STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SECRET OATH
Dear Stella,
Good day and thank you for everything you do, you are a blessing to this generation. Please kindly hide my email.
l have been a reader of your blog since 2017 l can tell you l love what you are doing and l have learned a lot from your blog. l never knew l can write a Chronicle but this is the problem my cousin is facing right now
She is in her early thirties and met a guy last year and he seems like a good guy. After three months into the relationship she made a secret oath in front of the gods with the guy. immediately the oath was made, he guy changed to a beast. He drinks, smokes and gambles,. You can name any kind of bad habit he is an expert.
He kept all these habit from my cousin till after the oath.
Now my cousin met another guy this year who is nice and ready to settle down with her but my cousin is in a crossroad and afraid to let her new love know about the oath she did with the first guy.
She doesn't know weather to tell her new man about it or wait until he marries her.
Please Stella and the blog family. l need your honest and best advice on what to do.
*Your cousin should not even think about marrying anyone until that Oath is broken... The oath forbids her from sleeping with someone else or making commitments or there will be consequences.. The consequences might delay a little but because it is evil, it delivers when all is going well.
You and your cousin are not serious tbvh..Why go on ahead with the other guy whilst the secret oath hasn't been broken? Yeye!Who still goes through the stress of taking an oath in this time and age? SMH!
ReplyDeleteIn this day and age one is still taking stupid oaths!
DeleteAt +30 you are foolish enough to do oath with a man who has not even propose or even did introduction for you as if you were still in secondary school. Your cousin or you, are not wise and i wonder why a lady in her 30s will behave this way. Is it desperation or what? smh
DeleteThe devil is a trickster and he. That guy may not have been bad before but, you see after that oath he changed into the devil (the devils manipulations). He knows your sister must fail and wants to punish her. That is why it is wrong to disobey God.
DeleteYou are your "cousin"!
DeleteYou nail it Tiana
DeleteOHO
DeleteOn her own.
She should ho back to where the oat was taken. I'm sure the gods would understand with her.
DeleteLMAO @ in front of the gods, so wuna be traditional worshippers? I fear una type, na jazz full una bodi.
DeleteGo back to the gods and break the oath then repent very well.
Tell her to read the book; Sin in the House, a revelation of the blood covenants. It is on amazon.com.
ReplyDeleteThat was what helped my family friend overcome his.
Oath in 2021.. where are you people living.. the cave? Untop alll the advise from this blog.. una no dey hear word. be jumping upandan. dont go and clear the old oath
ReplyDeleteYou are your cousin period!!!
DeleteCarry your cross and move on with your boy friend. Enjoy
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Your cousin was stupid to have taken an oath! For what purpose exactly? I will not even take an oath with my husband not to talk of who I am not married to. I consider oaths to be against my religious belief as it is human manipulation of the natural course of life. She should not bother dating someone else but should lay on her bed as she made it.
ReplyDeletePeople do not understand that blood oats is selling their souls to the devil.
ReplyDeleteThe girl should renounce the oat and ask Jesus to come onto her life.
Anything apart from that is an invitation to troubles. For the Scripture says in Ps. 16:4 that the sorrows of those that seek other gods will increase.
Quaker Oats
Delete@15:10, God bless you. The only way to break that oath is by the shed Blood of Jesus. Only His Blood can suffice for that oath. Otherwise your cousin is in deep waters.
DeleteAnd she should go onto her next relationship until this one is broken completely. Otherwise even the new guy is not safe.
What level of desperation makes someone swear an oath before an idol?
ReplyDeleteYou meet a man and after 3 months you are swearing an oath?
Very soon she will blame government and Buhari for her problems.
Many times people are the architects of their own misfortune
She should go to MFM, they cater for people who have such problems as your cousin
ReplyDeleteShe took an oath because she is in her early 30s and desperately wants to be a Mrs. And now, there's a new guy in the pix but she wants to hide such a deadly secret UNTIL he marries her! Most of you deceptive ones will be the first ones to shout, men are scum...🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteWho takes an oath these days? No matter how the love intoxicates you, taking an oath is a no no
ReplyDeleteDear poster, your cousin has gotten herself entangled with a mess,I pray God brings her out of it
Your cousin has made her bed, she should now lay on it.
ReplyDeleteHow can someone in her 30s in this day and time be that foolish as to go swear an oath wherever?? Gosh I'm so pissed.
