It looks like there is another storm brewing in crooner Oritsefemis home as his wife Nabila is alleging that a side chic shared her matrimonial bed on a Monday morning...
I don't understand why couples cannot sort out their issues outside of the social media.....
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Naija men matter don tire me aswear!😩 imagine the gall!
ReplyDeleteSweet girl, no let man matter give you hypertension abeg, these men (married and unmarried) belong to the streets 🤣
SMH!
DeleteThey say men will shame you.
DeleteMe I say let them keep shaming themselves.
Val's is around the corner, let me go and remove unwanted hair💃
🎶🎶 There's divorce in this house (3ce) 🎶🎶🎶
Delete🎶🎶 I said Oristefemi likes to cheat, 7 days a week 🎶🎶
🎶🎶 He always wants a WAP , i say he always wants a WAP🎶🎶🎶
I went on Google to type the man's name as I don't know him or what he looks like but him name no even appear 😏😏😏. Eventually saw it on news carried on blogs
DeleteThis guy don mad oooo, he even liked his wife's post. Abi I no see well sef 😂😂😂😂😂😂.
Delete@ 16.41, be deceiving yourself you hear, clown.
DeleteAsin enn
DeleteNa women come cheap and shameless like this in Nigeria? Madam iyawo, how can you disgrace yourself like this. What is the world turning into, so in the name of marriage, a man will disrespect you like this and you will take it and still fight with the side chick that you have no business with. Which kind see finish be this?
DeleteThat is why some Nigeria men will always see women as trash because they take any shit in marriage to answer Mrs to any idiot.
Is it not better to remain single than to be with an unrepentant chronic cheat that have zero respect for you? What message are you sending your daughters and sisters?To have zero self esteem?
Gush, I just cannot believe women like this exists in 2021, even in the Stone Age they did not take this.
I just cannot imagine this level of disrespect from my husband. I guess a man will only go as far when he knows he can get away it, knowing that you will go nowhere no matter what he does.
How many side chicks you go fit fight, who approached them in the first place? Your useless horseband.
Me that have told my husband to let me know if he’s no longer interested so that I can find my way and allow him to f..k around in piece.
I’m sorry if I cannot stop ranting, this is too shocking.
Anon 17:22, you've said it all. I follow you shock o.
DeleteThe funny thing is that the hoodlum even liked the wife's post..as if it wasn't him that the hoe came to the 🏡 to meet
DeleteSnarker, please oo I’m not married and I belong to Teniola. A damsel I met here on SnM. Nope, I’m not for the street. I love my babe and I pray to love her more everyday. Thanks
DeleteMe that will recruit side chick to beat the sh..t out the useless man.
DeleteAnon 17.22 ...Gbam! Gbammer!! Gbammest!!!
DeleteAnonymous 16:53, is it your deceiving 😏? I honestly don't know the guy. Most of the celebrities in Nigeria that I know: I read about them on here, why call me a clown? I don't get it
DeleteAnd the community dick is liking the post.
ReplyDeleteLMAOOOO the ting laff me tire...you are claiming someone is an imbecile?? Then what will they call you?
DeleteAnd the smasher of the imbecilic kpekus???
Fuck outta here with your random smelly, local, razz story.
E no shock you too?
DeleteSo what about the community prick that fucked the Imbecile what do you call him. If na me you jam for that ehhn we go kill ourself stupid retired olosho forming wife
DeleteThe thing shock me o.
DeleteNa wa o ma pipo, did the girl visit the house uninvited? No be person open door for am?
DeleteAbeg can someone remind Nabila that it be is the mouse inside the house that tells the one outside that the food is ready.
Omo x 1 million
ReplyDeleteIf my husband ridiculed me to the level of bringing a side chick into our matrimonial house, I will never forgive him and I will divorce him, that's the highest level of disrespect I can never take from cheating
Delete*Larry was here*
Until women start holding men accountable as opposed to chasing side chics around, these men will keep eating their cake and having it. It's like they know women will forgive so why should they not do something they know they will get away with?
