STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SHOCKER
Please oh, you people should come to my aid oh.
Please oh, you people should come to my aid oh.
Stella please I need urgent advice from you and bvs.
I am going through shame and disgrace right now. My husband of 8 years just Issued me a divorce letter to sign.
I got married to my husband when he divorced his ex wife after 10 years of separation, he had 3 children from his ex and 4 from me. I treated all children with love. I noticed this ex still loves him but he sees her as a disgust.
I always caution him whenever he talks ill about her.
There is a land issue that has been going on with my husband and his uncle, my husband won and unknown to my husband, his uncle made a juju to destroy him.
According to my husband he felt his ex wife jazz him.
The same property is useless to him due to the location. For peace to reign, I talked him into giving his uncle the land, he did and his uncle called to thank him.
Stella, my husband woke up at 3am and was asking me who I am and what he was doing with me.
See drama, I called for help and before I knew it at about 4.25am the ex wife drove down. They were both crying and hugging. I stood like a fool, I fainted.
I woke up and was told it was the reversed curse that happened, meaning only if his uncle gets the land before my husband will have peace. Only if I knew..
The said land is truly owned by his uncle, his uncle used his dad's name to buy it and when his dad died he thought they were lying. Now I am still in the hospital, I was told he left the house without picking a dime, all his personal stuff.
Stella, this is too heavy for me, my families are all around me. Where did I go wrong and what should I do. Please very sensitive case, help a sister that can't think straight, please
*Hold on.... Only if his Uncle gets the land will your husband have peace? But I thought you said that you convinced your hubby to give your Uncle the land and this Uncle called to say Thank you?
I want to ask you something... Did you mistakenly Jazz your hubby? Cos it sounds like his eyes got cleared oh...... If his wife Jazzed him how come he recognizes her and was asking you who you are after they had divorced? Your story is not straight forward oh... Or maybe you are still in shock and did not explain well? Please stay calm and have family stay around you... I dont know what to say at all oh.
Poster, what did you do to that man?
ReplyDeleteWas he legally divorced before you married him or was he just separated?
How come he suddenly woke up and asked for a divorce?
Why are you at the hospital; did you guys had a fight?
Where are your children now?
Were you a side chic turn baby mama/wife?
Please, gather yourself and go take care of your children.
So many questions she didn't answer and most importantly did she jazz the man?
DeleteI don't see any reason why he would not recognise you but recognise his ex wife if you didn't use jazz or do you mean to say the ex wife used jazz to get him back?
Poster you're not coherent enough so advising you is difficult....
How come the first wife drove down to your house that early???
DeleteWant was she expecting to happen? Hmmm you were a victim of circumstances if it is what am thinking. Does that mean that the jazz caused the rancho between your husband and his first wife and now the jazz is reversed and he's gone back to her!!! My dear pull your self together ok? It's not the end of the world. Don't do anything stupid ok. You will get through this. I feel bad for you already. Please focus on taking care of your kids and get him to pay child support. Get closer to God your maker ok. Stop thinking. The man was not on his senses at all when he married you even though it wasn't your fault. Honestly draw close to God, he will wipe your tears!!!
Stella the poster did not jazz him
DeleteThe uncle made him have issues with his first wife.
He scattered their relationship and he went ahead to marry another wife
Now the juju have cleared he now wants to chase her away.
Why this many question? didnt u read what she wrote? the man was jazzed to leave his first wife and returning the land was the only way the jazz can be reversed.
DeleteYour story sounds like one who used jazz to marry her husband, but now the jazz has cleared. Anyhow just take heart and move on,he would spend some time with the 1st wife,then pursue her,then u take over.
DeleteI wonder ooo
DeleteMercy Johnson is that you? 👀👀
DeleteHot stew @ 16:20, your questions are what BVS should ask, who said the ex wife cannot jazz the man to come back and he will forget the second one.
DeleteI have been there Stella and you see this life is a pot of hot messed up beans and only the violent truly survives.
Poster you really need to calm down before you act, I don’t know what to tell you
THIS IS SUPER STORY......
DeleteOlomo olomo thank you!!! For what you understood while reading was the same thing I understood! I don't know where the rest are drawing conclusions from!!! However, madam poster... Nne... This one Siri Ike ooo... Nne kpebesie ekpele ike ooo...
