CANCELLED MARRIAGE DUE TO SCAM LOVE
Please I need help before I kill someone, my fiancé just canceled our wedding because his baby mama wants to come back.
We’ve dated for five years and he told me he had a child but there’s nothing between him and the mother anymore, I’ve been helping him to pay child support, I’m from a very wealthy family and very hardworking too , I’ve helped set this guy up in life that I’m sure even up to his third generation can never suffer, this guy had nothing when I met him but I never looked down on him and I built him and established him, I was also a virgin , he disvirgined me.
After setting him up, this guy proposed to me and the wedding is in four months time and this guy suddenly informed me his baby mama wants to come back, I had informed the whole world I’m getting married, my Facebook,Instagram,sent out invitation letter, please I want to die the shame and pain is too much .
The most painful part is that I recently found out it was all a set up , this guy dated me to dupe me, but why don’t you dupe me and leave me in peace, you went to the extent of proposing marriage and make me send out invitation letters, he’s the only man I’ve dated in my life!
I confronted him to know why he decided to ruin my life like this and his response shocked me , he said “what had he done that nobody has ever done before” , I couldn’t believe my ears, so this guy never loved me, even if he had lied on the devil that it’s the devils work I would’ve forgiven him , the boldness to tell me you hurt me intentionally!
No he can’t go just like that!
No he can’t go just like that!
He’s in the house I bought with another woman!
I can’t do anything cause his name is on the documents!
Please help me before I kill someone cause I’ve gone to the ghetto to get some hired killers and I’ve paid them already, but I called them yesterday to hold on because I’m scared I’ve never killed anyone In my life, what If his ghost haunts me? If I’m in my room will his ghost appear to me?
But he can’t just go scot free please what other thing can I do to this evil guy because he must also feel the same pain I’m feeling, this pain is everlasting and it will there until I die, he must also feel the same!
But he can’t just go scot free please what other thing can I do to this evil guy because he must also feel the same pain I’m feeling, this pain is everlasting and it will there until I die, he must also feel the same!
Please anyone who know this guy should tell him to lie on the devil that it’s the devils work because I swear with my life he must pay!
*Hmmm you said you set him up for life? withdraw all your investments, take back all what you can and let him walk free, karma already has his address and he will never find closure with what he did...
Dont worry babe, it might take time but you will heal, a scorned woman never goes down, she rises up and rebuilds and becomes stronger....
You are not broke, so concentrate on rebuilding emotionally, take time off work if you must.
Sit back and watch what will happen to him - KARMA HAS HIS ADDRESS and has fixed a date to visit him.
Omo this here is heart break. take heart my Sister you will come out stronger. I am short of words
ReplyDeleteMadam, please don't kill anyone although i doubt if you are ready to kill someone.
DeleteA person who is ready to kill someone will kill the person first before thinking of ghosts.
If this story is true, he outsmarted you big time.
You bought a house in his name? Wow. Not even in both your names.
You are from a wealthy family? Lucky you cos I don't think you have the brain for smartness.
Dust yourself and move on.
Don't add murder to being foolish.
Stella, post o.
GET A LAWYER QUICK GIRL!
DeleteYOUVE GOT THE CASH
INVOLVE YOUR FAMILY, GET A LWAYER AND FUCK HIM UP REAL GOOD IN 4 MONTHS
My dear...get a lawyer to draft up docs changing the owner of the property. Carry armed soldiers to the house early in the morning and tell him to sign. Make sure they are all masked up in black and pretend to cork their guns to shoot after you tell him to sign. He will do so willingly. Remove every docs in his possession that has to do with investments and leave. Don't shout, talk quietly and be precise with your words...don't even tell him to pack out. Sell the property and let the new owner do that for you...it's no longer your business.
DeleteThe threat of imminent death is more effective than anger. Also, no one gets killed and you will heal and move on. Karma works quite alright but when you have the means you can be karma.
This was almost the samething that happen to my sister, the guy and his family make sure they put her in debt, spoil her name to anyone that care to listen, the worst part he is using juju to fight her because he didnt finish his plan, and my sister also make sure he took the guy abroad and gave him papers in the country stella reside. And she already have a child for him. The guy also make sure he dupe my mother and I. We have been praying seriously, and know very soon God is going to disgrace him and everyone he is working with to send evil to my sister and us. God please fight for this lady here and my sister speedily amen. He even threat he is a cultists that nothing we can do and of a true we cannot do anything on our own but we have a king of glory, the I Am that I Am. It will end in praise. Please leave him for God he know how to deal with people like him.
DeleteThis is shockingly sad! Omgg
DeletePlease withdraw the much you can and leave this demon & his witch!
You dodged a bullet!
You are still YOU & will rise back!
Meanwhile he's a sore loser that will still need you to rise!
