STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
REVENGE SERVED SUPER HOT
BVs eh! BVs oh! I no fit hold my joy.
Karma is indeed a "beesh"!
Revenge is indeed a dish best served super hot! I dated and suffered with my ex for 7 solid years Believing God that things would change and yes it did through my uncle.
My uncle knew that i loved him and helped him into an oil servicing company. Sharp sharp my guy got a car and moved from a single room (which i paid for) into a 4bedroom duplex . . things changed for us, he even formally made his intentions known to my parents.
Long story short, he started postponing marriage, started coming late, always angry at me, twice he threw me out, me o!
Eventually, we broke up and he got married within 6months in 2018 and i almost ran beserk.
Last week Friday, i went to spend the weekend with a friend at lekki area, as i was about retiring to bed i heard a very familiar voice in the next compound, i peeped through the window and it was him in the next house hugging and kissing a babe from behind !
I quickly woke up my friend and she peeped and said that my ex is the babe's steady boyfriend, that he rented and furnished the place for her.....anyway, the devil's horn immediately grew outta my head and i called his friend who i am close to and got his wife's number.
Me i kuku sent an sms to her informing her about were Dapo her husband was spending the weekend...his wife came with her parents and soldiers....see hot slap she dashed Dapo.. .
I feel sorry for his pregnant wife though But what goes around comes around ...
*Exactly, what goes around comes around so wait for yours.
You had no right doing what you did, Karma was already dealing with him....
What you did was wrong!
Smh...............
ReplyDeleteKeep shaking ya head ooo. If you like cut it off.
DeleteKeep shaking your head till it falls off. Mtsewww
DeleteStella she did nothing wrong
DeletePoster I own you Baileysssssssss plus champagne
DeleteSDK pls she did NOTHING wrong biko
Poster. Sis,
DeletePlease move on and forgive him and THANK GOD you didn’t end up with him.
You know why? He would have been cheating on you even when you’re pregnant.
Anytime you remember him, call his full name and say I forgive you eg FRED IKWUNCHA I FORGIVE YOU.
You need to let that go so that your own man can locate you.
Also, don’t expect good from WHO you did good for. God who sees in heaven would reward you sis. Okay?
Your own man is coming. Forgive this one and free him.
STELLA, I WILL FIGHT YOU ! WHAT DID SHE DO WRONG? STOP IT PLEASE. THE BASTARD WAS CHEATING ON HER WITH THIS LADY AFTER A 7 YEAR RELATIONSHIP WHERE SHE WAS THE BREADWINNER. WTF??? SHE WALKED AWAY. ONLY TO DISCOVER THE BASTARD IS STILL A FOOL. I WOULD HAVE DONE THE SAME DAMMIT!!!
DeleteAND THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MOVING ON. A RANDOM PERSON WOULD HAVE STILL DONE IT.
This is absolutely cool and thumbs up to you for being cruel too.😁😂 It's what a time to be alive kinda feeling for you i guess
ReplyDeleteThis is the most meaningless chronicles I've read here. So since 2018 that he got married, you've not fully recovered from the heartbreak? You ought to have done better for yourself than this, you need to get a life for yourself, then participate in the next single and mingle
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Do you know what it means to pick someone from the gutters and give their life a meaning, and then they turn around and betray you?
DeleteShe has every right to feel hurt. Poster, if your uncle can engineer his sack, please, tell him to do it.
Yada, you are living legend
DeleteWhat is meaningless about this chronicle? , Miss goody two slippers, pray you don't go through it one day.
DeletePoster thumbs up o jare, you just saved the life of an ignorant preggo so woman from stds.
That's why me I avoid building men up cus I know I keep grudges a lot. In case he japa after making it in life and I am now bitter and seeking revenge upandan..I just leave those kind of things up 2 God. Cus now look after the wife catches him, she wont still leave and the gf won't leave. Who still wins at the end?? I see my ex is dating an abroad babe and any one with eyes can see he is using her for papers. Anyone apart from her ofkos. He is still sleeping with the girls and former gf and former flings he was cheating on Me with. What do I do? I keep shut n mind my damn business and love life. Cus if I talk, he will lie his usual lie,I will look like the sad miserable jealous bitch and they will use my matter to laugh bond and increase their love. Some things u should just let simmer as u look on
DeleteVery meaningless o.