DeleteCan't you guys read were she says ,her husband uncle laid a curse on her husband not having peace until he returns his land,and when the husband did returned the uncle land gbam her husband peace was restored.
DeleteThere is nothing like service of "divorce letter" under Nigerian law. Divorce procedure in Nigeria law involves court process. You can't just "sign" divorce in Nigeria. You joined Oyibo feem with Nigerian teevee. Tales by moonlight.
DeleteJazz cleared from his eyes.
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ReplyDeleteThis sounds like something out of a Nollywood movie
God be with you, if you are innocent
God abeg ooo,am married to another woman ex husband oo. Make the man no wake-up and pursue me commot ooo one day. I no jazz me but I dey suspect his uncle do juju on him to scatter his first marriage. Well the first wife is married now but you never can tell 😀😁😆
DeleteThis is deep. How come the ex drove in the same morning. Who invited her. Marrying a separated or divorced man with children when the said ex is still single is not an easy task. God take the wheel.
ReplyDeleteProbably the man called her after the jazz was reversed and realized that something must have been wrong.
DeleteI don’t understand this chronicle. The Uncle already got his land back so why is your husband cursed?
ReplyDeleteI also saw where you wrote and I quote “ I noticed his ex still loves him but he sees her as a disgust”..your husband already seems to be under a curse so did him returning the land broke the curse cos that’s what it looks like to me.
What are you not telling us? Since you can think straight now, calm down and pray for clarity. When you can think straight, rewrite this chronicle with the full story then we can go from there.
Abi...he grabbed his uncles land n d man placed a curse on him, bound land has been returned to the rightful owner n d curse broke...🤷♀️
DeleteExactly BB, the curse the Uncle placed on him made him to be misbehaving, chased his first wife and married poster.
DeleteNow curse has cleared, he I back to his senses and wants his first wife back.
Unfortunately, poster did not know, unknowingly, broke the curse.
I 🤔 I tried 😄
The jazz made him leave his first wife, returning the land was the antidote.
Delete@Blackberry, you made a lot is sense. The poster is a victim of circumstances.
DeleteI think it means the uncle destroyed the first marriage. He married poster afterwards but uncle reversed the curse and his eyes opened to realise his first wife was gone.
ReplyDeleteI think this analogy is the closest to it.
DeleteCould be.
DeleteBut how did the ex wife got there in a jiffy?
Like, she was expecting something to happen.
My thought as well
DeleteSomething like that
Deletena u understand the story well. my understanding too
DeleteOhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...I now understand.
DeleteI think you are right, poster is now the scape goat.
DeleteThe ex-wife got there early because the husband called her. Both women were victims of circumstances beyond their control. Sadly, the poster lost out by being good. Poster, pls don't stop doing good. You will be fine
DeleteAnoy 18:24, both women and the man are victims of Jazz inflicted on the man. He is also a victim.
DeleteStella, you don't get it. The uncle used jazz to separate the former wife from the man. The man married poster under hypnosis (from the uncle). I think the former wife may have been standing in the way of the uncle. That's why he used jazz to separate them.
ReplyDeletePoster, move on with your life. Take your kids and move on. God will give you a beautiful new home. I'm sure of this. As long as you never said bad about any of them, and all you did was broker peace, God will reward you with bliss. You'll see.
Take time, cry it out. Heal and move on. As for the said uncle, hehe. Leave him to God. He may have been right, but he used the way of Satan. So his punishment will surely come.
Ndo inugo?
Ok, this explanation makes better sense because I was about to ask the same question Stella asked. Poster please calm down and take care of your kids. May God have mercy on you.
Deleteewooooooooooooooooooooooooooo now i get it...THIS IS SOME SERIOUS SHIT
DeleteWHAT WILL ZOU DO NOW WITH FOUR KIDS_IF THEZ R HIS AT LEAST INSIST ON DNA SO THAT HE WILL NOT DENZ THE KIDS OH
@Stella, he won't deny the kids. I've seen where something similar happened. The man knew his kids but couldn't recognize his wife (though in this case she was the jazzer; for over 25 years). God will help you poster
DeleteLet me get something straight... Your uncle jazzed your hubby and that led to the failure of his first marriage. But The said uncle allowed him to be married to you for 8 good years. I don't understand 🤔
ReplyDeleteDid you know this uncle before you married your hubby...because it is also as if the uncle used you to get his land back.
