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Please if you are a man reading this and you are physically abusing your wife eh,the thunder that will catch up with you. you will into understand it...
A BV was abused by the hubby last night in front of the kids. He beat her so bad and stoned her to the ground....I stayed awake from 2am thinking about this and the way forward for her.... I no longer tell anyone to leave, and stopped my Domestic Violence campaign briefly because of BV Flora who went back after all what was done for her to help her escape the cruelty she faced then...She went back, got pregnant with twins and the rest is history.....I dont know where she is but i pray he has not killed her.
If he's beating you in front of the kids and you stay with one flimsy excuse or the other, you will have kids who will turn out broken and repeating the beating on their spouses...
Have a good day and keep your head filled with positive thoughts.
Kisses
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Happy Weekend everyone. Stay safe and have a stress free weekend.
ReplyDeleteWe've Been Enthroned!!
ReplyDeleteEphesians 2:4-6.
Excerpts!!
"We’re called to exercise dominion and to live as masters and victors in life through Jesus Christ"
"We reign over Satan, darkness, the world and all creation"
"Until we’re taken out of here by the Rapture, darkness can’t prevail, because we have a joint-sitting with Christ in the place of power and dominion"
Confession!!
I have a joint-sitting with Christ in the place of glory and power. As long as I’m in the world, I’m the light of the world! I exercise dominion over circumstances and the spirits of darkness, and I bring them under subjection to the Name of Jesus! Amen.
Amen!
DeleteYou have a joint sitting with Christ, a whole Christ. You are very greedy.
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Good morning to y'all on here and happy weekend to you too.Thanks are in order to you all that reached out to me via the Friday Night Post yesterday and of course,i am a tad better now.🤗🤗😊😊
ReplyDeleteThank God for you.
DeleteGood morning blog family
ReplyDeleteIt's well with us today
And it rained yesterday in Lag..I loved it.🤗
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone.😘
Seriously o
DeleteThe heat was becoming unbearable.
Yes oh! It rained in Benin as well, the weather is good.
DeleteGood morning everyone 💕
Stella babe haillings 🙌
Lovely weekend 💕💕💕💕
Good morning everyone
ReplyDeleteHave a great weekend
Up and thankful to my Creator 🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteLoving the weather since last night after God answered our prayers for rain🥳🥳🥳
Oh dear! Bv with DV , sorry Sis but you know what to do yeah? It doesn't end oh! God will help you in making best decision
Namaste darlings 🥰🥰
hustle oo make same girl wey give us( myslf, tony elumelu dangote them) Lap dance for club no go follow you dey dance leg work till you break leg ooo
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DeleteThen take painkiller after the havoc dancing 😀😀😊😊😊
DeleteI still don't get the logic behind beating your partner you took to the altar and say till death do us part.
ReplyDeleteIt is devilish and barbaric attitude, some men really need to do better..
Gbamsolutely. Some tends to forget they are not one. If you can't hurt yourself then , why inflict pains on your wife...
DeleteI dont support domestic violence sha, but Banty, leave oh, some women na demons in human form
Delete@anon 8:57 no matter what a woman does,that should not be a justification to physically abuse someone you call your wife and mother of your kids.
DeleteSee there are a lot of ways you can go around in dealing with women than physically abusing them.
Beating them is not the answer or solution. You can just walk away. I hate DV with every being in me. May help her to make the right decision
DeletePRAYING ACCORDING TO GOD’S WILL
ReplyDelete‘You do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives.’
James 4:3 NIV
When you pray for the salvation of a loved one, you never have to wonder if it’s God’s will. His will is clearly spelled out in Scripture: ‘God…wants all people to be saved and come to a knowledge of the truth’ (1 Timothy 2:3-4 NIV). However, when it comes to praying for things that aren’t clearly promised in Scripture, you should say, ‘If it be Thy will.’ Why? Because the Bible says, ‘When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives.’ Sometimes we have a hard time accepting this truth because we’re convinced our petitions are justified. But unless your heart is pure towards God and your will is lined up with His, your motives for asking can be tainted by self-interest. John says: ‘This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears – whatever we ask – we know…we have what we asked of him’ (1 John 5:14-15 NIV). When you pray for something you’re not sure is in keeping with the mind of God, you should pray, ‘If it be Thy will.’ So pray in faith, and trust God for the right results.
