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Friday, February 12, 2021

Stellas Blog Frequently Asked Question...

 Time to go on a question asking and answering cruise....












- A BV wants to know the best Vitamin tablets to take when you are in your first trimester pregnancy.. I think she is based in Nigeria... I specify location because these tablets have different names in other Countries.

137 comments:

  1. How do you deal with an unromantic partner? Note, he can go all out for you to make you happy o. But isn't expressive and there are things you want to do, that he will ourightly say no, like celebrating valentine for example

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    1. It's his orientation and forcing him to change may have the opposite effect.
      Start by exhibiting the gestures you want him to reciprocate and see if that will be his cue.
      About celebrating valentine, some see it as irrelevant. Try to find out why he's opposed to it.

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    2. My dear, he is simply an old soul lover.

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    3. Have u tried discussing it and letting him know how it affects u?

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    4. Folic acid is the best. I will advise you to go and register for antenatal early as it is your first pregnancy. We all have different body and medical history, what i will use may be something you need to stay away from. To the best of my knowledge folic acid is for everybody expecially at this stage.

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    5. How can i get multinational job, Federal government job or any well paying job?

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    6. Just love him without expecting much from him. Else u walk away

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    7. Why r u staying with someone u are unequally yoked with? Clearly he doesn't see those as a big deal but u do..either stay and compromise with him or leave

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    8. Pregnant BV, Folic Acid is very good but I don't know if they sell Pregnacare in Nigeria. It is extremely good
      Wishing you a safe pregnancy. Congratulations 🎉

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  2. Why do BVs call out names of people who wish them well during a celebration?
    Can't you just thank everyone that wished you well, instead of calling names (except on a specific situation), and missing one or two people that will end up getting hurt because their names were not mentioned?

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    1. I get your point, missing some names may well be an oversight.
      At the end of the day, everyone has the right to reply as they deem fit. Don't let it get to you. 🥰☮️

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    2. that calling of names is so unnecessary.

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    3. OBIOMA, l am sure they do that eye service, on the ground of validating their loyalty, for friendship prospects.
      And l noticed BVs, kind of have cliques here.
      You will hear them write, "we will discuss that in our WhatsApp group"
      Not like l personally care, but then......public forum rules.

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    4. Twin squared, Nope doesn't get to me. Just that I wonder about it, not only here, but when people give testimonies or want to that people, and starts calling names one by one. Am like why do that, is it very necessary?

      I have seen people in church or gatherings that, "hmm they didn't call my name" and malice starts.

      And of course, people are free to do so what they want, just wondering aloud 🤔😀

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  3. Take pregnacare original in the first four months, advance to pregnacare plus in the remaining trimesters, then after childbirth, pregnacare breastfeeding is best.
    Remember to add your calcium, very vital.

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    1. Nope, pregnacare doesn't have adequate amount of folic acid for pregnant women. Except u have to take it separately everyday. Take ferotone cap i dly. Its in a red pack. Its better

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    2. Pregnacare is the best, what are you talking about pwetie 😏? You don't need to use anything with Pregnacare, you na don start rubbish advise.
      Pregnant BV, folic acid is good but Pregnacare is extremely good 👌🏾

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  4. Good afternoon bvs, I'll like to know the full meaning of lmao and the likes

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    1. LMAO...laughing my ass out
      ROTF.... rolling on the floor
      LOL... laughing out loud
      TTYL..... talk to you later
      BTW....... by the way
      WTF..... what the fuck
      G2G.......... good to go
      and many others

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    2. Lol- laugh out loud
      Lmao- laughing my ass off
      IMO- in my opinion
      FYI- for your information
      Let others add theirs

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    3. Laughing my ass off.

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    4. To add to the list: tbh- to be honest. Wyd- what you doing. Brb- be right back. Rotfl- rolling on the floor laughing.

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    5. Yeah me too.
      I don't really know many of them

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    6. Lwkmd -Laugh want kill me die.