DeletePoster just move on and forget about your ex.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Is this the Karma that you were shouting about ni? E no make sense at all. I was hoping to read that he lost that job or became useless and all whatnot.
ReplyDeleteThis is not senseless Biko. Please you don’t experience what that of betrayal. So far she happy with her actions and see as revenge/karma. Her happiness is important to her.
DeleteSomeone sent a chronicle and you guys are bashing her, make Una chill. Don't pray to go through her ordeal, some might even send madness to the guy so that he will sack himself.
DeleteAfter he broke up with you,you should have told your uncle everything.I hate nonsense.7 whole years!! All these build with him story is for men with sense abeg.
DeleteStella, she had suffered her own when the guy threw her out because, he felt he had arrived. So the karma is now visiting the guy. It is indeed a small world..... Rubbish
ReplyDeleteI wonder why you are still not married after he did.If not you won't have time doing what you did. 🤔
ReplyDeletekeep wondering.
DeleteEasy @anon 15.08
DeleteLMAO, that’s what he deserves..
ReplyDeleteThe kinda petty that tickles me. 😆😆😆
🤣🤣🤣🤣Just negodu
DeleteYou know you used to piss me off Perxian
DeleteBut twice now you've shown me you have a mind of your own. I love that 👍
Exactly Persian e dey sweet me die. Poster tell your Uncle to sack that Idiot. Chai wetin she do small o. If na me ehn walahi a waye e kan. Radarada
DeleteAnon 17:06 I agree.E for sweet me pass for him to be sacked.ungrateful idiot.That means he was double dating all these while.
DeleteI don't blame you poster for what you did, some people can be mean and heartless.
ReplyDeleteLol...the wife will forgive him they will even have more kids.
ReplyDeleteThank you. They will use this one to increase their bond. It's better to allow some men fuk up their own lives.
DeleteBut she'll always have panics and trust issues
DeleteWhen you marry you can as well abandon your marriage because of infidelity. It is not that easy until you are wearing the shoe.
DeleteAnon 17:28. Omg!!! I pity you already. Your type are the type that stay in very useless situationship call marriage just so they can be call Mrs somebody. Dont dump that cheating bastard you call a husband till he infects you and you die without knowing like my neighbor back then who died of HIV.
DeleteOoooh did I tell you she suffered and died a miserable death? Guess what the animal she calle her husband married after 9 weeks. 9 fucking weeks ooh.
DeleteWhat's my business sef? You can kuku can die there if you like.
Stella you are just a sweetheart. You make loving you so easy.
ReplyDeletePoster. Please when you move. Allow your soul, spirit and body to move with you.
Why? I can move on but I can't force my spirit or soul to move on or go in the direction I decide to go na. That shit has a mind of it on.
DeleteThats how one time my body decided to forgive lee boo of one crime he committed but my spirit refuse to forgive or move on. Thats how I keep reminding the poor man of the evil he did till he borrowed sense and bought gin and kolanut (aka credit alert) to appease the gods.
Biko leave the soul/spirit alone to rest this night.
Stella abegiii. She didn't even do enough. What goes around comes around But the poster did nothing wrong for any karma to deal with her. Poster do more sef...
ReplyDeleteChampagne? On the rocks please!
DeleteAnon 16:09 please I need a glass too.
DeleteHaba! you shouldn't have done that na. Amebo
ReplyDeleteI see nothing wrong in what you did poster.
ReplyDeleteWhat he did was wrong!
He was the cheat, not you!
He deserves all he got!
Well done👏👏👏👏
Darling I follow you clap.
Deletei am not in support for what you did.....i dont blame you but go and ask for his forgiveness...
ReplyDeleteyou say??????????????
