Oko Ashawo is a lucky man oh!!!
I’ve been blessed with some of the kindest and sweetest customers one could ever wish for.
There is this particular woman, Mrs. T who I pick up early in the mornings whenever I start my day by 6am. She lives 2 streets away from mine and I became her regular cabbie after picking her order for 3 days within a week. We made an offline arrangement to be taking her to the office every morning and
this has ensured regular income for me.
I get regular tips from her and she even assisted me financially when I needed to sort some bills at some point.
I got to know more about her in the course of offering my cab service to her. She often asked for my thoughts concerning certain issues in her marriage. She has been the one sustaining the home and her husband has not made any serious effort to do a business or get another job since he lost his job for over a year.
I got to know more about her in the course of offering my cab service to her. She often asked for my thoughts concerning certain issues in her marriage. She has been the one sustaining the home and her husband has not made any serious effort to do a business or get another job since he lost his job for over a year.
They’ve been married for about 3 years now are still TTC (trying to conceive).
Recently, she told me to stop coming to pick her up in the mornings and this really pained me because it meant a stoppage to my regular income. She didn’t offer any explanation and I wondered what happened.
Some days back, I got an order when I was getting ready to close from work. Alas, it was from Mrs T. I was excited because that would afford me the opportunity to see her again. She looked distressed and as we talked, she told me she had to stop using my service because her husband suspected we were dating.
Recently, she told me to stop coming to pick her up in the mornings and this really pained me because it meant a stoppage to my regular income. She didn’t offer any explanation and I wondered what happened.
Some days back, I got an order when I was getting ready to close from work. Alas, it was from Mrs T. I was excited because that would afford me the opportunity to see her again. She looked distressed and as we talked, she told me she had to stop using my service because her husband suspected we were dating.
Hian ….
He had even told her to invite me to a meeting where her parents and his parents would be present so that I will explain who I am to her. Eventually, he resolved that he never wanted to see me near his wife again but she didn’t know how to tell me all these.
Why are some men like this? How can a man be so irresponsible and leave every financial burden on his wife? I honestly don’t know what to advise this woman to do because she believes that divorce is a sin, and marriage is for better for worse.
How can a woman choose to stay with a man who abuses her physically at the expense of her life? Me wey I dey pray for sweet woman like Mrs. T.
Chai … this life no balance.
He had even told her to invite me to a meeting where her parents and his parents would be present so that I will explain who I am to her. Eventually, he resolved that he never wanted to see me near his wife again but she didn’t know how to tell me all these.
Why are some men like this? How can a man be so irresponsible and leave every financial burden on his wife? I honestly don’t know what to advise this woman to do because she believes that divorce is a sin, and marriage is for better for worse.
How can a woman choose to stay with a man who abuses her physically at the expense of her life? Me wey I dey pray for sweet woman like Mrs. T.
Chai … this life no balance.
*Be careful what you pray for Oko ashawo. If you pray for a sweet woman like her the prayer might be answered with you being Jobless..
Men without Jobs or money in their pockets have insecurity problems, may it not be your portion.
On a second thought, I dont blame that man, he must have watched how you were unconsciously stealing his wife with your ashawo moves...hahahahahahah
Once a woman starts telling you about "crisis in her marriage"...be very very careful.
ReplyDeleteThe day you both will be alone and she starts that tale with tears...Hmm, I no fit talk the events that will likely follow.
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🤣🤣🤣 Stella o, you and oko ashawo matter dey God table.
ReplyDeleteWetin Stella write no be lie sha even if we flip the table around even the woman will also feel insecure
I have a question for oko ashawo
ReplyDeleteWhy is it only women you pick and drop?
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That means you don't read his column cos if you did , you go see say no be only women .
DeleteShe is fond of you and may have spoken to her husband about you and the man took offence.some men sha
ReplyDeleteThere are too many useless and jobless men out there who put the burden of talking care of the home on their wives. Tufia....
ReplyDeleteSecondly, they are usually very wicked. Monitoring spirits.... God forbid
Seriously Stella, you are using style to toast cabbie man! You like him three much 🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸
ReplyDeleteWhere do these women meet their horsebands? Is it that they pretend during courtship and show their true colors when they're married? 🤔
ReplyDeleteI wont doubt it if this man is a woman beater.
On the contrary, Oko Ashawo, be careful with other people's wives. Only God knows what the husband saw 😛🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️
Read the passage again. He's a beater
DeleteAnonymous donor, read what again. She read right o jare.
DeleteMaybe Oko asewo made some ashewo moves like helping her carry her bag to the car, flip her flowing gown to avoid being trapped in the door or opening the car door for her.
That thing can so painnnn men eh.
And this cabbie, we no trust am. Hahaha.
On another note, a jobless man is prone to agitated and suspicious stunts, no matter how nice his wife strives to be.
May God provide him with another job.
Stella you’re yet to tell us Wetin oko ashawo do you true true 😁🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand, I think it’s for the best the woman severed contact with you before clap would turn to dance.
live sameone wife oo
ReplyDeleteSad she is going through all these!
ReplyDeletePlease stay away from her because the husband would have more reason to torment her, just wish she could walk away, any ways it's well.
Stella, always giving Oko Ashawo gbas gbos every single week, back to back🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteOko Ashawo, getting too close to married woman weh get issues in her marriage na trouble weh dey wait to happen
It's better this way, before her insecure husband will come and shoot you ontop your Belle weh you dey find.
From your discussion of how you and the woman were getting close and all, the man did the right thing shutting the dangerous friendship down.
ReplyDeleteWould you be cool if your wife is discussing your marriage with a male friend who spend time with her daily? I bet you won't even be cool with your girlfriend doing such.. what that woman was doing is dangerous, might be innocent on her part, but if you weren't a cool guy, you'd have taken advantage and started fuckin her.. na like this most wife cheating ish dey start.. the woman would always come with a sub story, then you'll present a shoulder to cry on,-a shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on..
You sef, no dey welcome such discussion next time.. discuss other stuff but not her marriage.. you're not a marriage counselor..
Having said that, that man needs to get out and get something doing with his life, if the wife was telling the truth.. A man should never be comfortable being fed by a woman.. a woman also should be a full liability for a man, try bringing something to the table, no matter how lil..
Blessings
Dantest!
DeleteI doff my cap for you @Dante,you balance it
ReplyDeleteDante you balance it all
ReplyDeleteDante, na man you be. Are you married? 🤦🏻♀️
ReplyDeleteDante have the best comment. Sense full your big head abeg.
ReplyDeleteI was surprised at stella comment o...until I got to the last paragraph and I was like finally😅
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