STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
THE MARRIAGE PROPOSAL
Hello Stella and bvs, I'll just go straight to the point. Mine is a short chronicles that needs urgent advice.
THE MARRIAGE PROPOSAL
Hello Stella and bvs, I'll just go straight to the point. Mine is a short chronicles that needs urgent advice.
I'm a 200 level student in the university having serious financial issues (I'm the one training myself). My aunty connected me to an old time friend of hers who she went to secondary school with, in the city where I school, so that the lady can check up on me once in a while.
She's a nice lady, Infact that I survived in 100 level was cos of her. She always gave me money, food stuff and bought me dresses. I'm in her house now for this short Easter holiday, she proposed to take up my tuition fee and general wellbeing, but in the condition that I be her lover and marry her.
Please note oh, I'm female oh, 21yrs of age. I've actually been intimate with her a few times, but I'm shocked it will get to this. She promised to do every thing I can imagine including getting me a car.
Honestly, I have struggled a lot even before University, I'm just so confused.
Stella and bv's, bikonu what do I do? Is this worth it? I'm just so confused!!
Dont agree... WTF
Disgusting chronicle tueh!
ReplyDeleteStella I miss ya E-SLAP
Try and empathise sometimes. This girl is in real bondage due to poverty.
DeleteThe stupid girl just wanted to insult and disgust our senses this hot afternoon.
DeleteChoke on her tohtoh juice!
Lol.
DeleteYou've been intimate with her? 😂
Aunty finish what you started. Tell her you will be her lover, if it leads to marriage fine.
Use her help and grow. But stay faithful during that period so that it won't be like you used her.
When you are through with school, you take the next decision!
This is a bad advice I know. But you have started gbenshing her already.
Even if you reject the proposal, you will still go and gbensh because you don start.
On the contrary, you can cut her off and carry your life cross! Sell stuffs in school and support yourself.
Na only her see poverty? The robbers that killed 2 innocent school children in Anambra state yesterday see poverty too,should we also empathize with them? A 21yr old girl sleeping with her Aunty’s friend is the one I will emphasize with, it’s like your head is paining you.
DeleteRun. She is not your helper at all. Leave her place and God would open doors for you.
DeletePoverty is bad o.
DeleteGod punish nonsense.
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DeleteEwwwwww are you guys in Nig??????
DeleteLesbians love hahaha haha you better don't try it, try love a guy, by so doing you will get a man that will provide what she does for you.
That is how I put I and my friend’s pic that we took in Eko Hotel innocently o, a friend asking me out that I refuse to date because I suspect he his married, only for him to ask me if I am Bi, lol, I was like what prompt such question 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ is it cos I refuse you, he said part of it and part of it is your do 😂😂😂😂😂. I was angry though. Now to put a friend and I pic on dp makes be feel some how people world go read meaning.
Poster, I don't know how you guys feel about that act, but try real d***k may be you will feel better and port
When I was in school I know a particular guy that was working in school guest house to sponsor his education and that of his sibling.
DeleteI sponsored my self through school as well with out any form of support from anybody, thou I know it is not going to be easy, but with your brain and two hands nothing is impossible. The ball is in your court if you want to destroy your life for the present enjoyment. The only thing I can tell you is that it will not end well, even if she is a man , I will still advice you against it.
The marriage na em shock this aunty. If not, she's been doing this and enjoying it and the benefits. That's why I don't envy people in this life. A friend in her shoes will be asking God why she's so unlucky that nobody is assisting her. Without knowing it's finger stuffs that is releasing this one's favours. If I hear you won't gbensh her again 🙄. Besides this marriage stuff must have been said jokingly to you in steamy moments and your benefits you will lose if she's serious made you scared; before you sent this.
DeleteIn a nutshell, you are not innocent. You is a badass. And she's not your 1st. Don't paint yourself a saint here !
All those Lori iro to make it look like they are taking advantage of you issa lie.
You have also told her you are inlove with her. But you want to marry a man the Naija way so you need backups here!
Didn't you see your mates selling recharge cards and clothes in the hostel? Yeye somebody!
It is your choice to make. Leave all these people here shouting disgusting, they do more self. Fornication and sexual lust is same and same sin, it doesn't matter who you do them with. Do what makes you happy please. Whether you sleep with sugar daddy, boyfriend, same sex, etc, all are sin and equal before God, las las all sinners will go to hell fire. So choose your sin and be sinning in peace.
Delete"... all sinners will go to hell fire..." BUT homosexuality/lesbianism is an ABOMINATION to God. Romans 1v24-32
DeleteThere are degrees of hell fire. Don't all sins are equal.
Poster please explain intimate. Give details, thanks.
DeleteWhich kind bondage and entanglement be this?