DeleteExcuse me?!
DeleteYou read the story so?! LMAO. Anyway, poster, I pray that God will heal u, restore all you lost and fill you with joy. I can imagine your pain 🤗
DeleteSay wetin happen?
DeleteO si gini?
DeleteForgiveness for what exactly?
DeleteLol
DeleteForgiveness bawo
DeletePretty Patience
Odiegwu!onye nkogheri.no be small ask forgiveness.your head need 2b checked
DeleteFor gini, ase ọ̀rọ̀. Poster if have your way follow up what transpired in his home. No peace for the wicked time waster. Please call your uncle to know if there is a way he can loose the job, kò padà sí ẹsẹ aro ẹ. Ìkà ọkùnrin.
DeleteAre you high¿??
DeleteShebi you are happy now Abi. What if something went wrong when you sent his wife the sms. Or didn't you say she is pregnant? People be using the karma word anyhow. Madam, that wasn't karma, that was pure wickedness. You better move on so God can give you your own husband. Karma my flat bum bum.
ReplyDeleteWizkid FC
#Proudly Tiv
See nonsense talk.
DeleteSo for your mind now what you did was right abi? Clap for your self👏👏👏👏your own karma is on the way.
ReplyDeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteIt would have been nice for you to tell us in details what were the source of your quarrel before finally breaking up..
The reason why some men don't like getting help from women is cos they wouldn't hear the end of it.. "I brushed him up, i changed his life, I picked him from the gutters" etc etc.. they'll become so saucy and irritating.. and they still expect the guy to go ahead and marry them with all these shitty attitude..
That he met your family, shows he was interested. There are probably some stuff he has been complaining about and you refused to change cos -"your uncle help him" in other words, you made him who he is so he can't tell you shii.. no real man would walk into a place where his Peace and happiness is threatened just cos he owe you for your help and loyalty.
What I just discussed above is one of the main reason a guy leaves a girl who has been with him in his down times, when he eventually 'hammer'.. in all honesty, a broke guy might take certain insult and ridicule thrown at him, but if he really likes you, when his status changes and he become rich, he'll still stick with you, but would want you to do away with those ugly characters he has been coping with before he moves on to the next step- marriage.. but una go begin complain say he don change because say him don get money.. just cos you don't want to dump your ugly and irritating attitude. Bobo go move on, una go begin cry dey play victim..
Kosi wahala
Nonsense again hahahaha
DeleteYou no dey tire. Blame the woman. Imagine
DeleteI really luv ur comments. It comes 4rm ur hrt. Kudos my Dante
DeleteWhy did you keep tolerating her excesses when you are broke.You should have broken up with her then not when she has lifted you up that is when your stupid brain is reacting and looking for stupid excuse just to leave her.If i were in that lady's shoe i will make sure my uncle plan a way to sack him. Awon oloriburuku ma sha fani okunrin.
DeleteDante what you said is true, but it is only one of the scenarios that can play out in a relationship. There are also men who use women and vice versa to get to where they want in life.
DeleteIyam ibeji 🤗🤗
DeleteDante Onisokuso!
DeleteÀ man who is a dog will always stray,cheat and run away even if the partner is a Saint.It's in the DNA for some people.He will always find excuses for his ojukokoro and philandering ways.Every action of ours is a choice.
Dante,the woman wey wound u no try.
No real man will betray love,commitment and break trust ,all for egotistic and selfish reasons. No good man hurts a person he claims he loves deliberately.No evil will go unpunished.
DeleteWhy wait until she use her connect to get you a job to realise she has a shitty attitude.This doesn't make sense.7 whole years! The guy is a user.
DeleteDante, you are a man!! I respect you a lot. If ladies on this blog read your post objectively, they'll begin to understand the thoughts of a man.
DeleteTbh I actually prayed and hoped you will see reason today and keep your hate for our gender aside. Las las you still talk rubbish.
DeleteI am not surprised sha.
Whosoever hurt you you need to forgive..Forgive that lady.
