What!!!!!.........I have seen a situation like this but the couple did not offer anyone any explanation as to why the man dumped his girlfriend to marry the sister...
This excuse hurts.......
Thursday, January 14, 2021
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So it just had to be her own sister. Why can't he get married to a neutral person since he is so desperate?
ReplyDeleteI think the sister is to blame in this matter! If the guy wants to marry early, he should go far far from the family and marry someone else. Since the girlfriend says she isn't ready but for the sister to accept to marry her sister's boyfriend is a No No! Don't they even have a father or mother? Who is allowing such nonsense happen in the family? This can lead to a lifetime enmity between both sisters. Na wa for some siblings o!!!
DeleteDoesn’t even sound real, and that is not to say it doesn’t happen, but this right here...nahhhh. A man leaves you for your sister, you won’t have the patience to type this.
DeleteAnyway, the sister should be wary of both of them, because her marriage will never be solid and she’ll never be comfortable with both of them being in the same room.
some of you are just funny and myopic. what do you mean doesn't sound real? na everything una go dey doubt? if you have no experience of something say so not coming to say something doesn't sound real....i had a cousin who got married to a guy who initially wanted to marry her younger sister. He was then based abroad and had gotten the younger sisters details from his own cousin. He sent her a message so they could start a friendship but she was not forthcoming. the guy found out she had an older sister who was ready to marry and got talking to her instead she agreed and they started a friendship. they have been married almost 20 years now and everybody was in support from the beginning even the younger sister cos she never dated the guy.. in this case if i am the older sister i will not marry a man who has dated my sister. we are not the only women in this world to move from one sister to another
DeleteYou don't care if she loves you or not? I hope he won't come back here after 6months crying for a happy, loved filled family.
ReplyDeleteLol I don't believe this,friend YES but SISTER??? NO!!!
ReplyDeletePretty girlie yes it happened to our neighbour and till date both sisters are sworn enemies.
DeletePretty girlie yes it happened to our neighbour and till date both sisters are sworn enemies.
DeleteNa wa. I pray the guy doesn't regret this later in the marriage.
ReplyDeleteMad people everywhere. Elder sister nsi na aru
DeleteI don't think he even loved the girlfriend. Because if she is willing to compromise for one year, he too should be willing to meet her half way. Why rush into marriage of convenience anyway. And that her sister sef!!!
DeleteGod Forbid. Your former lover becomes your brother in law. Wow! Some mothers have them 😮
ReplyDeleteMost men don't marry for love.
ReplyDeleteThey marry whoever is available when they are ready/financially bouyant!
Its the women getting emotional and talking love shit!
As for the poster..she isn't ready!
As for the guy..he's stupid and shameless! Same family?tueh!
Women should avoid this kind of men in there family.there would be trouble in future.if your man has eyes for other people in your family .its not a good sign of loyalty.
ReplyDeleteIs her sister the only lady in the world, it's not like he's even marrying her for love so why her sister? He can also get the baby making factory and so called 'companionship' he's looking for outside her family since he can't wait for her.
ReplyDeleteThe way he's going on about time,one would think it's Methuselah that's chatting and not a 32 years old man. Did her sister agree to this? Like she said it hurts. The value of family is lost these days....
Why must it be her sister,he's just using age as a cover.im sure they've been dating behind her. I wonder how some people date their siblings patners.Thats how one of our neighbors married his late wife's younger sister.The sister was leaving with them when the wife was alive.The wife died during childbirth and uncle now decided to marry the sis a year after the wife's death.As if the sister had always wanted what her late sis had.
ReplyDeleteBut her sister , that’s hard pill 💊 to swallow 🦋
ReplyDeleteDamn! What did I just read? The guy is so desperate,must it be her elder sister? Na wah oh! Why not get a neutral person and marry than hurting the person he so claim to love? This guy is wicked 😡😡
ReplyDeleteWhy are you all talking about the guy.. What about the sister snatching her younger sister's man?
DeleteWho does that
This whole thing might end in adultery, with both of them. But the man was as frank as he can be.
ReplyDeleteThe lady does not seem to love him enough, else, she won't be putting academics first before marriage, especially
when she has just one year to be through from school. The man too isn't patient enough. The best solution would have
been to find someone else not her sister but that too will hurt. I think the girl was just comfortable enjoying the money
without wanting any commitment. 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Madam thinker, how do you know he has money?
DeleteDoes being 32 mean he has money?
There are parents who would insist you finish school before getting married.
You too dey yarn opata.
@15:12
DeleteHaving jumped into conclusion, it is time to read again and look for where
the man mentioned that "he has the money to marry her and train his kids."
To any undergraduate, such monies are for momentary enjoyment. No girl will see
someone she loves and 1 year academic time will become a barrier. Besides, she
never told us anything about her parents. So how did you know her parent's stance
in the whole matter? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Abeg speak for yourself @ 16.38
DeleteI had absolutely no plans of getting married till I was done with my undergraduate study.
