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Lack of patience and tolerance
ReplyDeleteBecause men are now lazy and women don't take shit no more
DeleteTo most, the grass is greener on the other side
DeleteMarrying for the wrong reasons , not realising that love is not enough for a marriage to work ,and generally not accepting the rubbish that their parents did
DeleteTHE PURPOSE OF THE MARRIAGE HAVE BEEN ACHIEVED.
DeleteREMEBER PEOPLE MARRY FOR DIFFERENT REASONS, NO BI EVERYBODY GBADUN FOREVER AND EVER
Greed and selfishness
DeleteGBAMMEST @ anon 19.05
DeleteLack of communication
DeleteWomen changed. Men are slow in coming to terms with it.
DeleteNot accepting you are wrong
DeleteBecause nobody(both men and women) reads the bible anymore instead people prefer to go on social media and imitate things that are fake,listening to people that cannot even try what they preach outside with their own husband or wife o. Read your bible(both men and women) follow the way of the lord and see how beautiful your home will be. Husband love your wife, wife submit to your husband simple
DeleteSelfishness and disobedience to GOD
DeleteI think because people have become lovers of themselves alone not minding the feeling of their spouses before taking an action
DeleteThey dont possess fruits of the spirit
ReplyDelete✔️✔️✔️
Delete✔️that's right Phoenix.
DeletePlus:
1.They don't pray.
(They rely on "men of God" or is it 'men of god'?).
Lazy to prayers, always chanting "pastor tinyem n'ekpere", pastor put me in prayers. Like they are salt you put in prayers. The days of Possessing your Possession are over. They live on social media.
2. They are not CONSIDERATE at all.
It's a disaster already happening.
Me, myself and my kids "only".
#ravagingpandemic
Hiss.
@ Phoenix, you're absolutely right...
DeleteMost of them are not patient
ReplyDeleteLack of understanding, sacrifice and compromise
DeletePeople are not ready to sacrifice and compromise like men and women of yesteryears
ReplyDeleteWe stopped taking bullshit.
DeleteWomen are done with enduring bullshit in their marriages all in the name of remaining a “Mrs”.
ReplyDelete🎯
DeleteExactly what I was coming to type. Women are done condoning and tolerating bullshit. Less women have time for the war room advice now. Life is too short to live it in misery.
DeleteThe men lack family values and are not ready to nurture anybody's daughter to enjoy a marriage with him.
DeleteThey can't smell 10 years wedding anniversary,if there's even a wedding.
Gbam, gbammer, gbammest
DeleteMotivational speakers have spoilt things for everyone.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣
DeleteAvailability of ready toto all around.
DeleteThe partners are not willing to look past each other's flaws and weaknesses. They want the 'perfect spouse' 🤷♀️
ReplyDeleteYou're so right
Delete👍👍👍👍👍 Bless you....
DeleteThey want what they can't offer
DeleteThey feel they know God but deny his powers
ReplyDeleteImpatience
ReplyDeleteSelfishness
Trying to be woke
Spirit of the last days
darajah, as long as you keep trying to bring people down on this blog, you stay down in life. Have you not wondered why your life is so ratchet
DeleteSocial media...
ReplyDeleteMarrying for the wrong reasons....e.g
ReplyDeleteIncompatibility.
Wanting to pepper certain people...family and friends. You want to prove to them you are better than them.
Some men think they did you a favor marrying you.
Laziness and dirtiness on the woman’s part. Some ladies do not know to maintain their homes.
Some men not being able to provide, they’d rather gamble away their time and money.
Some women do not know how to treat and respect their husbands. Maybe cos they earn more than their husbands, they think they are the head of the home and that wrong. A man heads the home.
They are the ones with this backward mentality of feminism etc 🚶
LMAO 😂
DeleteMoney..
ReplyDeleteGrowth
ReplyDeleteRealization
Awareness
Social media.
ReplyDeleteSelfishness!!
ReplyDeleteMe,me,me,me!!!! No one wants to reach a compromise but rather it's either about them or nothing..
@MARTINS
Spot on!
DeleteNo love... I think people nowadays go into relationships without genuine love for the other person...if there is genuine love, relationships will thrive
ReplyDeleteSocial media.
ReplyDeletePorn addicted men
ReplyDeleteGreedy women
Feminism
Social media and fake lives
"Abroad" mentality
And the next one may surprise you...
Prostitution! (ask me to explain)🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Who come get time to dey ask u🙄
DeletePlease explain dear anon.
DeleteI know about Porn... so many Nigerian men are addicted.
DeleteAnd Prostitution... well, so many Nigerian ladies cannot stick to one Preeq.. they've gotten so used to having multiple partners, they can't stick to one. Even when these sexual encounters have no favours attached to them. Tueh!
@SluttyChikito
DeleteGreedy married ladies.
Kpom kwem
Self-centeredness.
ReplyDeleteIf only people will understand that marriage won't be rosy all through after the honey moon.
