*You and I looking at each other*
In her words
"Guys are actually getting smart by the day, even if he has money he also wants to be with a lady that can at least afford the least sanitary freaking pads, so it's like men are really not coming into 2021 with the energy of "do you know what ? I'm the man and I have to do all of the providing"
"Guys are actually getting smart by the day, even if he has money he also wants to be with a lady that can at least afford the least sanitary freaking pads, so it's like men are really not coming into 2021 with the energy of "do you know what ? I'm the man and I have to do all of the providing"
like guys are getting smart right now... Do you understand? Then they will be like mehnn that girl eyes Don tear, men eyes are freaking tearing in this 2021 and they ain't playing, so if you are a freaking broke ass lady , I shouldn't even see you on the blogs complaining. You have a problem you need to fix. You need to stop being a freaking liability to any freaking man in 2021.. Nope"
Inspired by the stingy men association saga i guess
ReplyDelete10009th relationship expert and motivation speaker in only January already .. 😂
ReplyDeleteGood Lord, what is she freaking saying??
ReplyDeleteI dont understand too..Speaking gibberish trying to form American.
DeleteNkogheri k'o na-akogheri.
DeleteHahahahaha... She was freaking out
DeleteLet me ask this here.. If as a lady you have a business that needs funds. You then meet a guy, whose intention is to date you. Clearly you needed funds, if you ask for assistance to help grow your business, does that make you a liability?
ReplyDeleteNope. Don't make it a habit tho
DeleteYes. Unless it's a partnership
DeleteWhy a guy who has intention to date you, if you're not trying to take advantage of him or rather his proposal when you know in your mind that he won't be getting a ROI.. what about asking your fellow ladies, the male in your family or your boyfriend 😒😒
DeleteI have once heard the discussion of some undergraduate ladies, and they were like if you want to treat a guy fuck up, don't call your boyfriend or brother, they might tell you to overlook it, rather call your 'toasters', those guys would go extra miles cos they're hoping for something they'll never get..
Many weak men have died or are in jail cos they were carrying woman matter on their heads..
You’re a liability ma, even if your bank sees you as credit worthy and decides to loan you the money to invest in the business, the loan is a liability on the bank’s balance sheet until it’s paid with interest. So if your loving boyfriend still loans you the money, are you exchanging any collateral for the loan, or is your love the collateral, you’re still a liability unless Oga decides to write off the loan base on man know man or you pay back either with interest or not. After you pay back, then your liability is over
DeleteYes.
DeleteBig liability.
You havnt even started dating him, already you're lining up your problems, next now you'd say your fathers roof in the village is leaking.
What if you didn't meet him? Won't you get loan from a bank if you apply?
DeleteNo you are not a liability Darling
DeleteHe is the freaking Central Bank of Nigeria and Governor of all Nigerian Microfinance Banks!
You clearly need the funds so borrow away ...By the way your collateral for the "needed funds" should be snake in the Monkey style and hanging ceiling style!
The early you tidy all collateral issues the quicker you can roar into execution of business plans as outlined in your feasibility studies.
Jisike
Absolutely NO!
DeleteIf you need funds, go the bank for a LOAN and STOP disturbing men for money. He wants a date, not to bankroll your life. And if you MUST ask him for me, let it be a LOAN that you MUST pay back. This is one of the reasons men die early....Ignorant men keep fighting wars that they aren't going to win.
DeleteMEN, STOP giving women MONEY. It's NOT your responsibility. If you have money to waste, give to your MOTHER or sisters.
STOP using MONEY or gifts to woo a woman...it puts you under immense stress and this stress if not managed will end up killing you.
Nothing bad in asking if u know he can help u, but dating him for the purpose of financial assistance makes u a liability
DeleteTurn the scenaro around, imagine its a guy who needs assistance, would that make him a liability? If your answer is yes, then you also are a liability
DeleteIf i were a guy and i meet you with the intension of dating you and the first thing you are asking is assistance for your business, i would assume you just want to chop me
DeleteYes,you shouldn't ask a guy you just met money for business,whether new or an existing business. If in the course of the dates,he decides to assist you after hes heard your plans,then it's fine.But dont ask for it.
DeleteNo, it's not right. You just met him. From my experience, ones money begins to change hands in a relationship, the tempo changes. There are things you might like to say or do but you can't cause he is giving you money. If you like him and want it to work, pls don't involve money at that early stage but if you just want to chop. Then ok.
DeleteLol @ROCKSTAR
DeleteDon't mind her.. when the guy bounce now, she'll change mouth and say she was just testing him or that she wanted to use the asking him for funds to chase him away☻ when we know say na lie..
OR if the guy ask for bumbum in return and she don't want to do it, she'll start trying to shame him when she's the one that should be ashamed of herself.. you'll start hearing "what do you take me for" and other crap.. madam, he took you for a beggar who has no choice Ok? Emphasis on "no choice" 😒
Then You'll see her comment on Spontaneous Morning Post asking why men can't help women without asking for sex in return, and her fellow air heads heads would join her to bash and insult men..
Mtcheew
Dante keep your misandry ridded self shut
DeleteStay unmarried and spare a woman the liability of your emotionally undeveloped, unexposed and narrow minded self
Lol..13.01..
DeleteOlodo, you don't even know it's you that is the misandry here, when all that is in your head is how to rely on men for your survival.. read book you no go gree..
Now go and Google the meaning of misandry and hide your face in shame..
Thank your star you went anonymous before making a ridicule of yourself. Olodo
Seriously, which lady doesn't know this now?
ReplyDeleteYou see this Stingy Men Association Group trending?... you'd think it's all a joke, but its sending a message, and some will really get stingy
ReplyDeleteWhy don’t you get funds from the bank? Why must he give you the funds? Will he be an investor or na dash me or payment for toto?