Word For Today.
ESsa Atelier
Spouse beaters will reap what they are sowing sooner or later.
ReplyDeleteStella good morning! Praise the lord! Praise,praise, praise,praise theeeeeeeeee LORD! Hallelujah. Stella I am soooooo happy ooooo! My younger sister after 19years + has finally summoned the courage to leave an abusive relationship! That man is a devil from the pit of hell! I was shocked. She reconnected with me after 6years of no talking. She left with her 3 children she is doing well. My husband and I contributed towards her rent. She has a good job,bought a car and is sleeping well after all she went through Stella if I tell you what she told me she passed through I was just crying. Stella I will compose myself and send you the real life story. My sister told me he came to her place of work begging her when he saw that she was not going to go with him. He started threatening to kill my sister and kill himself. My dear Stella the one that shook my sister,the husband wanted to beat her as usual because my sister refused to put the car documents in his name can you believe that my niece that is 19years old attacked her father to stop him from beating my sister together they beat him up. But my niece told my sister that if you don't leave this man you call my father I will kill myself. His own daughter stood up against her own father! Stella my sister is free at last she took a lot of rubbish from that man. He is a manipulative, petty,foul mouth,lazy,violent man I thank God everyday for my sister she is happy where she is. Thank God for me!
DeleteGood morning y'all.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful day here with a cool weather. The rain did good. And there was light all through.
Husband and wife matter, I no dey put mouth o. They always use outsiders to settle their ish.
Have great weekend y'all.
Good morning blog family, here's to a happy weekend.#saynotodomesticviolence
ReplyDeletePlease what's the best way to kill a rat? I don't even know what to buy or how to go about it.
ReplyDeleteI need help.
There's rat gum. Buy the original one and place it at a strategic place...
DeleteRat bawo?
DeleteIf you're in Lagos wipe them with the package called ATOMIC BOMB RAT KILLER. A pack is N500.
It comes in a red sealed pack( check that it's completely sealed before buying).
The poison is laced with arsenic already, just untie the tiny nylons and place in strategic places. It will kill and dry it up. No smelling.
Made by Christo company in Orile.
Can't put the full names .(Stella Kork won't post).
Buy from Ikeja under bridge,oshodi,ojuelegba or mile 2.
It wipes rats from the whole neighborhood if you can afford many.
Good moring Blog Fam
ReplyDelete@BVs Glow 307 & Sweetdee...wishing you both a Happy Happy Birthday darlings, May God's light shine upon all your ways🤗❤
Essa Atelier
Happy birthday to bv glow and sweedee
DeleteStella, this story right here is really a sad one. Why treat the one you claim to love badly? Why? I tire abeg! Women need to start taking some decisions that will benefit them and the kids....
ReplyDeleteGood morning my neighbours.
Damn! That's heartbreaking. Beating your own wife? Man, go face a man like you, ode! Fool.
ReplyDeleteMadam, do the needful before your body is moved out of that house in a bag. This is pure wickedness.
The rain yesterday was a blessing but caused a lot of buildings collapsed.
ReplyDeleteReally!!!! Location???
DeleteYea right and the rain in Abuja came with a lotta breeze too
DeleteGood morning to you all, have a great weekend. LILYANGEL
ReplyDeleteGod in you I trust,let me know no shame.Amen
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone. Good morning Stella. I think the beating of a wife is basically because she accepts it from the beginning. One of my mantras in life is: what you can't finish, don't start. If from the first day it occurs, you do something drastic about it, nip it in the bud, he will most likely not try it again. But many women bear saying he will change.
ReplyDeleteAnother reason for DV is desperation to get married. Most ladies see the signs clearly, but will go in like that just to answer Mrs. And these men know a desperate woman when they see one. Therefore, they'll treat you anyhow feeling they did you a favour by marrying you.
One other reason is that it could be spiritually manipulated. I've seen nice and well mannered men suddenly turn tiger overnight. Each time they are done with the beating, they come back to their senses and swear they don't know what happened.
