No marriage is easy but if she is celebrating a Divorce like this then she must been married to something she did not bargain for....
Congrats on the freedom!
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I don't understand the " if this is what marriage looks like....."
ReplyDeleteNa you dey the marriage and na you understand as e be. God help us all.
She's into women.
DeleteOh so we throwing divorce parties now? I’ve only seen this done in the western society, we’ve started to emulate this as well?
ReplyDeleteOnly God knows what she went through in that marriage though so I won’t side eye her too much.
You already side eyes her
DeleteAnon 12:12
DeleteYes but I won’t do it too much lol
Nawaoh, this is serious. What is happening to marriage nawadays? GREAT ANON
ReplyDeleteSee her friends sef, how will the marriage last with such friends hovering around like bees.
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong with her friends? Why do men get threatened and irritated by the sight of women all dressed up, looking good and having fun? Why does it trigger y’all so much?
DeleteHer friends are happy they're all on same WhatsApp group, they're celebrating
DeleteLesbians geng! That is what is in vogue!
DeleteDem plenty for PH - association/club of friends, holding "meetings" every 2 weeks wearing same colour codes. Thereafter, the orgy is all night
DeleteNa them
DeleteI don't think this party is necessary sha. Enjoy your divorce in peace.
ReplyDeleteYeye dey smell
ReplyDeleteShe looks like she was caged and just set free to live a normal life.
ReplyDeleteExactly, this is the freedom she craved, total emancipation. If u cant be yourself and have a partner that accepts you for who u are, dont get married... you'd get tired of living a life of lie & bending to please him, then the cracks start to show, then the break.
DeleteExactly
DeleteI don't know why I find this very hilarious.like babe left the marriage in grand style😀😀😀😀
ReplyDeletePeople wey normal for this country no reach 5 again
I am short of words.
ReplyDeleteI really don't know what to type.
Bv shortfuse
I no blame her jare, some marriages can be hell on Earth that when you leave it, it would seem like you got a brand new life entirely, I congratulate her. Happiness and peace of mind is key
ReplyDeleteSome are worth celebrating. I cannot wait for my sister own to be finalized. I pity the next girl. Marrying a narcissist is the worst oòoooo. Not just him his mother, and 2 of his siblings.
DeleteOkay her marriage was bent,that's why the cake is also slightly bent. Who am i to talk,only her and the ex knows the true story. Wish all parties all the best in their separate ways.
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me of the post from yesterday. The lady that swore an oath with a man and now wants to marry another secretly. When the oath begin dey disturb her, she will say marriage is terrible.
ReplyDeleteBuild your marriage on solid foundation: love, trust, truth and happiness. Above all else Husbands love your wife like Christ loved the church. Wives respect your husbands.
Your partner may cheat and lie. That’s not enough to end the marriage, learn to forgive and nurture your love. We sin, yet God forgives us.
Your partner may cheat or lie,learn to forgive and nurture the love..
DeleteAre you also talking to the men? Or you're being biased?
#donotdishwhatyoucan'ttake#
Don't judge her. You don't know what she has been through
ReplyDeleteTrue that
DeleteI don't know her story but I'm happy she's happy.
ReplyDeleteHappy divorce celebration dear😊
I cant judge you jare.
ReplyDeleteOnly God knows what she went through..
Some marriages are hell on Earth.
Congrats to you, enjoy your life
Is this necessary?? What a generation
ReplyDeleteHmm...
ReplyDeleteI knew a girl once. She always had such sparkles in her eyes. So confident and lively. Then she got married. She was still the same till like over a year later, those sparkles just vanished. She became withdrawn. You will look at her eyes and it was just so sad. She would not say what it was but you could tell something was so so wrong. I started to avoid her because being around her was just depressing. Only this year did she open to us about how bad things were. So I cannot judge this woman for celebrating. I don't know what her situation was. If it gives you peace, congrats.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what she went through in her marriage that would prompt such celebration. As if she was married to a beast. Whatever, it is I pray she finds happiness...
ReplyDeleteSeparation is an option except its life threatening....
A Doctor?
ReplyDeleteShe must have been forced not to practice as doctor.
ReplyDeleteI wish the parties well.
Some men are devil incarnate. They will come with innocent face to marry you but once you enter, they will start their rules. Unfortunately, people will advise you to follow after all he is your husband, the own you. That's what am passing through. How can I be so beautiful during singlehood, only to turn chimpanzee. Some days I will be so depressed. And people see this man as Angel. Even my brother blamed me when my husband complained to him that am now stubborn and heap lies on my head. In his word..." He is your husband,if he told you to put hand on fire,do it,it will not burn you". I wept like never before. My brother I trusted that will come to my aid is saying all these to me.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you still in the marriage?