ReplyDeleteWhy go into marriage with that mentality? Roses have thorns but people don't dwell on that. They focus on its beauty! TeeJay u are my bro and I definitely love u, don't think I don't like u dear, nonetheless, I speak my mind and will rather not comment than go anon just to please anyone. Paint a beautiful picture of marriage in ur mind, that's d first step dear!
DeletePwety/ugly you leave this man alone. Such a petty troll.
DeleteAnon 19:51 allow people learn in peace. Even me sef is still from here everyday. Everything is not hate or troll. Na wa!
DeleteIts been 5 years of bliss for me,pls change that mindset.
DeleteBut pwetie you didn't make sense at all, just being a troll 🥴. I don't see anything wrong in what Teejay said and besides he is entitled to his opinion 🥴🤷🏾♀️.
DeleteWhen I say marriage won't be rosy doesn't mean one is pessimistic about it, but of a truth, we all know problems and challenges will definitely come in marriage. It all depend on how both partner goes about it. When you think of the best in marriage, you also be prepared for challenges.
DeleteMs tee, I'm happy your marriage is so blissful but will you say there hasn't been issues all these years?
Anon 20:30, dey there and be looking for heads to jam. My head is not available. Continue being anon forever! Ntorrrrrrr!
DeleteAnon 20:30 dey there and be looking for heads to jam, my head is not available. ntorrrrr!!!
DeleteSelfishness
ReplyDeleteGreediness
Impatience
Laziness
Everyone wants to be the Head
Lack of money((Everyone wants money)
Iz that gender oh
ReplyDeleteYes! The one that ate forbidden apple in the garden of Eden. Ehen, that one that also betrayed, denied and nailed Jesus to the cross. They are the problem. Teejay, Chike, ceaser and the other extremely
aggressive one... just waka pass this comment you hear?🙄🙄
Bv Purely Organic
You are dumb. Did you have to mention those guys? Marry the one you will sit on his head, ode.
Delete19:07 You must be brain dead
DeleteIf you'd passed your message without calling names would you have grown shorter? Twerp!
Hydrogen... be calming down okay?
DeleteI was being playful...
I don't do the gender blame game thingy.
Talking about John the Baptist, which gender cut the head off?��
Small thing na to vex vex. No humour at all. Na to dey fight gender war dey hungry some of una. Smh. Fighting the gender war will not help you. There are more important pursuits.
DeleteAlot of Women have refused to be women. They want to be the woman and man at the same time while refusing to bear the male responsibilities. Very selfish tendency. There's no male species that will allow their female override them. Last last na still them go suffer after divorce. Check out the ones that ran out of marriage, they still hide to fuck another woman's husband! So shameful. You abandon what you had just to end up fucking another woman's man- in hiding. The few women that are loyal are having a ball in their marriage. The razz girls here should emulate XP. See how happy she perpetually is. Very loyal to her hubby and marriage. Have you ever seen where she said cheap stuff like "men are scum"? Una go continue to dey get heartbreaks till una learn from the few reasonable ones here.
ReplyDeleteThanks Caesar. I feel honored.
DeleteTruth is bvs like Chike will understand perfectly how my home is run because he's also from Anambra State. You report to many people, failure to do so you run into problems.
There are certain things a woman shouldn't skip in her life;
Prayers. Prayers. Prayers.
Guard, bridle your tongue and listen to your parents, your marriage will sail through.
Now measure this, parents have been married for 57 years though they were in different continents for 3 years before the union took off fully.
I got 5 married elder sisters who are working professionals breathing down my neck, "you must get it right" then should I say they are all close to my hubby again? I got no choice than to fall in line.
Broken marriages 1st starts from a "bad mother in-law", check well before you marry. Both ways and then if 2 people are hot tempered, nobody should approve the marriage. It's a 30-70% survival rate. Bound to crash.
The ones whose husbands wash their pants and scrub their bathroom walls should come abuse me. My hubby is not in that WhatsApp group.
Almost 10 years on this blog, and my decisions and submissions remain the same. Google any of my comments on marriage,I don't delete.
My friends here and outside don't get separated or divorced, they know how I "bridge gaps for them".
Finally, Caesar work on your temperament,if possible reach out to Mr Lanre Olusola on social media,he will fix whatever issues you rolling on.
Do not raise your hand on a woman. Caesar. Don't!
#udo
Many loyal women are suffering in the their relationships and marriages so your generalisation is a fallacy.
DeleteStories that tickles the bum bum
DeleteAnon 21:03 Her generalization is not a fallacy. Those points she highlighted works for her. You know why? Because those ahead of her and her parents told her it works for them, and she affirmed it positively that it must work for her. Life itself is not a bed of roses ditto marriage, so what’s the problem with you that you can’t stand that these points worked for her. Life is what you make it, if you want your marriage to work, yes it will work for you because this person you are with, you know why you want to be with them, their flaws, strengths and all,so don’t come here and project whatever you are going through on her
DeleteCos most don't build the institution on Christ! Any marriage which it's foundation is not built on Christ the solid rock will surely not stand the test of time!
ReplyDeleteSo true👌
Delete✔️✔️✔️
Delete✔️
DeleteThanks Paris. So right.