ReplyDeleteRun as fast as your legs can carry you ohh.
This one no follow at all.
Tell her you don't want to think about marriage till after school so you can concentrate. By marrying her, she means becoming a full time lover who will live with her. You have started it already so enjoy yourself till you finish school.
DeleteLike seriously? What the heck is happening here? Buhahahaha!Simply don't accede and Japa...
ReplyDelete😱😱😭😭😭🙏
DeleteThat woman took advantage of your situation sha. Marriage ke. Run far far away.
ReplyDeleteAccept her proposal to reduce your suffering, so you can focus well in school and get good grades.
DeleteWhen you finish school and go for Youth Service, tell her you've caught a serious disease (up to you wgich one you want to use).
Then use style and Japa!
Try not to quarrel and always make sure you tellbher how appreciative you are.
Hmmmmmmmm Lele, speechless
ReplyDeleteThis is disgusting! Ori eyin meteeta ti daru
ReplyDeleteYou want to marry your fellow woman cos she takes care of you? Lmao 😆
ReplyDeleteNa you first start to struggle?
You are not serious.
😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteNa she be the first to struggle.
I don't know why this comment made me LOL
Deleteholy ghost fire!! where are your parents? you can't be so alone in this world. Don't you have siblings or other persons you look up to? just collect money and start a business especially those ones that thrive on campuses to support yourself...infact I don't know what to say to you...this is desperation at its peak
ReplyDeleteYou don't know what some orphans go through.
DeleteI have the most influential relatives in Nigeria but let me not begin my story. My life is pure grace. She may not really have anybody to really support her as you think. This life sha.
Poster I will advice that you pull back. Your mind is already damaged but getting sucked into marriage with a female in this Nigeria is going too far. Can you not talk to your auntie? I understand if its a man but.....
Lol, Anon her Auntie may be a lesbian too, seeing that the woman is her friend from way back, she may already even know what’s up
DeleteJust negodu... as in... you a woman, to marry another woman? Abi I no read well?
ReplyDeleteYou are already her lover or what did you think being intimate with her is..
ReplyDeleteMarry you, in Nigeria?? She’s goofing! 🤣
Listen, you can keep doing what you do and get her to fund your education further or you can leave and not look back.
💯💯💯💯
DeleteSame sentiments I typed above.
DeleteShe's already in
How ?are you saying lesbian relationship,pls don't do it or you don't want to marry and have children,remember you can stay with her for ever what of when you finished your course?her you stillgoinh to stay with her or leave the state for your sister state Pls seek advice from your sister since they were school friends
ReplyDeleteSeek advice for what? If she should go ahead?😂😂😂
DeleteYou've been "intimate with her?" You mean lesbianism has been going on here?
ReplyDeleteAnd you are shocked that she wants you to marry her?
What's the difference?
Don't you know that once idolatry starts, it begets children?
Don't just stay shocked, run for your life. Do not just run but
run to safety and only in Christ will you find safety.
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Whatever makes you happy,finish your education first since you need help with your tuition.At the end of the day,it's all man for himself.
ReplyDeleteTorh! Abi, since she has been doing it for fun, she can as well continue to achieve a purpose.
DeleteStill disgusting non-the-less.
You should do an honest retrospect of your sexuality and sexual life. Are you a lesbian or bisexual?
ReplyDeleteIf yes: do you find happiness or fulfilment being one?
Why did you get intimate with her? Is it for the monetary gifts and sponsorship? Or because you are sexually attracted to her.
What is your opinion and attitude about same-sex marriage?
The decision is yours to make.
Remember, your happiness and peace of mind should be your ultimate intent in whatever decision you make.
Na so.
DeleteAwon woke generation
Anonymous 16:11, no mind dem. Woke people who are heading for destruction.
DeleteI smell occultism here.
ReplyDeleteYou are in a trap and only Jesus can save you.
If you agree, you will seal an initiation process and find
yourself in the sea bed; the kingdom of darkness in the waters.
If you disagree, you risk a barrage of attacks from them.
But if you run into Jesus Christ and say no, you will be safe.
prayers, Bible study, fasting, way to go, in that sequence.
People think that money guarantees safety and peace in this life. No, it is not always about money. You can sell your soul for pittance.
ReplyDeleteGirl, you are cornered. Run, run, run 💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨
You've already started it and you don't seem like you will take to any advise that you'll get here.
ReplyDeleteAll I will tell you is that your are on the wrong path, God is not happy with you. Stop what you're doing with that woman before you destroy your life with your actions. Go and do other meaningful jobs that can help you pay your bills while you school, no matter how small, life may not be easy at first but you will pull through in the end.
Poster please listen to this advice and run from the deceitfulness of sin.
DeleteWhat shall it profit a man to gain the whole world but lose his soul.