Haa, this is all shades of wrong, come on, your cousin should have known better.let her make enquiry on how to successfully break the Oat and actually go ahead and break it before going further with the new guy. She shouldn't use her foolishness to spoil that innocent guys life. There will definitely be consequences if not properly handled.
ReplyDeleteWas the oath officiated by a priest? If no, your cousin is free to be with whoever she wants to be with. There is nothing serious here. He only played her so he could be his real self without losing her. The oath thing is a scam if it wasn't officiated by a priest.
ReplyDeleteHow could your cousin be so naive to take an oath with someone in this age and time.
God bless you for having sense, poster don’t let your cousin be manipulated by a fraudster, oath ko oath ni, she should move on with her life and nothing will happen, both the oath and the gods are powerless
DeleteI guess you dont understand how demons and the devil take advantage of little things as this. Dont forget they were in front of the gods like the poster said, probably a shrine
DeleteWhat "gods"? Please, name the gods. Bobo yen ti gbe cousin ni handicap.
DeleteIs the guy a spiritualist???
Ewo logun oath in 2021???? Not even with my husband or my child will I take any oath.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid!!!, Ur cousin made a grave mistake embarking on an endless journey.pls don't tell the new man about any oath,infact have nothing with anyone until you are cleans.run to Jesus he alone can save u.he who comes to equity must come with clean hands
ReplyDeleteI'm not getting why and how a woman in her 30 yrs of age would go take a oath.
ReplyDeleteLike how?
Anyways you see that Stella's advice, just take it.
The guy knows he's bad news that's why he cajoled her into taking that oath so she can't leave even after showing who he truly is.
Oat before the gods in this time and age? Was it the guy that pushed for it?
ReplyDeleteShe can’t marry that other guy cos I’m sure she doesn’t know what consequences comes with such oats and when they are broken.
It’s stuff like this that make innocent people suffer and become miserable ontop Watin them nor know.
May God guard our paths in life.
I still find it difficult to believe that mumu girls still take oath in this modern times, what's with women and low self esteem wherever relationship or marriage issues arises, better tell your cousin to find means to break that oath, she shouldn't let him know it's because of a man she is leaving him else he won't accept to let her go. As simple as it may sound, if she stubbornly let's go, it will come haunting her and the new partner. Ladies be wise, leave gbola issue and face your personal happiness, gbola and emergency I must marry is not worth your peace ofind
ReplyDeleteYour cousin is a selfish girl. At such age, she know the difference btwn good and bad. She better live the son of man alone (the new guy).
ReplyDeleteShe should fix her mess or enjoy it while it last.
Cousin or you?
ReplyDeleteWho still does the oath thing in 2021?
It's good to be worldly wise o.
When they enter problem they will be looking for who will go down with them. To who brain is given, wisdom is expected.
ReplyDeleteMtchew, d only difference between mine n your cousin's own is, theirs was in front of gods or idols. .Jane was just in a room after hot gbenshing and I've done d oath thing with 3 different guys, the man I eventually married is different from them n we are all married to different people, different continents n doing well. So she can damn him n go marry n don't tell a soul. Simple.
ReplyDeleteTell her to tell the new guy already! However plans should be on hold till this is sorted out. There is nothing God cannot do. There is power in the name of Jesus. All you have to do, is have faith and go to him.
ReplyDeleteA lesson to men and women. Stop taking these oaths. There are dark spirits involved.
Your cousin is in her 30s and doing blood oath and in front of idols. Was it out of desperation? Is she a christian? Because I'm not understanding.
ReplyDeleteShe should break that oath before venturing into anything new. Gosh! What kind of mistake did your cousin make in this age and time? I really feel for her and hope she doesn't have to face any consequences due to this action of hers.
Your cousin or you should leave this innocent new guy out of your wahala and go look for solutions to your problem first.
ReplyDeleteStart by renouncing that oath(Don't know if you can do it without the guy).
If you have to denounce it with the guy look for a very serious sickness/disease and tell him that's what you have, God forbid! (Hiv/Aids, kidney, cancer, not able to conceive if you both get married hormonal imbalance).
After this process if he accepts. Give your life solely to Christ.
Go on personal fasting and prayer, you can add midnight prayers to it.