I would have said use internet to disgrace him, but the disgrace will reach you too (frienemies) and you are vulnerable now!
Here is what you do, put up a post on your social media and tell them the wedding was cancelled due to some personal reasons. You both are still friends but won't continue!
Then withdraw all you set up for him. Make sure he has nothing that will keep him ontop without your attention!
Relocate for a few months and exist where NOTHING reminds you of him. Just forget he exists! It will be hard, but you will be back stronger & lips filled with thanksgiving!
For those of you that support your boyfriends in yahoo yahoo things, this is how devastated your boyfriends leave those white women! You play angel here because you don't know these women. But this is how curses follow you guys!
Lazy greedy scamming bunch of idiots everywhere.
All the best poster
Poster please follow Amethyst's advise, it's the best so far, the time to act is now. If you kill him, the babymamabmight take over the house since the documents are in her husband's name ( I assume they are married). Then how many people will you end up killing? His not worth you staining your hands with blood.
DeleteTake Amethyst's advise please and act now.... I can feel your pains sweetheart,can't someone fall in love again????
DeleteAfricans especially poor people always waiting for karma to punish someone. LOL Karma doesn't exist! The same way you ask for forgiveness when you have sin, is the same way everyone asks for forgiveness and God forgives. If he works hard and maintain his life accordingly, he might even be successful even more than you poster. Don't listen to pray and wait for karma, you will wait tire! 80 % of dictators in Africa still alive and their kids very rich enjoying life. People who pay for their wrongs are in jail because the law caught up with them while doing the crime but if they repent, NOTHING will happen! It is delusion and pain that make Africans wait for you to fail especially when you wrong them to associate it with karma. LOL
DeleteThink like an intellect and use your connections to make him pay if you want to. A lawyer will be your best bet, God is merciful, he will forgive him and bless him, that is God for you, he doesn't think like a man and Karma is a myth. Bad things happen to anyone, without exception even virgin get killed, rape, faithful women get cheated on, innocent kids get kidnapped, killed, rape...
Yes I go with Amethyst's advice too, that's way to go. It sounds good to me, and please no delay act now and fast, but do not kill anybody they don't worth it.
DeleteGet a lawyer and draft a power of attorney and force him to sign it with those guys from the ghetto and leave him to karma.
DeleteThat property you should get it back,that way he will be embarrassed and disgraced like he did you to his friends and families.
Oshisko
Poster please take the advice by Amethyst. Then listen to Dante and serve any remaining revenge once you can think straight. No need to kill or hurt anyone physically.
DeleteThis is too much
DeleteBrown Sucre is right sweetheart...forgive him but fuck him up first! Get those guys from the ghetto and abduct that guy (get your documents drafted by the lawyer prior to that), proper beat him up, make sure he signs the documents changing the power to back to you...then free him. EVEN HIM GO SHAME TO TELL ANYONE. After that, change location for a long time. Pele dear, wish I could hug you right now iroy underscore y2k at you know dot com
DeleteI'm sorry you're taken for granted after investing your time and emotions.
ReplyDeleteKindly report him to police and take the matter to court on the ground he promised to marry,keep your wedding invite and proposal pictures as evidence.
Don't take him back for any reason
Which Police?
DeleteWhere is Femi Falana when you need him?
Forget police matter, na soldier fit this kind person
DeleteAunty sue him
DeleteThis is why some people do not wait for karma
I didn't even finish reading, just sue him o.
This is why we always say do not set any man up, don't let them marry you first.
Thank u push up. She his ass I beg. Na say Nigerians too dey fear. If na oyinbo he for burn down the house!!
DeleteGet a good lawyer, change the house documents to your name fast.
Delete2. Get court injunction, seize and seal the business and his accounts, na Naija we dey. E go work wella. You have your evidence... The bank statements that shows the many transfers, he should pay back or sell off the business equipment. Heartless MAN that deserve HEARTLESS PAYBACK.
This is a big scam.
Calm down and think. But get a good LAWYER FIRST, SOME SOLDIERS too but don't involve the Police yet. The way he milked, milk him back.
May God help you to overcome. Dont kill him. update us.
Wow!!!! Am speechless
ReplyDeleteSame here! I just wish thunder will just strike that heartless pig.
DeleteKarma Wetting? Poster do not wait for any Karma o, find the bastard and deal with him. Fuck him up real good, use all your savings if you must, get a good lawyer mess him up. Use the hood guys to not to be violent but set him up, different traps. See ehn go all out, you have nothing to loose. But avoid murdering anyone, let him live to suffer.
DeleteNow I have finished your story.
DeleteWo, I am mad at you
How old are you biko?
How many years have you been on this platform?
Even the bible says "he that findeth a wife" y'all should allow down with this gender reversed role y'all are playing.
He is the devil, anything you do now I won't judge you but do sometimes legal to make him pay.