In all, my best advice is: single ladies, fast and pray about every marital proposal you get and get a conformation from the Holy Spirit. If you have any unrestful feeling about any suitor, please hold on about it. The reason God breathed his Spirit into us is to communicate with us. But we humans call it intuition.
Married women, if DV occurs, separate from him for a while, especially when your life is threatened. From your new base, fast and pray and tell God to show you the way forward. If it is spiritual, ask God to heal and deliver him.
God is always there for us.
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DeleteI pray that she receives sense and move outta that house before he kills her
DeleteMen, u really need to start defending and protecting your wives from your family especially if u have the ones that behave like witches.
ReplyDeleteYesterday’s chronicles is still annoying me. Having a woman that just gave birth cook for u????? Are u a witch?
I’ve got 2 points on this
Delete1. I feel omugwo is not a Yoruba thing. I am a proud Yoruba woman. I love my culture and what it stands for. But I think the way the Yoruba system is - the respect culture , the way a woman would train her son even to be maximally respectful to her and elders etc... is not designed for this omugwo thing. What I think happened is that our Yoruba mothers (bless them) saw how their Igbo women counterparts go for omugwo—- opportunity to go abroad, come back with gifts etc and without knowing what and how they do it, also started insisting that they too are going to do omugwo. The Igbo system designed the woman’s mother to go for a reason. Now if we were all in Nigeria and all, oh , all fine and good. I would gladly get as many paid househelps as I can etc. But abroad, the system is more of - if you can’t help me, at least don’t come and create more problems and burdens for me. Now if your husband’s mum is hands on and naturally kind and happy to help you etc . Just thank your God.
Thank you Jesus for another beautiful day, good morning everyone.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry about the DV dear, but the ball is in your court, please do what is best for you and the kids.
Have a great weekend guys and do remember to stay safe.
I want to visit my family house but each time I remember my grandma is around I just forget about going. Jeez that woman is **** her son in-law flew her from the East to his house just to have her around but it's either she accuses the young man of theft or saying she's not well taken care of..This man buys enough gift for her dashed her money but she always looks for away to bring problem between him and his wife, he couldn't take it anymore and her daughter asked her to leave just 3 months of living with her..My dad (her son) came and picked her cos we stay in same city, she's been with my parents since March last year till date,my mom runs a business but sometimes she doesn't go to her shop just to care for her mother in-law and my grandma will still look for a way to abuse her, saying she's evil and killed her mom, she will go to the gate and be screaming in English ( she's a retired teacher) that they want to kill her, the day I went to visit with my husband come and see insult nah, she abused me that I can't send her money (I send money through my aunt when she was in the villa) the day I went to see her in my aunt's place then I dashed her 10k. The latest now is to poo on the floor of the toilet leave it there. My mom started perceiving odour till she got to the toilet then she packed the poo, the next day she got a bucket pooed inside and poured water and left it just by the toilet entrance but the last one she did my mother changed it for her o she pooed on the floor in two different places and had the guts to accuse my niece cos my sister came around to be with her since my mom had to go and receive her goods by waybill. She couldn't leave her just by herself and sent for her daughter (my sister) since she and her husband are no leaving to far.
ReplyDeleteMy niece whom she accused is only a year old and wearing a diaper, my sister left the house in anger..My dad is going crazy and wants her out but everyone is running from her as well..Her favorite child's wife have asked her husband never to let her into their home..I feel for my mom
End of rant
Your grandmother is having dementia.It is a medical problem.Pls seek help.It is not spiritual.
DeleteNa una way be dat.. Make una do village meeting.
DeleteWhat a grand ma!!!! Na wah.. Her attitude played out in old age...
DeleteYou people should take her to hospital. Old age comes with many illness. Maybe she is mentally unstable and forget things easily... It's not her fault, na old age cause am.
DeleteSorry, I feel for your mum. If it’s your mum telling the story now, someone somewhere would have called her wicked daughter in law that doesn’t love her mother in law forgetting that some people make it hard for you to love or even tolerate them. You see a woman like that only loves her own biological children not in laws or even grand children. She makes it hard for other people except her own children.
DeleteYesterday some people were blaming the poster but forgets that people like this your grandma exists and maybe yesterday poster’s mother in law is like that. Frustrating other people’s children except her own.