By the grace of God none of my daughters will do that.
The man is inconsiderate. If he loved her, he would have waited. What is one year?
He probably saw his idea of " wife material" in the elder sis and didn't know how to tell the girl.
Her sister too is a desperado. I mean, your younger sister's husband?
She's wicked and shameless.
@00:13
DeleteYou have already crowned the man "sister's husband?"
Wow! 😂🤣🤣🤣
love is a scam.
ReplyDeleteI know someone who married her elder sister's suitor. The parents didn't take her bride price till her elder sister got married. All of them are happily married now with kids. It must not be you girl. Be happy for your sister and move on. I gaghi aju ogiga jukwa ochicha. Ibuzi agada gbachiri uzo?
ReplyDeleteTrust me that guy will still gbensh the younger lady after marrying the elder sis.
ReplyDeleteExactly!
DeleteGoodluck to both of them. They know what they want
ReplyDeleteAre these stories for real?? So he couldn’t marry any one else but her sister?? As for the sister marrying him hope she will be fine with it when he starts sleeping with the 24 year old again later.
ReplyDeleteThis happened to 2 cousins of mine. Man was dating the both of them. The younger knew but the older was oblivious. Obviously he asked the older out first. When the older one found out, the younger one told her its either they share the guy or the older opts out. The older did and the younger married the man. Marriage is going to 20yrs now. The older is playing the bigger person and there has been peace.
ReplyDeleteHe was gbenshing them both!!!!!
DeleteE get as e be jare,I think the man loves the sister
ReplyDeleteThe guy is a desperate idiot.
ReplyDeleteI pity her elder sister, she must not experience ttc or else she'll be kicked out.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteWhat if he married the elder sister but kids do not come? Elder sister just made a very big mistake because younger sister will have no sense of loyalty if the man decides to sleep with her behind his wife's back.
ReplyDeleteFake chat
ReplyDeleteI have zero respect for women who become the other woman in their friend or sister's lives. Seriously, these men are scum but the women who enable them are worse.
ReplyDeleteFor all people, your sister's man?
So the elder sister had to collect the ring n date her kid sis man..na wa . How would she be at peace? This is sheer wickedness mbok. Kai
ReplyDeleteWhy so desperate for a child? what if a child doesn’t come after the marriage ? Will he divorce her?
ReplyDeleteAbeg no big deal for here,the girl should move on,when she's ready she LL get one for herself.time wait for nobody abeg..my FRD elder sis was like this,saying she wants to be a graduate before getting married.oga no get that time,so he proposed to my FRD,she accepted and now with 3 sons.her elder sis self nai dey nurse baby anytime she gave birth,serve her husband food join.shey na u no gree 🙄
ReplyDeleteHonestly no big deal to me too. If the guy is a good man, is it not better he marries her sister that someone else? Abeg she shoulf help her sister out joor. 29years no be beans. A good man is ready and her sister is ready so kini big deal? Let her take her time till 29 too
DeleteReally! She should take her time till she is 29 too! Na wa o. Once a woman is 25yrs and above,she should consider herself old and do the needful. 24 yrs old is old enough to get married.
DeleteAll I know if Karma is real.
Deleteyou people are so desperate with bloody low self esteem...so marriage is the ultimate achievement in life. so if not this man the olders sister can never find hope of a husband again? rubbish...a man who clearly has no values. the younger sister is dodging a bullet and i hope the older one wont catch it...rubbish
DeleteThe man is not alright...
ReplyDeleteSo what happens if the kids he's talking about don't come on time? Try other women?
If the elder sister likes, let her not have sense, na she sabi.
The only issue I have with this guy is the fact that he wants to get married to her girlfriends sister.other than that I don't have any issue with him moving on,after all ladies also move on from time wasters by saying you shouldn't put all your eggs in the same basket. Surprised how nobody is even talking how she wasted the guys time by not agreeing to marry him. No be today student dey marry na
ReplyDeleteIf the guys reasons are true, then I blame the girl for wasting his time, who says a student can't get married mosty a final year.
DeleteI think k the boy prefers the elder sister they might have fallen in love along the line and started something secret else this guy wouldn't have felt so comfortable switching over to her when there are a million girls out there who will be ready to give him kids within the blink of an eye.
So, he didn't see any other girl. Must it be her sister. I have issues with girls that readily date their friends boyfriend or ex.
ReplyDeleteThe problem with Africans
ReplyDeleteMany people are in an unhappy marriage because they just wanted to have kids. Once they do, everyone begins to feel hate and the kids end up suffering.
Non of them is ready for marriage. Besides if he wanted kids so bad, they're ways around that.
If I knew the lady I'd advise her to let go. Like he said, she's still 24 and in school. I'd tell her to develop herself physically, mentally and emotionally. It won't be easy since she's likely to hate her sister for life but it's life and it we're being sincere, relationships are survival of the fittest. If you can't maintain your lover then you can't have them.