I can't explain how was not your able to recognize you again ni.
You need to explain more to us.
Just be strong for yourself and your kids. It is well.
You got it
DeleteThe first wife was a hindersnce to the uncle getting his land back so the uncle separated the couple diabolically. The poster, did not constitute any hinderance to him, so the uncle couldn't be bothered with her. It's so simple to understand now, ha!
DeleteI think she meant " Her Uncle inlaw jazzed her Husband during his first marriage,That was how that marriage was broken and the Husband was disgusted with his first Wife.
ReplyDeleteNow after the 2nd Wife begged the Husband to return the Land to the Rightful owner, the Digust for the first Wife turned back to Love
Yeah I think so too
DeleteIt is well with you poster. This look like a jazz situation gone wrong. For a man to abadon wife of 10years and 3children with no just reason.
ReplyDeleteShe said the husband's uncle used jazz on him to seperate the husband and the first wife when the husband was still laying claims to the land. Now that the land has been given to the uncle, the jazz reversed and the man came back to his senses and realised he sent his first wife away.
ReplyDeleteGbam...
DeleteOh okay.
DeletePoster, I think the first wife has no hand in this, if ur hubby sees his first wife as a disgust,and its later crying with her,after asking u who u are, then I think he was jazzed, maybe u too is innocent, u were just a tool to distract him from the first wife. Maybe the first wife did not give ur hubby the advice you gave him now to give the land back to his uncle, the man decided to deal with the wife, as u now solved the whole issue and he is percified, the jazz became useless. That is why his eyes opened. I think u both are innocent bcoz I don't believe u did jazz and still have the guts to post it here, u reaching out to stella means u are confused.take it easyoooh, don't fight the first wife just take care of your 4 awesome kids. It's well with ur soul.
ReplyDeleteI think the first wife supported her husband, so Unless decided to punish her and make the husband hate her, and drive her out
DeleteWith my understanding i think the land was jazzed by the uncle to separate her husband from his first wife until he(husband) returns/releases the land to the uncle who is the rightful owner. But along the line she talked to her husband to leave the land because he didn't like the location, but unknown to her that it will break the jazz hereby making the husband disown her.
ReplyDeleteTo cut the story short. He married you with jazz eyes(jazz by the uncle).
Hmm! Wahala be like Governor wike voice,e no dey clear.Omo dis one don clear.
Why did you marry him without finding out why he left his wife for no reason? Hope you have something doing? With the look of things it is only the ex wife now returned wife that can beg for your stay. If not.......
See how you’re blaming the woman with no empathy
DeleteYou are the type that will ask a rape victim why they didn’t shout loud enough. SMH
Deletei am not understanding,did you use jazz on him????
ReplyDeleteWhatever that happened he did not willingly leave his first wife,JAZZ was involved. Take heart and move on
All ladies planning to get married to single fathers or divorcees whose partners are still alive make una look well...o DIG DEEP
ReplyDeleteSame applies to all men looking to marry single mothers too. It goes both ways. Anyone looking to get married to single partners should dig deep. Dig beyond the information your single partners are giving you. You've got to do a thorough background check to confirm the story been told to you. That way you don't get surprises.
DeleteI am not trying to blame the poster, but in her case she should have investigated why a man married to a lady with 3 kids would divorce her. Granted that there could be legitimate reasons, it is always good to do you own checks.
Poster! Poster!! Poster!!!
ReplyDeleteDid you use jazz to marry your hubby?
Don't tell us but tell the truth to yourself... If that's the case, jazz don fade.
If not, then ex jazz him to have him back.
I think I understand what is happening here, probably the land issue has been going on before he married this poster. The uncle jazzed him so his first marriage will scatter and made his wife a stranger and an enemy. The man then went on to marry the poster and lived with her for 8 years and even had 4 children all in a jazzed state. God then used the poster to break the curse by making her advise her husband to return the uncle’s land thereby making the husband’s eye to clear.
ReplyDeletePoster, I am sorry but you are now the stranger, since the curse has been reversed, your husband’s first marriage will be mended. The Lord is your strength.
She is now collateral damage oh😥
DeleteMay God help you to move on.
ReplyDeleteWho jazzed your husband? Did you do it mistakenly? Or ex wife or uncle did.
ReplyDeleteYou need to be strong for yourself and kids. This is so dramatic and serious
Jesus is the solution.