This your grandma na trouble Maker. I pity the people that are taking care of her. I suggest you guys should send her back to the village and employ someone to take care of her.
DeleteHmmm, could this be an early onset of dimentia?
DeleteYeah right. Selective dementia, she doesn’t poo on her body but she poos in selective places of her choice. That woman is just plain wicked and she knows what she is doing.
DeleteGood morning beautiful people
ReplyDeleteHave a smooth weekend 😘😘
#saynotodomesticviolence
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DeleteGood morning Golibe have a great weekend
DeleteGood morning Everyone
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Okay regarding yesterday’s BEP where Stella asked if a husband should ask his wife before he takes meat from the pot, Mrs A made a realllly surprising comment viz: “it’s only people with poverty mentality or spirit that notice missing meat from the bowl”.
ReplyDeleteThat comment was really really insensitive and really tone deaf considering the current situation of things in Nigeria. Prices of food stuff have skyrocketed, there has been a tremendous loss of jobs and a lot of people are really struggling to keep body and soul together and eating meat for some people these days would be considered a luxury. Some have to ration their food just to make sure it’d last and I can only imagine how awful they’d have felt coming across that comment.
Not everyone can afford to have a pot of soup filled with meat and yes they’d notice if any goes missing because they might have rationed it and allocated a piece to each member of the household.
I mean I understand that things might be rosy for you and you consider things like counting meat as something only poverty stricken people do, but let’s have enough self awareness to know that not everyone has it good and certain things you might take for granted would be considered a huge blessing to some.
I agree with you Snarker. That comment threw me off, and was very insensitive. It’s easy for us to live in our small bubble and not understand what people out there are going through. We learn everyday, I hope she sees your comment and learns from it.
DeleteEven with all your explanation and the current hardship and state of things in the country.
Delete“it’s only people with poverty mentality or spirit that notice missing meat from the bowl”.
Because people without poverty mentality, no matter their financial and economic situation there are still some things they will not do because it doesn’t come naturally to them and monitoring and noticing missing meat is one of the things they will not do.
Auntie bullshit detector na ur real face be dis😳 na to dey carry pesin mata turn am to wahala wen day don break be your own.Ceaser don go rest nah so na you dey rain biko chaii u come gentle becos u show face
DeleteIt just seem like you want to drag the poor woman without reason because saying someone has a poverty mentality is not the same as mocking poor people if you ask me. You do not have to be poor to have the mentality . It will shock you to know many rich people are on that table. Me I think when people make that statement they are not referring to those who are truly in need but to those who have develop unhealthy understanding of wealth and lack of it. Poverty mentality is different it causes greed even to the person who have the money. Even here in chronicle one woman complain her husband count meat and give 1500 for stew even though the salary is huge.
Delete@Anon 9:31 and 9:52
DeleteY’all have a really good point. That’s another angle, I didn’t see it that way. Apologies Mrs A if that was what you meant.
And I didn’t drag her, just wanted to correct that wrong notion.
Anon 9:39
Ummm bye! I wish you’d come at me with your real ID, I’d have dragged you by your receding hairline/non existent edges (depending on your gender) till you learn to shut your festering hole up. So anyone that now “calls out” Another BV is a bullshit detector?
Foolish guttersnipe.
@Snarker I concur with your comment, Mrs a comment like you say was tone deaf, like someone who does not know how life is in the real world, just because she is in the abroad, we no go hear word again, if you people have it easy there, it’s not so rosy here, can’t be comparing abroad life with 9ja own, abeg make she go rest
DeleteYou may be right anon because this is the second time another bv will be called out the next day over a harmless comment they made in BEP. Hian what is the purpose of this call out now?
DeleteExactly anon 9:52 poverty mentality has nothing to do with your financial state rather your unhealthy mental state despite your level of wealth. Poor people have survival instinct based on limited resources but someone with that mentality has excessive resources but due to unhealthy relationship they have formed with money it becomes a problem.
DeleteSnarker it's okay you took all these in while at it.
DeleteMrs A is a nice person but I strongly believe she's naive. I wrote these things yesterday on the BEP na.
Don't strain over her comments, please.
And errrm abeg o, are you sister to Chikito the professional fire for fire.