Broke ass men have been scamming wealthy ladies with marriage proposal for decades.
ReplyDeletePoster, move on with your life and leave the guy to squander his loot.
Noooooooooooooooooooooo
DeleteThis wrong advise NERO
She has the funds.
Get a lawyer and sue and reclaim every damn thing!
TAKE THE HOUSE BACK SUGAR....There are financial transactions to show you provided the funds for the house.
DUDE wont be expecting you to sue cuz of LOVE
Don't get MAD SUGAR GET EVEN.
Be strong and FUCK SHIT UP!
Kai !!!!!! If na me I WILL BRING HIM DOWN TO HIS KNEES WITH THE POWER AND INFLUENCE THAT I WEILD QUIETLY!
HE IS A NOBODY YOU MADE HIM ...Don't kill him ...LEAVE HIM ALIVE TO TASTE THE POWER OF A SCORNED WOMAN!
BASTARD
Move on?? Just like that?? I laf in lingala. Poster u HAVE to treat his fuck up!! Get lawyers involved ffs!
DeleteNo no no!! Sir his ass, burn down the house.
DeleteI don’t know what to tell you. Only God can heal you. Retrieve whatever you can. Next time don’t let a man know you are rich until he proposes.
ReplyDeleteNo pain last forever poster,it will reduce with time then disappear totally,please be brave,fight for your investments, get your house back LEGALLY,he will definitely reap what he is sowing!
DeleteI’m so sorry for what you had to go through, but there is nothing like Karma, he will live happily ever after if you let him go Scott free, kindly get thugs to destroy his two legs, let him be paralyzed for life, just tell him that you have forgiven him and lay low then strike after some months, just make sure he never lives a normal life again, when you are done you can repent and become born again, it’s a win win that way.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha u know we'll. Im thinking same too.
DeleteThat’s the way to go. Karma wetin?? Burn down the house!!
DeleteSUE THE MUTHAFUCKER!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou are my girl anytime blackky!
DeleteMy exact view, there is obviously a cash paper trail showing evidence of movement of cash...SUE THE MOTHERFUCKER ASAP!!!!
Eayah this is really sad. Whether his name is there or not, it is your money.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you should demolish the house. Get better tractor to do the work? Or better still, get govt official to put a seal that the property is trespassing and they should give few days of notice, then demolition begin.
Let him start running helter skelter.
Secondly, as you send invite through Facebook, Instagram and so on, use the same to write it is cancelled. People will laugh, after sometime they will forget.
That is why some people go to babalawos, Alfas, pastors to do the unthinkable.
Better still you can leave everything in God's hands but I suggest, since he knew he duped you, treat his fuckup very well.
You don't need to send killers because it will still go back to you and you will pay with death
@Yori the demolition part got me cracking up.Karma will definitely catch up on him.retrieve what you can from him.i pray you heal
DeleteWow! Try get some of your stuff that are retrievable from and leave the rest in the hands of nature to so come with his unavoidable karma
ReplyDeleteHim*
DeleteThe Lord is your strength poster! God will heal you.
ReplyDeleteIt will be HARD to heal from this, but just take it one day at a time. It's better he ended it now, cos you would have been more shattered if he continued the deception into marriage.
ReplyDeleteBelieve me, he will pay for his wickedness. Just cry to God about how he has been wicked and callous to you.
Hold your peace and let God fight this battle. Don't go monitoring his life with bated breath to see when he'll stumble and fall. Forget him, as hard as it sounds.
His disgrace will be epic and you'll live to feel pity for him because of what will befall him.
And don't forget that God will still give you the best only if you allow Him to fight for you.
Wishing you peace ☮️🕊️
So sorry about what happened, but please do not kill him. He's not worth the pain, and torture you'll go through if you go ahead with this. It might take time, but he will definitely suffer, including the baby mama cos she's part of it. Please, try get away for a while. You need time to cry, because I know this will hurt you badly. Hope you have a a strong support system that see you through. Above all, just commit all of you, your pain and all to God.
ReplyDeleteCandy this is really tough for the lady,i don't support her where she mention to kill him
DeleteI will suggest she should hire a good lawyer and a law enforcement agent. eg Soldier
So sorry dear about what happened...It is indeed painful but please don't take laws in your hands...It is good to help each other when in a relationship but the truth is Allow a man to be a man, there are certain responsibilities that he must shoulder..The guy was all out to scam you from the get-go...
ReplyDeleteSince you said you are wealthy, please hire a good lawyer and file for change of ownership of property to your own name and I know you will meet your own man soonest..let the name of that house be in your name or childrens name..If you want his name to reflect let it go as thus ''Mr Lagos Ogun and Mrs Kaduna Kano Ogun (Kano here is your father's name)''..Use your influence and take back what belongs you...Channel all your energy to heal..I leave you with these words ''WHAT WE HATE,WE BECOME; WHAT WE FORGIVE WE OVERCOME''..It is not easy but God will strengthen you..Hold on Sis!!