DeleteI remember those days when I use to clamour for FACE YOUR HUSBAND!!! To me then it was HOES B4 BROS. kikiki. I learnt the hardway. Wgirls show me pepper...longstory. anyway, im not that naive anymore...if you date my man now, I'll fight you to the last...women aint loyal at aaaallllll. Im done with the sister sister shit...if you enter my lane, I'll jam you
ReplyDeleteIs it adviceable to fight?
DeleteAnger can be dangerous, I try to walk away from annoying situations and block the person.
Please learn to walk away.
Na the man you suppose face nau madam. How many bitches you won jam nne? In fact jam anybody wey you want. May we not be unfortunate with useless men.
DeleteDon’t mind that miserable anon up there so you kiss your husband for dating the side chick abi ? Big fool. That’s how one mumu wan fight me ontop dick matter I beat am give am sand chop. Block the husband
Delete15:54 - Clap for yourself. Ozuo
Delete15:54, you are proud of yourself abi
DeleteI hope you don't kill someone and then end up going to jail for a wandering dick that will continue to wander while you're in jail.
DeleteTo be honest better you face both of them some girls know full well and still shook head and even call you to insult so both of them are guilty ..mostly the man but some women need a lesson
DeleteAnon 15:54 ur own beating loading. What goes around must follow knock ur door!
DeleteWhatever!!
ReplyDeleteBlame your foolish husband
ReplyDeleteWhen you walk into your matrimonial home, and u meet a chick there, lemme see how you will blame your husband.
DeleteDoes the side chick have the house key? Does she know the way to the room? Who opened the door for her and carried her to the bed??? Some fights ehn!
DeleteAnon 15:42...who invited the side chick is it not the man. Please men should respect their union if not divorce and move the hell on.
DeleteAnon 15:42 I will definitely blame the man. A stupid man disrespects me by bringing another woman to our home, then I will now blame the woman?? That is why Nigeria women will continue to see nonsense in marriage.
DeleteAbi o? Fighting the side chic means you expect her to help stop your man from wandering. Does that even make sense? What these wives don't realize is that there is usually more than 1 side chic..so how many of them you go fight? Before a shameless man turns you into a street fighter, who will end up in jail if fight goes wrong. You better borrow some sense
DeleteWell all she needs to do is set up some spy cams and she will know.
ReplyDeleteBlame your foolish husband
ReplyDeleteYes
Deletewtf!!!
ReplyDeletemadam face that dog of man you call your husband. afterall, he gave the sidechick the address...
This is so shameful to read. smh
the husband kuku liked the post.
Buahahahahahahaha,you saw that one ba?
DeleteHeight of disrespect.
The man is even liking the post...Buahahahahahahahahahahahaha as if to say 'yimu'.
Wait they will soon say it is intro to his new song.
Nabila your husband will not change, he has no respect one bit for you,to bring a woman to fu*ck in your matrimonial home shows how highly irresponsible he is,for how long will you continue to tolerate his excesses,you should ask your husband what his problem is,or maybe is his brother that ghenshed the babe in your matrimonial home.
ReplyDeleteCaro will be laughing her beautifully botched butt off in her house right now.
ReplyDeleteNabila you are the most shameless woman of February 2021. Come and collect your award. Just look at your life online? As we speak the unchained ekuke called oristefemi is moisturizing his body with a bleaching cream and planning knacks with one street girl outside your estate. Yes. He is that random. He sleeps with prostitutes that stand outside cheap clubs and along Ikeja. You cannot say you are not aware of this. He is bringing them home to save 20k on hotel accommodation so he can use that money to pay another prostitute.
Nabila you have a somewhat good name and business reputation but you are steadily ruining it all for a dog that smells allover Lagos. How can you be online dragging women over a man than will break your hand again if you complain too much. God forbid such shamelessness and low self esteem!
Nabila are you under a curse from one of the wives of the men you messed with while single? Because this level of shamelessness cannot possibly be ordinary. You are steadily acting a fool over oristefemi? oristefemi that i cannot use capital letter to write his name. Your family needs to enter church on your matter because you are one step from dancing naked in the market.
Truly you both are couple that belongs in the dust bin!
I hope this man won't give her HBP....