DeleteNo. It doesn't look like you have a relationship with the Lord. You are still hurt and broken and rightly so.
ReplyDeleteThe Bible says vengeance is mine says the Lord I will repay. Leave it to God..
One of these days the wife will try finding out who sent her the alert and you will be found out. Hands Will be pointed at you. No one will support your actions no matter what.
Pls forgive him and set yourself free from this bondage. He is living rent free in your head.
Let it go you don't know tomorrow.
And no what he did to you was morally wrong.
Abegi! Make we hear word.
DeleteGo and hide biko.
DeleteExactly, what goes around comes around so wait for yours...a very deep words.....please go and ask for his forgiveness, so you will not partake in the .......a word is a enough for the....
ReplyDeleteWell you were trying to help the wife. Shebi na sister's code. You did well but with a wicked laugh.
ReplyDeleteI hope dapos wife is not her causing you pain as per not marrying dapo. Anyway good for dapo, more slaps to follow
Better person. Sweet yarns.
Deletewhat goes around comes around....what me and stella is seeing, if you climb 100 storey building, you will not see it...sdk sister please ask GOD for forgiveness
ReplyDeleteRest abeg.
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Stella
ReplyDeleteYou have finished me lmao 🤣😂thank you for making me laugh.
I burst into laughter after reading this chronicle, I have no pity for the said Dapo,but poster, try and move on abeg, after 3 whole years, you need to be completely indifferent to him and his life.
DeleteSee this kind joy can't be compared to anything jare.
DeleteYou women never learn. How would he have married you when you have seen him at his lowest?
ReplyDeleteI hope you've also been setup for life o, else if you gave that opportunity to man because you're in love then kpele for your case.
You didn't serve him any karma in case you don't know, karma doesn't exist. Lots of evil people get away with everything in this world, yes it isn't fair but life is not a nollywood movie. It might hurt still, but move on with your life.
Yanning and yanning with no point. If u stab me in the back, and I stab you in the throat. Is that not karma being served?. Continue to soothe yourself. Any wrong any one has done, they must pay for in one way or the other. Keep saying karma does not exist. This kind of thinking is what makes people take deadly revenge in their own hands.
DeleteYou can blame her Stella she is still very much hurt. It is not easy to heal from such a betrayal
ReplyDeleteWrong ke abeg do more karma kor kamoru ni
ReplyDeleteI love you.
DeleteMe I like this pettiness, but madam, how come you are still angry since 2018. This isn't karma Sha, it's pure vengance
ReplyDeleteWhatever. Let her be.
DeleteMy darling. It would have been easy if he has lost the job. Don't forget her uncle made him what he is. If she knew she wouldn't have allowed it, yet he didn't settle her but he was paying another babe Bill's with the same job. Stupid guy.
DeleteShe doesn't have a good d in her life that's why.. my own ex broke my heart too in Sept 2018 but if u see the kain fiancee wey God dash me as compensation now..the moment I set my eyes on him, I forgot anything like my ex ever existed
Delete. As in level up in looks, status, how he cherishes me.
That's the kind of man I'm praying for poster cus living with this bitterness on your mind everyday is bad for health
When you said karma served i thought you told your uncle to sack him and all that
ReplyDeleteNah. That's petty
DeleteShe talks at times as if she's not a woman, the fact that she didn't go into details of how much emotional trauma she went through doesn't mean it was easy on her. And she probably did called the wife because she obviously had a hand in the bitter breakup, yes, if she didn't agree Dapo wouldn't have married her, a relationship doesn't start until the woman says yes. It may have been petty but which woman won't be after all what she's experienced.
ReplyDeleteLearn to read people's undertone blog owner, that's the tone of a lady who's still hurting and hasn't even cleared her head enough to know between right and wrong when it comes to the issue of this said ex. Hence she did the first thing that came to her mind, I guess. 'Its time to let go and move on darling' would have been better than ' Yes, Karma is coming for you too, you had no right to do what you did bla bla bla' She had no right?? But the wife had every right to 'assist' the man to scatter his previous relationship and she sharpaly moved in??
