Actress Uche Ogbodo Rants About Marriage, Abortion And Domestic Violence + Advices Older Ladies To Become Singles Mothers

Nollywood actress Uche Ogbodo has advised single ladies to quit having abortions and starting having kids, when marriage isn't forthcoming...She tells them to have a one night stand!

Please read to the end and try not to be shocked and lets discuss the points she raised.

According to the video she posted on Instagam...


''Hello guys, let's discuss the topic single and pregnant at 30 and above..
I am above thirty and I have my choices to make, there are so many women like me in Africa but unfortunately they don't have the kind of mind and heart that I have, they can't do what I do because of society.


I am 34 years old. I'm real I don't hide my age. I already have a kid ,this is going to be my second child and I have a boyfriend who loves me, I'm happy.


The thing is I never planned for this but it happened, and I am not a candidate of abortion. I don't support abortion because I'm Catholic. From where I come from abortion is an abomination, so I grew up with that mentality. 

 I didn't abort my first child who is six years old, when I was twenty seven despite all I went through with the guy I was with then.. I still had her.. now I'm 34 and you mothaf**kers want me to abort this child?.


So many women within my age group are dying to get married, praying, doing rituals and going to all sort of places to have a man because they can't have a baby out of wedlock, they will be crucified by the society and disowned by their families.


When you get to 30, 35, 40 and you are still waiting for a husband, why don't you have your child, who will take care of you at old age? I see women at 35 committing abortions, are you mentally sick? wake up,is it because of what people will say?.. I am not criticizing anybody. I think our culture and traditions did this to us. the enclosure and restrictions are too much.


please when you get to 40 and no husband is coming ,please have your child don't think of what the society will say. A man who wants to marry you will marry you, regardless of being a single mom or not


Men respect single women with kids more because they feel you are matured and grounded. They listen when you talk. African men don't respect women like that..

I heard something today, about a 40 year old woman who went to the hospital to freeze her eggs because she is waiting for marriage. Do you know how painful it is to extract your eggs or freeze it. please just have one night stand and have your baby. Everyone mustn't get married.


There are some girls of my age who used to be beautiful, I saw one yesterday and I had to go back to her page to confirm that she was the one. The irony of it is that she is even married but looking old and ugly. Please stop killing your children especially when you are of age,  if Marriage comes, fine but if it doesn't come, raise your kids


Single motherhood is hard, I'm a single parent and I know how hard it is. but the devil thought he could bring me down but I punched his face. Grace! you need to hold on to something in this life never walk alone. You need to hold on to God, forget others pretending to love you.

 Be prayerful, it is the holy Spirit that will direct you where to go. This life is tough, I don't go to juju house, it's only God I know , he directs me, I'm always cracking my brain ........


I'm not saying Marriage isn't good. it is good when you do the right thing, marry the right man, marry your friend. Let me say the truth, I wish to get Married but I'm not desperate, I won't kill myself as it hasn't come. I want to have a partner, a husband with my kids , live in a mansion ,drive beautiful cars, travel round the world.. that's the kind of life I want.

I am a woman who should be under a man. but I'm still here, it hasn't happened doesn't mean it won't happen. I'm 34, my time isn't over.. I'm going to be hotter than before after the baby. I'm doing to have my man, get married but if it doesn't come, that's fine.


Women in domestic Violent Marriage, how do you cope? a man punches you, blood dropping out of your nose and eyes and you will still remain there, do you want to read your own obituary ? life is expensive. I don't know about life after this one or reincarnation. I believe in this one I'm living.


I have phobia for men who will raise their hand on me.. the minute you try it I'm gone. it's over. When you treat me like a princess that is what I like. I have sharp mouth but I don't have strength, if fight comes I will run away. Women collecting punches, you have strength, I didn't say you should leave your house but if it is not working it isn't working.

That was how I helped a girl whose husband beats her mercilessly, I squatted her in my house for two days, when her husband came to pick her because she informed him she was at my place he threatened to burn down my house and seal it, and nobody will talk. The man beats her with a pistol.....


Lady please don't go and die for love, I don't know what is love, love is f**k after two to three years you guys will be tired of f**king if there is no friendship I'm not sure the Marriage will still survive. Please calm down, life is small small. Women don't beat your husband also.


Marriage is understanding that's why you need to marry your friend. Nobody should beat anybody. let's do better. so all of us won't stand on the street. You people said being single and having kids is a sin.. it's an abomination but committing abortions is not a sin?. Please do what works for you. Nobody should send me to offend God and kill God's baby, I can still get married. my man hasn't dumped me, we are still together. nobody knows the future. Please let's calm down''.