In her words;
"For me , my biggest issue was my finances last year, I am a daughter of a billionaire, my brother is a super star. I have always grown up as a rich kid, I have businesses and my husband is doing well but I still wasn't financially stable and the reason for that was because I hadn't learnt kingdom financing. I know how to give but I didn't know how to manage my money. I didn't understand that there should be limit to your giving, you have to set boundaries, you have to put certain things in place, so that was the mistake that I made"
It happens, especially when you have a generous heart
ReplyDeleteContradicting ideas. This here lack coherence.
ReplyDeleteHow can she say kingdom financing is giving less?
ReplyDeleteThat she was giving more that was why she was lacking?
And then the problem stopped when she stopped giving, which means she learned kingdom financing?
We may need to understand kingdom financing then. Maybe its not what I think I know.
When you give all the time,probably without saving and micro-managing your finances....you get into trouble. I believe dats what shes saying.
DeleteSomeone can be earning 500k monthly and is always broke,before month end its gone bcos she cant stop giving and she cant stop buy buy,another person may be earning 300k and she still manages to have same lifestyle with d 500k earner,help who she can and den save.
Its all abt micromanaging. My 2cents.
Yeaa B and R, I totally understand ur point. But She is talking about kingdom financing and not micromanaging. Or are they d same thing?
Deleteanyone can have money problems. her focus here is managing your finances and knowing when or how to give with wisdom. without boundaries in life rich or not you will have problems.
ReplyDeleteSet boundaries when giving. My sister is married to an extremely rich guy. She gives foolishly and I keep wondering what happens should anything happen to her husband. The most annoying thing is that she has 3 accounts and all 0 kobo. Her husband is very worried about the way she mismanages money plus he can't even correct her because she will misunderstand him. She does impulse buying a lot. If you pass for road greet her, na 20k okada money go follow you. Imagine person go dey dash people money for market. Funny thing is... she doesn't give us her siblings and personally I don't even bother to ask her. I am seriously against entitlement mentality. Honestly I fear for her future. No business, no savings, no property... not even land for village wen dey cheap.
ReplyDeleteYou as a "sister" have you ever tried to talk to her about her excess giving? Have you ever made her think about her future with your words? This is a sincere question I'm asking.
DeleteYou guys should call her to order pls!! She can't continue like this o.it is good to give but give with sense.
DeleteWhat a pity. Narcissistic behaviour is about seeking praise from others
DeleteLet her husband advice her if such suggestion coḿes from her siblings na insults go follow am.
DeleteEither the puts down his foot down or continue funding her lifestyle and claim being worried.
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DeleteYes I have... severally. But she thinks she is always right. There was a time she even got angry with me. I have decided to leave her alone. I was always talking to her because I bear the heat each time they go broke. We will be spending my own money. Now they are really rich but she won't learn her lesson. I think she gives to impress people. The good thing is, I am wiser now. I don't pray for anything bad o(God forbid). But honestly, I am scared for her.
If your sister reads, buy her "Total money makeover by Dave Ramsey". Hopefully that will help to change her spending habits. Alternatively, she can listen to him on youtube.
DeleteUp until 2021 your sister is wasteful as such? Remind me how old she is again?
DeletePainful part of this embarrassment will be that many of the beneficiaries have huge investment off her pocket.
No land even in the village?
My dear put your knees to good prayers. She is aloof from something.
Rescue your blood.
We learn everyday.
ReplyDeleteJust learn to manage your finance.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you
ReplyDeleteIf you don't use your head those receiving will leave you broke and even first you build house.
ReplyDeleteI know one man that begging is his hobby.
Come and see him with different new styles of clothes you wonder where the money is from.
Wow! This life is not balance indeed. Now you know, thank you for letting us know too.
ReplyDeleteDavido has decent siblings sha. Wonder why he turned out different. Maybe it's last born syndrome that is "worrying him.
ReplyDeleteOne of my friends wey sabi her say the girl na sure girl. Say Her generosity no be child's play. Small thing she don show love.
ReplyDeleteAwwwww.. But she had to learn to balance it.
DeleteI give foolishly too but that's all in the past, I give too now but with sense and to say that am not working, some people knows and will still ask you for money. This is so funny to me, I give such people but not immediately so that they won't be quick to ask again. What I don't joke with is my tithe.
ReplyDeleteLol,youŕe such a clown
Delete"You dont joke with your tithe"?,thought you wrote you're jobless at the moment?.where are you paying tithe from,why are you still paying "tithe" as a christian?. It is well with Nigerian Christian o,omo see brainwashing.LMAO
DeleteIt's good to be generous, but then, there should be limit to giving.
ReplyDeleteMy sisters are on this table
ReplyDeleteUsed to be me in the past,but now I have learnt. One has to strike a balance.
ReplyDeleteStrike a balance
ReplyDeleteYes. There is spirit led giving
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