ReplyDeleteI don't understand what she is saying.
ReplyDeleteWhat's this one saying,??very lousy uncouth being
ReplyDelete11.13 no. It does not make u. Alot of men want ladies that have god business ideas. So asking for such fund is not liability. TACHA don really get sense now thou. Before big brother she waz the opposite! Abeg where is her bestie. These days he seem invisible 😏😏
ReplyDeleteMaybe it's the word LIABILITY that's confusing people, whichever term you use to polish it, it's very wrong & disreputable to lay down your financial problems at the feet a potential date... you're already indebted from the kick of the relationship, and that creates an atmosphere of biased decisions & prejudice.
Deletepas de dette
Lol... @Sexy
DeleteAbeg calm down, that's the format "independent ladies" use in begging.. I have met them well, they'll tell you about one business they're trying to run and the next thing you'll hear is- "can you loan me a 100k"😒😒..
No be only 100k.. money they have no intention of even paying back.. abegi
Dante always ranting about little money.
DeleteWho are those asking you for money?
Poverty is a bastard, you wey dey suppose dey give.
Stella, don't be shocked that people like Dante need financial support here o. This is constant rant is unhealthy.
Anon 13:31......why do you guys always insult dante.....y'all may not agree with his submissions, but I tell you his posts are the realities of a lot of Nigerian men....
DeleteLittle money abi.....if the money is so little, why do people then ask for it.
I mean....there is a post above about a lady wanting to ask a prospective suitor for loan....but hey "who are those asking you for money" 🙄
But hey let everybody bash dante
Anon go and sit down, which reality?
DeleteWhat about the women who are bread winners? Are they even making this much noise? Make we hear word.
Who hustles more between men and women?
Everyday he is shouting over 2k and 5k.
When I was single, I know what I did financially in my relationships.
Go to mile 12 market, women are alabaru, some of even have babies strapped on their back.
Abeg enough of these poverty stricken rants.
Lol @13.31..
DeleteNa wa oh.. who doesn't need help in this life.. send me money nah, I go collect, but that won't stop me from being real and saying it as it is here😊
@ Dante. If I give you money you suppose reject am. You know you hate women and nothing good can come from them.
DeleteWhen you were broke did you have this same advice?
ReplyDeleteThat is why many ladies are funding their weddings and marriages. When you say smarter what do mean ? Men are becoming leeches come to Abuja and see what is going on because of all this stupid advice men of this generation are just lazy shouting I don't want liability they are just looking for who will come and carry their responsibilities. Ladies please be wise nobody said you shouldn't have something going on but let the dude also have some great going.
ReplyDeleteThank you!
Delete👍
DeleteThe problem is that , a good number of women feels this entitlement to their guys money. The moment you start dating her, she shift every damn responsibilities on you including her family problems. A man owes you nothing financially when dating but can support you on his own free will if he chooses. You don't force him to do that unless you are married. The same way a woman is entitled not to open her legs for a man who's not yet married to her.
ReplyDeleteSome women needs to do better this 2021 and let the men understand they can thrive without their money. So I will say Tacha is right to a reasonable extent.
Tacha,Tacha...you sef wan join? Wetin we no go see/hear
ReplyDeleteMotivational speaker for herself;ddoohh....well done.
Hnmmm Tacha, you're burning some tables o
ReplyDeleteTacha is just full of air tbh. She jumps on anything trending adding her half baked 2 cents trying to stay relevant, just vapid
ReplyDeleteI swear.
DeleteDon’t mind the attention seeker
DeleteAbi o! Who is listening to her anyway.
DeleteBlaming broke ladies up and down as women has same earning power as men in Nigeria. A broke guy can easily be a labourer or ride okay. Work in construction can a woman do that. I live abroad and I knew how I suffered as a young lady to survive in Niger. Men will take advantage of your vulnerability especially Nigeria men, instead of them to empower they will rather take advantage. Been living in Uk for more than a decade. God bless the queen
ReplyDeletePark well jor..
DeleteDon't we have women working at site fetching water for the labourers, see how you're painting it like men like to do all those hard jobs when it's cos they don't have a choice most time cos easy jobs is only given to females.. most financial institutions, real Estate firms, insurance firms etc etc are very bias in their employment, but you don't see men nagging..
You people just want to get everything without doing anything for it.. playing victims and complaining up and down for doing nothing..
As a lady I deserve to get things from a platter of gold because I sit and walk around with gold between my legs. Why do I have to hustle when am a woman.
DeleteSapphire....I can't tell if you're serious or been sarcastic
DeleteSappie is just been sarcastic here lol 😂 gold inbetween her legs
DeleteAbeg, the number of women both single and married who are financially responsible for their families is very high. It's just that our culture no dey gree dem talk because the moment they speak out, they'll be insulted.
ReplyDeleteHave your own money, not because you want men to look at you but because you're an adult who should have her own money
What is all these "freaking, freaking, freaking..." rant?
ReplyDeleteWhy can't you make a simple sentence in basic English without that?
The rant is so immature and she needs to mature some more
Bloody Immaturity on her part. Once a girl uses that word, I don't take her serious. Life will humble everyone haha.
DeleteNa Mumu na,see who's talking,olosho
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 11.13. I think iys a liability if you are not offering him anything in return. If its a business proposal maybe some form of equity or interest on the money will place you above board
ReplyDeleteWho cares ..Just be beautiful and sexy. Men will run helter-skelter to please you.Forget about what you have upstairs
DeleteAnon 15:17 louder. I’m beautiful and sexy and they are dying for me. I’m about to ask my side piece tonight for 1.8m to fund my already established business. No I’m not having sex with none of them even my bf no sex.
DeleteTasha always begging money come okrika okochiri again we are waiting for you
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