DeleteDamnnnn 15:20. You came prepared.
DeleteNabila doesn't have a good name matter of fact,Femi and Nabila rhyme together.
DeleteChai😥
DeleteGod bless you anon tell the mofo. One day he’ll give her disease
DeleteI find this comment funny damn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteThank you o, for making me laugh like this out here. 15:20 nne you are mouthed😂😂.
DeleteFor her to stoop low in marrying Oritse, i knew they were nothing but the same because how could she? 😟
Lol anon ma pa mi na 😅.
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DeleteKai ..You brought a machine gun up there
DeleteIf she was a side chick when single, all I can say is "KARMA!!!"
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMe: Caro! Caro!! Caro!!
Caro: Maaa??!!
Me: Come here.
Caro: *walks to me*
Me: *holds Caro's ear* If I see your name here, you will see what I will do to you. If I hear *pim*, I will come for you on SDK blog. I hope you will have sense in 2021??
Caro: 🤔
it's the "moisturizing his body with bleaching cream" for me
DeleteNa wao
DeleteBeht...beht...her husband liked the post...abi the sidechic came to fuck herself in your house?
ReplyDeleteWon't you face the one that have her IV?
I wonder why the man liked the post... Just wonder...
DeleteThe matter taya me🤣
DeleteEveryone should just do what they like.
Wo I will soon leave stella's blog for all of you 🤣🤣
the mumu probably lied to his wife that the girl was seducing n forced her way in the house
DeleteOh well!
ReplyDeleteAny lady that goes to a man's matrimonial home to fuck is an imbecile!
Please, spare me that what about the man bla bla bla.
If the stupid man doesn't have sense can't you as the woman use your own senses and tell him it's all shades of wrong and disrespect to his wife?
Madam Nabila, what if the said side chic isn't on the social media, how does she know you ranted?
Na wah to you oh @Oritsefemi, no iota of regard to your wife...tueh!
What if she dies in that house? They don't even think
DeleteThank you Madam .com!
DeleteI side eye anyone saying face the man alone! These days, it's the women that chase after the men oohhh!
In fact, there's a popular thread on a women's forum were women post pix of men they are interested in and ask for their "tea". Most times, you will see them post pix of married women who live lavish/well to do lives, and they will use that as a preface to enquire about their husbands. In their minds, if the women are always wearing designer outfits, drive luxury vehicles, travel 1st or business class..then their husbands must be rich/wealthy. You will see them asking what the man's spec is; does he have side chicks; where does he hang out; where does he work etc.
Some of these women will even lie that popular men are in their DMs...only to forget themselves and start asking for advice on how to catch a certain man's attention, because he isn't responding to the DMs that they sent. If the men were truly in their DMs, wouldn't it be the men that are trying to get their attention and not the other way round??!!
About a year or so ago, one of the users of the site posted that they had the contact info and movements of a very rich man, but would only share the info via private messages. It was a trick! Come and see even those that claim to be married (yet only read the thread to catch fun) in her messages, making enquiries!
The are the kind to say "face the man alone", so that they can go scot-free!!
Lmao, I know this forum.
DeleteI stopped visiting cos I realized some women on there are so so so angry & jealous. Like! I was there for aproko but mehn, the hating! (Shivers)
If it’s like that why don’t you dress up and go to Tony elumelu and danjuma’s house. Is it not if he lets you into the house THEN into the bedroom that it will happen? Keep making excuses for the men. If a mad man tries to seduce your husband will he answer ? Excuses excuses
DeleteBitch and shut, thank you for this your comment. We are now in the era of "face your husband" No more moral not to talk of conscience. Sleeping with a married man is no longer a big deal. Na wa ooo. The hubby is a dog but the sidechick is not a Saint. Periodddt.
DeleteThanks alot Bitch and Slut.
DeleteIf we see the truth, let's say it. While most of the blame goes to men, the side chicks shouldn't be left out.
Women who will use their 2 eyes, seeing fully well that a man is married, yet continue to shamelessly seduce him till the useless man falls.