This is good advice poster...so sorry about the hurt and pain you must be feeling...cant even begin to imagine what you must be going through.
DeleteIf you can sue him to recover some of your stuff...then by all means but please Do Not hurt him. I pray the good Lord gives you the strenght you need at this time.Sending you hugs dearie🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Too many gold digging men. Don't let him allow you stoop to the level of killing even if you evade justice, you seem to have a good conscience and it will haunt you. That means he will still be controlling you beyond the grave.Rest assured you will get over this, might not seem like it now and you will be stronger for it.
ReplyDeleteLadies close your legs until he puts a ring on it. There's a reason God says so. You are not wiser than God. One of the easiest ways to jazz up a woman is through sex.
ReplyDeleteTor
DeleteDem go hear?
I don't even know what to say to this. Why are some people so wicked.
ReplyDeleteAs in, I don't know why some people are so mean , evil and manipulative... Moving about with dead conscience...
DeleteTake heart poster. God be with you...
I'm so sorry poster, really so sorry. Count your loses, cry if you can, pull yourself together and move on. Leave him for God, he knows how to deal with people like that, when the time is right. So sorry okay
ReplyDeletePoster I'm sort to to you this, killing him is not worth it. Take all you can take back from him, the one's you can't take, let him keep. See, a wickedness like this cannot go unpunished. I'm not even talking of karma now, I'm telling you that the universe will punish him, even if he repents today, he will receive his punishment here on earth. Don't soil you hands and go to jail cos of a scumbag and a pig!! It's not worth it one bit. You're hurting right now, but trust me you will heal with time.. Let him go, in his mind he is smart, but he will receive the reward fkr taking advantage of your good will. It's either him, or his children. Pls take it easy. Ask God to met out violent wickedness on him as you were genuine with him and he duped you. Calm down pls, he will not enjoy the life you made out for him.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, how did your family make money? Through politics? Stealing Nigeria's money? I doubt you people worked hard for your money. Probably why your fiance had no issues collecting his own share of the loot. Sorry, dear. This is exactly how Nigerians feel when we hear the amount of money our politicians steal from us. Take care.
ReplyDeleteStella, no use this comment chop rice o.
Ode ni yen. Mumu
DeleteNo one has the right to inflict pain on another
DeleteThere is no justification for cold hearted bullshit behaviour
Hunger bad!!! Stop swindling people.
DeleteLol what is this?? 😂😂😂
Delete
ReplyDeleteThe place I began shedding tear is; "he disvirgined me..."😢😢😢😢
For me, that's the one that cannot be replaced. The rest can be
replaced.
If you had become pregnant, died in the process or gotten sti/aids etc.
this man would have moved on to marry the true love of his life as if nothing dey happen?
Well, do not kill him, else you will be the wicked one; the very thing you are accusing him
of doing/being. Look at the Scripture; God's law; Romans 12:19 do not repay evil with evil
but rather with good. Leave room for God's wrath...
Proverbs 17:13 Whoever pays back evil for good— evil will never leave his home. GNT.
ReplyDeleteIf you repay good with evil, you will never get evil out of your house.
Make peace with Jesus and move on. Do not have blood on your hands. 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Abeg smell off! She needs practical advise and not bible verses. Geddifok 😡
DeleteIts still advice though
DeleteAnd it won't complicate her life further
shooter gyal you are so rude, loud mouthed and uncouth...people like you think God is stupid abi? she does him evil back and she gains what? when God fights for you even your enemy will know that something is fighting them because they get to a point they must beg that same God for mercy to move forward. she fights dirty and that is all she gets. but is she makes peace with Jesus he will help her heal till she gets to a point she wont even remember he ever existed
DeleteIf you can't reclaim the house, just demolish it and take back your investments. Life goes on, karma is waiting for him. also don't get your hands dirty with his cursed blood, you will heal eventually.
ReplyDeleteDon't demolish the house, he can sue you for damaging his property because his name is on the documents, legally, he is the house owner, present evidence of transfer of funds and fight him legally to change ownership of the house and every single investment you can lay your hands on.
DeleteThank God you are rich, hand over documents to the lawyers and go away for a while till you heal, collect all your things back and shut him out of your life.
Best advice. Please, please and please do not demolish the building as that would amount to trespass in law cos he is technically the owner as his name is on the document. Get a good lawyer and sue him for breach of promise of marriage and obtainment by false pretense.
DeleteYou can do what the many men who take on the entire financial responsibility of the women they are dating's family, only to see pix of the women getting married to another man do...legal action, viral social media call-out; and/or pay people to scatter any upcoming wedding he may have!