That woman is a lost soul looking for who to drag into the pit of homosexuality, addictions and all manner of lasciviousness. The end thereof is destruction.
God knows about you even before you were born and he alone can bring your destiny into fulfillment,
pray and depend on him to provide for you and give you an expected end.
Don’t be myopic and throw away your destiny for a piece of morsel that agent of darkness is tempting you with today, so she can have access and destroy your destiny.
You may think your Education is the priority now but remember the rich fool. God can still send you a helper that won’t demand for anything in exchange
Goodluck
Yvonne, you know bible? But you are so insulting.
DeleteWe now have chronicles like this on SDK 😲😲😲😲
ReplyDeleteThe gate of hell is widely open to those that have chosen the path that leads to destruction.
Greed has led you to eat with the 😈. Its never too late for you to confess your sins to God and give your life to Christ.
Poster, you didn't complete the story. Write the conclusion and send to Stella. In the conclusion, state if you are a lesbian, or if you have applied and awaiting results. We'll take it up from there. I can't advice you except I know your status. Enjoy.
ReplyDeleteGo and read the part she said she has been intimate with her.
DeleteThe one I saw in the hospital where I worked in 2011 ended in acid bath and feed.
ReplyDeleteThe lady used acid in a way I've never seen it before. Made sure that the girl never survived
and she never did. she refused to marry her lesbian partner.
It was too late when she presented at the hospital. And of course nothing happened.
The acid attacker was from a rich home. We ladies take jealousy to power infinity.💀💀💀💀💀
Aswear.
DeleteThe demons that are in operation in lesbians are extremely jealous .
Poster, God help you if she catches you with a man or lady.
This! 😘
DeleteI have a girl we really love each other a lot since the age of 11 till now we are thirties.
But I avoid her because of my fate in God & stories like this.
I know the jealousy that transmits on just calls. Talk more of a full blown affair.
Somebody may kill somebody abeg!
Same sex love has borderline insanity!
Hmm at least someone mentioned the worst part, which is the high risk involved in lesbianism, poster you're dining with the devil, lesbian relationship no be beans e strong pass man to woman own, because it's an abomination to God's plan, she's giving you satanic promises, hmmmm it doesn't end well, I have seen tragic stories similar to yours, look up to Jesus Christ, life is hard everyone knows but God will always make a way out for you, remember God is a Father to the Fatherless,call on Him he'll have mercy and deliver you; and send you help. Don't fixate your mind on her as being the only help in the world,look up to God, Lesbianism is deep,may God Almighty have mercy on you and send you help. E-hugs
DeleteThey do this alot in enugu state,marry you but you must sleep around to get her children especially if she's rich.you are a lover already but please don't go this legnth.when marriage happens any thing she says you must do oo.. tradition will side her
ReplyDeleteReally? Who officiates the wedding? This thing no be lie like this?
DeleteWhich country are you both getting married in??In this Nija abi una dey abroad?
ReplyDeleteMeaning she has introduced you to lesbianism be that.You better find a way to move out of her house, talk to your Aunty and free yourself from this evil you have entered already cos being intimate with her means you are already her lover.
May God deliver you little girl.
Which Aunty...am even suspecting that her Aunty.
DeleteYes her aunty i mean,not the lesbian woman.
DeleteThis chronicle reminds me of the lady who wrote in years ago that she was in an a lesbian relationship with her mum and she goes home often to be intimate with her mum. P.S both of them are Beevees
ReplyDeleteI don't think anything can shock me again
Ah! Who go help us find link to that chrochro?
DeleteJesus! What? 😲
Delete😲God have mercy on us
DeleteGod forbid. Flee from that woman because you are already committing a sin against God by going intimate with her.
ReplyDeleteI know you are thinking of how to survive on your own, but God will definitely come through for you.
Run for your life, this is demonic entanglement!!!
ReplyDeleteIt's not worth it dear. Leave her and find your way. Let me help you a little, stay a few more days or weeks depending on the situation of the environment, gather a little money that can sustain you when you leave. When you eventually leave look for jobs you can do after school hours.
ReplyDeleteYamayama ...
ReplyDeleteYamayama, jati jati ati rada rada.
DeleteI don't see her offer as love, she's taking advantage of your situation.
ReplyDeleteSee, you'll be fine without her helping you, make up your mind to face the hardship that would come along your way. There's always an end to every difficult times, live on what you have and if it is so little try
the following options
1. Visit your school counseling unit and explain what you're passing through to them
2. meet "NAUW" national association of University women, they will help you being a female student
3. Go to your department or student fellowship for help and support.
God will guide you through, do not get involved in things because of poverty
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DeleteBiko! What l just read?🥺🥺🥺 Even Jeweluchi couldn't comment much. Biko, l can't agree to this, if l am in your shoes.