I'll add Build the marriage on their faith because not everyone is a Christian. Some are Muslims.
A couple or family that prays together,stays together.
Even if it's standing in the middle of your living room every morning to say a 5 mins praise/ worship songs then little prayer. Just do it and take off.
It's got a binding spiritual growth in a marriage.
Ladies will call you old school. Ignore them.
True talk sha
DeleteBut even the ones wey dey lead us to christ wey suppose be christ like, them go still dey test water outside.
Lass lass na God go help us because we don't have praying couples anymore.
Paris Savannah, you got THE ANSWER! 👌
DeleteMen and women submit to Christ so you can submit in love to one another in marriage.
Churches teach the godly values and intensify pre-marriage and singles seminars to build up godly men and women.
Nigeria needs godly families to build a godly society.
They now view marriage different from what the creator made it to be.
ReplyDelete✔️✔️✔️
DeleteToo many fuck boys pretending to be a man,most men are not responsible.
ReplyDeleteToo many women marrying who is ready, love will come later.
DeleteLack of d fear of God n sacrifice
ReplyDeleteSelfishness.
ReplyDeleteImpatience
ReplyDeleteI no gree, I no gree hahahaha
ReplyDeleteThis 'I no gree don' break soooo many marriage. Too much prude and ego from both sides. No one wants to step down for d other.
Delete*pride
DeleteFoundations are too faulty. A house built on sand cannot stand. Look for example at today's Chronicle. Someone is getting married in a few days but has a live in side chick and other girlfriends. How is that marriage going to work out?
ReplyDelete✔️✔️✔️
DeleteLack of tolerance. Everything has changed. Women can now walk out of marriages coz the husband messed up. It wasn't so in the past, you live and die for your husband but now everything has changed.
ReplyDeleteSpanishL, it should be the other way.
Delete"HUSBANDS , LOVE YOUR WIVES , JUST AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND GAVE HIMSELF UP FOR HER ." Ephesians 5:25
Men you should lead by example so your wives will follow and your children too.
A majority of responses in this thread shows that the posters can't have well grounded and functional marriages.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand what u mean?
DeleteDon't go and work on your marriage. The comments you read here is 100% women's mind; even that one wiping your ass forming submission. All na pretence! Even our mothers, PRETENCE! They just didn't have a voice!
DeleteIntolerance
ReplyDeleteLooks over character
Wealth and gbola size over a good man
Lack of communication.
Inlaws interference.
Financial Pressure
ReplyDeleteSelfishness. Selfishness. Selfishness
ReplyDeleteif it looks like she is giving you more than what you are giving her, she sees you as inferior and loses attraction. Women are subconsciously keeping a ledger of everything you have done for them and everything they have done for you. If what they have done for you exceeds what you have done for them, they lose attraction. So a man got to always be a step ahead in giving, it could be anything, love, affection, money, pen*s, time, everything or else they look for a reason to back out of the relationship and find a way to blame you in the end, women are never wrong
ReplyDelete21:15 that's because it is the place of men to provide and women to support.
DeleteWomen are not built to take on that role. They can only do it for so long before the burden breaks them, even the good ones.
Fellow women selfishness in deliberately breaking their fellow women’s marriage. They know you are married, and the Bible says man’s weak and can’t reject sex, and they deliberately use that sex to lure you away from her fellow woman saying they can’t be single and this one is enjoying what should be a whole meal for all of us, using all sorts of things, juju, kayan mata, sex, seducing, dressing provocately knowing fully well say no be something dey dangle for under, you go soon fall abi I no be woman, no be blood dey flow for your veins and if you reject their advances, wahala don start be that, they always go out of their way to target married men because na married men dey get money pass single men
ReplyDeletePlease, the Bible DID NOT SAY.... "They know you are married, and the Bible says man’s weak and can’t reject sex."
DeleteGod will judge the sexually immoral - men or women!
Lack of tolerance,patience,compromise,submission and forgiveness.Learn to understand who you are married to.It's not competition or staying woke or in Orubebe's voice "I wont take it".Marriage isn't a walk in the park,it takes a lot of work and commitment,but if you get in with the mindset of if it doesn't work out,I'm done,trust me there are a thousand and one reasons for you to leave.Prayer is key,there is nothing you put in God's hands that will go bad,make God the head of your home.
ReplyDeleteMisplaced priorities in choosing spouse from either gendar.
ReplyDeleteActually... Women wisen up!
ReplyDeleteNudity everywhere, you can’t even concentrate on anything again
ReplyDeleteNa money o, the root of all evils
ReplyDeleteNo woman get married for it to fail. The girl child is groom for marriage but the male is not. Education has changed a lot of things. Its not easy managing a modern woman with our Africa male mentality.
ReplyDeleteInfidelity,domestic violence and abuse, not been matured before getting married, marrying a gold digger,formulating before marriage, lack of proper upbringing of both male and female by their parents, not marrying the will of God for you, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, marrying a narcissist and a mentally ill person, marrying a lazy, disloyal,wicked,dishonest,evil, incompatible and unsupportive spouse.
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