ReplyDeleteDarling take heart and take back as much as you can take. One of my uncle faced this from a babe. His was worst because he was randomly duped in connivance of the lady's family members. He rebuilt their family house in Umuahia, bought an apartment for them here in Lagos, with three branded big supermarket in same lagos. Sponsored his two brother's abroad for their master's - unknown to him, the half brother was the real husband. And on the day of traditional she was nowhere to be found.
DeleteShe relocated to meet the real husband after his master's.
But like Stella said, karma was just. So calm down babe, collect as much as you can get back from him.
My Uncle made sure he got most of what he spent back. And put all of them where they belonged.
Please, elaborate more on how your uncle got back most of whatbhe spent and put them back where they belonged.
DeleteI am very curious!
YOU WOULD NOT HAVE SLEPT WITH HIM...
ReplyDeleteASK GOD TO HELP YOU HEAL PLEASE DONT KILL HIM
HE WILL LOOSE EVERYTHING
WATCH AND SEE
PLEASE DONT KILL HIM
PLEASE SO YOU CAN HAVE PEACE
BE STRONG
TAKE A HOLIDAY
ReplyDeleteGO TO ANOTHER TOWN
I'm seeing people saying she should take back the things she did/got for him.......is it not on this blog that people(men) were shamed for collecting stuffs they got for there partners after the relationship ended or are there different rules for different groups of people ��.
ReplyDeleteP.S what the guy did was very wrong.
You can get a very good lawyer to advice you on what to do legally but please don't take anyone's life, it is not hours. May the Lord heal you and restore all that you lost. Vengeance is mine says the Lord....
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me of the chronicle of the rich girl who did not invest in the guy that left her and went to Canada. Some of you were saying she was stingy and the guy dodged a bullet. You see now? You see the one that invested what happened to her? My dear take all you can take back from him. Especially the house and leave him. The pain you feel now is minimal. It would have been worse if you married him. Mine swore heaven and earth, filed for him to come to the abroad. When e reach nah so so oyingbo e dey follow. He said he was born again. Nah so we see am marriage don finish. Me I am living my best life now with my children. No stress. I took it easy and jehjeh. I try e no work. I move…… Nah so life be.
ReplyDeleteImmediately I got the the 2nd paragraph I knew it was a set up by him and his baby mama.
ReplyDeleteBabe don't kill yourself for an idiot, take back all you gave him ,if possible send him to jail.
Leave him and build back yourself and confidence. You will be fine.
People no dey fear GOD
DeletePeople no dey fear curse
That baby mama collabo for her mind now dem get sense?
This girl is broken. Jeez... Plz do not do anything rash or you might end up in jail. Please it maybe hard but let him go. What he deserves is coming. Such a cold reply from him. Jeez
ReplyDeleteSo so sorry dear. I am in tears reading this. No wonder people say 'a poor man is only loyal to a woman only bcos of what he is at that moment ". My dearest, allow Karma to mess him up completely. I am sure the baby mama is only back bcos of what he is right now, but trust me, she is going to give him hot hot!!
ReplyDeleteWith time you will heal.It might take awhile, but gradually you sure will. *
My story exactly, the very poor ones are loyal when they depend on you like a toddler, once they start getting few coins they will suddenly remember ex girlfriends that never helped when they were a charity case
DeleteNa real charity case 😂
DeleteYou have a case against him, the law is on your side. If you have evidence of money transfer, take it to your lawyer, record conversations . You did all the things you did because he promised you marriage and he broke the agreement. Take all evidence yo a good lawyer, you will win
ReplyDeleteExactly, sue for breach of promise to marry and request damages, also, request a refund of all expenses incurred as a result of the pending marriage, this is where the house and all other investments come in.
DeletePrint out all your bank statements and locate a good chambers immediately. God be with you dear.
Instead of killing him I suggest u lock him up in a room in any of your private building for at least 2 years and travel out of d country. Employ a trusted person to be feeding him and make sure he doesn't have access to phone and no one in his family must know.
ReplyDeleteI like this plot!!! 👍👍👍
DeleteIf you kill him, you will not get back the house since it is not in your name
ReplyDeleteYou will not get him to marry you, seeing that he is dead.
You will only be left with guilt that will last a lifetime and perhaps
a hellish eternity, if you don't repent.
So, that leaves you with? Just leave him alone and concentrate on getting
healing for your ailing soul; Jesus can do it.💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Stella, I take God beg you no use this comment cook vegetable soup.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, shey you dey wain me ni?😱. Please tell your goons in the ghetto not to kill him. You won't get any satisfaction from his death. It might even leave you empty and with regrets. Do not also do anything to his baby mama. Let her live to train her innocent child. So, what then should you do? Good question! Behold your answer👇:
Tell them to make it look like a mugging gone seriously wrong. Tell them to target his spinal cord. Only his spinal cord o. They should not beat him anywhere else; just to totally concentrate on that spinal cord and break it! Yes, I said it! Just make sure he can no longer f*ck another woman or stand to do anything by himself anymore. He is done! And before anyone reminds me how wicked I sound, let me mention that this is my church-mind talking. You don't want to hear what my village people are whispering in my ears right now.