ReplyDelete"For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved" Romans 10:13
"The name of the Lord is a strong tower, the righteous run into it and are safe" Proverbs 18:10
Yes, call upon Jesus to disperse and destroy all the "jazz and juju", all the powers of Satan.
"For this reason, the Son of God was made manifest, that he might destroy all the powers of the
devil" 1 John 3:8
Will you call upon him now? Say Jesus, Save me! Begin to fast and pray and read his Word.
I did some years ago, when my best friend went to the medium
to make me mad. Today, I am a professional with my sanity intact. At least, you can read and see that I
am not typing like an insane person. Jesus saves and saves completely!💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Anon 15:47, spot on! That why we -both male and female- have to call upon the Lord before choosing a life partner. We shouldn't be in a hurry to jump and propose/accept all proposals without involving the Lord.
DeleteDid you go to any medium, pastor, spiritist or "medium pastor" to work for
ReplyDeletethis man to love you? Did your mother do so? His eyes just cleared and you need
to go to the true power which is Jesus.
Things are happening oooo
ReplyDeleteOluwa saanu fun wa
This here is one of the reasons why I don't like men with baggage.Its always one drama or the other.You can't force the man to wife you if he doesn't even know who you are,but 4kids is a lot to deal with alone.So,be ready to fight for child support with evidence of marriage of course..Hope he married you traditionally at least?so sorry for your plight madam,I really feel for you.May God see you through.
ReplyDeleteAmen
Deletethe four kids belong to the man. let him provide welfare for you and the kids.. If he married you traditionally, you remain his wife... all that drama about who you are is nonsense. AT the very minimum, he must pick up his responsibilities towards his second family. You have to brace up..time to face reality and forget about emotions.
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DeleteSins of the father.......I can't imagine you paying for what you know nothing about. Put yourself together, pray to God to make a way for you and take care of your children.
ReplyDeleteSins of the father how?
DeleteHuh this is bad!!!! please just move on but make sure he takes care of his kids..
ReplyDeleteBut this story get as e be ooo,how come his first wife drove in as early as 4:25am????
What is the logical answer? Obviously someone must have called her. Most likely the husband.
DeleteHaaaaa kasala don burst oh. Woman you need to calm down ok, this is when you need to call on God , this battle is indeed bigger than you and it can only be God that can turn this thing around. He needs to handle the situation for you as long as you are innocent. Is it that the Uncle manipulated you somehow to persuade your husband to return the land? did you come in contact with him somehow? its a pity Madam, but God will see you through I don't know what to say
ReplyDeleteChai! na waaoooh... it is not your fault poster, i pray God see you through this.
ReplyDeleteGo back go meet your babalawo,make e renack pigeon for your husband head.
ReplyDeleteDon't you people read?
ReplyDeleteThe mans uncle jazzed him and said he will have no peace till his land us returned to him.
When his land was returned he reversed the jazz.
My dear, please move on. Yes you married him 10 years after his separation, obviously he didn't leave his wife with his clear eyes. Just forgive him and move on. It's unfortunate you had to be the victim of what you knew nothing about. Sorry.
BECAUSE SHE JAZZED HIM
DeleteNow I'm getting the chronicle.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you madam.
Na wah oh.
Stella it was the uncle who jazzed her husband that made him separate from his first wife and the only way to reverse the jazz is if he gets back the land. Now that he got back the land, the jazz has been reversed and the man back to his true sef.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your plight madam, as it is it is not your fault in anyway that u married him or that u advised him to return the land because this would still have happened at a point in the future. He's not your husband because he married u under conditions that he is not in control of. You have to move on with your life because what has happened has happened and you cant change it. He has returned to his first wife. The kids can be in your custody too. I wish you good luck in the future. I hope he also treat u kindly knowing that u are suffering from something u knew nothing about.
Stories like this are the reason people run from divorced people.them don jazz your husband or u jazzed him,you people should know that too much of juju turns the victim to a mumu
ReplyDeletePoster I really feel sorry for you.
ReplyDeleteYou trying to make peace has landed you here, but it's better oh, if not that wicked uncle would have done worst to you, maybe start killing your children because of land 😞
Let your family and his come together to reach an agreement on how to train his kids.
