriptures says be harmless as a dove but wise as a serpent. Maybe the club girls are wiser than our church girls. Most club girls also know what it takes to attract and keep a man.
ReplyDeleteAlso when club girls change, some of them become very committed church members and are more active than our church girls. They join church units like the ushering unit. This gets them easily noticed by our christian brothers.
Good marriage is all about personality be you club girl or church girl.
ReplyDeleteIf you choose to be sleeping around,get lucky and meet your rib fine.
if you choose to be a church girl and meet your rib good.
The question is how long will it last??
Pure lies from the pit of hell, the do called bad girls or morally bankrupt girls never I repeat never end up in good marriages,I have witnessed and saw how most of them pose and paint pictures of happiness in their supposed good marriages, meanwhile they are busy enduring domestic abuse and violence from their husbands, while going with their mothers from one spiritual house to another to cage the man and stop the man from sleeping with other women.Or is it the demonic attacks they display at full moon or after visitation to their various spiritual houses the need to sleep with their biological siblings to seal the work.My dear just be good and pray hard at God's appointed time every good and virtuous deed will be rewarded openly,and yes good girls still marry good men no be jazz or spiritual house manipulation or demonic remote settings,I have witnessed first hand experience of both bad girl,good girl and it everly pays to be good no matter the circumstances even if the society call you mumu, be the mumu for the good of your future generations.
ReplyDeleteWell said. The juju ladies and dia mum's do dz days ehn! You see some marriages and automatically know that rrmote control is involved
DeleteIf you said rich men I will agree because their lifestyle gives them access to these rich men but to say they have good marriages, forget it. The rich men they get married to sef don’t give them peace. Everyday mentally and emotionally fighting with runs girls because their past always comes back to haunt them so they never have peace in their marriage. Is that one a good marriage? A good girl will likely marry a regular average man and most likely have peace in her marriage because most times (not all) they are very discerning in picking spouses. The really good ones o, not fake pretend to be church girl for eye service. Don’t deceive gullible young girls abeg. If it’s rich man that you want that will give you STD (many many rich wives are treating one STD or the other but you won’t see beyond the designer bags and shoes), have numerous girls outside and possible side children. If that’s the type of man you want, by all means be a runs girl, but don’t think you’ll make another married woman cry and you won’t cry your own.
ReplyDeleteAbeg, tell them.
DeleteIt's called the irony of life.
ReplyDeleteNot all that glitters is gold.
In my house growing up, I was the good girl in my family. The one that dies all the chores. The respectful and responsible one. The intelligent one. The bookworm. Till now at 45, I have never been to a club. The one that was a mermaid preserving herself for her husband, my younger sister was quite the opposite, wild and party going. But guess what, I married the monster for 23 years. My sis is still married with 3 wonderful boys. Her husband practically worships the grown she walks on while I am divorced because he almost killed me. I was still being the stereotyped good wife while he was sleeping around, will not bring money for food, rent or children's school fees. By the way, it took me 5yrs to have my first child but my sister got pregnant immediately after her wedding. The monster can kabash for hours and people think he is godly. My sis and her husband go to parties, clubs etc. So being a good girl does not guarantee a good marriage, I have stopped going to church. I still believe in God though. Maybe one of these days, I will send in my chronicle. My story sounds like nollywood script.
ReplyDeleteStop comparing yourself with others. Be yourself.It's unfortunate you went through all these but Godliness still an important virtue in any individual and marriage. That you met the wrong person does not dispute the fact that Godly women have Good marriage.Dont be a rebel.
ReplyDeleteBad girls abi na these ones wey dey scatter domestic violence and divorce stories for internet? Na im be d good marriage? Abeg, jump and pass!
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