Loud it pls.
DeleteHow are we sure Dapo's wife was aware of the poster? Isn't it possible that she was an innocent bystander?? I'm just wondering though. 🤔🤔🤔🤔
DeleteThank you 15:53
DeleteLady church zukwanuike
Trust me when I say Danty won't ready this your comment. He is probably soapying somewhere now.
DeletePoster has finally scattered the table 😅😂😂😂🤣🤣. They got their shares so well.
ReplyDeleteBaba was seeing his wife secretly while dating you. She broke your heart and married him. You went back and scatter them. Who knows wht this wife has gone through in his hands? A cheat will always be a cheat. Kudos girl.
Some people meet and get married within 6 months, you know that right?
Delete@Dante, so he was 'meeting' while he was still in a relationship. Go and eat you are hungry.
DeleteAnon 15:54, who told you she scattered the marriage.
DeleteLet me tell you, 99.999% of Nigerian ladies can't leave their husband if he cheat. Even if they caught him red handed, they will never leave.
16.41..
DeleteYou're actually the one hungry here, the reason you find it very hard to comprehend simple English..
Let me help you simplify..
The guy married the other lady 6months after their break up.
I said people marry withing 6month of meeting., meaning there's a possibility they met after the break up.
I know a lot of people that married within such short period, infact my immediate elder sis was supposed to fall under that category, we were scared sef, if there was 'something' urgent she's not telling us cos of the rush. However, due to some circumstances, it was pushed some months forward, but still, they still got married within 1 year of meeting. Met on Christmas day, married in November the next year. That 11 months..
Now another reality. Most people use a rebound to recover after break up., infact, some go into a new relationship withing 2 weeks and you'd think they had been cheating all the while, which is wrong.. some in the process of using that new relationship to 'reduce' the pain of the heart break, they eventually fall in love and get married.
So dear anon, if you still don't understand what I just explained after you have eaten, then it's not my fault anymore for your tadpole brain..
Enjoy
It's funny how no one is talking about the fact that the man cheated on his pregnant wife.
ReplyDeleteJust because Stella condemned her all of a sudden almost every one is condemning her for reporting a cheat that couldn't keep his vows instead rented an apartment for his side chic
Just Wow!
Funny people🤣
You dey mind them?
DeleteWell I like what you did and I applaud you for it , but that’s not Karma . This is just you trying to help him ruffle up his marriage a little, which he deserves by the way . He is a scum and the fact that he is cheating on his pregnant wife says it all . I feel for the innocent wife in all of this , she might not have intentionally broken you guys up . But she deserves to know the kind of man she married , and if she is smart enough she will look out for herself and her kid in that marriage .
ReplyDeleteI have a guy that ghosted me in the past and next thing I knew he was gettting married . 2 years later he lost his child , I didn’t even think that was Karma . I felt genuinely bad for him and his wife when I heard that , bad things happen to both bad and good people . There is another guy that hurt me so bad in the past and currently he is doing soo well with his beautiful family . I am thankful for the sort of heart I have , it’s very easy for me to let go and move on. I focus on the present and not the past , and my present situation makes my past hurt irrelevant.
Whoever you are, i love your personality. keep it going. Nice of you!
DeleteMy dear, she successfully stopped karma from dealing with him. Him cheating and dealing with the consequences of cheating was his karma for making that choice of cheating.
DeleteGood woman .Keep it up although it's a small karma
ReplyDeleteMy dear, if na me na kamoru ati sikira I for give am. Yeye fowl.
DeleteThis isn't karma, but rather, retribution.
ReplyDeleteKarma is the principle of cause and effect...what you put out there, is what you'll receive.
Retribution is inflicting punishment on someone, as vengeance. That is exactly what you did!
Either way, I see nothing wrong with your actions! *shrugs*
You were being your sister's keeper. If the wife didn't know he was cheating, now she does and can take the necessary actions. If the side chick didn't know he was married, now she does and can dump him, if she has principles!