And then poster, neither date below your financial/social level again nor win a man with your money. Some women are lucky and the man will be forever grateful and good to them but it doesn't end well for most. His baby mama will still marry him to "secure the bag" but will be enjoying her s*xcapades outside. She will eventually leave him when she finds someone else and even if she doesn't, you would have taken "bliss" out of the equation for them. Most men would rather die than "lose their erection". Help him lose it forever...dog that he is! Imagine the son of the devil asking what evil he has done that hasn't been done before. Well, since he thinks he is the poster boy for evil, let's hear how he feels after the launch of your "Ghetto evil pro max". Ghetto boys wey no kuku get joy before. And by the way, make sure you have a tight alibi for his day of reckoning. You will be his first suspect but make sure the police have nothing on you. You meeuuve!
🤣🤣🤣 @ village people talking
DeleteHei God
My dear I feel you
But please poster don't end up in jail for rubbish, just take him to court
Please don't kill him but make sure the hired killers put an unforgettable mark on him and also collect every penny you gave him. Why do men do these. I'm pained on her behalf. He wasn't even remorseful. Gosh....
ReplyDeleteIf you have evidence of paying for the house ie bank transfers, go to court. Even though you bought the house in his name it was under the belief that you guys would settle down together.
ReplyDeleteRecord your conversation with him and get him to repeat all he said to you.
If that doesn't work please wake up every midnight and start praying that God will fight for you! Am pained that he took your virginity!!! Then start thanking God for giving you victory.
Don't think of killing him. Go to court, get a good lawyer. Then keep praying. Sweetheart you will heal ok?
I pray that the Lord will heal your heart in Jesus name Amen
Great!
DeleteMy dear poster I feel your pain cos I've been embarrassed in almost the same way. Use those things to get him to sign over the house. If possible back date the papers to when he broke up with you so that if case dey you can deny him flat and say he willingly signed it back to you when he broke up with you. After getting him to give you your house she him for promise and fail and then last but not the least finish him by knacking pigeon on his head you will be the first suspect if you go physical.
DeleteAnd lastly ghost do not exist. If you start seeing ghosts just know you have a mental health disease probably induced by guilty conscience and you should see a doc asap
DeleteThank GOD
DeleteHe didn't marry you poster
His type can kill
Ajay so in your mind you are the only one inside your room right now ? 😂. Ghosts are around you. They go about their business like you do yours. But they reveal sometimes to taunt their killers
DeleteLife is deep ok?
Why not lick your wounds and move on? What if he had married you and still connive with his baby mama and kill you.. It happens but God did not allow them reason that one. Sweetie I know it hurts badly but hey love God has a better plan for you. E-hugs
ReplyDeleteIt's because these men have not been punished for what they are doing, that's why they keep doing this. Get a lawyer, sue him to court, make him pay legally. Shikena
DeleteI had goosebumps reading this, I felt a shiver down my spine. You are hurt, agreed but please do not soil your hands and your name with his blood. His doom is very near, just sit back, relax and watch how he will be ruined into pieces. God is your strength at this time and I pray He heals you completely. I sincerely felt your pain. Please try as much as possible to pull yourself together and be strong babe. God be with you. Hire a lawyer and sue his A**. He has got to pay and you have got to retrieve your belongings and properties from him.
ReplyDeletePls dnt kill, not worth it. If I'm u, I'll just let him go. But ensure u take back all u can, involve lawyers n others. Take back what you can,ok
ReplyDeleteDon't turn yourself into a killer because of trash. Talk to God! Report him to your creator! Don't stalk him, just forget he ever existed. Believe me, God will fight for you. Don't even argue with the MF.
ReplyDeleteI can imagine how you feel dear. All you need now is therapy and God. Only God can comfort you and only a therapist can help you understand and process how you feel.
Will you still feel the hurt? yes! Anytime you feel the pain, lock yourself indoor and cry. When you are done crying, call on The Holy spirit to comfort you. Believe me, with time you will be happy it didn't work out between yourself and the guy.
E-HUGS babe.
I pray the type of karma that befalls him is the type he will spend unknowingly raising someone else’s child as his own after he must have lost all he has.
ReplyDeleteLike advised above, pls try and seek legal means to get back what u can. It’s a different case if he even ever loved u but since he never, he deserves nothing.
Human beings and wickedness, 5 and 6.