Life made this rule. She should just move on
I have seen this happen, it actually happened to someone I can call my friend, the younger sister is currently married with her fiance and they've been married for like 21yrs now, and this my friend who was very beautiful then, that wanted to flex and enjoy freedom is now almost 50yrs and still single, no child, I feel bad each time I see her, I pray God to bless her with a man soon, she played with her one good chance.... This shit happens always
ReplyDeleteThe man is not her own. If it wasn't her sister, it would have been someone else
DeleteBut he's not asking you to forfeit your education. After all it's remaining just one year. There is no big deal there abeg.
ReplyDeleteBut he's not asking you to forfeit your education. After all it's remaining just one year. There is no big deal there abeg.
ReplyDeleteNa so una be.
DeleteWhen she marries, belle fit enter immediately then God forbid the man suffers financial issues and the lady has no job to support, they have 1 or 2 kids, you people will say she brought
nothing to the table, she is liability and not adding value yen yen yen.
Once upon a time, a man met my elder sister and he fell in love with her but she was not ready. He said he didn't mind dating he sibling, so she introduced me to him. He had money and all, but I didn't want to marry someone who loved my sister and was ready to settle with me as a second option. So, some men are like that but not every sister is like this lady's sis.
ReplyDeleteEverything this man stated up there is not the truth.
ReplyDeleteHe and the elder sister have had this thing going on. No doubt he first met the younger sis, this is why he can easily switch . All he said is not enough reason to marry a someone you don't roll with or even care about. He and the elder sis doesn't just want to say the truth.
These things happen sha.
Na wa
It's possible the elder sister is already pregnant for the guy, seeing the way he is on about having kids, not getting younger bla bla bla.
ReplyDeleteA 32 years old desperate man? Wow. I get that he's ready and all but why the sister. This type of arrangement can cause commotion in the future. What are the girls parents saying about it
ReplyDeleteCharles was dating Diana s sister and married Dian cos Queen felt she was too exposed. See the end result. Sister you and your sister better wise up.
ReplyDeletenot true my dear...Charles and Diana's sister were just friends and she even got engaged before he started dating Diana. It was on a visit to their house that Diana first saw him and came to greet him. Charles even took permission from Diana's sister before he dated her.
DeleteThat's how my ex boyfriend came to ask for my consent to date my sister and my sister was almost considering him. By the time I tear crase for both of them and knocked sense into my sister's head, her vision cleared and wicked guy has taken his madness far from my family. Imagine the nerve!!!
ReplyDeleteMan from hell
ReplyDeleteSomeone tried this with me. He was roasting me and begged me to give me head. I kuku agree and that was one of the best plate washing I have ever had till today. But my spirit did not go with him. We did not have sex o and , shortly after he started some stalker behavior so I blocked him. He contacted me on Facebook and insulted the hell out of me. Found my sister who he did not know and was begging her and professing love for her. She told me someone was toasting her, I looked at the guy and it was the same fool. I laughed so hard and told her he’s crazy. She blocked him too. Wel years down the line he got married and is suspected to have killed his wife as she died under very mysterious circumstances. People like this are not mentally ok.
ReplyDeleteThe babe should have said yes and still continue her studies nah, there are better ways to handle such issues
ReplyDeleteCovid-19 has really done alot of harm to people.
Smart man. No time for time wasters. I see Shiloh in her future. Then her eyes go clear
ReplyDeleteThe lady has no honest advisers. Grab a good husband and continue your education. A good opportunity is worth grabbing with two hands. The education she seek doesn’t guarantee anything in Nigeria anymore and she is already 24. After NYSC, she will realize the mistake she made in letting a good man go
ReplyDeleteMy ex left me and married a girl I was told "not to worry about" & "shes just a friend" cos I was in school and had a year to graduate and he set his mark to marry at age 30 at most 31.I Moved on & married.Guy(ex) currently pursues and sleeps with anything in skirt & currently searching for who to bear a son for him;cos wife has 4 girls and wont have another due to complications.
ReplyDeleteI got this info from one of his targets who happened to be like a younger sis to me and couldnt help but laugh(sorry)!
Marriage has its ups and downs& unfortunately many enter it for selfish reasons without planningon the possibilty of things going otherwise.Its possible to get married theres an inexplainable delay in conception or none at all;so if thats the only reason for him getting married;the marriage is as good as over if that happens.
She should thank her stars & move on.She dodged a bullet.
I feel he's probably saying this to put her under pressure.....
ReplyDeleteOr he has seen some qualities he prefers in the elder sister...
No matter how "good' this bros is,aunty should better not agree to the arrangement, the future is pregnant!!
He and her sister have been fu*king since, her sister may even be pregnant for her boyfriend.
ReplyDelete