1 plate of nkwobi for you, do you prefer odeku or red wine? I wonder why people are feeling sorry for an irresponsible and unrepentant cheat. I only wish she had moved on and can gracefully encounter such and ignore the trashy philanderer, anyway, it serves him right.
DeletePoster succeeded in helping him save his marriage.she truncated the karma. I am not feeling sorry for the guy. She even helped him. The guy and his wife should be thanking her. This may just bebthe turning point for him...lol
DeletePoster, move on with your life. I spent 6years with a dude too...did all I could for him in my little way. However he is a cheat. Today he is married to the lady he cheated on me with and I am married to another. I don't know if he still cheats and I don't care. If per chance I see him with another lady, I won't stress my self calling anybody...lol...I am happy where I am today, and I am grateful for him acting as he did then because I won't be with my hubby and be attaining my goals. It hurt initially, but now i am super grateful and hold no grudges. If I come across him later in life, I will say a big thank you, and nothing more or less.
Wishing bad things happen to those that hurt you doesn't really take the hurt away...atleast to the best of my understanding. Maybe it does for some people, if so...congrats to them
Lol... I don't even know what to do with this chronicle...
ReplyDeleteAs I see karma, my amebo antenna high but you come fall my hand with this kind of weak chronicle.
This one no be karma naaa.
Poster let me tell you wetin nollywood mean by karma.
It mean say that your ex, his wife go sell all his properties, carry the money and pregnancy run go abroad, where your ex no go fit see am again. Your ex go come poor and they go sack am for work.
You go come get money, get house for banana island and you go get Lamborghini, Ferrari, Benz and private jet.
You go dey drive your Lamborghini Veneno and wan pump the tyre and come see say na your ex be the vulcanizer. He go wear torn dirty cloth dey answer you ma.
So my dear poster, if what I narrated up there is not what happened, then it is not karma.
Truth be say, nothing like karma.
Good or bad thing can happen to good or bad person any time.
I know he hurt you, but try and move on. Pepper him with success, but don't wish him evil.
Chikeee! 🤣
Delete😁😄😆😅😂🤣
DeleteHian, how can I not wish such kind of evil on evil himself? Na wa oooh
DeleteNne, that was you, not Karma. Karma is a very patient and painstaking ...and would have done a far better job than your temporary victory which will not stop him from his randy lifestyle. You should be thanking God for saving you from certain pain if you had married him. That you endured hardship with him or funded him at some point is not guarantee for marriage or fidelity. I only pity the poor wife because she may keep storming places with her parents and soldiers soon. Just move on, release him and let nature take its full course.
ReplyDeleteThis makes no sense though. Besides, this is not karma. This is revenge.
ReplyDeleteAgain, this your story is incomplete. So you just called his friend and he gave you the wife's number. Are you fucking the friend?
I can bet you that they already made up. Side chic is almost a normal battle for most couples these days. They will settle and put the matter behind them soon enough and continue with their marriage. While you continue stalking him and waiting for bad things to befall him. Know that you are also hindering yourself by so doing. Karma doesn't happen in situations like this my dear. Karma happens when you let go of the hurt and bitterness and move on with your life. Nature and even God doesn't fight for people who are fighting for themselves. Please heal and move on with your life and stop stalking your ex.
By the way, don't help a man with the mind that he will marry you in return. Help if you want like you would help anyone. Help with an open mind. If you want to help him with marriage in mind, then be smart about it and let him marry you first.
And so,
ReplyDeleteHas he married you now?
Are you in your matrimonial home now?
Have you secured eternal life now?
How does this action improve your life and chances in life?
Answer me lady.
Yes, what he did was wrong but your "joy" has no basis.
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Is it your joy?
DeleteHer joy was in the hot slap dashed to the guy in question and she might still secure eternal life. It is good that his deeds caught up with him
DeletePoster, I believe you're still hurting, who won't be? It's time you let go completely and let God help you heal from the pains he has caused you so you can move on.
