Friday In House News....

 Happy good Friday People!

In house news will be back on Monday!

IN HOUSE MEMO

BV choc noir is fine and we have been talking and she will return to the Blog when her dad is buried and she is emotionally settled. She sends her greetings to everyone and says she misses the blog. She also surprised me when i received an alert  .she says i should gift someone who needs it and i will consider one of the 4 requests in my inbox.....Please pray for her cos she is really going through an emotional trip cos of her Dads passing.

Have a good Friday and dont eat Beef if you are Catholic..... I am about to eat, dont ask me if Beef is in my food cos i no send Judas message. LOL

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SALMAS DIARY

My husband have been hospitalized since last week Sunday. His a sickle cell patient but for over 3 years now he has not been critical ill. In fact one can never tell his an SS patient because of his looks .

On Monday after he slipped into coma, my world crashed down. We have gone through a lot for him to abandon me now, cos i don't think we can actually live apart from each other.

Yesterday I decided to send in a message for Bv's to help me with prayers only for me to see SAVE A BLOG VISITOR. 

I was so scared because I thought it was a sign ,that if I'm not saved my husband will not be saved. I prayed like I've never prayed before.

It wasn't a physical fun any longer to me but spiritual manifestation to physical. So I made up my mind not to open the blog till 12:am but to God be the glory my husband came out of coma exactly 11:47pm.

I have just been singing(learnt this song from my mum) o bu otuo olu gi Chineke o bu otuo olu gi di.
Thanks to all Bv's that saved I and my husband.
Thank u ma'am Stella

Thank God

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IJEOMAS GIST CORNER
BEWARE OF FRAUDSTERS A.K.A 419

Years back a girl in my town lost her marriage because of 419. She was living with her fiancé who went to withdraw lots of money for their marriage and his building project and kept it under her watch. Before he came back from work the money has disappeared, how?

Baby girl narrated how she met some men on her way to the market, they just stopped her and that was it. She went back to the house and carried the money to them, as soon as she handed the money over to them she came back to her senses. Her fiancé who thought she was lying, locked her up in cell for two weeks and called off the marriage plans.

Recently, a neighbour narrated how his wife was scammed by this same people.

She took a taxi, halfway into the journey the driver started showing her different kinds of beads and how each of them works, as soon as she replied him, that was it. She realized all her money that she was taking to the market to restock her shop was gone when she alighted. By then the car had zoomed off.

A girl who was living with her aunty who owns a chemist shop on her way to run errand for her aunt encountered them, they asked her to go pack all the money they sold for the day and bring to them, baby girl ran back to the shop, packed all the money, as soon as she was about leaving the shop her aunt entered, asked her where she was going. When she didn't give any tangible reason, aunt landed her one heavy slap, that's when she realized herself, brought out all the money on her and narrated her encounter with the fraudsters to her aunt who raised alarm, on getting to where she met them, they were gone.

. A woman drove to a noodles shop, bought twenty cartons of noodles, she asked the sales girl to bring one more carton from the shop before the girl came out, she was gone. The poor girl had to pay with her money. 

A man after the lockdown carried a six year old boy to a street close to mine to buy things from a shop, after shopping, he requested that 'his son' stays with them so that he can go to the next shop to get other things, he left with the things he's already bought, the shop keepers couldn't stop him since his son was there, there's no way he's gonna abandon his son there. After hours, he didn't show up, they went looking for him but didn't find him. When they asked the little boy, he said the man isn't his father and hasn't seen him before.

 The man met him in the street, bought biscuits for him and took him to the shop as his son.


How about the ones that make fake monies and use them to buy from poor market women...Beware, don't fall a victim!!!




I have even fallen a victim before, they took my gold chain and asked me to go home and bring money, unfortunately for them, there was no money home...As soon as i got home, my Dad looked at my eyes and told me to sit down and and delayed me until my eyes cleared.....

Some days later I saw them again at the same Bus stop and one was wearing my chain and wrist watch... I ignored them and quickly went my way.

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TEEJAYS CORNER

Mistakes often times teaches us great lessons that tends to shape and rebuild one's character. For in every mess, there has always been a message to learn a thing or two. Retrospectively, I still feel and think there were things I should have done differently or even better with the knowledge I now have. What do I mean by this? There are some avoidable mistakes in life if only our eyes were opened to the truth.

When it comes to relationship, I think I made a good number of mistakes in the past that I never got it right.

Sometimes, we often close our eyes to the truth when feelings are involved. It doesn't matter what you do for a woman, if she doesn't love you from the heart, then she doesn't love you and may never love you.

I fell head over heels when I met my ex for the first time. She was a perfect representation of all I had ever wanted in a woman but it was a wrong choice I made. And Just like the reggae legend would say ".....behind that beauty lies the true colors that will destroy me in the near future."

Little did I know I had set myself on a regrettable journey. If only I had walked away earlier enough when I saw those signs but my heart wouldn't listen. I had lied to myself believing things will change for good but it never did. I wouldn't want to bore you all with all that ever happened between us but believe me, it's one thing I wouldn't even wish to my enemy.


Eventually, it all ended and I felt hurt, heartbroken and betrayed. At that point, It seems I had lost it all in life. It wasn't just the goodbye but the memory of it that hurt me the most. I gave my all and the very best even though I wasn't perfect and had my own flaws as well but at least I also deserved better.


One notable mistake I made in the past on relationship, was trying so hard to impress and convince a woman to love me. I called it mistake cos it ended up making these women to love me on what I can offer. When you make a woman fall in love with you based on what you can offer her, then it's no longer true love nor a good relationship.  

Often times we read and hear some women saying, they wants a godly man and you will think they are godly themselves but when you get closer to some, you will be left in shock of their attitude.

I think my past has taught me many lessons about relationship and I believe when the set time comes, true love will always find a way of uniting two imperfect strangers effortlessly to become one.



When you make someone fall in love with you based on what you can offer, then it is no longer true love... WORD!

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