OMG 😲😲😲
ReplyDeleteThere are no ghosts anywhere. The wicked live very long prosperous lives if you don’t know. If you don’t teach him a lesson he can never learn . Karma kor kamoru ni
ReplyDeleteTheir suffering here is in silence and in the hereafter
DeletePardon if I repeat the comments or any comment made above.
ReplyDeleteYou can sue for breach of promise to marry even if you did not do anything for him so long as you can show you altered you acted on the promise to your detriment. (Except the law is different where you live, if outside Nigeria).
You said you bought a house because he promised to marry you? You did this and that because of love or same promise of marriage?
Then you have a good case. PLEASE QUICKLY get a lawyer to recover all from him especially the house. By that time, the baby mama would go back to where she has been hiding since.
Trust me, there is always one obscure principle of law lying fallow waiting for facts like these to bring down a foolish person. Tell your lawyers to find that principle of law,and they would.
Do not kill. No man or woman is not worth its consequences.
Sue him for breach of contact to marry. Its legal
ReplyDeleteAll of you advising her to sue obviously don't know how the justice system works in Nigeria. All the bastard has to do is bribe the judge and the case will be in court for years and during that time, he WILL sell the property and disappear.
ReplyDeleteIn Abuja, to be a gigolo/male God digger is the norm and I have handled cases like this.t One thing is certain, is who has the money has the power and since poster is from a wealthy home, she definitely has the means to use that power.
Poster, do what I wrote up there and you will recover all you lost...trust me on this. Once you're done, relocate to a remote island and relax.
You will be fine
Guys like these are the reasons why rich babes be looking at us with corner corner eye even when we genuinely love them.
ReplyDeleteAbeg you don't genuinely love them. Love ya class.
DeleteLove my foot. Patriarchal motherfuckers!
DeleteHmmmm, his proposing to you, making sure you send out marriage invitation is purposely to make sure that you are broken and distraught and unable to think straight by the time he calls everything off. Please pull yourself together, take back what you can and go to God for healing. God's love is sufficient for you. Ladies please love with your eyes wide open .
ReplyDeleteInstead of killing him, let those boys kidnap him and then force him to sign off the house since its under his name ..what Rubbish..what manner of heartbreak and duping is that
ReplyDeleteWhy kill him and spoil the fun, when you can relax, plan and enjoy how you mess his life up..
ReplyDeleteHe messed your life for 5 years, make your's 10.
Don't rush to make any decisions now.. relax.. relax.. revenge is best served cold
gbam
DeleteWomen! STOP investing your Money in Men who have not put a ring on your finger! Even those that have married you still scam talk less of those that have not put a ring on finger! How can you buy a House in your then Boyfriend’s name!
ReplyDeleteLol. Shey you will give same advise to men too?
DeletePoster. Sorry Ehn. Now you are feeling exactly what men feel when they invest in ladies and the lady japa!
men don't go about wanting to kill the woman after when they scam like this.
I remember how many people on this blog were be rating men for collecting what they gave women in relationship back when the lady says she is not 'doing anymore' lol.
Sebi the guy gave you sex and you enjoyed it?
What is good for the goose is good for the gander.
I think you can get the house you bought in his name back. He obtained it fraudulently.
ReplyDeleteMy advise is to forget what people are saying. We have all done stupid things for love. There no need to kill him (although he deserves a bout of leprosy) 😂 you do t want to stain your hands.
From what you said you have the means to engage a good law firm, try and record him admitting to defrauding you on purpose. Tie him in court until he runs out of money.
Hopefully you’ll get your money back.
Find other ways to destroy his career and business. He needs to be alive to revert back to being a penniless nobody.
If there's really nothing the law can do, try to consciously make yourself happy and forget about him. His own is waiting for him in front. Don't kill him or harm him. Vengeance is mine, says the Lord. You'll be fine.
ReplyDeleteActually, the law can do a LOT if you have a great lawyer, the money and the connections.
DeleteWhatever u do,please do not shed blood,just get back your investments and move on. He will never end well.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe in Karma. The fault is entirely yours. Killing him will not make you feel better. The best you can do is to go to court. Your family have the resources, fight dirty and humble him. His name maybe on the property but can he prove the house belongs to him?. You can crumble his business too. Alternatively use your father's influence, get him arrested and pay policemen to make him disappear for life. If any of these do not work please free him for a few years, go after his legs after three years and make sure he will never walk. Nobody will trace his predicament to you
DeleteDo not kill him, please do not kill him but collect anything collectable from him and leave him with his baby mama.
ReplyDeleteSimilar thing happened to someone i know, in her own case, the guy was a divorcee. He sent her packing from the house she built and brought back the ex wife. Now she is in court . Me i just subscribe to the tractor suggestion o. Just down the house, nobody can arrest you for demolishing your property.