Go to Mfm church for deliverance
Then begin to attend a bible/prayer believing church.
Join the prayer unit and or any other unit in the church and be committed.
Hope this helps, come back and thank us.
In this age? At 30something? Na wa o
ReplyDeleteLet her enjoy the meal she cooked for herself.
Maybe a pastor can pray for her. I don't even know
I remember when someone that got in contact with me in on one of the singles and mingles post suggested that to me. I quickly rebuked him and told him that's not how to show love. We hadn't even met when he suggested this and didn't meet till it ended even though at a point I was catching feelings. I'm a very careful person so I started to add things together even though I was slow to act. His true nature started unraveling and I came to find out the kind of person he was. I'm very intuitive in nature so I'm still surprised how I missed that part of him for a long time.
ReplyDeleteYour cousin engaged in something destructive and it will take God's grace to be free. She's in her 30s for crying out loud, she ought to know better!
OATH????? In this time and age??? Was she under any form of influence to accept taking an oath and in the presence of a deity?
ReplyDeleteCousin, you're in for long battle. You need to real pray hard to break that blood covenant...
Why do people don't learn from others' mistake??? Do not get entangle with any man so you wont endanger his life and business. Keep away from men until you sort yourself out.
Abeg poster, do you. People will always feel entitled so it’s up to you not get caught in their web and end up frustrated. What people don’t realise is rich people appreciate gifts too.
ReplyDeleteAt 30+ someone is taking oaths, for what exactly ???
ReplyDeleteLet her go to a more powerful god and swear another oath with this new guy and let the two gods battle it out with each other. Sense will not kill me😆
🤣😅😂😅🤣, sense will not kill you jare 👍
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Deletethat your cousin is not serious.. please let the new guy know.
ReplyDeleteShe should genuinely give her life to Christ, go for deliverance to break the oath before going ahead with a new person so that she doesn't end up destroying the new guy's life and her own .
ReplyDeletePeople, it's OATH not OAT!
ReplyDeleteLol. Maybe it's the hunger for Quaker Oats that's clouding their sense of spelling.😂😅🤣😅🤣😅
DeleteDon't mind me 🤸♀️🤸🤸♂️ I'm in a naughty mood.
I tire. Oats oats everywhere.
DeleteAll shades of wrong... Who takes oath at this age and time? is she that naive? Its seems she's still in a relation with the other guy, so wile fall for the new guy. The mistake most people make, you will think they were under a spell.
ReplyDeleteShe must not enter into a relationship with the new guy until she formally breakup with her boyfriend and denounce the oath.
Mtchewwww
ReplyDeletePeople still dey do oaths for love for this era? I guess a combination of insecurity and inferiority complex is responsible for it. My advice to you is put pressure on the guy so you guys can break the oath together, if he does not agree, just know you are stuck for life! Good luck
ReplyDeleteIn year 2021 people still do oaths...With all we have heard,read and seen about the horrific repercussions.Once anyone brings up oath,Run. W
ReplyDeletePlease find a praying church and seek the face of God till you break that oath. O
Who still take oat in this 21st century???
ReplyDeleteMe. I love oats.
DeleteNa wah! Poster kindly advice your cousin to go break off the oath. Locate a strong deliverance ministry for this and please, don't treat this with levity since it was done before a shrine. Though you never mentioned if it was supervised by a chief priest.
ReplyDeleteI knew someone back then whose case was this similar. She died because she cheated on the guy and that was it. Just go and break it off.
On telling her new guy, that's her's to decide. Only she knows the guy's character. If the guy is the talking type and she gets to tell him, the last may never be heard of it. So you decide.
My aunt died as a result of this stupid "Love aoth". People will never learn mtcheew.
ReplyDeleteSay the truth and shame the devil. It's not your cousin's story. It's about you. Please go and deliver yourself from bondage. By the way you went to entrust yourself to demons how do you expect anything good to come from it.
ReplyDeleteAnono@18:25, it is my cousin that it's happened to her. She seek for advice and I was shock and don't know what to say. She is in 9ja and l am based in Western world.
ReplyDeleteshe needs Jesus to help her fix it. let her repent of the oath taking, give her life to Christ and start praying. she should look for any bible believing church and go for deliverance. cut of any kind of relationships with any guy for now till she is in the all clear. The name of Jesus is higher than any other gods who are all powerless before him.
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