      Thanks

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    7. I thought BTW was between as people do say this alot

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    8. between is btwn

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  5. Good afternoon bvs, I'll like to know the full meaning of lmao and the likes

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    1. Lmao- laughing my ass out
      Lmfao- laughing my fat ass out
      Lol- laugh out loud
      Lwkmd- laugh wan kill me die
      Lwfmd- laugh wan fall me down
      Rotfl- rolling on the floor laughing

      I think those are the common ones

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    2. Laughing my ass out-LMAO

      Specify the other ones you would like to know.

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    3. Lmao-laughing my a*s off, lol-laugh out loud, rotfl- rolling on the floor laughing, check modern dictionary for others

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    4. Hello dear Google or Ifa will be of great service here.
      They have a list of them al.

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    5. Thanks y'all, now I know 😁

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  6. if i disable permission for loan apps will dey still have access to my contact list coz dey jst message me after i disabled

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  7. Please does anyone know if Nigerian universities have resumed? Please anyone get admissions contact oo! My sisters daughter have been at home for 2 years oo. Please help a sister o. Thanks!

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    1. Federal uni have resumed. Although non academics are on strike. You can tell your girls to apply to Nnamdi Azikiwe University,Awka. You don't need to know any 'contact' there. So long as they pass their jamb and post utme cutoff, they will be given admission on merit.

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    2. When UNN's been holding Matriculation Ceremonies and all.

      Shine your eyes Nkiru.
      What's her school?

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  8. take nature's made prenatal

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  9. Please ooo. I currently down with malaria, and am taking drugs. My fear is that I might be pregnant. My period is yet to show for this month. My question is... will these drugs I am taking affect my baby if eventually I fell pregnant this month. I am really worried...

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    1. It will affect it..Please do a Pregnancy Test to confirm and I know government clinics give pregnant ladies pre-malaria drugs..Please see a doctor

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    2. Please hold on with those drug and do pregnancy test. Malaria can delay your period too.

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    3. Not all malaria drugs are suitable in pregnancy. Seek a doctor's opinion.

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    4. Please go to the hospital. If you're pregnant, you shouldn't be taking drugs anyhow.

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    5. Early pregnancy signs feels like malaria. If u have missed a period it could be pregnancy. Always do a Preg Test before treating malaria if u are sexually active.

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    6. That's how deformation starts. Nne go to hospital.

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  10. Who knows where I can get chamomile tea in portharcourt?I didn't see it in spar, can I take it in the morning to relax?

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    1. Check medicine mart pharmacy in gra, adjacent chef Edwards.

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    2. Try shoprite or any high street beauty/Health shop or Pharmacies

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    3. Please who knows a good anti-dandruff cream I can buy.someone told me tcb naturals but I am not too sure.please help

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    4. #EndSWAT #Endpolicebrutality Phoenix12 February 2021 at 17:56

      Kcc look out for products with eucalyptus, tea tree oil, peppermint or menthol. I use head and shoulders shampoo that contains menthol and eucalyptus

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    5. Phoenix,alright.thanks a bunch

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    6. Try Everyday Emporium 2. They had it while I was working there last year. Or try any of the other Emporiums

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  11. My almost 5mth old doesn't stand for long. Most times a minute or two and he's tired. My hubby doesn't think its anything. I'm almost always worried though. Although a paediatrician advised back then to always remove 5weeks from his development since he was born born preterm. But shouldn't he be standing longer?
    Motherhood can be confusing abeg😴

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    1. There is nothing wrong with him, he is just 5months.he even dey try sef

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    2. Madam relax. That baby is just 5months fcol

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    3. He's doing fine. Don't worry yourself.
      Is he crawling yet? If he is, then with time, he'll start standing and walking.

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    4. Calm down ohhh... He's still a baby and takes time to master the act of standing. When he does it often, he begins to get stronger and stand for a longer time. You dont have to be worried. He will definitely stand and maybe your baby is doing well in some other areas like sitting, crawling of turning on his own. He cant do all at the same time and will definitely be better in some than other babies of his own age

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    5. A 5 month old already standing.hmmm.easy biko

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    6. Isn't it too early? Please, allow the baby to do his/her thing. It's a process and every child is different. Please, take it easy.