There's one popular feminist on Facebook, whose first name starts with J and her surname with B. All she does is to advice ladies to use all means to get rich men, whether married or not. And there are lots of girls who visit her page, swallowing all the lies she tells them.
Shey tomorrow, if those girls come to my house , I shouldn't face them. I should face only my husband? Let's be calming down
Babes that goes to a married man's house dey try ooo..
ReplyDeleteWhat if madam sees you and pour acid on you,what would you do?..
Hotel is how much again?...
Oritsefemi that looks like what I dont know dey cheat too..
Ewwwww..
Girls una dey chop shit!...
I cant even allow his type to come close to me talkless of touching me..
Tueh!
Mehnnnnn
ReplyDeleteExhausting .
What's funny is her husband liked the post 🤣
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Delete🤣🤣🤣😂😂, Wahala plenty i tell you.
DeleteVery funny.🤣🤣🤣 But on a flip side, I am thinking she is probably talking about her husband brother bringing the lady to their house to gbensh.🤷
DeleteWhat do you expect when you chose to remain with a chronic cheat?
ReplyDeleteCarry your cross in peace iyawo femi
I dunno if u think u are embarrassing the unknown sidechick or u by doing this. Don't face the dog u have as a husband that has the audacity to invite his side Chick to ur home, be embarrassing yourself on the Internet.
ReplyDeleteI swear shame leave am catch me, I mean wtf was she thinking??? I’m hiding under my bed on her behalf, it’s that embarrassing 😫
DeleteI pray their marriage last,cos femi wahala is too much,always provoking his wife.
ReplyDeleteFemiiiii don marry Oga.
ReplyDeleteSo the woman is advertising the fact that her husband brings in whores for fucks when she's away working to put food on their both table, especially on a Monday morning? And her beloved hubby liked the post? She's even daring the whore to show herself? Show herself so that what will happen? O ma gad!! Talk about a couple being perfect for each other. Whatever makes their love and marriage stronger ojare.
ReplyDeleteA cheat is always a cheat
ReplyDeleteSo all the reconciliation of recently is just scam .
If what you said is true my dear nabila your peace of mind is what you should be thinking about now,please don't give yourself hbp .
Wonder shall never end!
ReplyDeleteShaking my head!
See the man liking the post 📫
Madam blame your husband because he gave the side chicken address to your matrimonial home 🏡 🙄
Chai!!!
That liking is paining me seriously
DeleteMadam, face your husband . He's the main culprit...
ReplyDeleteread her comment agan..me that can think side ways..lolzzz...she said she went to work to fuck!!! so nabila goes to work to fuck..
ReplyDeleteStella your bvs won't kill,,😄😄😄
Deletehahahahhahaha...., i also usually think sideways...the way that mad people think....best comment on this "thread"...LOL!
DeleteNigeria men see cheating as trophy! It's a bragging right to them God forbid. This man could not even respect his wife? disgusting piece of shit even the expatriate that arrived Nigeria have started behaving like them. I have 0 tolerance for bullshit been working on my anger issues for a long time hell will welcome whoever that sus,simp or bitch that will make me relapse.
ReplyDeleteplease take it easy ..anger has series regrettable consequences ..Im working on mine too but only by praying to God for help
DeleteAnother story on a Monday afternoon...
ReplyDeleteLaughing in Caros voice
ReplyDeleteshameless people!!!
ReplyDeleteTufikwa 🤤
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteNa work she too go do for your matrimonial bed na
Even self na your husband be the biggest imbecile, when hotel no finish for lagos.
You weh come dey post am self suppose to shame well well, infact I dey shame for your say your husband carry runs babe come fuck for your bed, that na rubbish, no kobo respect for you madam. You need take drastic actions concerning this your husband matter .
Nonsense everywhere
Let private things remain private abeg
Nabila is desperately waiting to have kids then leave the useless man.
ReplyDeleteKids???
DeleteWith who??? Him???
Oh my days!!!!!!
If you ask me, I'll say that's a foolish decision to make.
DeleteWhy wait to have kid(s) with a man you are willing not to stay with.
It would be very difficult for she to leave once she have kids with him.