ReplyDeleteHis name is on the property. he can sue her and don't say he won't, someone that can hold a scam going for 5 years can do worse. Sue for breach of promise to marry and expenses incurred cos of said promise, this should include the house and other investments.
DeleteIgnore anybody that wants to abuse you, if you leave him ,he will keep duping people.
Please don't kill him it is not worth it. Collect all you have given him...
ReplyDeleteWhat this poster is going through is exactly the same thing ladies with foreign passports experience when a fraudulent man marry them for papers and engage in emotional scam...Nigerian women will tell the Nigerian wife to bear, just like his ex girl friend abi na wife with pickin did that he is doing it to secure their future. I don't think that is his baby mama...that is his wife, instead of going abroad to scam white woman for papers he scammed right here in Nigeria.
ReplyDeletePoster it hurts, relax and serve this revenge cold...he did this to make you act irrationally.
Let him live, killing him won't take the hurt away...but Watching him drown in his failures will
Nne go with Amethy's advce ..very valid..nd after that u japaa..
ReplyDeleteSad story
ReplyDeleteThis story touch me. Use your connections, get a lawyer and make sure you take everything back
ReplyDeleteJust sue him. Don't harm him so that you don't go to jail or be filled with regret(s).
ReplyDeleteGod of mercy! How some people do walk freely in the day and sleep @ night give me goosebumps sometimes. Who breed this kind beings? My dear!! God will heal and give you peace. Let him go you deserve the best. This story is very disheartening.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad. I know a lady with similar story way back. She bought properties in Kano in the guys name and set him up all for the guy to go get married after spending the night with her on Friday. She cursed him, wasn’t long robbers came and cleared the house up to broom, his businesses started failing. His wife couldn’t take in. The day he saw her, he knelt down and was crying and begging. God will fight for you, don’t commit murder. Recover what you can and watch God fight for you.
ReplyDeleteMen are......
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry poster.
Do everything you can do legally to get your investment in him and properties back. Calculate all the child support you helped him pay,emotion trauma and every other thing you can think about.
It won't be well with him. Ko ni da fun.
Honey, I'm more concerned about YOU. Forget this imbecile. He'll get whst he deserves. For sure, you just wait and see.
ReplyDeleteAs for you. I'd like you to get away from this country for a little while. It will help you heal. Take 6 months course. It will be you get your bearings. Give youa new start. You might even meet someone else in the process. Focus on being the best you. Body - snatched, hair- on fleek, makeup - flawless, dressing - 👌. Looking good is a form of revenge. Soon you will be wondering what in the world you saw in him in the first place.
Women DATE YOUR CLASS. STOP DATING OR MARRYING DOWN
ReplyDeleteThere are so many useless lazy gold digging men out there who target rich women from well-to-do families. Women it is time we shine our eyes. You spending so much on a poor man doesn’t guarantee he will marry you.
ReplyDeleteEveryone should date on their level , and if it’s difficult to find a man on your level remain single. It is better to be alone than to be in such a situation.
Anyway poster, get lawyered up. Make him prepare transfer documents of every property you have bought for him , get heavily armed thugs to that house in the night and force him to sign those documents, then let the thugs cripple him .. since you funded him you will definitely have money transfer documents or receipts from the bank incase he tried to fight back ..
How did your family become wealthy in this Nigeria? Is it not through embezzlement of Nigerians fund. Through our tears and pains. Abeg, park well. setting a guy up to his third generation while Nigerians are languishing in abject poverty. No, its not the devil girl! The guy simply duped you as your wealthy family duped Nigerians. Its your family karma on you. Suck it up and move on. You simply disbursed Nigerian money to Nigerians, The real owners. Wicked Wealthy looters. You actually want him to leave his baby and marry you. you are wicked poster. you didnt see single guys to follow, its a man with child. Abeg, Park well. Help the poor, you will not help. You only helped him because he promised you marriage. Serves you right.
ReplyDeleteOmo, the frustration in you is evident. Not all wealthy families in Nigeria looted and she may cone from that.
DeleteThat said, her travails will not make your life situation easier, easy in the Blame game, no be poster make your parents and your family the looted ones and the poor ones
Inukwa nonsense. so so sorry, the deed has been done but you will heal. God is a God of justice and will always pay back such evil. just leave him to God. Get a lawyer to fight for that property. worse case scenario they sell the house and share the money since you made the mistake of putting his name. Any other investments too get your share out and leave him to his stupidity, guys like that always fail because their only plan in life is other peoples money. Dont worry about what people think of you, hold your head up high. God will bring someone else your way in due season. alot of gigolos on the prowl these days so ladies gotta be careful and very prayerful. The heart of man is wicked
ReplyDeletePoster,take amethyst advice,after that make sure the ghetto guys beat him up real good, break both hands and legs,leave him crippled for life. That is the best punishment
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