This World is deep and the things that happen will shock you!
Do you know some people find out they have married their relatives after the wedding?
Father and daughter mistakenly marrying...
Mother and son mistakenly sleeping together and siblings marrying each other....
Has anyone here gotten married and later found out they had married their relative and the union had to be dissolved?.. I heard a story of a man who lives in the US that mistakenly married his daughter...Ooops!
Lets gist if you know any story.....
I've always had this question at the back of my mind, women who have their babies through sperm donors from the sperm bank, isn't there a possibility that they'll marry their sibling or even dad in the future without them being aware and the secret may never be unravelled, will there be any negative consequence trailing them since it wasn't done intentionally?
ReplyDeleteI almost dated a distant or not so distant relative once. Didn't because he was way younger than me.
ReplyDeleteDuring my maternal grandpa's burial, I saw him in attendance and when I asked what he was doing there, he said my grandpa and his grandma were cousins abi is it siblings sef.
I would never have linked it sef. Had no idea he has ties to my village talk more of being related to me. And we were world's apart in terms of wealth so there was just no way I could have made the connection.
Same here.I almost dated a relative.He already proposed we date but I promised to think about it and went on to invite him to Dad's birthday party.When he arrived,I introduced him as a friend but mum and Dad screamed.They took us aside and kept asking what type of friend we were till we explained that nothing has happened yet as he was waiting for me to think about it.My parents explained and we were almost like second cousins.
DeleteThat was how I lost my first hot boyfriend
God please forgive me. I dated my maternal grandmother's sisters son. I did that in ignorance. We made out on two occasions. He is happily Married with children while l'm still TTC. Most times when l think about it. I wonder if its that sin that is holding me back. God bless forgive me and show me mercy.
ReplyDeleteIf it's that, it would have held both of you down. That's one thing about being in the place of waiting, you begin to associate your predicament with all the mistakes and sins you may have committed in the past.
DeleteRelax, God is not one to hold us to ransom because of our sins as long as we have confessed and turned away from them. Your babies will come in due time.
Free your mind from self imposed guilt. He is the ever forgiving God who loves and forgives all sin. Go and Sin no more. Importantly, prepare to carry your own Children ( Twins) if that’s what you want .
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God has forgiven if you asked for mercy.Dont mind the devil who keeps amplifying our sins to make them look like they are beyond pardon.God is not a wicked God.Your babies will locate you soon dear
DeleteAbeg, God has already had mercy on you. Have mercy on yourself. So you think God will punish you and bless the guy abi? Emancipate yourself from mental slavery. You are not TTC because of any unforgiven sin. You will conceive! Get that into that head of yours. Prepare yourself and buy baby stuff.
DeleteCalm your titties darling. Thats not why you are TTCing your baby is just getting prepared to show big time.
DeleteHere in the north two of you can even marry sef.
Oshisco plc
You will have your babies soon buy God's grace. Just relax, God is not man to hold your sins against you. He has done it.
DeleteThere was this guy that was asking me out then. I turned him down because I didn't see myself dating him. Also my rule then, I don't date my friends. We were still friends (till date self). One day my mom met him as he was passing. My mum was telling him to greet his father for her. That is how my mum told me we were related. Hah. I said thank God ooooo
ReplyDeleteHere in the north ,first cousins can marry each other not a problem at all.
ReplyDeleteBut for me ,I look at it as abomination.
I will never allow my children 2 do that Insha Allah.
Hausa/Fulani Muslims
DeleteI know a wealthy couple that are second cousins. They have 3 beautiful kids. At first, their family disagreed but everything is OK now.
ReplyDeleteDoes she work at an employment agency?.... Know a couple like that.
DeleteNo, they are business owners. I heard they didnt ave sex till marriage. Thats y nothing seems to be wrong with them in terms of curses and all dat.
DeleteNo, I've never been in such a situation before.
ReplyDeleteI think there's a strong curse attached to it if you do it deliberately.But if you didn't know then ignorance can be an excuse but in my place once you find out,the elders will perform certain traditional rites and cleanse you both.I have an ex who was dating his female cousin for a long time,she's married and they knew and still continued,Nigga's life is upside down,from one badluck to another,The lady married a rich abroad husband but can't seem to find peace or satisfaction from any dick apart from her cousin's.Her husband was busy thinking it's just brother sister closeness I found out,he pretended he had stopped and prayed about it,I dumped his cursed ass.A childhood friend of mine too was disvirgined by her cousin,they knew and still continued.Her life is a total mess,at a point she even started going to prayer houses to remove that particular curse because according to her she was told by a man of God that she's paying for that particular sin and the only way out is through intensive prayers and forgiveness from God.Lets just be careful with our actions generally,our actions have it cosequences spiritually and otherwise.
ReplyDeletethe courses are in place due to african traditions and idol worship. in the bible 1st cousin marriages was common and not a taboo. the only curse is incense and then 1st cousin a no no
DeleteThis is why I didn't marry from my place because being from a royal home in my village almost every one is said to be my brother or sister. A brother of mine got married to a lady in my village and years later they said the wife's mother is a long distant relative that they were meant to kill goat and eat the ear together while performing some other sacrifices. It is a scary shit men. And to think that we later lost that my brother to an accident years after them having five kids together
ReplyDeletebut can't point to if that was the reason.
God rest your soul V.
May his soul continue to rest in peace.
DeleteI heard of two siblings from my mother's hometown who almost got married. They both lived abroad, until they came home to introduce each other to their parents before they found out they her half siblings with the same father. The wedding was canceled. Their father was a wealthy polygamous man who did not know all his children. Each wife had a picture with their children's name or picture in a file.
ReplyDeleteodi egwu
ReplyDeleteI feel that this happens more often than people think, especially in cultures where children are passed off on the wrong fathers.
ReplyDeleteI share your thoughts. Most women give another man’s pregnancy to another, with the innocent child not knowing his siblings from his biological father and may end up dating and marrying each other. So many parental curses befalling humans as we journey through life! People struggle and struggle with things they know nothing about.
DeleteMany when I read the scripture when God told abraham to go to his place to get himself a wife I get confused ,for it means that abraham married his relative ?just want to know
ReplyDeleteAbraham married his sister. Same father different mothers
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