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    7. Wow! He's really fast

      Just allow him and don't rush him. Growth and development is a process. No need to be worried

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    8. Lmao I meant holding him up on your thigh o... Is he not meant to stand for a longer time when he's held up? Google is not helping me either. They said 4mth olds would bounce when held on a flat surface
      I'll try to stop worrying... His milestones just don't follow how I read it. Some faster, others slower.
      Thanks all the same guys. I appreciate your kind words
      I'll probably stop reading everything I see

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    9. He's doing good at 5months.
      Mom, relax. He's very fine.

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    10. your child may be 5months post delivery but that's not his age cos he was preterm, his growth & development will lag by 5wks or more like ur paediatrician said, give him time...by a year or 2,he'd catch up

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    11. Please stop stressing the young baby. Calm ur mind and watch ur baby grow. To answer your question, he his normal.

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  12. The best tablet to take is to go and register for antenatal clinic and take
    what the doctor prescribe for you. Stop all these loitering on the cyber space with
    health questions. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

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  13. Hello bvs, I will like to know
    the meaning of "woke

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    1. Woke is:
      Exposed
      Learned
      Informed
      Versatile.

      Summarily,keep your window of knowledge open for current happenings.

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  14. What's the candidate care after the interview(oral and aptitude test) for some brands or outlets or companies for??

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  15. PLEASE VISIT AND REGISTER YOURSELF AND YOUR GIFT FROM GOD IN A CLINIC. IF YOU CANT AFFORD A PRIVATE GYNAECOLOGIST, THE ONES IN THE GENERAL HOSPITALS ARE AS GOOD IF NOT BETTER.

    I SAY THIS BECAUSE YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO USE WHAT OTHERS HAVE USED AND VICE VERSA.

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    1. She may have done that, but given a far date for booking and first appointment. Thats usually d case with general hospital due to overcrowding. So she is not totally wrong for asking what she can be taking before her booking date comes.

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  16. I want to know why women get angry unnecessarily

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    1. We are Angry Birds😣😣

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    2. Women don't get angry unnecessarily. It's just that we are a sensitive and emotional species, and BCOS men are not really the sensitive type, we get angry when they do or don't do certain things. A man that really takes his time to understand his woman will see that we are not complex atall

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    3. If u have to deal with just one of those hormones women deal with everyday, u will do even worse. It peaks during periods like pregnancy, after delivery, some times during the month cycle, etc. Even female animals are not left out. So be kind to women, they go through a lot.

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    4. Not all women please. I rarely get angry, my floating scale is on a 70%, I just move away.

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  17. Is it right to call someone on video call without their consent or prior knowledge of it?

    Secondly, I want to truly understand the usage of the words 'baby mama' and 'single mother'. Are they the same in the right sense? Can one use a single mother for a baby mama?

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    1. For video call, I don't think it is right..You need to let the other person know upfront what if he aint got data or managing his data.

      Baby mama is a kind of yabbis way of referring one's self as a single mother..A baby mama is a single mother but a single mother is not always a baby man..Single mothers could be widows, divorcees, a single lady who chooses to be a mother..

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    2. No, not really the same.

      Some are single mothers against their wish he divorce or death.

      Some are baby mamas willingly, they don't want to get married, just to give birth.

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    3. First question No.

      Single mother is either separated from her husband or divorced.

      Baby mama is i get belle for you.

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    4. It's morally wrong to just video call someone without their consent. Its a turn off.

      To my understanding, Baby mama is when a woman get pregnant for a man who is not her husband or in a relationship with while Single mother are those who were once married but got separated. Just my understanding.

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    5. Depends on ur relationship with the person. U don't need permission from ur closest people, while u do need permission from your not- so- close people.