Wow. Hahaha I hope that's not true. Have kids with someone who is clearly irresponsible?
DeleteWhy bring kids into this pile of mess?🤦🏽♀️
DeleteWe said that man will not change! See the way he has you looking stupid and foolish . SMH
ReplyDeleteAnd this isn't the first time he's savagely and unapologetically and rudely messing her up publicly o🤣🤣😂.
DeleteFirst time was when he cheated and broke her head and allow her run to the Beautiful and kind hearted Carol, he brought the shameful story to the entire public and asked his fans to beg his wife for him. E no end there, she finally agreed to forgive and move in with him but alas, Oritse wasn't impressed. He made a video of her dragging and struggling with her luggage while trying to get into the house and posted online instead of helping her out, he was even laughing at her in the video sef.
Today he's liking the post his wife made about the wore he bought in their matrimonial home to phuck. Oritse no get time for Nabila.🙅♀️
Chisom that man no follow. Very disgusting behaviour! What she sees in him I wonder.
DeleteShe must be stupid. The hoe didn't force her way to your house, your he-goat of a husband brought her in. Fight your shameless community dick that brought her and still have the audacity to like your post
ReplyDeleteSee how women here have jumped into conclusions? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteFrom what this lady wrote, she did not catch anyone in the act. She too
probably jumped into conclusions. 🦘🦘🦘🦘🦘🦘🦘🦘
The woman didn't make a vow to you...caution your dog at home that exchanged vows with u...nonsense.
ReplyDeleteChineke!!!Oh lawd,my chest,which kain wahala be dis one again?We haven't finished solving Nigeria's problems,ndi community prick ebulu nsogbu biakwa ozo.Bia Nabila and Oritshe,you people should leave me oo,the weather is too hot for this kain drama biko!
ReplyDeleteImagine the level of disrespect..Your matrimonial home of all places . Some men got no shame. Caroline will be mute on this one
ReplyDeleteWahala no Dey finish for this guy head...
ReplyDeleteGone are the days when we write our updates in diary, and diary was so sacred you dare not read it behind the owner without your conscience pricking you. Social media will be our undoing in this generation.
ReplyDeleteThis call out would been better if you had posted the said imbecile.
ReplyDeleteBut now you are shaming both you and your husband in public .
This you marriage eeh,you dey patch ,I dey leak
You mean shaming a shameless man?
DeleteHe even had the audacity to like the post. Mo foor o
ReplyDeleteMadam enjoy your cheating husband in peace
ReplyDeleteLet me just speak generally please. No based on this.
ReplyDeleteLadies see ehn before you day I do, think am well. All those people who came to eat rice, na rice dem chop, e no go pass there.
They will not be there to bear your marriage along the way.
You shouldn't enter a union that drains and exposes you to every imaginable level of disrespect and abuse. On Monday you are battling STD, Tuesday HBP, Wednesday inlaws wahala, and throughout the week, mounting bills, bills, bills.
Ogini???
Were you borne to suffer?
Anything you tolerate before marriage, you will see ×100 after you say I do o.
Forget all those shine shine teeth you see online, on Instagram. Many many many married women are weeping bitter tears daily.
Nigerian men are generally useless when it comes to respecting women and their bodies. Extremely randy, almost to a point of sickness. Otherwise, there is no self respecting man who will stick his prick into any available hole, both living and dead.
Train your sons appropriately, otherwise you will see an even worse generation. Because I see a lot of you parents like to outsource train ing to schools.
Na wa
ReplyDeleteEveryone is flying into conclusions without thinking twice. This is the problem with this generation, they believe without thinking because of label.
ReplyDeleteIf the man actually liked the post, can't we all give them benefit of doubt that the side chick came uninvited and the man told his wife what happened when she came back?
She didn't meet the said lady and the hubby liked the post which means they might be working today on this particular case.
The person giving out details of how he pick up prostitutes, I guess you're one of the prostitutes because you gave a well detailed story. If so, please stop prostitution and look for a better job.
I don't know why people love dissing others while their houses are on fire too.
