Tuesday In House News..

 Greetings from a very very cold Country!!!

SALMA WINS FACE OF IHN COMPETITION


The winner of face of in house news is Salma with 95votes.

The contestants and how they were voted for

Salma - 95 votes
Ego - 15 votes
Beatrice - 10votes
Tinu - 9votes
Mercy - 4votes
CJ - 5votes
Michelle - 8votes
Juliet - 4votes
Ayomide - 4votes

Congrats Salma, please send me a mail

The other participants, please send your phone numbers with network to the Blog PA for 2 gig datas:::

Remember that everyone is beautiful...

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IJEOMAS GIST CORNER

THE BIZ COUPLE.

I Was going home one day when I saw one of my neighbours cussing and talking to herself on the road

 ha aunty what happen? 

She: No be did nonsense man(pointing to a house) and him stupid wife, you no go believe am oh, the man dey chyke me since and i no want, unto sey him don marry na. 

Babe was shouting as she narrated to me, shame sef come dey small cos of the way she was shouting on the road. 

##Babe abeg no vez, let's go home and talk about it. Oya babe wetin you sey make you dey para so? 

She:No be even the man dey make me vex so o, na him wife ( na so i drag my SDK chair😂). 

Me: wetin him wife do you? 

She:Him wife tell me to come o, me sef think sey she wan yarn me better thing, I no know sey na RUNZ she want do for her husband😱. 

Me: wetin you mean? 

She: She tell me sey her husband like me well well, say mek i give am chance as per side chick na 

Me:🙆 eeeeeh, husband and wife into runz business?, nawa o I wasn't surprised much cos a similar incident happened in my town( we no dey run out of happenings o 😂. 

A particular MARRIED woman was caught with two different men committing adultery, the men were made to pay certain amount of money to the lady's husband while the woman was left to her husband to deal with. After sometime she was caught again with another man, haba na aunty, you have to explain what is happening, shior. 

Her husband was angry, demanding to be compensated as usual. Naso guys vex o, started interrogating the lady, when she couldn't take the pressure anymore, aunty confessed o. Her husband decided to make quick money by using her, she'll seduce their target , lure him to bed and in the process of 'doing the do', the husband will crawl out from his hiding place and start shouting, calling villagers to come and see o. 

This last one don expose them plus purge their belle. They were made to pay back all the money they collected from the previous men and even pay more to the villagers for their evil act. Still wondering how a woman will decide to deliberately chyke a girl for her hubby just to please and make him happy and the other sleeping with different men too..

 hmmmmm are these the sacrifices that comes with marriage cos e dey make me dey fear marriage sometimes.

Ijeoma no fear, different strokes for different folks....

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TESTIMONY

Congratulations!!

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RE -On Lust, Ego, AND Low Self Esteem BY BV Faith

Read the story from Faith HERE


 Bv Faith, I am a married man with beautiful children and a pretty wife and I know you people will insult me but I have a girlfriend too. I'm not with her just for the sex. Truth is we are yet to have sex. We've been dating for three years and I have real feelings for her. Matter of fact I love her. (I personally never pressured her, my girlfriend, for sex even if I'm attracted to her and she is a very beautiful dark skin lady. She told me I would be her first and this is one of the many reasons that make me love and cherish her).

 Maybe what contributed to us not having sex yet is because she is currently living in another city because she is getting her second degree. We've known each other for a while and I've always liked her but because of a business project we had to work together and I realized that I was in love with her. She realized it too and she told me that she knows I have feelings for her. Initially I tried to forget her and keep my emotions in check but she told me she has never felt what she felt for me and she is not letting me go.

 With time I couldn't help it but fall in love with her. I admire her boldness, her strength, her independence, intelligence and kind soul. She is the complete opposite of my wife. My wife doesn't work, during our marriage I alone took care of the financial side. She has never contributed a dime. All she thinks about is to spend my money, impress other people and lately I have realized that she is a very manipulative person and can lie just to look good and malign another person. She tried to do that when she suspected I had something with my girlfriend. I won't go into details because I don't want anyone to decode who I am. Of course she has her good sides too but the truth is I love my girlfriend more than I ever loved my wife.

 You see when I met my wife, obviously I liked her and probably even thought at that time that I loved her but now I realize that it was mainly lust and infatuation and I married her because the church kind of pressured us. I didn't marry her as a virgin and we fornicated before marriage. I was not her first. With my girlfriend is different, of course I desire her so much but because I truly love her I want to show her by not pressurizing her into sex. 

I admire the fact that she is still a virgin at 30.Whenever she is ready I will gladly do it. I asked her why she kept her virginity and she said that she promised herself to only lose her virginity to a man that she truly loved and now she feels ready to do it with me. This made me love her so much more because a beautiful young lady that can keep herself all this while, shows that she has clear ideas about what she wants and yeah you guys might say that she has no morals because she is dating me a married man but what about those who have never dated a married men but sleeps with different guys in the name of being in relationships and have done several abortions. No sin is greater than the other.

 You see not everything is black and white.


I'm married but I happen to be in love with my mistress. I never felt this way for my wife. What I feel for my girlfriend is something I can't even explain. I wish I could leave my wife but who will take care of the children. I mean of course I can continue to take care of them financially like I've always done but my wife would have to start working to take care of herself and who will look after the children. These are the only reasons why I'm still with my wife and also because I'm afraid of what judgmental people will say ( I hold a very respectable position in society), what my children will think of me and yes I admit it sometimes I'm afraid that one day my girlfriend may leave me. 

My wife I know she won't leave me because she is not financially able to take care of herself but my girlfriend has her own money, house, car, business and she is getting her second degree in nursing. Meaning another stream of income that will solidify her financial position. I know that with my girlfriend I can't try any nonsense because she will quickly dump me and move on unlike my wife that can even find out I have a child outside but will not have anywhere to go and no one to take care of her. So yeah that's all the reasons why I'm still with my wife. It seems convenient for me to stay with her. I don't love my wife, to me she is just the mother of my kids.

 I take care of her, treat her well and she is there for me to satisfy my needs whenever I need to since I can't have access to my girlfriend. I wish I could marry my girlfriend and move to another country and start a new life with her. She is always on my mind. We talk daily and sometimes I go and visit her whenever I can. I'm trying to find the best way to leave my wife, sort my kids out and be able to marry my girlfriend and have a new life with her but I don't know how. Anyways I said all these to say that sometimes or may I say in my case, me having a mistress is not because of ego but because I truly fell in love with my girlfriend.

Hmmmm this life no balance....

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