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  18. Ekasan o
    Ehnehn
    Ladies who wear WHITE bras;how una dey do am,is it one per day?
    You must be extraordinarily neat o to maintain a white bra o.
    For me,it's black,navy blue to the rescue o

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    1. Under wears are one per day na.even black

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    2. You have to like wash it, after removing it or getting home

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    3. U are a very dirty sombori.

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    4. We are in the same boat... black and black all the way

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    5. I do black bras majorly cos it's easier to wear without the fear of your undies peeking through.

      I can't deal with wearing bra and singlet.

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    6. Orire???? You mean you wear your black bra for multiple days???? Because its black????
      Gosh!!! Sine of you are beyond incredible

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    7. The period I do change my bra everyday was when I was breastfeeding. YES.

      Anon 15:29, yes, extremely
      Oponu somebori.
      Anon 16:16,yes o,it could be multi-multiple days sometimes sef.
      Awon alabosi, keep waiting for me to tell you how many days

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    8. Carry your smelling sef somewhere feeling funky with your dorty sef.

      Oya let's organise hygiene 101 for you since you didn't learn when you were growing up over 30 years ago.

      You were your fucking underwear once before washing.

      Not reusing for weeks and making the smell with cheap perfume.

      Egbe oshi.

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  19. Stella please this question is for you. I noticed for a long time now, you don't post videos on your blog. Is there any reason you don't anymore?

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  20. I'm a graduate of social science in a reputable University and i'm currently working and earning about 5Ok monthly. I plan to go for my masters this year but with the way the Nigerian univeUnive system is going,I am having a rethink. Is there any affordable professional course that is available and i can go for? Thanks in anticipation

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    1. #EndSWAT #Endpolicebrutality Phoenix12 February 2021 at 17:51

      First off which area do you want to specialize in? You can visit udemy, allison or skillsoft online. There are many professional course but you need to point out first what you want to achieve and your career direction.

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    2. Pick a hand work. Whenever ur degree certificate is needed, u bring it put. At d moment, handwork pays better.

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    3. I have an handiwork already,i just need a professional certification to boost up my degree.

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  21. Here to read comments and give advice

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  22. What is the meaning of waffy

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  23. Please what's the remedy for very severe mouth odour? I mean sometimes, it smells like suckaway.

    I have used all manner of toothpaste, mouth wash, home remedy yet no improvement.

    It is becoming very embarrassing. I have become socially awkward, withdrawn with low self esteem because I can't talk to people freely without them holding their noses.

    I am so depressed/Suicidal by this predicament. PLEASE I NEED HELP! if you know any cheap remedy please state it here for me cos I don't have money to go to the hospital.

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    1. First, be sure you don't have decaying tooth.
      Shake your mouth first thing every morning and last thing at night with lime/baking soda solution. To mix, dissolve a teaspoon of baking soda(not baking powder) in a glass of warm water, squeeze in 1 lime,stir well and then shake your mouth very well with it. Brush after meals. Eat a lot of fruits and vegetables and avoid junk food. Also don't keep quiet for too long. If you are not the talking type, try to drink water now and then to keep your mouth refreshed. You can also add lime of lemon to your drinking water.

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    2. #EndSWAT #Endpolicebrutality Phoenix12 February 2021 at 17:41

      Poster i can imagine how you feel and I am sorry. I will advice that you do away with spicy foods, food cooked with onions, cummin, garlic or ginger. Drink a lot of water, change your toothpaste. Avoid sugary food. If you are a smoker or drinker desist from them as they are major causes of bad breathe. Secondly u need to start taking youghurt to help get rid of bad bacteria in your stomach. Take fruits like cucumber, water melon, celery juice, apples. Lastly always drink water; have it your bag and everywhere you go. Dry mouth breds bacteria that causes bad breathe. Chew sugarless chewing gums or sweets. Do these and you ll see an improvement.ehugs

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    3. #EndSWAT #Endpolicebrutality Phoenix12 February 2021 at 17:42