Delete15:10
DeleteI think she is still there because she cannot survive alone, her relatives that would have supported her financially and otherwise are supporting her husband, so if she leaves without a job or business, no one will help her, she will suffer. What she needs now is to keep obeying
"...in the last days, people will be LOVERS OF THEMSELVES, unthankful, unholy...having a form of
ReplyDeletegodliness but denying the power of same..."😢😢😢
(-The Spirit of Jesus 2 Tim. 3:1-5)
Wow! So this is where this "love yourself, love yourself" chants originated from.
DeleteWe are in the last days indeed.
Growing up, I did not hear those chants. I used to hear; love your neighbor
as yourself. But now, it has become a mantra.
Thanks for this. We are really in the last days.
DeleteVery soon, celebration of divorce will become a norm in naija
ReplyDeleteDivorce party kwa? She obviously has money to throw around.
ReplyDeleteTrust me for am to run dey loud am, sote she throw party join, mean say na she be most of the problem. Na still part of the manipulation. But most of una no go gree so no wahala. Secondly another wahala now na she no go stay her single lane and date/friend single men from now o, na to dey worry and disturb other people husband for relationship,side chickenship etc just to pay her bills and settle other problems. Na 9ja divorced women way be that.
ReplyDeleteNo need for the public celebration. When did we start throwing divorce parties?
ReplyDeleteI tire.
DeleteI heard this Lady is a medical doctor and for her to be celebrating like this eh...i swear she must have been to hell and back.
ReplyDeleteStella, I will go anonymous on this, honestly, I don't blame this lady at all.
ReplyDeleteWhat i am going through now, I really need separation from this scam called marriage.
I use everything I earn to run the home and he will use the one he manage get and went behind me and give to his family to run secret business for him.
Hardly contribute anything in the house yet he will not appreciate by at least being sincere to you.
So many things jare, I can go on and on but I lack strength to type.
Honestly, I need some space because I so much hate him now with passion.
He made live like a widow, yet he won't die ðŸ˜
It is well my dear, may God come through for every woman out there going through shit in the hands of wicked men.
DeleteNever mind, life is a seed, what he sew, he will surely reap.
He is deceiving himself, how on will he prosper like this?
God will put in your hands everything you need, both the ones that would have come from you, God will take it from him and place it in your hands.
Don't worry.
Just know you are not alone in this, lots are going through same but God will see us through
Must you people be married can’t you be single and happy? I was like this before I borrow myself brain I can never be unhappy without a man again
DeleteThank you Anon 17:03.
DeleteI don’t get the concept of being miserable, having the means to do something about it yet doing nothing. Is the opinion of others more important than your peace and happiness? When you look back on your life 10 years from now how will you feel?
Divorce is not easy but sometimes it’s the only way to get your sanity back and to flourish. Just hold onto God for dear life and all will work out well.
Dear, sorry for the challenges you are facing in your marriage. May God intervene to the benefit and good life for you both and your children.
DeleteBy your words, you are the sole financier of your family. So you are financially capable of maintaining yourself, why not go for separation instead of indirectly praying for your husband's (presumably father of your children) death. And from what you posted, I wonder what you tell your children about your husband, their father. I apologise, but you may unwittingly be creating serious problems for your children
Please can anybody explain the second picture to me.
DeleteShe look happy in the picture. But the statement under her picture, as I understand it, appears to contradicts the picture. Is marriage with children a bad thing for a Doctor or a Ph.D Nurse?
She is a doctor in the UK
ReplyDeleteShe lives in Atlanta..Dr Bello IKEA.. she is well known
DeleteShe suffered serious Domestic violence from her ex
Seems like she’s a Nurse Practitioner. Has her Doctor of Nursing Practice (DNP) hence the Dr tag.
DeleteYes Linda, I know she is in medical line in abroad, wasn't sure of the country. A friend of mine is friends with her on Facebook. She posts videos dancing with scanty clothes most times. Boobs always on display. Dr Ikeade Bello
DeleteUmu aka high way!
ReplyDeleteMARRIAGE, in the 1st instance is NOT REALLY NECESSARY, neither is MARRIAGE BY FORCE.
ReplyDeleteAfter her divorce, I hope she gets to live her life, as she envisaged.