Like you the most noisemaker of this blog bv whose husband is sleeping with your younger sister and you wet your pillow and phone with tears,yet you'rethe first to scream divorce him and the rest of them. I'm always surprise to see how you're ALWAYS THE FIRST TO START MAKING NOISE OVER SAME ISSUES DROWNING YOU AT HOME.
One more noise from you and I will post your case as rumor has it to Stella with a well detailed description for all to catch. You all should go back deal with your men first and stop adding fuel to a burning fire.
I understand your anger, but don't you think her bringing this to public is wrong on her part? Cos she is inviting opinions and gossip from all and sundry. The sidechic is faceless, nameless and shameless, so how do you publicly fight a spirit? It just wasn't well advised, cos this is a no no. To me.
DeleteTame your dog (Bingo) and stop disturbing the cyber space
ReplyDeleteHe even liked the post 😂
ReplyDeleteIt's so heartbreaking to see some comments, my stance on this issue will never change. Fellow women telling a women who is most likely hurt to face her randy husband and leave the side chick alone. I'm shook!!!!.
ReplyDeleteShe can always deal with her husband any way she likes thats no big deal. I'm even sure her posting it was a way to deal with her randy husband. But I can't fathom how a lady will knowingly sleep with a married man and still be proud about it under the guise of "face your husband. Must you sleep with a married man, can't you say no? May God help us
The only person that owes you loyalty in a marriage is your spouse. Hold him accountable. He is just not stupid enough to cheat, he invited the said lady to his home, open the door and had sex with her on his wife's bed and you want the wife to fight the side chick? Please pick your self esteem from the floor. If she fight this side chick today and fight tomorrow's side chick which energy will remain to better her life. Her husband just broke her head few months ago, next one he will kill her. Stay there and die.
DeleteDuchess I rarely comment but I’ll respond to your comment today because you share the same warped view with a lot of women with randy husbands.
DeleteI have an aunt who reports to the police station weekly and has a case pending against her in court because she “took charge of her home” and sent threatening messages to a side chick. The side chick got jumped a few days later and guess who they held responsible? She even paid medical bills of over 400,000 for something she knew nothing about.
Do you realize the reason why they tell women to face their husbands and leave the side chick is to protect these women from more heartache and grave situations arising from it? Many women have lost their lives in the process of fighting strange women.
When you confront an outsider it tells the outsider that you have no control or influence over your husband and he does not respect you enough to listen to you. If you confront a wicked side chick, she will capitalize on that knowledge and intensify her efforts to claim your man. This I know for a fact. A girl confessed to this in my church.
A lot of women don’t realize that men are watching. The worst thing you can do to yourself as a woman is to make a man realise he can cheat and get away with it. My God, he will cheat and cheat until he’s too old to get an erection because he knows you can’t put him in check. Many married men have told me to my face that their wives can’t leave them for cheating. If I’m a greedy, desperate and devious woman, won’t I have taken advantage of their various offers?
I ask women. If your in law should offend you, won’t you as a wise woman ask your husband to handle it? How much more a strange woman who more often than not was wooed by your husband. Let’s try to have some self respect.
Charity begins at home. If you want to protect the sanctity of your marriage, you have to make sure your husband is faithful and responsible. If your roof is leaking will you keep putting buckets and pans round the house or find a way to seal that leak in the roof? So what’s the exception with infidelity? Search deeply duchess. Most women would rather attack the side chick because they’re powerless over their husbands. That in itself is a big shame and problem. If you’re in that category your marriage is a sham.
I’ve been married for nine years and this year November will make it 10. My husband cheated on me in our third year of marriage and I moved out for two months. You heard right. I carried twins and left him for two months. Till now and God open my eyes if I am wrong, he hasn’t cheated on me. According to him, my action made him realize that I meant business and he would rather forsake the flesh than lose his family.
You say you can’t fathom how a lady will sleep with a married man and I ask you if you’re blind to the poverty and greed prevalent in society today? Some men and women are morally corrupt and even the married ones are their spec. It is left for the man or woman who swore to you and God to shun them and not sin against you and God. Temptation will always come but your oneness of flesh is the one to be held accountable.