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of yarn is this? Anywayz you're already fucking her meaning you are a lesbian too. So every mallam with em kettle.
ReplyDeleteThis story went from zero to 100 pretty fast. What the fuck did I just read?
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂
DeleteYou have been intimate a few times?oh Lord!!!
ReplyDeleteAre there any LGBTQ people on here?! Please, I have a question for you!
ReplyDeleteIf you listen to famous members of the 🏳️🌈 community, they always say they knew since they were young, and they always felt "different". I'm assuming that may have been the same for you all.
How, then, do you feel about people like the poster who are "gay for pay"? Does it upset you that some only go into same-sex relationships for financial gain? Do you think it's devalues your cause?
As for the chronicle, I don't have anything to advice, but I will say this...anyone (man or woman) that attaches sexual stipulations before rendering help to someone in need, ain't sh*t!!!!!!
What did I just read ?? We all go through different struggles in life...and we always have a choice. Poster do not accept!
ReplyDeleteDear poster, were/are you a lesz or planning to become one?
ReplyDeleteHave you inform your aunt about this, if No, gather some evidence before discussing this with your aunt before she will turn everything on you!
All these material things looks enticing, but it is not worth except!
Please save the little you can and leave that place and her life
I believe your account is not that red, look for small business and engage urself
The babe started her chrinicle like a Saint. You have been chopping her kpekus since now you don't want to marry. So you just wanted to eat and run?
ReplyDeleteIf we tell you not to do,you will still do. Just follow your mind biko
Do not throw your future away!!!! Your sexuality is not the issue here. Even if this situation happened with a man, do not agree. I repeat do not throw your future away
ReplyDeletePoster this is a quagmire!! Hmmm invariably your aunty is either bisexual or a closet lesbian as well...I will advice that you end whaatever you are doing with her becos the consequences will be grave.
ReplyDeleteLesbianism is very wrong on all sides and they always end violent both in abroad or Nigeria. You are so young and naive you have no idea what is ahead of you: this is highway to destruction and self-damnation if you dont refrain from such.
Where are your parents or guardians? I hope you are a runaway..End this NOW NOw And decide to live a good life. Dont live a Had-I-Known life; it is another inferno on planet earth.
Marrying her is impossible because of our laws. She knows she can't marry you, I guess she just wants commitment. You are already having sex with her and she is caring for you. There are lesbians and homosexuals everywhere in our nation, though our people like pretending. Do what you think is best for you. Some people sleep with their bosses to grow in their place of work. Some girls sleep with lecturers to get good grades . Most bank markets have sex with their clients. A married bank market said years ago that her vagina is for her husband while her anus is for clients( She said this on this blog) People spend money on all sort just attract me. We got to know on this blog that some women use their menses to cook for their husbands. People do all sort to grow and survive.
ReplyDeleteWith all you've said, does it make it right.
DeleteThis world don finish.
Everyone be justifying evil. 🖐️😣🤮👹
Twins squad. I didn't justify anything, I only said the truth.
DeleteWhere are you people going to wed?
ReplyDeleteAnd who will wed you people?
In which country and state will it take place?
Rubbish dey smell for dis Chronicle.
In other words, gay for pay?
ReplyDeleteI hope you haven’t gotten yourself into a terrible situation that will be difficult to get out of. Mentally, spiritually, physically.
Wait oh poster? are u considering marrying a woman because of your financial status? Please walk away while you still can because this might get messy later on.
ReplyDeleteYou have been intimate with her on other occasions, so what's stopping you from marrying her..... make una dey dia dey do una lele things
ReplyDeleteif it is a man that wrote this chronicle we will say men are scum, men will stain ya white. Aunty poster, ur a woman like us and u know how we ladies get emotionally attached to whomever we screw. u should have clarified things before u started screwing her so she won't put all her emotions in the thing, now u put yourself in a mess. if u stop now, she will cut u off financially n possibly cast you. i heard scorned lesbians are even more vicious than heterosexual women so tread lightly. maybe u can ask a guy for advice cus they r good at offloadin women they r not interested in anymore
ReplyDeleteI pray you find you way out of that entanglement. At this young age you have gone this deep and want to destroy your life. Forget those cheering you on by citing other sins, you will never find peace in this route you have taken. You better retrace your step and do the right thing. Leave the benefits you are getting now and think about your tomorrow. God help you.
ReplyDeletelol...I never hespertedit when I started reading. my dear young lady, dont sign up for bondage later in life. our society is not ready for the kind of lifestyle the aunty wants, moreso it is wrong in the eyes of God. let us not fool ourselves, if you want God to step into a situation you do things his way. he can bless you without this entanglement. stop it and get out of there now
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