      Poster i can imagine how you feel and I am sorry. I will advice that you do away with spicy foods, food cooked with onions, cummin, garlic or ginger. Drink a lot of water, change your toothpaste. Avoid sugary food. If you are a smoker or drinker desist from them as they are major causes of bad breathe. Secondly u need to start taking youghurt to help get rid of bad bacteria in your stomach. Take fruits like cucumber, water melon, celery juice, apples. Lastly always drink water; have it your bag and everywhere you go. Dry mouth breds bacteria that causes bad breathe. Chew sugarless chewing gums or sweets. Do these and you ll see an improvement.ehugs

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    4. #EndSWAT #Endpolicebrutality Phoenix12 February 2021 at 17:44

      Take sugarless menthol sweets and chewing gums. Food with eucalyptus helps. Infact detox your system using fruits and vegetables

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    5. You can go to any teaching hospital,general hospital or standard private hospital around you. Please dont feel depressed over this, we all have that one thing we are praying over/for and when you hear other people's own you will thank God for yours.

      Government hospital will be cheaper and the will be thorough.

      Suicide is not an option please, find something that will lift your spirit when you are down, reading, praying, listening to music or even gist with the few people you are close to. Their is this assurance,peace that comes when you are closer to God. Dont worry, this too shall pass.

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    6. The odor might be coming from your stomach.
      Clove, ginger and garlic piping hot tea would help but 1st see a doctor.

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    7. Try Agnes teeth powder sold in Port Harcourt

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    8. It's the bad odour coming from your intestines. Go buy laxatives and purge out. An NYSC guy had a terrible mouth odour. I smelt poop when he spoke. Purged him every 3 days, dewormed him and taught him how to brush his tongue.

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    9. Anonymous 20:45. How did you purge him?

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  24. BV MARTINS please kindly explain how to subscribe for bulk SMS,but I don't want my mobile number to be detected thank you

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    1. #EndSWAT #Endpolicebrutality Phoenix12 February 2021 at 17:45

      Ok so you can use this platform textdepo. Google it you can use it to send bulk sms without your phone number. I use it in my office

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  25. What professional courses can one with first and second degrees in Microbiology take to improve marketability

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    1. #EndSWAT #Endpolicebrutality Phoenix12 February 2021 at 17:48

      Your best bet is either medical , environmental or industrial microbiology.check udemy or skillsoft or allison online. These areas improve marketability . All the best

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    2. Thanks Phoenix dear,

      Pls more responses are welcome

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    3. Phoenix please help. Is Organic Olive oil the same with Virgin Olive oil (the common one we use) If not, please where can I get organic olive oil, I want to use it for my carrot oil stuff. And I've sought for it almost everywhere.please help me. Thanks

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    4. #EndSWAT #Endpolicebrutality Phoenix12 February 2021 at 22:34

      Anonymous you can use the virgin olive oil. It is ok

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  26. Hi guys... Who can recommend a good fashion school or fashion designer around Egbeda and it’s environs that I can learn from. Thank you

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    1. Checkbout wear lala or precious apparel

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  27. Madam plz take ONLY FOLIC ACID & kindly register for antenatal as soon as possible. Most of those "pregnancy vitamins" have contents that haven't been tested, for the sake of ur baby, avoid any drug or herbs during pregnancy except the ones given at antenatal, the 1st 3 months is crucial for a baby's development, any gbege can cause one malformation or the other, make u no con say na village people ooo

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    1. Gbam.
      I even start folic acid as soon as I'm ready to start trying for a baby.

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  28. Phoenix so alison isn't internationally recognized?
    a friend recommended it for me n I've done so many courses with them.
    I feel I wasted my time

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    1. #EndSWAT #Endpolicebrutality Phoenix12 February 2021 at 22:36

      No you didnt waste your time. No knowledge is a waste. It helps to build your skills. Some courses are internationally recognized on Allison.

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    2. #EndSWAT #Endpolicebrutality Phoenix12 February 2021 at 22:36

      No you didnt waste your time. No knowledge is a waste. It helps to build your skills. Some courses are internationally recognized on Allison.

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    3. Thank u dear

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  29. Thank you Stella, I appreciate! God bless you! Will stick to folic acid alone. Thank you all.

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