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IN HOUSE MEMO

Todays Chronicle gave me the biggest shocker in a long while...

Please if you read it and the Chronicle is yours, contact me immediately.

I am so sad and have not been able to eat...

This is not my usual drama.

Have a safe Friday..... I feel sad over Today's Chronicle..

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IJEOMAS GIST CORNER

MEMO TO ALL PARENTS.

Good DAY beautiful people. Today i want to talk to our mothers. How close are you to your kids, especially your teenage girls and boys?. 

I've been a children teacher since my teenage age and the things i hear these kids tell me is heartbreaking sometimes.

A deaconess in my church boldly gave a testimony of how her teenage daughter is the best, very studious and living morally whereas this same daughter of hers told me she has a boy friend, she was just 15 then. Another one told the congregation of how her daughter is always in her hostel studying where as this same girl that schools in Imo state spends her weekends here in PH in her boyfriend's house right under her nose without her knowledge. 

But they talk to me about all these, sometimes i feel I'm not talking or correcting them enough. The worst part is the attitude of some mothers, some mothers don't know how to handle issues. 

A teenager once confessed to me about her escapes (hope it's the right word), after talking with her i secretly told her mother who handled the issue without this teenager knowing i told her mum anything cos she confided in me. 

This woman handled the matter maturely and motherly, she drew her daughter closer and it was even the girl that came back to me to say how her mum has become her bestie. But i can't even present any issue to some mothers cos of their attitudes.

 Your daughter starts seeing her Period and instead of you as a mother to sit her down and school her, you start chanting how she'll get pregnant, haba. She's twenty minutes late from school and you start shouting assuming she went to visit a man, why?

How about the teens and toddlers. Some of them will do something wrong at their homes and will come confess to me in the Church or wherever they see me, why didn't you tell your mum?, because mummy will kill me. Spare the rod and spoil the child, but how do you go about this correction, do you unleash the quarrels you have with your spouses on these kids in the name of correction?. 

A child came late to church on day and when i asked she said 'aunty IJ my daddy and mummy were fighting in the house, my daddy held my mummy in the throat saying he'll kill her' and this same man is a minister that climbs the pulpit to preach. 

Another one said 'my daddy and mummy are always fighting in the house' and guess what, she's our pastor's youngest child, pastor and wife fighting and people always run to them for marriage counseling, if only they knew their innocent kid will spill.

Sometimes these parents run to me to ask if their children said anything to me cos of their closeness to me, and I'll tell the matured ones and spill nothing to the noisy ones that can't handle issues instead they'll worsen everything. 

A mother ran to me and told me how her daughter called her 'wicked' and compares her with other mothers. I called this girl to my house and what she told me weakened my heart. The matter long. I know I'm not yet a mother, but please, dear mummies especially, draw these kids to yourselves, don't let them hear somethings from their peers cos they may be hearing the wrong things. How about the ones that have been raped but don't have the heart to tell cos of your attitudes. 

Draw close to that teacher or friend that they are close to and your ears will be full. some of them lack love and peace at home and once a guy start showing them love, forget about it. 'Aunty IJ what should i do' is what i hear most times on the phones cos they're looking for someone to talk and confide in because mummy and daddy is so strict that they are afraid to talk to them. Why call your child ugly, why compare them with other kids, we all were born and bred in different environments, they can't all be the same. 

Why love a particular child and even make it obvious, don't you know it causes sibling rivalry. Some of them are not fast learners like some of their peers, all they need is time, it doesn't warrant name calling 'coconut head', they may not be book worm, but they may be better in arts or others, all you need do as a parent is to help them discover what they're good at.

 One in the name of trying to show example that he's a minister of God and wants his children to live an exemplary life, locked up her daughter in cell for three good days, this narrated what she went through to me and i wept for her, why. Why bring them to this world when you know you're not ready to be a parent, why fail in your parental responsibilities. 

Do you call to ask how their day went, their studies and their weak points, is it so difficult to encourage them. Why don't you tell them that having the other gender as a friend is not bad, it won't JUST get them pregnant. Teach them sex education, tell them when to draw the line. Do you even know your children's friends, why shut them out when they try to air their opinions or tell you things.

 Why make their home uncomfortable for them, my nephew called me on phone one day and said 'aunty IJ i want to come live with you, mummy and daddy are making this house uncomfortable for me, they're always quarreling and i don't like it'. There's time for everything, time to overlook, play, correct and spank. Beautiful day ahead people, pardon the typos

It is easy for you to send this memo but sometimes these parents try, the kids are just difficult..

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MAMA NNUKUS GIST CORNER

BEATING PRESCRIPTION

Saluting Everyone in daaah building, 

Stellakoko how's you ?

Hope everybody Kajad ?

I say make i sama una this gist wey shele two nights ago ..

The gist::

After a long busy day , i have finally returned home , of course no light , NEPA why ? For 2days now wetin we do una ? I had barely put off my clothes when i heard someone sobbing like a new born baby, amidst the tears i was hearing stupid boy , idiot , God will punish you , then the man voice comes up prostitute so because i can't buy you a phone yet you are sleeping around, where did you get this phone from ? The phone on the other hand was ringing continuously..

Kenneth : Gimme that phone
Grace : don't touch my phone
Kenneth : struggling to collect the phone from her
Grace: crying louder now

The boy succeeded in collecting the phone from her , and he picks the call , hello who is this , i could hear him answer , well this is her boyfriend, anything ? Gbam he ends the call, and the proper beating started , he flogged her mercilessly with a belt, as i could hear the sound , and all i could hear was shouts and screams, i wanted to go and intervene when the cries got louder, make person no go knack me belt join this one wey dey do me so , i sat back and listened from my room , my other 2 neighbors were not home , so the girl chop her beating belleful well well ..

After a while the beating stopped and i could hear footsteps of Kenneth storming out angrily , .. After some minutes of more cries i could hear the grace leaving as well. Oh good she has sense i thought, if them beat pikin finish she suppose know road go her mama house , lol. ..

The next day towards evening i was sweeping the corridor , when Kenneth passed and greeted me 

 me - eehn ehhn ehhn ehhn , no greet me o , nor just greet me , i dey hear your handwork yesterday well-done:

he laughed and passed me , i had gone inside my room, when i heard 2 people laughing heartily , no that cannot be the girl Kenneth was beating yesterday , she can't come back even if she will, not today i thought, to confirm my curiosity; i knocked on their door and Kenneth opened , oh aunty Vera, me Kenneth i am looking for my turning garri did i by any chance give you , i peeped into the room and on the bed was laying Grace with a lil piece of wrapper that barely covered her .. 

He said No and i thanked him and walked away looking shocked .. E be like them prescribe beating give this girl abi na Juju ? It can't be ordinary eyes. lol

They gisted through the night and laughed out loud at what they say to each other.. Maybe this is how lovers do . lol
We have come to the end of this gbeborun o

Till i come yah way again ,I still remain your one and only.

Mamannuku of sdkblog

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