ReplyDeletePlease, going forward, leave him and his family alone and face your life. You'll be fine. I wish you well.
MBA! Poster follow dem well.
DeleteThey are still married, so wetin you gain? Those who belong to your level of pettiness are here hailing you. Young lady life is short, it's time to move on regardless of how he treated you. Stop dwelling in the past and fix your present while hoping for a better future. Women often think they own a man because they went of their way to help, they display their character flaws, believing the guy should be able to accommodate whatever nonsense they do. I am saying this what happened in this case but just what I have observed for decades. You have a very bright future ahead of you, move on and invest in yourself.
ReplyDeleteLol...poster just helped truncate karma at work...lol
DeleteFor all it is worth, the slap from the soldiers may be the resting slap that will set him on the right path...she succeeded in saving his marriage and maybe not destroying it. The baby coming may lead to the changes that will make him a better person to his wife and child.
Very delusional fellow, change indeed. See them talking as if change is that easy.
DeleteShe said revenge is best served hot and I was warming up to read that she reported the dude to her uncle and then the uncle facilitated his sack or even that the marriage hit the rock it even a worse thing.( apologies to his wife) only for me to read this. Any ways this is no way revenge. Let's keep hoping karma visits him soonest
ReplyDeleteI feel no pity for him. However poster try move on fully. Hopefully you get to a place where everything about him becomes irrelevant to you. This is one of the reasons a lot of women do not like building with any man.
ReplyDeleteThis particular man puts the S in scum! However, his home is still very much intact. His wife will not leave, nah! What he did to you was crazy, just move on and forget about him.
ReplyDeleteYou need to feel the opposite of love towards him (no, the opposite of love is not hate as far as I am concerned. The opposite of love is indifference). Blank him out, tear that chapter out of your book. You will be alright.
Poster, Karma was at work and you helped to truncate it...lol...where you trying to preserve his marriage by telling the wife?
ReplyDeleteIf I were in your shoes, I will smile and move on...I won't bother contacting the wife, the man can continue having the steady girl friend that will ruin him. The wife getting soldiers to beat may be the resetting and turning point for him, he may change after that.
Me will allow him dig his grave and bury it...I would move on with my life.
Him cheating and breeding the consequences of cheating is already his karma
Poster, we know you're the one replying people that don't support what you did as anonymous. Take heart o. Heart break is real!
ReplyDeleteWhat you did was out rightly wrong. Get yourself a man! Because if you had one, you won't be looking for relationship to destroy. Do better!
I bet the man and his wife are smooching and sipping red wine under the duvet now while you're still hurting. I know it's not easy but it is well. Take heart, once again.
Poster your story is fake and her you happy now
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteDear Poster
ReplyDeleteWhat is very worrying is that you havent healed. You need to make up your mind to heal. I know it must be a very painful betrayal but you are obviously still hurt.
This is not karma too,once you intervened that is revenge. Once you are healed you wont send again,there will be indifference. As painful as it is please heal. This man has taken over 7 years of your life already. Dont give any more time.
Sis come take a bottle of chilled beer and a plate of isiewu 😂😂😂. You did right. Stells she is not wrong. At least now the wife will know her hubby is cheating on her and will be careful. Cos God forbid he infects her with an incurable STI. All the people saying she is bitter and yet to let go don't understand what it means to build with someone, and they betray you. Do you even know the emotional trauma she went through or probably still going through? And Nigerians will still blame you for a man cheating on you. Tueh!
ReplyDeletePoster pls report him to your uncle, add maggi and salt to the story and make sure your uncle facilitates his sack. Let them sack him. You can plan his sack.
ReplyDeleteHOW CHEAP...YOU MEAN YOUR EX STILL MEANS SO MUCH TO YOU THAT YOU HAD TO GO THROUGH ALL THAT TROUBLE TO REPORT HIM TO HIS WIFE? YOU ARE JUST A BITTER PERSON MAYBE POSSESSIVE TOO. GROW UP AND MOVE ON. KARMA IS A FANTASY. BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE TOO...
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