The sad thing is that this will awaken an emotion in you that you will eventually drown out with something to justify the cycle of disrespect and misery you experience.
@19:02,how do you want your cocktail? Pls get a BV identity. You need to be permanent on this blog. It is highly unfair if you're not. Your perspective is needed on these streets!! Periodt!
Delete@NIB, I have some small chops and dumplings here for her as well😌
Delete@ Anon 19:02, thank you for breaking it down. We enable these men too much!
@ Anon 18:59, I believe you're deflecting from the point I raised. This is not a debate on who owes you loyalty and no where did I state that the wife should fight the side chicken never!!! Away from the Internet I'm not even a violent person but my point is I'm yet to understand why a fellow woman would agree to knowingly sleep with a married man? I mean growing up fornication was highly frowned at not to talk of adultery but these days it seems to be the new normal. In my youthful days and even up till date I still get advances from married men and I turn them down vehemently. What is so wrong in saying no. By God's grace I have 2 daughters and I wouldn't want them to grow up thinking sleeping with a married man is right so long the commitment was made by the randy husband. No way!!!! What is wrong is wrong, no one is exonerated the husband. Yes he is a dog, infact the devil himself but what name do we call the side chick?
ReplyDeleteHow about prostitutes who sleep with men for a living?, should they refuse money and not make an income because the man is married? remember prostitution is the oldest profession in the world.
DeleteNo matter how you want to spin it, the fact remains that if the married man does not respond and allow it to happen, it will never happen so the onus is on the man whether you want to accept it or not. This is just common sense.
I doubt she will bring Ber dirty linen out like this,maybe one of her husband's guys brought someone home?
ReplyDeleteThe ladies saying face her husband😂 both husband and side chick are SICK abeg,abi he brought the lady home without her consent?
@ anon 19:02 I see we are in the same ship as I rarely make comments but this issue is one I hold dear for some personal reasons.
ReplyDeleteI would have loved to write a lengthy post to address some issues you raised but I'm pressed for time as I have to fix dinner for my family. Nevertheless I'll urge you to re-read my comment to get my view. No one is telling any woman to tolerate shit in her home or condone cheating by her spouse. All I'm saying is as women we should look out for each other, have a conscience and send that randy dog away.
Is it so bad that we have lost our decency and conscience as women?
And no I totally disagree, let's not put the blame on poverty. I've once shared my family's story here albeit annonymously, most bvs didn't believe it was a true story. Some said it wasn't possible for us to live a Normal life going by the emotional trauma we suffered. Contrary to popular opinion we pulled through and not for once did it cross my mind to say yes to all the married men on my case. Trust me these were men who were stinkly rich some of them were even my late dad's colleagues and boss who worked in the oil and gas industry. They had all the connections and money but my sisters and I said No even if it meant us losing the lifestyle we once had.
MY point exactly is as women we have the power to say no if we chose to....
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Delete@ Duchess, yes women have to power to say no, but not all will! Reminds me of the discussion on ‘women deciding if sex happens’ - which is a blatant lie. It always takes 2 to tango.
DeleteConsidering the fact that women were always considered the shyer more reserved sex, imagine how our morals would be as a society if men, the more outgoing sex, refrained from asking for sex or asking to date people they shouldn’t ? Just imagine!
What I understand from your post is that women should empathize with other women going through stuff like this by listening when they rant about the other woman. If that is what you mean, I agree. Saying, at that moment, ‘face your husband’ is not sufficiently empathetic and I agree. If someone is angry and hurt, she has the right to be angry at husband and side piece - so long as it ends there.
She should not lower herself to interact with the other woman, not even verbally. It most times, ends in tears and truly shows she doesn’t have the husband’s ear.
Waoh 19:02!!
ReplyDeleteSince this guy said his wedding was more interesting than Davido and wizkids shows put together Na him problem don start for am.Look back properly and youl see I’m right.
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DeleteImbecile bawo lol. Somebody that is calculating how much she will get and budgeting the money already. You think she went there because of that insect looking guy? And you think he's inviting her for free? If he can invite her, them it's obviously safe to go, and didn't start that day. Sad. Nabila should kick that guy out. Smh
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