For now focus on your health and kids, God will perfect all that concerns you, in Jesus mighty name Amen
It's well with you. 😘
Don't regret asking your husband to return the land. You did the right thing. Put yourself together and move on with your life. You have to there for your children.
DeleteThe husband may not even be jazzed. Just that when a Nigerian woman’s husband comes back after abandoning her she takes it as a testimony and blames jazz. A man that can leave his first wife and maltreat her easily could do the same to wife #2. He left wife #1 when she didn’t support him on the land issue and now you’ve given him advice he doesn’t want he’s doing the same maybe wife #1 was secretly supporting him. We just blame jazz when men behave bad. After all this is literally the playbook of FFK and even Davido. Take heart. May your situation be rectified. Men just get treated like gods in Nigeria
ReplyDeleteDear poster,may God comfort you and give you the wisdom to go through this very unpleasant situation.However,you must hold the man accountable to take care of his children,that is non negotiable,take heart...
ReplyDeleteI am laughing so hard here. I had to go anonymous to type this. Someone i know so well, so so well is here making comments too like she's innocent. This woman uses ijebu voodoo hot hot on her husband🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteHmmm again the bible is truth. You see, it's written in the bible that, after divorce, one should stay single unless the other partner dies if not, you commit adultery. Yes, it's difficult to do but God is all knowing.
ReplyDeletePoster, your story says, the uncle had place a spell on your husband's 1st marriage and the only thing that could reverse the spell is when the land is returned to his uncle. I will tell you to stop beating yourself up. What is done is done, you can't do anything. The man is reconnected to his wife, please count your losses and move on. Your only concern now should be he pays child support.
I do have a question; has he married you legally? If yes, don't grant him a divorce yet when he asks for it. Until you are sure the 1st wife is also not using juju on him. It's strange he doesn't recognize you.
I have a different perspective.
ReplyDeleteDo you think your husband has brain tumour or a type of amnesia which made him not to remember their present lives just their past lives?
It has happened severally
Some people wake up and walk away from their family because they have no recollection of the present. Try and research more on this before you jump to conclusions. Let him do an MRI scan, it will tell a lot. Look at it from a medical point of view.
Another perspective I have is
Your husband has a pattern
He leaves when things becomes tough. He fell back in love with the ex-wife and couldn't continue staying with you so he made up a story. The ex-wife really drove by so early. I smell a rat.
No matter how much a man swears he hated the ex-wife, believe him at his own peril. Wait until you enter and give birth. He will be roaming from you to her. Take heed before you desperately jump in especially if the ex-wife is still single.
All that story is balderdash.
It's either a brain tumor, an amnesia or he planned it with the ex-wife.
All the best.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
You're just plain annoying and dumb
DeleteDon't marry people with baggages, una no dey hear. You married a man who sees his first wife as disgusting, a woman that had children for him and you still shook head. Pele o
ReplyDeleteCan you imagine how insensitive your comment is? Well, everyone is very wise and intelligent until some things happen to them
DeleteMorale of the story
ReplyDeleteNo matter how careful, calculative, investigative, prayerful, etc anyone can be. All will still live to fulfill his or her destiny. Some things are beyond human reasoning. Some chronicles sound so unreal that they are very difficult to believe. At the end of the day, no matter what happens to anyone in life, may God always bless him/her with fortitude to forge ahead in life. One can never be meticulous enough, only by the grace of almighty God that people win and are successful.
I will carve these words on my wall.
DeleteHow comes he sent you a divorce paper immediately he left, I tot is after one or two years of separation before you can apply for divorce.
ReplyDeleteMadam put yourself together and stay strong fir your kids. Divorce is not a dead sentence.
Divorce is not a death sentence
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for ur stress, pls check urself well, did u use any sex sweetener, blue eyes beads, prayer houses etc to get him to.marry u? Pls check well. Yes, I get the part of his uncle and land issues but for him not to recognize u makes it deeper than u think. Maybe ur mom or friends did something on ur behalf. Pls check well.
ReplyDeleteMost divorced men are so unreliable esp where there's no real issue wit their wives. But something is fishy abt ur coming in. Good luck.
I dont think there's any jazz. he has a pattern of abandoning women and mistreating them when they don't support his decisions. He is likely to come back to you again or add another woman to the mix when you both disagree with him. He's lucky this is nigeria where a first wife will welcome you after many years of being abandoned for someone else and blame jazz
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