Those lines;
"I’d have dragged you by your receding hairline/non existent edges (depending on your gender) till you learn to shut your festering hole up...
"Foolish guttersnipe...
Hahahahahahahaha.
Those are patented words from her na.
Memo
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This government and fuel hike ehnnn. They dont even think of the aftermath of their actions. Very greedy and unreasonable politicians.
ReplyDeleteGood morning blogfamz
ReplyDeleteThank God for the rain,it's so cooling.
Abused BV,borrow sense and do the needful.
A domestic violence based marriage is a prison , nothing else.
You all have a wonderful day.
Still in bed, I really need to relax before I start cleaning and washing.
ReplyDeleteSay no to Domestic violence.
Happy weekend everyone.
I don't have any atom of pity for any lady that is being abused.
ReplyDeleteThey enjoy the abuse because they always go back.
If their spouse kill them, I will tell them RIP, but if they leave alive, I will tell them congrats... That's all
Happy weekend guys. Love you all.
ReplyDeleteHave a lot to do today.
Love and light 💗💗💗
Say no to domestic violence.
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone 😊. I hope you are fine
ReplyDeleteEverything good will come
Good morning....God no go ever shame us....no matter the situation of Nigeria...we will always survive
ReplyDeleteGracious jessy
Good morning.
ReplyDeleteToday is going to be a lovely day because the weather is so cool.
Happy weekend.
Morning bvs
ReplyDeleteMorning bvs
ReplyDeleteWomen will never learn, the best you can do for them is to drink enough water while minding your business 😉 just pray for them from far distance cos those kind of women will never walk away. They prefer to chop beating on daily basis than to have their respect intact.
ReplyDeleteLife's not fair @ just because he bought a new car last week and decided to celebrate it, a frnd had to poison him and it led to his death.. This is d 3rd attempt to take his life, and finally dey succeeded.His wedding was supposed to be next month.. how is I.b(his girlfriend) going to cope after dating him for more than 8yrs just for this thing to happen.
ReplyDeleteThey were just two in d family him and his only sister that stays outside the country.this is heart breaking 😭😭😭
R.Ip Dagogo. May ur killers never know peace all d days of dia lives!
This is heart breaking, May his soul rest in peace
DeleteLife's not fair @ just because he bought a new car last week and decided to celebrate it, a frnd had to poison him and it led to his death.. This is d 3rd attempt to take his life, and finally dey succeeded.His wedding was supposed to be next month.. how is I.b(his girlfriend) going to cope after dating him for more than 8yrs just for this thing to happen.
ReplyDeleteThey were just two in d family him and his only sister that stays outside the country.this is heart breaking 😭😭😭
R.Ip Dagogo. May ur killers never know peace all d days of dia lives!
Good morning lovelies.
ReplyDeleteWe're grateful for journey mercies and the cool rain in Lagos. Harmattan is close by. Watch out. Kikiki.
Everyone be snuggling up to Daddy, me have entered kitchen jare because the next thing I'll hear is Mummy we're "wungry". Haha.
Stella Kork...you say what? Na Lagos marriage? Where are her relations? Someone collected her "ngó" (bride price) na, can't she reach them?. Which one is hit her on the floor, as per nwababy(doll) or what? Longggg hisssss. She might just be living with bleeding internal organs or a brain damage from a ruptured skull. Get your family involved woman!
About Flora... don't know if she's still with Chris, what I know is her finances are pitted at nothing and she sells bombass natural undiluted honey to make ends meet, 3 kids no be beans. Baffles me why she doesn't advertise here, raw honey that you keep on your dining table and it is oozing all over the house.
I only direct to her wellness hustle, me don't want wahala because the only thing bvs do is return here to abuse you in anonymous mode. It's nerve wrecking so I face front.
Flora reconcile with Stella if things ain't right with you 2, send your honey to corporate firms, many are looking for Enugu raw honey. Haba.
Have a nice weekend y'all. Mine will be "interesting".
*Shines teeth*
Ngwanu bye.
Goodday friends. Please there is this white paper I normally find when I buy bags or shoes. The papers are tiny and has stuff like tiny stones in them. Please what are those stuff used for?
ReplyDeleteTo prevent the shoes from smelling.
DeleteI was told that too. Dunno how true sha